The rhoads family adventure
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The RHOADS FAMILY ADVENTURE
we are currently on a 6 month trip around the United States. Here you will find pictures, stories and more about our travels! |
june 27, 2016
The last LONG day of the trip. Well, the day started at midnight with the decision: do we drive all night and just get after it and try to get home or do we get a hotel, take our time to get home and try to get home rested? Well, we decided to try to get home.
Marilyn doesn’t do caffeine so she was well set up for a big 20 ounce cup of coffee to keep her up. It worked and Marilyn handled the 11:00 p.m. to 6:00 a.m. shift wonderfully. All of the kiddos (except Bug) slept well. For some reason, Bug just can’t sleep in a car.
I fell in and out of sleep from 1:00 a.m. to 6:00 a.m. and took over the driving at 6. On the long drive back, we stopped and took pictures of the Iowa sign, caught Illinois on a drive-by and got the Kentucky and Indiana signs. The only signed that eluded us was Missouri.
We did find a late-night Iowa geo-cache, but fatigue won and we decided to wait on our Missouri/Illinois/Indiana geo-cache until the next Cardinals’ trip.
Under the circumstances, the kids did brilliantly. We had the usual conflict, nudges, pushes and arguments over seat boundaries, but considering the fact they had been in the car for 26 hours, I think they did pretty well.
As we drove up to Owensboro, there was a mixture of emotions. First, there was gratitude: what an amazing gift from God to spend six months like we did with all our kiddos. Second, sadness – this great adventure is now over. Third, relief (and gratitude) that we made it home safely with a van that is still running. You can add in overwhelmed, tired, peaceful, excited and a host of other adjectives. This afternoon really has been weird.
We did have one wonderful surprise. Great friends from church weeded our beds, trimmed our trees and bushes and planted flowers. Plus, some of the pictures were put back up in our home. It was REALLY nice to come home to the house looking good.
Well, I really don’t know what to say – 22,895 miles, 25 states, 3 countries, 25 national parks or monuments and an amazing six months with six amazing people. Praise God from whom all blessings flow. We serve a gracious, good, creative God. I thank Him for the privilege of enjoying my family and His creation over the last six months!
Marilyn doesn’t do caffeine so she was well set up for a big 20 ounce cup of coffee to keep her up. It worked and Marilyn handled the 11:00 p.m. to 6:00 a.m. shift wonderfully. All of the kiddos (except Bug) slept well. For some reason, Bug just can’t sleep in a car.
I fell in and out of sleep from 1:00 a.m. to 6:00 a.m. and took over the driving at 6. On the long drive back, we stopped and took pictures of the Iowa sign, caught Illinois on a drive-by and got the Kentucky and Indiana signs. The only signed that eluded us was Missouri.
We did find a late-night Iowa geo-cache, but fatigue won and we decided to wait on our Missouri/Illinois/Indiana geo-cache until the next Cardinals’ trip.
Under the circumstances, the kids did brilliantly. We had the usual conflict, nudges, pushes and arguments over seat boundaries, but considering the fact they had been in the car for 26 hours, I think they did pretty well.
As we drove up to Owensboro, there was a mixture of emotions. First, there was gratitude: what an amazing gift from God to spend six months like we did with all our kiddos. Second, sadness – this great adventure is now over. Third, relief (and gratitude) that we made it home safely with a van that is still running. You can add in overwhelmed, tired, peaceful, excited and a host of other adjectives. This afternoon really has been weird.
We did have one wonderful surprise. Great friends from church weeded our beds, trimmed our trees and bushes and planted flowers. Plus, some of the pictures were put back up in our home. It was REALLY nice to come home to the house looking good.
Well, I really don’t know what to say – 22,895 miles, 25 states, 3 countries, 25 national parks or monuments and an amazing six months with six amazing people. Praise God from whom all blessings flow. We serve a gracious, good, creative God. I thank Him for the privilege of enjoying my family and His creation over the last six months!
june 26, 2016
We woke up cold – although it was warm during the day, it got in the 40’ies overnight. We got on it, packed as quick as we could, ate breakfast, packed the trailer and took off for the Badlands around 10:00 a.m.
We have actually taken to camping. It is fun as a family and very budget-friendly. For those who don’t like camping, I highly recommend you listening to Jim Gaffigan’s comedy on camping. Google Jim Gaffigan camping….
Matthew would prefer camp every day than come back to our house. He loves the woods, sleeping in a tent and roughing it. Kate Bradley is on the other end of the spectrum.
The one hour and forty-five minute to the Badlands took us two hours and forty-five minutes (surprise). Then, it was time to hit the road for the long drive home. I put Owensboro in my phone and it was only 1,136 miles away.
Well, I ought to mention the Badlands. It is a really cool national park and the kids really liked it. They loved the fact that the park service lest you climb all over the formations. They noted how anal everyone was at the other parks with the “stay on the trail” stuff. This park lets you just roam. This was good, except it stressed Marilyn out with all the rattlesnake warnings. After a game or two of hide-and-seek tag and seeing some big-horn sheep, we went to the visitor center, watched a boring video, got our souvies and junior ranger badges and took off on the long jaunt home.
Sidenote: Matthew hates educational videos. Marilyn told the family we were watching the video and Matthew yelled “good, does that mean I can sleep?!”
We took off on the drive and South Dakota is forever long and full of nothing. I don’t think of South Dakota often and now I know why – there is not much to think about. I can’t say the drive through Iowa, Missouri, Illinois or Indiana was much more exciting either.
The early part of the drive included a stop at Wall Drug – a huge tourist trap with a block of souvie stores/food stands. I have never met the guy that started it, but I love him. It has ice cream, burgers, funky souvie tee shirts and an entire city block of cheese. Marilyn told me I needed to put a bumper sticker in my office, as I like to pursue every idea I think of as well.
Again, Madeline and Bug pounded me with the run thing. They nagged us into a stop in Mitchell, SD to get their run in. They are so dedicated to their coach it is unbelievable. It was 92 degrees and miserable. I made it 30 minutes of their forty minute run and realize I’d have to be OK with them running alone, as I couldn’t do another minute.
It is apparent we are moving in the right direction. We are now in the central time zone and actually saw a Culvers and a Cracker Barrel. Plus, Abby noted “we must be getting closer to home. I am seeing more bugs.”
We have actually taken to camping. It is fun as a family and very budget-friendly. For those who don’t like camping, I highly recommend you listening to Jim Gaffigan’s comedy on camping. Google Jim Gaffigan camping….
Matthew would prefer camp every day than come back to our house. He loves the woods, sleeping in a tent and roughing it. Kate Bradley is on the other end of the spectrum.
The one hour and forty-five minute to the Badlands took us two hours and forty-five minutes (surprise). Then, it was time to hit the road for the long drive home. I put Owensboro in my phone and it was only 1,136 miles away.
Well, I ought to mention the Badlands. It is a really cool national park and the kids really liked it. They loved the fact that the park service lest you climb all over the formations. They noted how anal everyone was at the other parks with the “stay on the trail” stuff. This park lets you just roam. This was good, except it stressed Marilyn out with all the rattlesnake warnings. After a game or two of hide-and-seek tag and seeing some big-horn sheep, we went to the visitor center, watched a boring video, got our souvies and junior ranger badges and took off on the long jaunt home.
Sidenote: Matthew hates educational videos. Marilyn told the family we were watching the video and Matthew yelled “good, does that mean I can sleep?!”
We took off on the drive and South Dakota is forever long and full of nothing. I don’t think of South Dakota often and now I know why – there is not much to think about. I can’t say the drive through Iowa, Missouri, Illinois or Indiana was much more exciting either.
The early part of the drive included a stop at Wall Drug – a huge tourist trap with a block of souvie stores/food stands. I have never met the guy that started it, but I love him. It has ice cream, burgers, funky souvie tee shirts and an entire city block of cheese. Marilyn told me I needed to put a bumper sticker in my office, as I like to pursue every idea I think of as well.
Again, Madeline and Bug pounded me with the run thing. They nagged us into a stop in Mitchell, SD to get their run in. They are so dedicated to their coach it is unbelievable. It was 92 degrees and miserable. I made it 30 minutes of their forty minute run and realize I’d have to be OK with them running alone, as I couldn’t do another minute.
It is apparent we are moving in the right direction. We are now in the central time zone and actually saw a Culvers and a Cracker Barrel. Plus, Abby noted “we must be getting closer to home. I am seeing more bugs.”
june 25, 2016
This is Kate Bradley. Today Madeline, Dad, and I got up early to go run 10 miles. Madeline and I both struggled as we were a mile high in elevation and had had little to no food and water. We ended up making it about 6 miles. After that, we went back to the campsite and left for Mount Rushmore. It was very crowded, as it was in peak season. The memorial was very cool to look at,but isn't a place that would take a long time. When we arrived, we saw the memorial, secured Abby and Rachel's junior ranger badges, and left to have a picnic. If it were up tho Rachel, we would picnic every meal of the day. She is like the exact opposite of me. She loves to shop, camp and all things. After the picnic, we went to a state park in South Dakota. It was really pretty and we got to swim in the lake at the park. Everyone got in except Madeline. Madeline is very wimpy when it comes to cold water. We had fun at the park, and headed back to the campsite. As you all know, I HATE camping, And the only thing worse than camping, is driving all day and SURPRISE, we get to camp. Great, it was already a rough day and it got like 10 times worse when we decided to camp. When we got back from the state park, I got to face time Riley who I miss super bad and it was nice to catch up. We then ate dinner (Dad made pancakes on the Coleman stove while mom cooked eggs and bacon). Then, we played frisbee, got ready, and went to bed.
june 24, 2016
OK – now it is time to leave the Tetons and head toward Mount Rushmore. It is a 462 mile drive through the very long state of Wyoming.
Wyoming and Texas have something in common – you can drive long distances in both states and see absolutely nothing. We ate at a gas station, as we were informed the next restaurant wasn’t for 100 miles. Actually, the convenient mart food was very good.
The kiddos continued the Spiderman movie marathon while Rachel watched a kids’ movie. The kids liked almost all of the movie marathons.
We started looking for hotels near Mount Rushmore and learned the cheapest hotels started at $250 per night(and this is for a Super 8) with most around $350. Totally unwilling to spend that much on a hotel, we looked at camping options and found Welikit campground near Custer, South Dakota.
I loved it – it is a stereotypical cheesy campground with tetherball and everything. Kate Bradley was in disbelief. She said “it is one thing having to camp. It is another thing driving all day and then getting hit with surprise camping!!” However, from my point of view, we went from spending too much on a hotel to a total of $50 for two nights with seven people. Plus, we saved money on food, as we cooked our meals on the Coleman stove.
Other than having the worst grill in North America, it was fine. I cooked six big chicken breasts – losing three into the fire and burning the other three. Fortunately, the corn, salad and hotdogs made up the difference.
Rachel LOVES camping and Matthew said he’d rather camp all the time than own a house. Madeline and Abby like it fine. Bug quotes Jim Gaffigan and asserts that she is “indoorsy.”
After dinner, we bagged smores and went to bed. Other than a few bugs, it wasn’t bad. Plus, it didn’t get too cold. Abby noted “I can tell we are getting closer to Kentucky. There are more and more bugs!”
We nailed 462 miles, put our camping stuff up and got to bed by 10:30. It turned out to be a pretty good day.
One difficulty: Abby dropped a hot smores’ stick on Rachel’s leg. Huge screaming and apologizing. A little more drama won’t hurt anything.
Wyoming and Texas have something in common – you can drive long distances in both states and see absolutely nothing. We ate at a gas station, as we were informed the next restaurant wasn’t for 100 miles. Actually, the convenient mart food was very good.
The kiddos continued the Spiderman movie marathon while Rachel watched a kids’ movie. The kids liked almost all of the movie marathons.
We started looking for hotels near Mount Rushmore and learned the cheapest hotels started at $250 per night(and this is for a Super 8) with most around $350. Totally unwilling to spend that much on a hotel, we looked at camping options and found Welikit campground near Custer, South Dakota.
I loved it – it is a stereotypical cheesy campground with tetherball and everything. Kate Bradley was in disbelief. She said “it is one thing having to camp. It is another thing driving all day and then getting hit with surprise camping!!” However, from my point of view, we went from spending too much on a hotel to a total of $50 for two nights with seven people. Plus, we saved money on food, as we cooked our meals on the Coleman stove.
Other than having the worst grill in North America, it was fine. I cooked six big chicken breasts – losing three into the fire and burning the other three. Fortunately, the corn, salad and hotdogs made up the difference.
Rachel LOVES camping and Matthew said he’d rather camp all the time than own a house. Madeline and Abby like it fine. Bug quotes Jim Gaffigan and asserts that she is “indoorsy.”
After dinner, we bagged smores and went to bed. Other than a few bugs, it wasn’t bad. Plus, it didn’t get too cold. Abby noted “I can tell we are getting closer to Kentucky. There are more and more bugs!”
We nailed 462 miles, put our camping stuff up and got to bed by 10:30. It turned out to be a pretty good day.
One difficulty: Abby dropped a hot smores’ stick on Rachel’s leg. Huge screaming and apologizing. A little more drama won’t hurt anything.
june 23, 2016
We woke up in a small, cramped cabin with a lack of blankets and attention to detail. Marilyn said “this cabin is my least favorite place we have stayed. I would rather camp.”
Today we put way too much on the schedule with way too little time to do it. We had to eat breakfast, get ready, have the kids run, drive an hour, have Abby sit through a Junior Ranger video and get her badge, go to the grocery, get the oil changed and be at the white rafting place by 12:10.
All the stuff caused stress, pressure and a bit of conflict. Plus, we didn’t get the oil changed before we left. I was pretty grouchy as we pulled up to the rafting stuff. Madeline told me “dad, are you going to be stressed out and make the rafting no fun for us?” It is easy to hear such input from your daughter when you are already ticked – knowing the oil must be changed and not knowing how it is going to get done.
Well, things turned for the better. I did pretty well enjoying the rafting and it was fun. We hit one class 3 plus rapids which threw Kate Bradley off the raft into the rapids. Bug was scared, as was the other lady who got tossed. Her getting thrown out certainly increased the experience for us.
Our guide was pretty boring, but the rapids were pretty fun. While I rafted with the four olders, Rachel and Marilyn went on a float trip. We all had fun. Then, we were able to get the oil changed and, yet again, take advantage of Wendy’s $1.99 kids’ meals. They don’t advertise it, but I saw the commercial and, if you ask, you get the deal. Jackson Hole’s Wendy’s has their prices all jacked up – so the $1.99 deal looked even better. Our whole family can eat for $15.00 – including tax.
After the rafting trip and dinner, we took off on a hike in the Tetons. Marilyn said it was a 3.4 mile round trip hike. However, her map skills were low and we ended up hiking almost 6 miles. The hike was beautiful (and buggy), but Marilyn really had a bad setback on her toe. She slipped and hit her injured toe hard. She limped the last three miles of the hike.
Turns out she had a pretty big setback. She is slowly getting better, but is not near where she was prior to the setback. After the long hike, we got back to the place and went back to the laundromat to do some more laundry before going to bed.
Another full and fun day – with everything involved – fun, beauty, excitement, conflict, frustration and fatigue!!
Today we put way too much on the schedule with way too little time to do it. We had to eat breakfast, get ready, have the kids run, drive an hour, have Abby sit through a Junior Ranger video and get her badge, go to the grocery, get the oil changed and be at the white rafting place by 12:10.
All the stuff caused stress, pressure and a bit of conflict. Plus, we didn’t get the oil changed before we left. I was pretty grouchy as we pulled up to the rafting stuff. Madeline told me “dad, are you going to be stressed out and make the rafting no fun for us?” It is easy to hear such input from your daughter when you are already ticked – knowing the oil must be changed and not knowing how it is going to get done.
Well, things turned for the better. I did pretty well enjoying the rafting and it was fun. We hit one class 3 plus rapids which threw Kate Bradley off the raft into the rapids. Bug was scared, as was the other lady who got tossed. Her getting thrown out certainly increased the experience for us.
Our guide was pretty boring, but the rapids were pretty fun. While I rafted with the four olders, Rachel and Marilyn went on a float trip. We all had fun. Then, we were able to get the oil changed and, yet again, take advantage of Wendy’s $1.99 kids’ meals. They don’t advertise it, but I saw the commercial and, if you ask, you get the deal. Jackson Hole’s Wendy’s has their prices all jacked up – so the $1.99 deal looked even better. Our whole family can eat for $15.00 – including tax.
After the rafting trip and dinner, we took off on a hike in the Tetons. Marilyn said it was a 3.4 mile round trip hike. However, her map skills were low and we ended up hiking almost 6 miles. The hike was beautiful (and buggy), but Marilyn really had a bad setback on her toe. She slipped and hit her injured toe hard. She limped the last three miles of the hike.
Turns out she had a pretty big setback. She is slowly getting better, but is not near where she was prior to the setback. After the long hike, we got back to the place and went back to the laundromat to do some more laundry before going to bed.
Another full and fun day – with everything involved – fun, beauty, excitement, conflict, frustration and fatigue!!
june 22, 2016
Today started with a frenzy. We had to get the kids breakfast at the campsite, re-pack the trailer, put up tents and pack everything up before 11:00 a.m. The kiddos were great and we drove off at 11:01 a.m. It was busy, but we made it. Our campsite stood way out with all our junk spread out around the camper as we re-packed.
Then, we got in the car to drive to the Grand Tetons. We got one of those pleasant surprises. We thought we had a 111 mile drive, but it turned out only to be 80 miles. We stopped at the visitor center and some overlooks on the way. Grand Tetons is crazy beautiful. It is amazing how many awesome sites are in our country.
We thought we had made the drive (with the trailer) without incident, but then the last eight miles of the drive was uphill. Again, it was a bad sign when there were signs letting you know when they closed the road and there are big gates that open and shut to close it. We prayed and made it up the hill. Hopefully, it won’t be too bad when we turn toward South Dakota.
We got to our cabin and it is fine, but small. We have seven people on two queens and a pull-out couch. Rachel is excited because she gets the blow up mattress which barely fits in front of the pull-out couch. The kids are doing great together. Right now, the girls are entertaining Matthew with some Tim Hawkins you-tube videos. Matthew hee-haws at anything remotely potty talk.
When we got here, the kids (again) refused to miss a run. I was tired and we are in high elevations, but I ran thirty minutes with them. Then, we got ready and drove an hour into Jackson Hole for dinner and some sight-seeing. The sights were amazing, dinner was great and Rachel spent her last remaining four dollars to continue to beef up her rock collection.
We did have a funny incident at dinner when Abby accidentally ate a very hot jalapeno. She freaked out. I thought something was major wrong and asked her “are you OK?!” With tears in her eyes, she said “NO!” Finally, she calmed down and was OK.
I did have a bit of a weird thirty minutes driving toward Jackson. I felt some numbness in my hand and had a visual migraine and had some trouble focusing and thinking straight. It scared me, but things calmed down and I was fine. I think it was probably a result of fatigue, the elevation, the running and a lack of hydration. It was a reminder of how life is a vapor. Every day is a gift from God. We feel like everything will be fine, but some day will be our final day.
Now, I am going to stop typing and have a laundromat date with Marilyn, as we have a TON of dirty clothes.
Then, we got in the car to drive to the Grand Tetons. We got one of those pleasant surprises. We thought we had a 111 mile drive, but it turned out only to be 80 miles. We stopped at the visitor center and some overlooks on the way. Grand Tetons is crazy beautiful. It is amazing how many awesome sites are in our country.
We thought we had made the drive (with the trailer) without incident, but then the last eight miles of the drive was uphill. Again, it was a bad sign when there were signs letting you know when they closed the road and there are big gates that open and shut to close it. We prayed and made it up the hill. Hopefully, it won’t be too bad when we turn toward South Dakota.
We got to our cabin and it is fine, but small. We have seven people on two queens and a pull-out couch. Rachel is excited because she gets the blow up mattress which barely fits in front of the pull-out couch. The kids are doing great together. Right now, the girls are entertaining Matthew with some Tim Hawkins you-tube videos. Matthew hee-haws at anything remotely potty talk.
When we got here, the kids (again) refused to miss a run. I was tired and we are in high elevations, but I ran thirty minutes with them. Then, we got ready and drove an hour into Jackson Hole for dinner and some sight-seeing. The sights were amazing, dinner was great and Rachel spent her last remaining four dollars to continue to beef up her rock collection.
We did have a funny incident at dinner when Abby accidentally ate a very hot jalapeno. She freaked out. I thought something was major wrong and asked her “are you OK?!” With tears in her eyes, she said “NO!” Finally, she calmed down and was OK.
I did have a bit of a weird thirty minutes driving toward Jackson. I felt some numbness in my hand and had a visual migraine and had some trouble focusing and thinking straight. It scared me, but things calmed down and I was fine. I think it was probably a result of fatigue, the elevation, the running and a lack of hydration. It was a reminder of how life is a vapor. Every day is a gift from God. We feel like everything will be fine, but some day will be our final day.
Now, I am going to stop typing and have a laundromat date with Marilyn, as we have a TON of dirty clothes.
june 21, 2016
Day three camping and without a shower. We all feel very gross, especially me. Two runs, multiple hikes, tons of bug spray and three nights sleeping in a tent have left me really stinking. We all feel gross.
We got up, ate breakfast, hung out, went for a run, got frustrated with some kids and took off to go get a shower. We arrived at the showers at 1:27 p.m. and were told they closed in three minutes for cleaning. Marilyn said “I am not taking a three-minute shower!” So, we took off for another stinky hike.
The hike was really amazing. It was a 6.4 mile hike with the first half going straight up. Rachel was amazing and made the entire hike. The overlooks were amazing and perpetual. When we got to the top, we realized my phone was out of juice and we could not take pictures. We did recruit a stranger from Idaho city to take some photos of us and e-mail them to us. As of now, we haven’t received them, but we are still hopeful.
We encountered mountain goats at the top of the trail, including one on the trail. It was walking by us and Marilyn said something. It stopped, turned and look straight at Marilyn. We thought it was going to go after her, but fortunately it just gave her a good stare and walked off. Lesson: let mountain goats with horns walk by in peace.
After the hike we all hurt and went back for a shower. It was $4.16 per person for the shower, but it was the best $30 I have spent the entire trip. We all felt new after the showers and Marilyn felt like her skin could breathe again.
Now, do we drive home at 7:00 p.m. like normal people or do we drive around for three hours looking for bears and eat at 10:00 p.m. at a campsite. Well, we went on a bear search. At about 9:00 p.m., we had seen a ton of bison, elk and pronghorn, but no bears. We barely missed a black bear with her two cubs.
Then, God blessed us again. We saw two bear cubs climbing down a tree. It was amazingly cool. We got back to the campsite at 10:00 p.m. and still hadn’t eaten dinner. I started a fire and we grilled hot dogs and had chips and salsa. Actually, it didn’t turn out too bad. We ate, got everyone down and were ready for bed by 11:00 p.m.
Rachel did find an over-priced rock to spend some of her money on for her collection. The kids having some money (gifts from friends and family) has really been fun for them. Rachel is now down to $4.00. Abby spent some of her money on a stuffed Yellowstone moose and is excited about it.
Overall, it was a great day. Even the kids commented before bed “today has been a really good day.” We saw amazing sights and animals.
Our kiddos have really taken to camping. Everyone (with the exception of Kate Bradley) loved it. Kate Bradley gave it a B-. She likes her comfort. Matthew loves it and could just live in the woods. Madeline and Munch love it as well. Rachel was really disappointed we were finished camping.
We praise and thank God for HIS amazing graciousness to us. Great weather, safety and our van hanging in there, just a few of HIS favor on this trip. We feel like God has blessed us with a respite and an amazing time enjoying our family and HIS creation.
We got up, ate breakfast, hung out, went for a run, got frustrated with some kids and took off to go get a shower. We arrived at the showers at 1:27 p.m. and were told they closed in three minutes for cleaning. Marilyn said “I am not taking a three-minute shower!” So, we took off for another stinky hike.
The hike was really amazing. It was a 6.4 mile hike with the first half going straight up. Rachel was amazing and made the entire hike. The overlooks were amazing and perpetual. When we got to the top, we realized my phone was out of juice and we could not take pictures. We did recruit a stranger from Idaho city to take some photos of us and e-mail them to us. As of now, we haven’t received them, but we are still hopeful.
We encountered mountain goats at the top of the trail, including one on the trail. It was walking by us and Marilyn said something. It stopped, turned and look straight at Marilyn. We thought it was going to go after her, but fortunately it just gave her a good stare and walked off. Lesson: let mountain goats with horns walk by in peace.
After the hike we all hurt and went back for a shower. It was $4.16 per person for the shower, but it was the best $30 I have spent the entire trip. We all felt new after the showers and Marilyn felt like her skin could breathe again.
Now, do we drive home at 7:00 p.m. like normal people or do we drive around for three hours looking for bears and eat at 10:00 p.m. at a campsite. Well, we went on a bear search. At about 9:00 p.m., we had seen a ton of bison, elk and pronghorn, but no bears. We barely missed a black bear with her two cubs.
Then, God blessed us again. We saw two bear cubs climbing down a tree. It was amazingly cool. We got back to the campsite at 10:00 p.m. and still hadn’t eaten dinner. I started a fire and we grilled hot dogs and had chips and salsa. Actually, it didn’t turn out too bad. We ate, got everyone down and were ready for bed by 11:00 p.m.
Rachel did find an over-priced rock to spend some of her money on for her collection. The kids having some money (gifts from friends and family) has really been fun for them. Rachel is now down to $4.00. Abby spent some of her money on a stuffed Yellowstone moose and is excited about it.
Overall, it was a great day. Even the kids commented before bed “today has been a really good day.” We saw amazing sights and animals.
Our kiddos have really taken to camping. Everyone (with the exception of Kate Bradley) loved it. Kate Bradley gave it a B-. She likes her comfort. Matthew loves it and could just live in the woods. Madeline and Munch love it as well. Rachel was really disappointed we were finished camping.
We praise and thank God for HIS amazing graciousness to us. Great weather, safety and our van hanging in there, just a few of HIS favor on this trip. We feel like God has blessed us with a respite and an amazing time enjoying our family and HIS creation.
june 20, 2016
A long day that will forever be remembered. The kiddos were persistent… so, today we took the long haul to Preston, ID to visit the home of Napoleon Dynamite. Kate Bradley, who never gets up early, came to our tent around 6:30 a.m. ready to leave.
We had an eventful, frustrating and conflictual 30 minutes before we finally left around 7:00 a.m. It started out with the van absolutely wreaking of lighter fluid. The lighter fluid turned over and spilled in the bottom of our trunk. The power of lighter fluid in carpet sitting over-night is pretty powerful.
The kids were frustrated with each other. Marilyn was frustrated at me for making too much noise and I was frustrated at Marilyn for getting frustrated with me. Plus, the car reaked of lighter fluid, as the residue is hanging around pretty strong.
Well, Marilyn made the wise move, passed on the 500 miles of driving and took a day alone. When I got back, she smiled and was almost gleaming when she said “I forgot how much I LOVE being alone.” I asked her if she talked to any campers. She said “Not on purpose and only when I had to. It was so nice to not talk all day long.”
I am convinced that a day alone every month or so would serve the soul and sanity of everyone well. Life gets so busy and loud that it is hard to stay patient and settled.
I think, if parents are honest, every day has a lot going on. Today, ours really did. It started with arguments about seating arrangements. Then, tired Abby complained about her food and spilled an entire packet of syrup in the back of the van. The van, Abby and the blanket was nasty.
Then, we stop for a bathroom/energy drink break to keep me awake. While I pay, the store worker has to go over and call down Matthew, Abby and Rachel for starting a triangle game of catch with big stuffed animals in the back of the store. I let them know my feelings about it taking them less than one minute to get called down after I left to pay.
The kids were crazy excited about Preston and Preston did not disappoint. We took a picture of the sign and drove straight to Preston High School. A nice custodian let us in the high school, told us which locker was Napoleon’s and let the kids go up on the stage where Napoleon did his skit.
Then, we went to the track and took photos in the bleachers where Napoleon and Pedro sat. After that, we went to the newspaper office and got a map of all the attractions in the town. To sum it up, we ate lunch (tots and shakes) at the restaurant owned by the guy who fed Rico and Kip. We took photos of the downtown shops and barber where Napoleon shopped.
Then, after thirty minutes of unsuccessful looking, we found Napoleon’s house. Photos and slow motion videos were had by all. Rachel didn’t really get the Napoleon thing and just kind of hung around for the ride.
Then, we engaged in a thorough (and unsuccessful) search for souvies. Believe it or not, no Napoleon souvenirs in Preston. One lady did say she had ordered some because the demand exceeds the supply of zero.
At this point, I was pretty tired and about the end of my patience rope. Then, the kids tell me they have to run and want to run on the track where part of Napoleon was filed. So, I ran 4 miles (in 95 degree weather) while Madeline and Bug ran over 5 miles. Rachel, Matthew and Abby played Frisbee in the grassy area in the center of the track. It was so hot that I told Madeline and Kate “let’s wait till we get to the campsite and run when it is cooler.” Kate responded “no, this is a chance for us to get used to the heat.” What a sick perspective!
The ride home was eventful (of course). Matthew had a bit of a number 2 accident and thought it was the funniest thing ever. I didn’t think anything could overtake the lighter fluid smell, but Matthew succeeded. The kids were ticked at him and Matthew was very amused at himself.
After a lot of Instagram and music, we got back to the campsite around 9:00 p.m. I took a needed break while Marilyn took the kiddos to the Ranger program. The kids got back and all agreed (including Marilyn) that the program was horrible. It was dull and a ranger spent forty five minutes discussing the meaning of park photography.
On a side-note, our van is at an all-time low in clutter, mess, dirt and smell. Plus, as our campsite has no shower facilities, all of us are going to bed for the third night in a row without a shower.
We had an eventful, frustrating and conflictual 30 minutes before we finally left around 7:00 a.m. It started out with the van absolutely wreaking of lighter fluid. The lighter fluid turned over and spilled in the bottom of our trunk. The power of lighter fluid in carpet sitting over-night is pretty powerful.
The kids were frustrated with each other. Marilyn was frustrated at me for making too much noise and I was frustrated at Marilyn for getting frustrated with me. Plus, the car reaked of lighter fluid, as the residue is hanging around pretty strong.
Well, Marilyn made the wise move, passed on the 500 miles of driving and took a day alone. When I got back, she smiled and was almost gleaming when she said “I forgot how much I LOVE being alone.” I asked her if she talked to any campers. She said “Not on purpose and only when I had to. It was so nice to not talk all day long.”
I am convinced that a day alone every month or so would serve the soul and sanity of everyone well. Life gets so busy and loud that it is hard to stay patient and settled.
I think, if parents are honest, every day has a lot going on. Today, ours really did. It started with arguments about seating arrangements. Then, tired Abby complained about her food and spilled an entire packet of syrup in the back of the van. The van, Abby and the blanket was nasty.
Then, we stop for a bathroom/energy drink break to keep me awake. While I pay, the store worker has to go over and call down Matthew, Abby and Rachel for starting a triangle game of catch with big stuffed animals in the back of the store. I let them know my feelings about it taking them less than one minute to get called down after I left to pay.
The kids were crazy excited about Preston and Preston did not disappoint. We took a picture of the sign and drove straight to Preston High School. A nice custodian let us in the high school, told us which locker was Napoleon’s and let the kids go up on the stage where Napoleon did his skit.
Then, we went to the track and took photos in the bleachers where Napoleon and Pedro sat. After that, we went to the newspaper office and got a map of all the attractions in the town. To sum it up, we ate lunch (tots and shakes) at the restaurant owned by the guy who fed Rico and Kip. We took photos of the downtown shops and barber where Napoleon shopped.
Then, after thirty minutes of unsuccessful looking, we found Napoleon’s house. Photos and slow motion videos were had by all. Rachel didn’t really get the Napoleon thing and just kind of hung around for the ride.
Then, we engaged in a thorough (and unsuccessful) search for souvies. Believe it or not, no Napoleon souvenirs in Preston. One lady did say she had ordered some because the demand exceeds the supply of zero.
At this point, I was pretty tired and about the end of my patience rope. Then, the kids tell me they have to run and want to run on the track where part of Napoleon was filed. So, I ran 4 miles (in 95 degree weather) while Madeline and Bug ran over 5 miles. Rachel, Matthew and Abby played Frisbee in the grassy area in the center of the track. It was so hot that I told Madeline and Kate “let’s wait till we get to the campsite and run when it is cooler.” Kate responded “no, this is a chance for us to get used to the heat.” What a sick perspective!
The ride home was eventful (of course). Matthew had a bit of a number 2 accident and thought it was the funniest thing ever. I didn’t think anything could overtake the lighter fluid smell, but Matthew succeeded. The kids were ticked at him and Matthew was very amused at himself.
After a lot of Instagram and music, we got back to the campsite around 9:00 p.m. I took a needed break while Marilyn took the kiddos to the Ranger program. The kids got back and all agreed (including Marilyn) that the program was horrible. It was dull and a ranger spent forty five minutes discussing the meaning of park photography.
On a side-note, our van is at an all-time low in clutter, mess, dirt and smell. Plus, as our campsite has no shower facilities, all of us are going to bed for the third night in a row without a shower.
june 19, 2016
Today was a full Rhoads’ touring day. First, we got up, had breakfast and decided to go to the church service at the amphitheater conducted by college students from Asbury, Liberty and Hope College. We thought we had missed it, but it turned out we were the only ones who came.
The service had a congregation of seven and we made up all seven. It was nice to worship while looking at a river and mountains. After the worship service, we talked to a Ranger and headed off to the geysers.
The geysers were actually VERY cool. There are 1,000 geysers in the world and 500 of them are in this park. We went to three of the four major geyser areas and did see Old Faithful erupt. It was actually really cool. I had low expectations and they were radically exceeded.
Buying the kids ice cream prolonged their touring and hiking ability and helped with the wait for Old Faithful. After Old Faithful, we went on a long drive and a hike down to a huge waterfall. The waterfall drops over 300 feet down into a river. It was very cool.
We also saw TONS of animals. Matthew counted 196 bison, including a bunch that were right on the side of the road. One of them almost blocked our path on the road. They are HUGE and weigh up to 2,000 pounds. We could have literally reached our hand out of the car and touched it. However, a sign in the bathroom already told us “many tourists have been gored by bison.” This helped us stay in the car.
Additionally, we saw huge elk, baby elk and deer. There are tons of animals in this park and you can’t drive far without seeing them.
We found parking spots and were able to see everything fine. However, there are a ton of people here from all over the world. At the geysers, as an American, I think I was definitely in the minority.
The kids really did well touring today and it was a long day. We didn’t get back to our site until almost 8:00 p.m. We listened to the Warriors lose while grilling burgers and cooking dinner. This camping thing is actually working out well…. So far.
After dinner, we made smores, hung around the fire, got ready for bed and hit the sack in preparation for “Napoleon Dynamite day” tomorrow.
The service had a congregation of seven and we made up all seven. It was nice to worship while looking at a river and mountains. After the worship service, we talked to a Ranger and headed off to the geysers.
The geysers were actually VERY cool. There are 1,000 geysers in the world and 500 of them are in this park. We went to three of the four major geyser areas and did see Old Faithful erupt. It was actually really cool. I had low expectations and they were radically exceeded.
Buying the kids ice cream prolonged their touring and hiking ability and helped with the wait for Old Faithful. After Old Faithful, we went on a long drive and a hike down to a huge waterfall. The waterfall drops over 300 feet down into a river. It was very cool.
We also saw TONS of animals. Matthew counted 196 bison, including a bunch that were right on the side of the road. One of them almost blocked our path on the road. They are HUGE and weigh up to 2,000 pounds. We could have literally reached our hand out of the car and touched it. However, a sign in the bathroom already told us “many tourists have been gored by bison.” This helped us stay in the car.
Additionally, we saw huge elk, baby elk and deer. There are tons of animals in this park and you can’t drive far without seeing them.
We found parking spots and were able to see everything fine. However, there are a ton of people here from all over the world. At the geysers, as an American, I think I was definitely in the minority.
The kids really did well touring today and it was a long day. We didn’t get back to our site until almost 8:00 p.m. We listened to the Warriors lose while grilling burgers and cooking dinner. This camping thing is actually working out well…. So far.
After dinner, we made smores, hung around the fire, got ready for bed and hit the sack in preparation for “Napoleon Dynamite day” tomorrow.
june 18, 2016
We took it slow in the morning, had a nice breakfast, went for a run, dried some clothes and hung out. We didn’t leave the hotel until almost noon. Matthew makes everything exciting, as he flooded the bathroom with his failure to properly use a shower curtain. It seems like NOTHING is routine.
The drive to Yellowstone was more eventful than expected. I have learned to hate the word “Pass” and “chain-up area” and “6% grade.” In addition to all of that, we had probably forty mile an hour winds. The wind was so strong that we really didn’t even gain speed going downhill, as the wind was in our face. Our van struggled, but hung in there and got us there.
After a lot of stops, grocery shopping and refereeing, we finally made it to Yellowstone to camp. Yellowstone started great for us. Within forty minutes we saw a big grizzly bear, a huge bison and some big elk. It was crazy cool. Marilyn had said “I really want to see a bear” and today we saw a grizzly.
On this trip we have seen amazing wildlife – whales, bears, elk, bison, mountain goats, big-horn sheep, deer and others. God has and continues to be so gracious and kind to our family on this trip.
When we got to the site, the kids really stepped up their game. All three tents went up without me touching anything. I worked on the cooler and trailers and looked up and all the tents were up.
A camper scared us by telling us it was going to get “bone-chilling cold.” However, it turned out he was just a nice old guy (with relatives in Fordsville, KY) who likes to sit around and complain. I really like the guy, but decisions do not need to be made relying on his negative perspective.
Then, we got our Coleman stove working, made dinner, hung out, had smores and went to bed. Surprisingly, our family is taking to this camping thing. It is fun, great family time and neat being out in the woods with a bunch of other campers. I have noticed that campers are really nice and generous. We forgot Ketchup and our social Matthew begged to go try to ask other campers for some. We let him and he came back with a bottle of Heinz in ten minutes.
Matthew LOVES the outdoors and LOVES seeing animals. The only thing he’d like more would be if he was allowed to shoot at them. It is embarrassing when other tourist hear your son yell “where is my rifle when I need it.”
We are having a blast, have met some awesome people and, other than the usual issues that come with our family, it is going smooth and great.
The drive to Yellowstone was more eventful than expected. I have learned to hate the word “Pass” and “chain-up area” and “6% grade.” In addition to all of that, we had probably forty mile an hour winds. The wind was so strong that we really didn’t even gain speed going downhill, as the wind was in our face. Our van struggled, but hung in there and got us there.
After a lot of stops, grocery shopping and refereeing, we finally made it to Yellowstone to camp. Yellowstone started great for us. Within forty minutes we saw a big grizzly bear, a huge bison and some big elk. It was crazy cool. Marilyn had said “I really want to see a bear” and today we saw a grizzly.
On this trip we have seen amazing wildlife – whales, bears, elk, bison, mountain goats, big-horn sheep, deer and others. God has and continues to be so gracious and kind to our family on this trip.
When we got to the site, the kids really stepped up their game. All three tents went up without me touching anything. I worked on the cooler and trailers and looked up and all the tents were up.
A camper scared us by telling us it was going to get “bone-chilling cold.” However, it turned out he was just a nice old guy (with relatives in Fordsville, KY) who likes to sit around and complain. I really like the guy, but decisions do not need to be made relying on his negative perspective.
Then, we got our Coleman stove working, made dinner, hung out, had smores and went to bed. Surprisingly, our family is taking to this camping thing. It is fun, great family time and neat being out in the woods with a bunch of other campers. I have noticed that campers are really nice and generous. We forgot Ketchup and our social Matthew begged to go try to ask other campers for some. We let him and he came back with a bottle of Heinz in ten minutes.
Matthew LOVES the outdoors and LOVES seeing animals. The only thing he’d like more would be if he was allowed to shoot at them. It is embarrassing when other tourist hear your son yell “where is my rifle when I need it.”
We are having a blast, have met some awesome people and, other than the usual issues that come with our family, it is going smooth and great.
june 17, 2016
The plan for today was to pack up, check out and head toward Yellowstone. Well, this didn’t happen. First, we took some of the hotel board games and movies and had to turn around and take them back. Then, we had a small trailer problem and had to stop and deal with it. Then, as we were turning toward Yellowstone, we saw a sign that said “Road to the Sun now open.”
This is the famous road that goes straight through Glacier. We had done part of it, but the most magnificent part was closed. Needless to stay, we decided to go do it. As we were pulling into Glacier, Marilyn remembered she left a couple of jackets hanging behind the door at the cabin.
Well, the drive was amazing. You drive switchbacks along a cliff for fifteen miles. It takes forever, but is unreal. The views are CRAZY. I see why it is so famous. Even though it added three hours of driving, it was definitely worth it. The kids were actually very good sports about the three hour delay in leaving for Yellowstone.
After the hours of Glacier Park driving, we had to drive back to our cabin to get the jackets (Marilyn’s jacket with a credit card in it) which, Praise God, were there. Then, we ate dinner and left for Yellowstone around 5:00 p.m. The kids started a Spiderman movie marathon while I drove and Rachel watched a more appropriate movie for her age on the laptop.
We made it about half way and stopped in Butte, MT at a Holiday Inn express. The worker agreed to let us all pile in one suite to save us money. Then, the suite wasn’t what he says it was. One bed instead of two and no pull-out couch. The guy was great and gave us a free extra room. So, we had amazing rooms, a free breakfast and a ton of space for a low price. The morning worker looked shocked when she saw how little we paid for our rooms.
Today didn’t go as planned, but as usual, it was even better than we anticipated. God continues to be so good and gracious to us. The weather was great, we got to see most of Glacier National Park and we got a great deal on a very nice hotel.
This is the famous road that goes straight through Glacier. We had done part of it, but the most magnificent part was closed. Needless to stay, we decided to go do it. As we were pulling into Glacier, Marilyn remembered she left a couple of jackets hanging behind the door at the cabin.
Well, the drive was amazing. You drive switchbacks along a cliff for fifteen miles. It takes forever, but is unreal. The views are CRAZY. I see why it is so famous. Even though it added three hours of driving, it was definitely worth it. The kids were actually very good sports about the three hour delay in leaving for Yellowstone.
After the hours of Glacier Park driving, we had to drive back to our cabin to get the jackets (Marilyn’s jacket with a credit card in it) which, Praise God, were there. Then, we ate dinner and left for Yellowstone around 5:00 p.m. The kids started a Spiderman movie marathon while I drove and Rachel watched a more appropriate movie for her age on the laptop.
We made it about half way and stopped in Butte, MT at a Holiday Inn express. The worker agreed to let us all pile in one suite to save us money. Then, the suite wasn’t what he says it was. One bed instead of two and no pull-out couch. The guy was great and gave us a free extra room. So, we had amazing rooms, a free breakfast and a ton of space for a low price. The morning worker looked shocked when she saw how little we paid for our rooms.
Today didn’t go as planned, but as usual, it was even better than we anticipated. God continues to be so good and gracious to us. The weather was great, we got to see most of Glacier National Park and we got a great deal on a very nice hotel.
june 16, 2016
Today started with an unexpected twist. We learned our water had been turned off at home, the electricity was going to get turned off and the gas would be shut off tomorrow. The family who rented our house had the utilities in their name while they lived in our home. Then, when they took it out, we had to put it back in our own name. Unaware of the development, the utilities were all getting turned off.
After a lot calls, scanning, faxes and e-mails, all our utilities are on and in our name. Today is a rest day at the cabin and, thank God. It is raining, cold and doing dome hailing. The Lord has been so kind to us with the weather. Yesterday (a national park day) was beautiful and clear. Today is nasty.
Our kids have played hide and seek and watched TV while I worked on the bills/utilities. Marilyn went out to the store with Bug to buy our camping stuff. Camping for four days in Yellowstone with no shower facilities on-site will be quite an experience. It definitely has the potential to be the best or worst of our trip, depending on the weather and how we handle camping.
We all started getting a bit stir crazy, as the kids were ready for me to quit working on stuff and hang with them. So, we got the wheels back on track by watching Creed on DVD. Great movie and a good movie to watch before I embarked on a ten-mile run with the girls.
I took off with a bit of hesitation, as I haven’t run ten miles in over three years. Surprisingly, it wasn’t too bad. I have learned that excessive eating wins over good exercise if you want to maintain or lose weight. It is amazing how driven the kids are to do what their coach tells them to do. As I am not OK with them running alone in strange places, it has forced me off the couch --- a lot.
While I ran, Marilyn took one more drive into Glacier National Park and took a look at the Hungry Horse Dam.
Then, Marilyn cooked some of the rock fish we caught in Newport, Oregon while we got in the hot tub. Then, we ate, hung out and went to bed.
After a lot calls, scanning, faxes and e-mails, all our utilities are on and in our name. Today is a rest day at the cabin and, thank God. It is raining, cold and doing dome hailing. The Lord has been so kind to us with the weather. Yesterday (a national park day) was beautiful and clear. Today is nasty.
Our kids have played hide and seek and watched TV while I worked on the bills/utilities. Marilyn went out to the store with Bug to buy our camping stuff. Camping for four days in Yellowstone with no shower facilities on-site will be quite an experience. It definitely has the potential to be the best or worst of our trip, depending on the weather and how we handle camping.
We all started getting a bit stir crazy, as the kids were ready for me to quit working on stuff and hang with them. So, we got the wheels back on track by watching Creed on DVD. Great movie and a good movie to watch before I embarked on a ten-mile run with the girls.
I took off with a bit of hesitation, as I haven’t run ten miles in over three years. Surprisingly, it wasn’t too bad. I have learned that excessive eating wins over good exercise if you want to maintain or lose weight. It is amazing how driven the kids are to do what their coach tells them to do. As I am not OK with them running alone in strange places, it has forced me off the couch --- a lot.
While I ran, Marilyn took one more drive into Glacier National Park and took a look at the Hungry Horse Dam.
Then, Marilyn cooked some of the rock fish we caught in Newport, Oregon while we got in the hot tub. Then, we ate, hung out and went to bed.
It is really cool seeing animals right near the trail while you hike in Glacier National Park.
june 15, 2016
Today was a crazy fun, fatiguing, beautiful and long day. It started early with me getting up to start packing while Marilyn took a jaunt to the laundromat. The kiddos got up at 9:00 and were very tired. Our cabin is small with only three beds (and one of them is a rock hard futon). Marilyn and I slept on the futon and both woke up sore from the hard sleeping. Bug, Rachel and Matthew all slept in one queen bed. Bug’s legs hung off the edge and didn’t sleep well.
The place is great, but small. The cabin has an area with a basketball goal, tether ball and a llama. With tetherball and the llama, it had Napoleon Dynamite written all over it. On the Napoleon front, our kids learned we are going to be 220 miles from Preston, Idaho, the site where the movie was filmed. They are dying to go. I played shark tank and they agreed to allow us three date nights in exchange for a full day trip and tour of Preston, Idaho. I didn’t really want to add 450 miles of out-of-the-way driving to the trip, but oh well. It is funny how our kids are way more excited about Preston, Idaho than any of the national parks.
After packing up, we took off for East Glacier, MT. Marilyn forgot my Yeti mug and her book at the laundromat. Matthew said “the signs are right in front of you” referring to Marilyn’s memory and forgetting things. I don’t know how he remembered a dementia-medication commercial from six months ago.
The drive to East Glacier was amazing. Glacier is probably the most beautiful national park we have visited. It has glaciers, lakes, trees and tons of rivers/streams. It is a lot like being in Banff/Jasper, Canada – the most beautiful place we have ever seen (on our fifteenth anniversary).
After the long (and amazingly scenic drive), we hiked the St. Mary falls/Virginia falls hike. It was about a 3 and ½ mile hike with gorgeous views and two big waterfalls. Rachel is a trooper – she makes all the hikes without stopping. Plus, praise God how well Marilyn’s foot is doing. She hiked the entire hike at a pretty good pace.
We saw some wildlife, including a marmot and some deer. The deer would not leave the path. Finally, a hiker had to clap and run at it to get it to move. It was a buck and I wondered if it’d turn and go after the hiker.
After the hike, we did some more sight-seeing, an additional short hike and ate dinner at a restaurant on the Blackfoot Indian reservation. The kids re-watched Rocky 1 as we made the long drive back. We got to our next place in Glacier and it was much bigger and nicer. As we started to go to bed, Marilyn checked for bedbugs. I begged her not to, as I’d rather sleep with bedbugs than deal with Marilyn after she had seen them. I asked her, “If you find them, what would we do? It is 11:00 p.m.?” She responded “if I find one, we are leaving.” Fortunately, no bugs and a sane Marilyn.
The place is great, but small. The cabin has an area with a basketball goal, tether ball and a llama. With tetherball and the llama, it had Napoleon Dynamite written all over it. On the Napoleon front, our kids learned we are going to be 220 miles from Preston, Idaho, the site where the movie was filmed. They are dying to go. I played shark tank and they agreed to allow us three date nights in exchange for a full day trip and tour of Preston, Idaho. I didn’t really want to add 450 miles of out-of-the-way driving to the trip, but oh well. It is funny how our kids are way more excited about Preston, Idaho than any of the national parks.
After packing up, we took off for East Glacier, MT. Marilyn forgot my Yeti mug and her book at the laundromat. Matthew said “the signs are right in front of you” referring to Marilyn’s memory and forgetting things. I don’t know how he remembered a dementia-medication commercial from six months ago.
The drive to East Glacier was amazing. Glacier is probably the most beautiful national park we have visited. It has glaciers, lakes, trees and tons of rivers/streams. It is a lot like being in Banff/Jasper, Canada – the most beautiful place we have ever seen (on our fifteenth anniversary).
After the long (and amazingly scenic drive), we hiked the St. Mary falls/Virginia falls hike. It was about a 3 and ½ mile hike with gorgeous views and two big waterfalls. Rachel is a trooper – she makes all the hikes without stopping. Plus, praise God how well Marilyn’s foot is doing. She hiked the entire hike at a pretty good pace.
We saw some wildlife, including a marmot and some deer. The deer would not leave the path. Finally, a hiker had to clap and run at it to get it to move. It was a buck and I wondered if it’d turn and go after the hiker.
After the hike, we did some more sight-seeing, an additional short hike and ate dinner at a restaurant on the Blackfoot Indian reservation. The kids re-watched Rocky 1 as we made the long drive back. We got to our next place in Glacier and it was much bigger and nicer. As we started to go to bed, Marilyn checked for bedbugs. I begged her not to, as I’d rather sleep with bedbugs than deal with Marilyn after she had seen them. I asked her, “If you find them, what would we do? It is 11:00 p.m.?” She responded “if I find one, we are leaving.” Fortunately, no bugs and a sane Marilyn.
june 14, 2016
Today we decided to explore the west side of Glacier National Park. Going to the Sun Road is the road that extends from one side of the park to the other. The middle twenty miles of this road is closed because of snow. We drove to the end of the road and did Avalanche Lake trail. The trail ends at a lake that is fueled by avalanches. It is a lake with mountains all around it.
The hike was amazing with great views and an awesome view at the end. Rachel did awesome, hiking over five miles. Marilyn walked slow but was able to finish the five miles with her foot. Praise God! We really didn’t think she’d be able to enjoy this park much, but it has turned out to be our favorite National Park.
We do have many daily issues and conflicts with the kids. Our patience does run thin at times – actually pretty often. As Madeline’s friend, Natalie says “Patience is a virtue and a virtue is a good thing to have.” I am not sure if I am growing in patience, but I am getting plenty of tests.
After losing Matthew in Victoria, hiking on slick rocks near a rushing river was a bit more stressful. I kept a close eye on that straying rascal. Rachel tried to walk on a log over some water and slipped submerging her shoes in the water. Then, she had to walk two and a half miles back with soaking wet feet. Actually, she did very well under the circumstances.
After the hike, we drove around, stopped at overlooks and took the twenty-five mile drive to Polbridge, MT. We came within feet of hitting a big deer on the way up. I was tired, but the close call with the deer got my blood going and woke me up quickly.
The Park is amazing. It literally has everything. The views are hard to describe. Some of our pictures look so cool they look photo-shopped. You could literally spend a month at this park.
After the fun hike and the drives, we came home. Unfortuntaely, the kiddos were persistent on wanting to run. So, I had to go 50 minutes and run through Hungry Horse and back. It involved a long, long hill, but running back down it was nice.
We came back, had spaghetti, argued about where we are all sleeping and didn’t fall asleep till after midnight. Finally, after the kiddos couldn’t sleep, Marilyn and I took the rock-hard futon and we fell asleep.
The hike was amazing with great views and an awesome view at the end. Rachel did awesome, hiking over five miles. Marilyn walked slow but was able to finish the five miles with her foot. Praise God! We really didn’t think she’d be able to enjoy this park much, but it has turned out to be our favorite National Park.
We do have many daily issues and conflicts with the kids. Our patience does run thin at times – actually pretty often. As Madeline’s friend, Natalie says “Patience is a virtue and a virtue is a good thing to have.” I am not sure if I am growing in patience, but I am getting plenty of tests.
After losing Matthew in Victoria, hiking on slick rocks near a rushing river was a bit more stressful. I kept a close eye on that straying rascal. Rachel tried to walk on a log over some water and slipped submerging her shoes in the water. Then, she had to walk two and a half miles back with soaking wet feet. Actually, she did very well under the circumstances.
After the hike, we drove around, stopped at overlooks and took the twenty-five mile drive to Polbridge, MT. We came within feet of hitting a big deer on the way up. I was tired, but the close call with the deer got my blood going and woke me up quickly.
The Park is amazing. It literally has everything. The views are hard to describe. Some of our pictures look so cool they look photo-shopped. You could literally spend a month at this park.
After the fun hike and the drives, we came home. Unfortuntaely, the kiddos were persistent on wanting to run. So, I had to go 50 minutes and run through Hungry Horse and back. It involved a long, long hill, but running back down it was nice.
We came back, had spaghetti, argued about where we are all sleeping and didn’t fall asleep till after midnight. Finally, after the kiddos couldn’t sleep, Marilyn and I took the rock-hard futon and we fell asleep.
june 13, 2016
Today was a long drive from Idaho to Hungry Horse, MT, where we have a cabin rented. The kids watched Rocky 4 and 5 which helped make the trip shorter. Overall, the van did well and we made it fine over the Cascade Mountain range.
The day started with a big debate on whether we are going to Preston, Idaho to see the home of Napoleon Dynamite and his high school. It is 225 miles each way out of the way. The kids were very persistent and really want to do it. I caved and we are going. Well, me and the kids. Marilyn is going to stay back and chill.
We took one more look at Coeur d’Alane, talked Rachel out of swimming at the hotel and hit the road. Even though we got a great hotwire rate, our Holiday Inn Express was fantastic. They paid attention to every detail.
The biggest scare we had was when we were pulling up to our cabin. Again, gravel and again a hill. This one wasn’t as bad and, despite some tires spinning, we made it to the top.
When we got there Matthew quickly noticed and took advantage of the basketball goal. He played basketball and watched the NBA game. It was tight quarters.Also, there was a llama and a tether ball pole at the place where we were staying which made the kids more excited about going to Preston, Idaho. Marilyn slept poorly on the rock hard futon in the den. The other kids didn’t sleep too well either, as three of them piled on a queen bed in one room and two others on another queen.
Well, we are working our way back home and every step (except the Napoleon jaunt) is a step closer to home. I am loving God’s gift of this trip and time with the family. However, I am ready to get home into some type of routine again.
Actually, things have worked out perfect. The kids are loving the trip, but are ready to get back home as well.
The day started with a big debate on whether we are going to Preston, Idaho to see the home of Napoleon Dynamite and his high school. It is 225 miles each way out of the way. The kids were very persistent and really want to do it. I caved and we are going. Well, me and the kids. Marilyn is going to stay back and chill.
We took one more look at Coeur d’Alane, talked Rachel out of swimming at the hotel and hit the road. Even though we got a great hotwire rate, our Holiday Inn Express was fantastic. They paid attention to every detail.
The biggest scare we had was when we were pulling up to our cabin. Again, gravel and again a hill. This one wasn’t as bad and, despite some tires spinning, we made it to the top.
When we got there Matthew quickly noticed and took advantage of the basketball goal. He played basketball and watched the NBA game. It was tight quarters.Also, there was a llama and a tether ball pole at the place where we were staying which made the kids more excited about going to Preston, Idaho. Marilyn slept poorly on the rock hard futon in the den. The other kids didn’t sleep too well either, as three of them piled on a queen bed in one room and two others on another queen.
Well, we are working our way back home and every step (except the Napoleon jaunt) is a step closer to home. I am loving God’s gift of this trip and time with the family. However, I am ready to get home into some type of routine again.
Actually, things have worked out perfect. The kids are loving the trip, but are ready to get back home as well.
june 12, 2016
Up early, a quick breakfast, very crowded elevators and a long jaunt off the cruise boat. Juergen was amazing and waiting to pick us up from the cruise. We went to Juergen and Kathy’s, said our goodbyes, loaded up the trailer, hooked it up and headed off toward Glacier National Park.
We had ordered the five Rocky movies for a marathon on the way to Glacier. Our kids loved Creed so we thought the Rocky movies were a good idea. They watched Rocky 1-3 on the way to our stop in Idaho and loved them. Just listening to it from the front seat got me fired up.
We arrived in Coeur D’Alane, Idaho around 5:00 p.m. Coeur D’Alane is a very cool town. It is on a hug lake and has an amazing beachfront/downtown area. Rachel played in the play area, Matthew and Abby played Frisbee and I went on a run with Bug and Madeline. Getting right out of a car and running is rough on me, but not so hard on the girls.
After exploring the city, we went for a Red Robin dinner and headed back to the hotel. Marilyn and I went to the grocery to do some shopping for Glacier/Yellowstone while the kiddos stayed back in the room. They had fun – too much fun – as they got a call from the front desk asking them to quiet it down. They say Rachel’s jumping was the culprit.
We did secure our Washington and Idaho geo-caching badges today. We actually saw a big snake trying to find the Washington badge.
The kids traveled very well today – thanks to the beauty of Rocky. Madeline was especially fond of Rocky. These movie marathons are awesome for the car atmosphere. I bought the five movie Spiderman series. Assuming the kids like it, this will be about 10 hours of car time, as we have a lot of driving ahead of us. We have driven over 19,300 miles so far this trip and will likely hit 24,000 before we get home.
We had ordered the five Rocky movies for a marathon on the way to Glacier. Our kids loved Creed so we thought the Rocky movies were a good idea. They watched Rocky 1-3 on the way to our stop in Idaho and loved them. Just listening to it from the front seat got me fired up.
We arrived in Coeur D’Alane, Idaho around 5:00 p.m. Coeur D’Alane is a very cool town. It is on a hug lake and has an amazing beachfront/downtown area. Rachel played in the play area, Matthew and Abby played Frisbee and I went on a run with Bug and Madeline. Getting right out of a car and running is rough on me, but not so hard on the girls.
After exploring the city, we went for a Red Robin dinner and headed back to the hotel. Marilyn and I went to the grocery to do some shopping for Glacier/Yellowstone while the kiddos stayed back in the room. They had fun – too much fun – as they got a call from the front desk asking them to quiet it down. They say Rachel’s jumping was the culprit.
We did secure our Washington and Idaho geo-caching badges today. We actually saw a big snake trying to find the Washington badge.
The kids traveled very well today – thanks to the beauty of Rocky. Madeline was especially fond of Rocky. These movie marathons are awesome for the car atmosphere. I bought the five movie Spiderman series. Assuming the kids like it, this will be about 10 hours of car time, as we have a lot of driving ahead of us. We have driven over 19,300 miles so far this trip and will likely hit 24,000 before we get home.
june 11, 2016
Most of the day was a sea day. We watched a movie on the deck (Zootopia), ate too much food, went for a run, played basketball, watched a mock “Voice” show and hung out on the deck while the ship headed toward Victoria. It was a nice day on the boat. Then, we arrived at dock in Victoria, Canada.
Victoria was one big beautiful chaotic mess. I decided to bless Marilyn by letting her stay on the ship while I took all five into town to look around. Well, a lot happened. First, we decided to stop and take a picture of the Parliament building with the kids. As I took the picture, I realized there were only four kids in the frame – not five.
At first I wasn’t worried figuring Matthew was climbing a tree a few feet away. However, after some quick looking, I realized he was nowhere to be found. The longer I couldn’t find him the more freaked out I got. I ran up and down the sidewalk yelling his name. It was crowded and I couldn’t find him anywhere. I jumped up on a wall (with a huge drop down) and started yelling his name. It entered my mind that me falling thirty feet to the concrete below would be a bad development.
I left the other kids in a bunch in the yard of the Parliament. I came back and met eyes with Madeline. She threw her arms up in panic indicating she had not seen him. I gave her the same panicked look. I yelled across the street for Kate to stay with the youngers while Madeline and I worked together to try to find him. I was going to send Madeline one way down the street and me the other.
Then, I saw him. Praise GOD!!! He was standing with some strangers trying futilely to call Marilyn’s cell phone which was on airplane mode in the room. Matthew did well. He remembered to stay still if he gets lost and he did. He wasn’t far from where we first started looking. This deal shook me up pretty good and we instituted the Victoria buddy system. Today was the first kid we had lost.
I asked Abby if she was stressed and she said “no, I figured you’d find him.” Kids seem to have it a bit easier than adults. Marilyn will have a stressful reminder when a voicemail pops up from a stranger letting know them they have lost Matthew in their possession.
After that, I was pretty shaken up. We went through some shops and it was chaos. Abby and Rachel want to buy about every little knickknack known to man. At one point Rachel randomly gave a big bracelet display a hard spin almost knocking hundreds of bracelets to the floor. I saw the worker and he couldn’t keep from laughing.
There were several shirts with poop and poop jokes on them and Matthew wanted them BAD. Plus, they had a stuffed animal which was just a big pile of poop. Matthew was furious I wouldn’t let him buy it. He said “you let Madeline buy a $5 box of cookies and you won’t let me buy a little stuffed $5 pile of poop!!!” I am sure they patrons around us were impressed with our family.
Then, as we were walking back home, Rachel tripped and fell to the concrete starting a radical cry. Rachel bounces back pretty quickly, but her initial reactions are epic. At times, she almost passes out because we can’t get her to breathe.
Then, Rachel saw a few poppies on the side of the road – her favorite flower. I let her pick a few and then Matthew and Madeline called them poopies. Tired, haven recently fallen and now having her favorite flower likened to poop, she absolutely lost it in tears. The other kids thought it was kind of funny and resurrected the dirty dinosaur. Rachel loves the Good Dinosaur movie and, every now and then, one of the other kids will call it the Dirty Dinosaur. Every time, Rachel freaks out.
When we got back, Marilyn was very gracious and, instead of getting mad at me, felt sorry for me and all the stress I went through looking for Matthew.
I guess I should note that Victoria is a beautiful and cool city. Despite the drama, I am very glad we walked through the downtown.
One other funny sidenote – the girls room has deteriorated to the point that the cleaning service didn’t even try to make it across the floor to make the beds. He laid four chocolates on the counter and left. The room is cluttered, packed with junk and stinks, as the kids have been running all week. It is the first time I have seen a hotel clean boycott by a worker.
Well, the cruise is about over. It was an awesome time and a great blessing from Granna and Pa. Their choosing to bless us this way for their anniversary is amazingly kind and generous. I thank God for them, their generosity and their example.
Victoria was one big beautiful chaotic mess. I decided to bless Marilyn by letting her stay on the ship while I took all five into town to look around. Well, a lot happened. First, we decided to stop and take a picture of the Parliament building with the kids. As I took the picture, I realized there were only four kids in the frame – not five.
At first I wasn’t worried figuring Matthew was climbing a tree a few feet away. However, after some quick looking, I realized he was nowhere to be found. The longer I couldn’t find him the more freaked out I got. I ran up and down the sidewalk yelling his name. It was crowded and I couldn’t find him anywhere. I jumped up on a wall (with a huge drop down) and started yelling his name. It entered my mind that me falling thirty feet to the concrete below would be a bad development.
I left the other kids in a bunch in the yard of the Parliament. I came back and met eyes with Madeline. She threw her arms up in panic indicating she had not seen him. I gave her the same panicked look. I yelled across the street for Kate to stay with the youngers while Madeline and I worked together to try to find him. I was going to send Madeline one way down the street and me the other.
Then, I saw him. Praise GOD!!! He was standing with some strangers trying futilely to call Marilyn’s cell phone which was on airplane mode in the room. Matthew did well. He remembered to stay still if he gets lost and he did. He wasn’t far from where we first started looking. This deal shook me up pretty good and we instituted the Victoria buddy system. Today was the first kid we had lost.
I asked Abby if she was stressed and she said “no, I figured you’d find him.” Kids seem to have it a bit easier than adults. Marilyn will have a stressful reminder when a voicemail pops up from a stranger letting know them they have lost Matthew in their possession.
After that, I was pretty shaken up. We went through some shops and it was chaos. Abby and Rachel want to buy about every little knickknack known to man. At one point Rachel randomly gave a big bracelet display a hard spin almost knocking hundreds of bracelets to the floor. I saw the worker and he couldn’t keep from laughing.
There were several shirts with poop and poop jokes on them and Matthew wanted them BAD. Plus, they had a stuffed animal which was just a big pile of poop. Matthew was furious I wouldn’t let him buy it. He said “you let Madeline buy a $5 box of cookies and you won’t let me buy a little stuffed $5 pile of poop!!!” I am sure they patrons around us were impressed with our family.
Then, as we were walking back home, Rachel tripped and fell to the concrete starting a radical cry. Rachel bounces back pretty quickly, but her initial reactions are epic. At times, she almost passes out because we can’t get her to breathe.
Then, Rachel saw a few poppies on the side of the road – her favorite flower. I let her pick a few and then Matthew and Madeline called them poopies. Tired, haven recently fallen and now having her favorite flower likened to poop, she absolutely lost it in tears. The other kids thought it was kind of funny and resurrected the dirty dinosaur. Rachel loves the Good Dinosaur movie and, every now and then, one of the other kids will call it the Dirty Dinosaur. Every time, Rachel freaks out.
When we got back, Marilyn was very gracious and, instead of getting mad at me, felt sorry for me and all the stress I went through looking for Matthew.
I guess I should note that Victoria is a beautiful and cool city. Despite the drama, I am very glad we walked through the downtown.
One other funny sidenote – the girls room has deteriorated to the point that the cleaning service didn’t even try to make it across the floor to make the beds. He laid four chocolates on the counter and left. The room is cluttered, packed with junk and stinks, as the kids have been running all week. It is the first time I have seen a hotel clean boycott by a worker.
Well, the cruise is about over. It was an awesome time and a great blessing from Granna and Pa. Their choosing to bless us this way for their anniversary is amazingly kind and generous. I thank God for them, their generosity and their example.
june 10, 2016
Today was just a day at sea. However, with all our kiddos, every day is a full speed day. Except for Kate Bradley: She told us to let her sleep in. We woke her up at 3:00 p.m. She slept exactly nine hours longer than her Pa. I don’t know how long she would have slept if we hadn’t awakened her. She has an uncanny knack for getting up early when she needs to and an amazing ability to hibernate.
Matthew provided some entertainment as usual. His Aunt Kelly asked him if he washed his hair. He said “kind of… I did take a shower.” Then, Kelly smelled his head and started laughing hard. His hair smells like mildew. I don’t know how long it has been since he washed his hair. He showers, but skips the washing the hair part. Now, Marilyn is on it and washing hair will become a more regular gig for Matthew.
Matthew spends a lot of his time on the ship playing basketball. He loves having the freedom to just go upstairs and shoot around by himself and with other boys. Harper, his cousin, like playing basketball as well.
Rachel loves the cruise. She made a crown with fake rubies on it in the kids’ area and now wears it around. She loves it and says “when I wear it, people call me Princess.” She is really cute anyway, but even more adorable with her crown.
We did do some freezing cold swimming with the youngers. It is amazing how little cold water hinders the swimming experience of kids.
The older girls (including Abby) have enjoyed the teen club. It has video games, cards, board games and other activities.
I realize this trip I (probably to a fault) view boys as dangerous predators. We were in the hot tub and a teenage boy got in with us. I looked at him like he didn’t belong. Turns out that he plays hockey and seems like a pretty nice kids, but still, I don’t want him around us. I like boys aged 12 and under. After that, they seem dangerous. It will be one very hard adjustment when I start having to share my girls with another male.
Overall, the day was great. We had great meals and way too much food. The more you are on the ship, the more food options you find. I just found out they have a cheeseburger bar and wings. If I did this cruise again, believe it or not, I would eat even worse. Now I know everything they have and where it is.
Marilyn and I got a nice hour or two to just hang. It is nice and refreshing to get a little time by ourselves. After twenty years, I enjoy hanging out with Marilyn as much as ever. She is more fun and more beautiful than she has ever been.
Matthew provided some entertainment as usual. His Aunt Kelly asked him if he washed his hair. He said “kind of… I did take a shower.” Then, Kelly smelled his head and started laughing hard. His hair smells like mildew. I don’t know how long it has been since he washed his hair. He showers, but skips the washing the hair part. Now, Marilyn is on it and washing hair will become a more regular gig for Matthew.
Matthew spends a lot of his time on the ship playing basketball. He loves having the freedom to just go upstairs and shoot around by himself and with other boys. Harper, his cousin, like playing basketball as well.
Rachel loves the cruise. She made a crown with fake rubies on it in the kids’ area and now wears it around. She loves it and says “when I wear it, people call me Princess.” She is really cute anyway, but even more adorable with her crown.
We did do some freezing cold swimming with the youngers. It is amazing how little cold water hinders the swimming experience of kids.
The older girls (including Abby) have enjoyed the teen club. It has video games, cards, board games and other activities.
I realize this trip I (probably to a fault) view boys as dangerous predators. We were in the hot tub and a teenage boy got in with us. I looked at him like he didn’t belong. Turns out that he plays hockey and seems like a pretty nice kids, but still, I don’t want him around us. I like boys aged 12 and under. After that, they seem dangerous. It will be one very hard adjustment when I start having to share my girls with another male.
Overall, the day was great. We had great meals and way too much food. The more you are on the ship, the more food options you find. I just found out they have a cheeseburger bar and wings. If I did this cruise again, believe it or not, I would eat even worse. Now I know everything they have and where it is.
Marilyn and I got a nice hour or two to just hang. It is nice and refreshing to get a little time by ourselves. After twenty years, I enjoy hanging out with Marilyn as much as ever. She is more fun and more beautiful than she has ever been.
june 9, 2016
Skagway day. We docked at Skagway, Alaska for the day. Everyone (except us) went on the train tour. With seven of us, everything gets crazy expensive. If we were to do the tour, it’d been almost a thousand dollars.
I opted to try to negotiate a deal on a bus tour. My first quote was $289. I priced rental cars and other options and finally got Klondike company to come down off their price to fifty bucks less than the price of a rental car.
Turns out, it was a great move. The tour was awesome. It was three hours, with ten stops at overlooks and a ton of information. We learned about the gold rush, the area and tons of stories.
Marilyn and I loved it. The kids don’t like tours and were a bit crabby. After the tour, Rachel told me “I didn’t listen to the guy at all. I don’t like tours. Do you know that?” Madeline fell asleep. Kate stayed on the bus for many of the stops and Abby complained most of the day. Matthew was still Matthew. He ate the whole deal up and ran around like he just didn’t care.
The views were amazing and the information was fascinating. We saw trees that don’t grow over three feet to protect themselves from the elements. A three foot tree that is 350 years old is kind of weird. Our guide was an older man from Canada who is an avid naturalist and loves talking about the area. It really turned out well.
I sometimes forget how great our kiddos are. Today wasn’t their best day, but a guy on the bus came up to me and said “your kids sure make you look good. It is awesome to see a family function so well.” It was a great reminder to thank God for such amazing kiddos!!!!
After the tour, we ate lunch, took an hour break and got back off the ship. Rachel wanted to go shopping and buy something for Abby. The girls had to do a timed mile. Rachel loved shopping and found her sister a cool gift. She was excited about it until she found out it took her money down to $10. Rachel loves to shop, Bug doesn’t shop at all. Rachel even went to Kate and said “I am almost out of money and you don’t like to spend money. Can I just spend your money?”
Plus, Rachel went to Granna and said “I am almost out my money.” Granna didn’t bite at the hint… .thankfully. I did have a ton of fun walking around Skagway with Rachel. The girls were disappointed with their times but were faithful to their coach’s instruction.
Skagway is a 100 percent tourist attraction. Everything is geared toward the tourist. The cruise industry is what keeps the town alive. They said only about 800 people live there when the cruise season is off.
After the Skagway deal, we got on the boat, ate another dinner as a family and went to a show. It was a lot of music and dancing. Rachel loved it. Matthew hated it. It wasn’t great and it wasn’t bad. Rachel just loves music and dancing.
I opted to try to negotiate a deal on a bus tour. My first quote was $289. I priced rental cars and other options and finally got Klondike company to come down off their price to fifty bucks less than the price of a rental car.
Turns out, it was a great move. The tour was awesome. It was three hours, with ten stops at overlooks and a ton of information. We learned about the gold rush, the area and tons of stories.
Marilyn and I loved it. The kids don’t like tours and were a bit crabby. After the tour, Rachel told me “I didn’t listen to the guy at all. I don’t like tours. Do you know that?” Madeline fell asleep. Kate stayed on the bus for many of the stops and Abby complained most of the day. Matthew was still Matthew. He ate the whole deal up and ran around like he just didn’t care.
The views were amazing and the information was fascinating. We saw trees that don’t grow over three feet to protect themselves from the elements. A three foot tree that is 350 years old is kind of weird. Our guide was an older man from Canada who is an avid naturalist and loves talking about the area. It really turned out well.
I sometimes forget how great our kiddos are. Today wasn’t their best day, but a guy on the bus came up to me and said “your kids sure make you look good. It is awesome to see a family function so well.” It was a great reminder to thank God for such amazing kiddos!!!!
After the tour, we ate lunch, took an hour break and got back off the ship. Rachel wanted to go shopping and buy something for Abby. The girls had to do a timed mile. Rachel loved shopping and found her sister a cool gift. She was excited about it until she found out it took her money down to $10. Rachel loves to shop, Bug doesn’t shop at all. Rachel even went to Kate and said “I am almost out of money and you don’t like to spend money. Can I just spend your money?”
Plus, Rachel went to Granna and said “I am almost out my money.” Granna didn’t bite at the hint… .thankfully. I did have a ton of fun walking around Skagway with Rachel. The girls were disappointed with their times but were faithful to their coach’s instruction.
Skagway is a 100 percent tourist attraction. Everything is geared toward the tourist. The cruise industry is what keeps the town alive. They said only about 800 people live there when the cruise season is off.
After the Skagway deal, we got on the boat, ate another dinner as a family and went to a show. It was a lot of music and dancing. Rachel loved it. Matthew hated it. It wasn’t great and it wasn’t bad. Rachel just loves music and dancing.
june 8, 2016
The day started very early with us getting up at 5:30 a.m. to look at a glacier from the boat. The views of the mountains, the ice chunks in the water and the glacier were amazing. The kiddos aren’t too impressed with scenic views. They got up, looked around for three minutes and went back to bed.
After the scenic views, we stopped at the capital of Alaska (Juneau) and booked a bus tour of the city and a ride to the Mendenhall glacier. The tour was interesting. We had a very knowledgeable and monotone guide. The adults liked it pretty well. The kids were pretty painfully bored. It is painful to pay $27 for Rachel to sleep on a bus for two hours, but oh well. Even good deals aren’t good deals with seven.
The glacier was pretty cool, but not overwhelming. It gets smaller every year and by 2050 will no longer exist. The kids did have fun, Munch got her junior ranger badge and another souvenir coin.
After the glacier deal, we got ready and went for an hour run. We ran across the bridge onto Douglas Island and had a great time with Emily. It was fun running with the girls in Alaska. After the run, we went in and ate yet another buffet. There is no better place to gain weight than a cruise. Every where you turn, there is food.
Matthew is in heaven. His favorite restaurant is Golden Corral. This cruise boat is like a 19 story Golden Corral that is never closed. He eats and eats and eats. He absolute loves it and is making the most of it. It is almost gross watching him eat deserts.
There are four teenage girls sharing a small state room. You can imagine what it looks like – a dump. Marilyn has futilely tried to get them to keep it straight, but it looks even worse that their room does at home.
It has been a blast spending time with the family. I have really enjoyed hanging out with Emily and Harper.
After the scenic views, we stopped at the capital of Alaska (Juneau) and booked a bus tour of the city and a ride to the Mendenhall glacier. The tour was interesting. We had a very knowledgeable and monotone guide. The adults liked it pretty well. The kids were pretty painfully bored. It is painful to pay $27 for Rachel to sleep on a bus for two hours, but oh well. Even good deals aren’t good deals with seven.
The glacier was pretty cool, but not overwhelming. It gets smaller every year and by 2050 will no longer exist. The kids did have fun, Munch got her junior ranger badge and another souvenir coin.
After the glacier deal, we got ready and went for an hour run. We ran across the bridge onto Douglas Island and had a great time with Emily. It was fun running with the girls in Alaska. After the run, we went in and ate yet another buffet. There is no better place to gain weight than a cruise. Every where you turn, there is food.
Matthew is in heaven. His favorite restaurant is Golden Corral. This cruise boat is like a 19 story Golden Corral that is never closed. He eats and eats and eats. He absolute loves it and is making the most of it. It is almost gross watching him eat deserts.
There are four teenage girls sharing a small state room. You can imagine what it looks like – a dump. Marilyn has futilely tried to get them to keep it straight, but it looks even worse that their room does at home.
It has been a blast spending time with the family. I have really enjoyed hanging out with Emily and Harper.
june 7, 2016
We pulled into Ketchican, Alaska early in the morning. Matthew was dying to fish, but it is SO expensive. Finally, I negotiated a rate that was too high but less than the other charters and we went fishing for King Salmon. King Salmon are large fish with a small one weighing about 10 pounds.
We trolled and trolled and trolled. Although Ketchican is the salmon capital (so they say), we left the salmon population unaffected. Although a small is supposed to be 10 pounds, we caught one fish that only weighed one pound. Then, Matthew reeled in one small cod before we left.
It wouldn’t have been so painful if we hadn’t seen another boat come in with huge salmon and a massive halibut. Matthew had a blast and wore the captain out with questions. “What is the biggest fish you ever caught? What is the smallest fish you ever caught? What is the most fish you have ever caught….” On and on. At one point, Matthew asked the captain about the biggest halibut he ever caught. He said “the same size as the one I told you an hour ago.” Matthew said “oops. I already asked that question.”
Matthew is great to take fishing. He is so happy and fun. He had a blast despite us striking out on catching a big fish. We did see eagles and beautiful terrain. We saw an eagle swim while dragging a huge fish. If an eagle snags a fish too big to fly with, the eagle will use his wings to paddle himself to shore and eat the fish. It was really cool to see.
We didn’t miss a whole lot in Ketchican as it is pretty much a huge tourist shopping area. Everyone did have fun, but Marilyn prefers scenery to shopping.
On the way back from fishing, Matthew was so tired that he fell asleep sitting up with the boat bouncing his head up and down.
At night, we enjoyed a comedy show. The guy was actually really good and picked Matthew and I out of the crowd to pick on. He asked Matthew was he was going to be when he grew up. Without hesitation, Matthew yelled out “An NBA player.” Matthew is still obsessed with basketball and the NBA. He was playing hoops on the top deck and told me “I met another NBA guy.” He was referring to another kid who loved the NBA like he did.
Despite the dry fishing trip, it was a great day. It is all about perspective. I could say: I went fishing in Alaska. We caught a salmon. We saw eagles and it was amazing. Or I could say: We paid too much, didn’t catch much and came home tired. Both true, but one with a more positive spin.
We trolled and trolled and trolled. Although Ketchican is the salmon capital (so they say), we left the salmon population unaffected. Although a small is supposed to be 10 pounds, we caught one fish that only weighed one pound. Then, Matthew reeled in one small cod before we left.
It wouldn’t have been so painful if we hadn’t seen another boat come in with huge salmon and a massive halibut. Matthew had a blast and wore the captain out with questions. “What is the biggest fish you ever caught? What is the smallest fish you ever caught? What is the most fish you have ever caught….” On and on. At one point, Matthew asked the captain about the biggest halibut he ever caught. He said “the same size as the one I told you an hour ago.” Matthew said “oops. I already asked that question.”
Matthew is great to take fishing. He is so happy and fun. He had a blast despite us striking out on catching a big fish. We did see eagles and beautiful terrain. We saw an eagle swim while dragging a huge fish. If an eagle snags a fish too big to fly with, the eagle will use his wings to paddle himself to shore and eat the fish. It was really cool to see.
We didn’t miss a whole lot in Ketchican as it is pretty much a huge tourist shopping area. Everyone did have fun, but Marilyn prefers scenery to shopping.
On the way back from fishing, Matthew was so tired that he fell asleep sitting up with the boat bouncing his head up and down.
At night, we enjoyed a comedy show. The guy was actually really good and picked Matthew and I out of the crowd to pick on. He asked Matthew was he was going to be when he grew up. Without hesitation, Matthew yelled out “An NBA player.” Matthew is still obsessed with basketball and the NBA. He was playing hoops on the top deck and told me “I met another NBA guy.” He was referring to another kid who loved the NBA like he did.
Despite the dry fishing trip, it was a great day. It is all about perspective. I could say: I went fishing in Alaska. We caught a salmon. We saw eagles and it was amazing. Or I could say: We paid too much, didn’t catch much and came home tired. Both true, but one with a more positive spin.
june 6, 2016
Today was a sea day driving north toward Alaska. The ship is absolutely huge and amazing. It has nineteen stories and tons of restaurants, shops and theatres.
We had a great time visiting with family, going for a run in the workout room and eating and eating. One of Matthew’s favorite parts of the entire cruise is the luxury of hitting the late night buffet. He declared it a nightly ritual. He said “every night a 10:30 we need to do the buffet.”
The weather was sunny but cold. We decided to brave the elements and try to swim in every pool on the ship. The kids said the water was warm. I totally disagreed. I swam, but was miserable in the water. The hot tub is where I parked most of the time.
There is a cool teen area with video games and all kinds of fun stuff. I really don’t like them going, as it is a coed teen area. I am learning I have amazing teenagers with great discretion. However, I still don’t like dropping them off with a bunch of teenage guys looking at them.
It is almost impossible to use discretion eating on this boat. There are buffets everywhere of all types. Ice cream, pizza, burgers, general foods and deserts. This is a great place to gain weight.
Matthew embarrassed Marilyn today. He saw a really big woman getting a huge plate of deserts. He grabbed my cell phone and went and took a picture of her and started showing everyone in the family the picture.
Overall, today was a fun day with family. Plus, Granna gave Marilyn and I an hour or two to just hang out. We have four single beds (two on the floor and two bunks) in our room with Rachel and Matthew in it.
The kids love the freedom to run around on the ship without an adult. It is nice, but a bit unsettling.
We had a great time visiting with family, going for a run in the workout room and eating and eating. One of Matthew’s favorite parts of the entire cruise is the luxury of hitting the late night buffet. He declared it a nightly ritual. He said “every night a 10:30 we need to do the buffet.”
The weather was sunny but cold. We decided to brave the elements and try to swim in every pool on the ship. The kids said the water was warm. I totally disagreed. I swam, but was miserable in the water. The hot tub is where I parked most of the time.
There is a cool teen area with video games and all kinds of fun stuff. I really don’t like them going, as it is a coed teen area. I am learning I have amazing teenagers with great discretion. However, I still don’t like dropping them off with a bunch of teenage guys looking at them.
It is almost impossible to use discretion eating on this boat. There are buffets everywhere of all types. Ice cream, pizza, burgers, general foods and deserts. This is a great place to gain weight.
Matthew embarrassed Marilyn today. He saw a really big woman getting a huge plate of deserts. He grabbed my cell phone and went and took a picture of her and started showing everyone in the family the picture.
Overall, today was a fun day with family. Plus, Granna gave Marilyn and I an hour or two to just hang out. We have four single beds (two on the floor and two bunks) in our room with Rachel and Matthew in it.
The kids love the freedom to run around on the ship without an adult. It is nice, but a bit unsettling.
june 5, 2016
It is hard to believe our time in Seattle has come to a close. The Kneifels and so many others have been so awesome. Juergen and Kathy are amazingly generous and thoughtful. Juergen even drove us to the cruise and saved us parking cost and offered to pick us up when it was over.
We went to church at Calvary Fellowship and said our goodbyes to great friends. It was a very sad morning. We had many tears among our girls and McKennna. They could hardly enjoy their last morning together as they were so sad to be leaving one another.
After a great time at church, we went to lunch with the Kneifels and their friends and then Juegen took us to the cruise boat.
The boat is overwhelmingly large. Cruise boats are big, but this boat is one of the big cruise boats. It was fun and exciting to get on the boat with the kids and see Granna, Pa, Doug, Kelly, Emily, Harper, Barry and Laura. We have a great time catching up.
We started the cruise with a treadmill run. It is weird going up and down on the sea while on a treadmill, but you get used to it pretty quickly. Overall, the water has been pretty smooth and we haven’t had any real problems with sea sickness. We did have to invest in a little Dramamine but everyone is fine.
After we took off around 4:30, we went to dinner as a family in the dining room. The food and service is great on the ship. Plus, it is nice all getting together for meals every day. It isn’t often that we all get together.
It is nice not having cell phone service or internet. It is much easier to connect with each other when you aren’t busy trying to connect with everyone else. I want to make a strong effort to “disconnect to connect” when I get home.
It is hard to believe we’ll be home in a little over three weeks. This seems like a short time and a long time. We have been gone over five months, but compared to the past, three weeks away is still a long time.
The trip has been amazing. We are closer to one another than we were when we left. Our family and seeing the country together has been an amazing experience. I just pray our van makes the last leg of this trip without breaking down.
We thank God for this amazing opportunity, but long to be home with our friends, family and church.
We went to church at Calvary Fellowship and said our goodbyes to great friends. It was a very sad morning. We had many tears among our girls and McKennna. They could hardly enjoy their last morning together as they were so sad to be leaving one another.
After a great time at church, we went to lunch with the Kneifels and their friends and then Juegen took us to the cruise boat.
The boat is overwhelmingly large. Cruise boats are big, but this boat is one of the big cruise boats. It was fun and exciting to get on the boat with the kids and see Granna, Pa, Doug, Kelly, Emily, Harper, Barry and Laura. We have a great time catching up.
We started the cruise with a treadmill run. It is weird going up and down on the sea while on a treadmill, but you get used to it pretty quickly. Overall, the water has been pretty smooth and we haven’t had any real problems with sea sickness. We did have to invest in a little Dramamine but everyone is fine.
After we took off around 4:30, we went to dinner as a family in the dining room. The food and service is great on the ship. Plus, it is nice all getting together for meals every day. It isn’t often that we all get together.
It is nice not having cell phone service or internet. It is much easier to connect with each other when you aren’t busy trying to connect with everyone else. I want to make a strong effort to “disconnect to connect” when I get home.
It is hard to believe we’ll be home in a little over three weeks. This seems like a short time and a long time. We have been gone over five months, but compared to the past, three weeks away is still a long time.
The trip has been amazing. We are closer to one another than we were when we left. Our family and seeing the country together has been an amazing experience. I just pray our van makes the last leg of this trip without breaking down.
We thank God for this amazing opportunity, but long to be home with our friends, family and church.
june 4, 2016
Kate Bradley and Madeline spent the night on a trampoline at McKenna’s house. I asked them if they now had a little bounce in their step.
I woke up and started packing while Marilyn took Abby to downtown Seattle to see the Space Needle and an art museum.
It was a great day. Marilyn had an awesome day with Abby while I had a productive day packing things up. Marilyn had already worked hard and given us a huge head start in getting everything ready.
Marilyn said the blown glass art museum was amazing. Plus, they enjoyed the views from the Space Needle. They even ran into Uncle Barry and Aunt Laura in Seattle.
When Marilyn got back, we got ready and went to dinner with good friends from Seattle. The food and fellowship was amazing. We are so thankful to God for the many friendships He has granted us in the Seattle area.
It has been very special getting to know the Sinclairs and Coffee family so well. The more we get to know them, the more impressed we are and the more thankful we are to call them friends.
I pray it works for Grace Marriage to come back to Seattle and start the marriage coaching program in this area. I pray God uses Calvary Fellowship Northwest to launch a major marriage wellness initiative in the Seattle area. That would be awesome and a great excuse to come back and see our friends in the Northwest.
After dinner, we came home and scrambled to get everything ready to leave in the morning. It is a challenge to leave a place after getting settled in for four weeks. We have become very accustomed to packing and moving. It’ll be nice getting home and actually having a home. Rachel is funny. Sometimes she’ll just randomly ask “are we leaving today?” She sometimes has no idea if we are coming or going.
Seattle has been awesome: Seeing friends, the marriage retreat, Mount Ranier, the Olympic Mountain Range, Whidby Island, Deception Pass, two Mariners games, a Sounders game, downtown Seattle, the water fall, Vancouver, Butchart Gardens…. Wow! What an amazing visit in an amazing area with amazing people!!!!!
I woke up and started packing while Marilyn took Abby to downtown Seattle to see the Space Needle and an art museum.
It was a great day. Marilyn had an awesome day with Abby while I had a productive day packing things up. Marilyn had already worked hard and given us a huge head start in getting everything ready.
Marilyn said the blown glass art museum was amazing. Plus, they enjoyed the views from the Space Needle. They even ran into Uncle Barry and Aunt Laura in Seattle.
When Marilyn got back, we got ready and went to dinner with good friends from Seattle. The food and fellowship was amazing. We are so thankful to God for the many friendships He has granted us in the Seattle area.
It has been very special getting to know the Sinclairs and Coffee family so well. The more we get to know them, the more impressed we are and the more thankful we are to call them friends.
I pray it works for Grace Marriage to come back to Seattle and start the marriage coaching program in this area. I pray God uses Calvary Fellowship Northwest to launch a major marriage wellness initiative in the Seattle area. That would be awesome and a great excuse to come back and see our friends in the Northwest.
After dinner, we came home and scrambled to get everything ready to leave in the morning. It is a challenge to leave a place after getting settled in for four weeks. We have become very accustomed to packing and moving. It’ll be nice getting home and actually having a home. Rachel is funny. Sometimes she’ll just randomly ask “are we leaving today?” She sometimes has no idea if we are coming or going.
Seattle has been awesome: Seeing friends, the marriage retreat, Mount Ranier, the Olympic Mountain Range, Whidby Island, Deception Pass, two Mariners games, a Sounders game, downtown Seattle, the water fall, Vancouver, Butchart Gardens…. Wow! What an amazing visit in an amazing area with amazing people!!!!!
june 3, 2016
Madeline is 17. Crazy. Her birthday started off with the traditional M and M pancakes, singing and candles. At Madeline’s request, we bagged baking a cake and got her a cookie cake. Plus, Madeline loves ice cream.
After we ate lunch and cookie cake, Marilyn took off shopping with Marilyn. They had a blast. Madeline loves to shop and Marilyn loves being with Madeline. They had a great time and Madeline came home beaming.
On the home front, I worked on personal stuff all day. I had the great joy of spending two hours on the phone with our insurance company and a medical billing service. There is nothing I know of that makes less sense than our medical billing/insurance system. The reps don’t have any idea and give me conflicting information. One rep told me the health provider had to help. The other told me it was the insurance company. I got frustrated, but finally got a twenty-five percent discount.
When Madeline got home, I took her to McKenna’s house. McKenna surprised her and took her and Bug to downtown Seattle.They rode the Big Wheel, went to Pike Place Market, went to the gum wall, and hung around down town. Then, they spent the night at McKenna’s house on her trampoline. It was an awesome birthday for Madeline. Plus, she got tons of calls, e-mails and Instagram shout-outs throughout the day. Madeline was very happy and beaming.
The kids have been very generous with each other on birthdays. Matthew gave Madeline $30 to shop. Madeline was excited and tried to hug him, but he took off running and said “no way.”
At home, I grilled pork chops and we hung with the Kneifels. We ate ice cream and had a great time hanging out.
After we ate lunch and cookie cake, Marilyn took off shopping with Marilyn. They had a blast. Madeline loves to shop and Marilyn loves being with Madeline. They had a great time and Madeline came home beaming.
On the home front, I worked on personal stuff all day. I had the great joy of spending two hours on the phone with our insurance company and a medical billing service. There is nothing I know of that makes less sense than our medical billing/insurance system. The reps don’t have any idea and give me conflicting information. One rep told me the health provider had to help. The other told me it was the insurance company. I got frustrated, but finally got a twenty-five percent discount.
When Madeline got home, I took her to McKenna’s house. McKenna surprised her and took her and Bug to downtown Seattle.They rode the Big Wheel, went to Pike Place Market, went to the gum wall, and hung around down town. Then, they spent the night at McKenna’s house on her trampoline. It was an awesome birthday for Madeline. Plus, she got tons of calls, e-mails and Instagram shout-outs throughout the day. Madeline was very happy and beaming.
The kids have been very generous with each other on birthdays. Matthew gave Madeline $30 to shop. Madeline was excited and tried to hug him, but he took off running and said “no way.”
At home, I grilled pork chops and we hung with the Kneifels. We ate ice cream and had a great time hanging out.
june 2, 2016
As we drove up last night, Bug asked “can tomorrow be a chill day?” Well, it was a chill day for the kids. Marilyn and I had a ton of work to do. Today involved a ton of catch up work. Pick up medications, return calls, send some e-mails, have the van looked over (including brakes), get some stuff for Madeline’s birthday tomorrow and go to the doctor with Marilyn for her to be x-rayed.
Marilyn got some good news at the doctor’s office. Despite her foot still hurting, it is healing ahead of schedule and the doctor was pleased with the x-ray and ultrasound. I grimaced when he pulled that ultrasound out, knowing we are pretty much self-pay. I did get the receptionist to come down some off the price and we came out OK. Her broken foot turned out to be about 1/7ths of the cost of my needle in the foot incident.
After the doctor’s appointment, we came back, grilled pork chops and ate dinner. Then, we had the privilege of hanging out with Debbie, Terry and Briella Smith – friends from the Nicaragua mission trip.
The kids had a great day hanging around the house – coloring, playing basketball, playing and hanging out. They do great together at the house.
It is hard to believe we will only be in Seattle three more days and will be home in four weeks. The trip has been long, but has flown by.
We are doing well, but after five straight days of camping/Canada, we are pretty tired.
Marilyn got some good news at the doctor’s office. Despite her foot still hurting, it is healing ahead of schedule and the doctor was pleased with the x-ray and ultrasound. I grimaced when he pulled that ultrasound out, knowing we are pretty much self-pay. I did get the receptionist to come down some off the price and we came out OK. Her broken foot turned out to be about 1/7ths of the cost of my needle in the foot incident.
After the doctor’s appointment, we came back, grilled pork chops and ate dinner. Then, we had the privilege of hanging out with Debbie, Terry and Briella Smith – friends from the Nicaragua mission trip.
The kids had a great day hanging around the house – coloring, playing basketball, playing and hanging out. They do great together at the house.
It is hard to believe we will only be in Seattle three more days and will be home in four weeks. The trip has been long, but has flown by.
We are doing well, but after five straight days of camping/Canada, we are pretty tired.
june 1, 2016
I got up real early (5:00 a.m.) and took Marilyn and Rachel to the ferry to go to Butchart Gardens. Traffic wasn’t bad that early and we made it fine. Marilyn got on the 7:00 a.m. ferry with Rachel. I hung out in one room until Yabbers woke up at 8:30 a.m. I got some journaling done and enjoyed having coffee. At 9:00 we all got up and got ready for a day in Canada. I offered the kiddos to plan the day. They chose: go to a running store, eat breakfast, go to the suspension bridge and, if possible, zip line on Grouse Mountain.
I was impressed. They picked a pretty tourist-friendly day. I thought they might just want to hang out at the indoor pool. Well, the day went awesome. The kids learned a lot about Canada and we had a blast together.
The Suspension Bridge (listed as one of the top things to do in Vancouver) was cool and included a tree top adventure and a cliff walk. Matthew was fascinated by Canadian money and wants to bring some back as a souvenir. He told one worker “your money looks like Monopoly money.” The worker responded “it is like Monopoly money.” He was referring to the fact that one Canadian dollar is only worth about 75 cents in America.
After the Suspension Bridge, we went to Grouse Mountain. We decided to pull the trigger on zip lining. The ride to the top of the mountain and the zip lining was amazing. It was warm at the bottom of the mountain and I told the kids they didn’t need coats. By the time we reached the top, it was raining and about 40 degrees, with some snow on the ground. The kids gave me a hard time as they were FREEZING going 50 mph on a zip line in freezing weather.
I had never zip-lined. I am not huge on heights and I concealed my fears as I was pushed out on a wire dangling about 400 feet in the air. I know it is safe, but it sure didn’t look or feel safe. Madeline, Bug, Matthew and Abby had a blast. Matthew barely met the weight limit to do it.
One cool thing: We met the skills coach for Damion Lillard and C.J. McCollom. He saw us in our Blazers’ garb, including Matthew in a Lillard jersey. He told us about him coaching them.
The zip-lining was amazing with amazing views. Our views were pretty limited because of the weather, but it was still awesome.
After zip-lining, we drove off to pick Marilyn up at the ferry stop. The traffic was TERRIBLE. It took us 2 hours and fifteen minutes to make a 45-minute drive. Then, after picking Marilyn up, we had another 2 and ½ hours to Seattle. Of course, we had to stop and try to geo-cache in Canada. We found free wi-fi, Bug located a geo-cache and we actually found it and secured our British Columbia badge.
We had some bad pizza and headed back to the states. We entertained the border patrol officer with our van and our story and came on back to Seattle. We were both crazy tired when we got back.
Marilyn had a blast with Rachel at Butchart Gardens. Rachel is obsessed with flowers. She told me she saw “200 million flowers.” Marilyn said it was really cool seeing a hundred and fifty acres of amazing landscape and flowers.
I was impressed. They picked a pretty tourist-friendly day. I thought they might just want to hang out at the indoor pool. Well, the day went awesome. The kids learned a lot about Canada and we had a blast together.
The Suspension Bridge (listed as one of the top things to do in Vancouver) was cool and included a tree top adventure and a cliff walk. Matthew was fascinated by Canadian money and wants to bring some back as a souvenir. He told one worker “your money looks like Monopoly money.” The worker responded “it is like Monopoly money.” He was referring to the fact that one Canadian dollar is only worth about 75 cents in America.
After the Suspension Bridge, we went to Grouse Mountain. We decided to pull the trigger on zip lining. The ride to the top of the mountain and the zip lining was amazing. It was warm at the bottom of the mountain and I told the kids they didn’t need coats. By the time we reached the top, it was raining and about 40 degrees, with some snow on the ground. The kids gave me a hard time as they were FREEZING going 50 mph on a zip line in freezing weather.
I had never zip-lined. I am not huge on heights and I concealed my fears as I was pushed out on a wire dangling about 400 feet in the air. I know it is safe, but it sure didn’t look or feel safe. Madeline, Bug, Matthew and Abby had a blast. Matthew barely met the weight limit to do it.
One cool thing: We met the skills coach for Damion Lillard and C.J. McCollom. He saw us in our Blazers’ garb, including Matthew in a Lillard jersey. He told us about him coaching them.
The zip-lining was amazing with amazing views. Our views were pretty limited because of the weather, but it was still awesome.
After zip-lining, we drove off to pick Marilyn up at the ferry stop. The traffic was TERRIBLE. It took us 2 hours and fifteen minutes to make a 45-minute drive. Then, after picking Marilyn up, we had another 2 and ½ hours to Seattle. Of course, we had to stop and try to geo-cache in Canada. We found free wi-fi, Bug located a geo-cache and we actually found it and secured our British Columbia badge.
We had some bad pizza and headed back to the states. We entertained the border patrol officer with our van and our story and came on back to Seattle. We were both crazy tired when we got back.
Marilyn had a blast with Rachel at Butchart Gardens. Rachel is obsessed with flowers. She told me she saw “200 million flowers.” Marilyn said it was really cool seeing a hundred and fifty acres of amazing landscape and flowers.
may 31, 2016
We decided to make a quick turnaround, pack up and go to Canada. It was a bit of a hectic morning washing clothes, eating breakfast, paying bills, making a few phone calls, finding a place to stay and getting out the door to Canada, but we made it. We tried to leave early enough to avoid rush hour traffic in Vancouver. The drive wasn’t too bad – about 3 hours, including the border stop to have our passports checked. The kiddos were in pretty good spirits in the car and listened to music in the car most of the way.
We got to Canada, stopped to take a picture of the “Welcome to Canada” sign and headed on to Vancouver. As we were walking to the car from the “sign stop”, Abby randomly decided she wanted to beat Bug to the car and pushed her into a sign scraping her stomach. We had a talk with Abby on being careful and she responded “I have only accidentally hurt five people in six months. That isn’t bad, is it?” Abbers isn’t the best at thinking before acting.
You really appreciate your cell phone MAPS when you can’t use it anymore. We put our cellphones on airplane mode to avoid international rates and tried to get to our hotel with a screenshot of the directions.
We made it OK, but our ride in included some detours and u-turns. Canada (and Seattle) make you nervous because they have signs that say “traffic laws enforced by camera.” I am still concerned I’ll get home to several hundred dollars in tickets.
We found the hotel and I went for a run with Madeline and Bug in Stanley Park. Stanley Park is a large well-known park in Vancouver. It has a very long “sea walk” and we ran along the water. I really didn’t want to run, as the trail runs in Orcas have my back at the point of going out. However, it seemed like a shame for the girls to run on a treadmill when cool scenery was right out the back door of our hotel. I ran slow, made it and now my back (and neck) are pretty stiff. Note to self: Don’t try to keep up with Madeline and Bug running up and down hills on rough trail terrain.
We asked the kids what they thought of when they think of Canada. Abby quickly responded “bacon.” Matthew mentioned Steve Nash and the other kids didn’t have too much to offer.
While we ran, Abbers, Matthew and Rachel swam while Marilyn read. The outdoor pool was heated and nice. Initial observations of Canada: You have to think constantly converting currency and thinking in kilometers, meters, liters and Celsius.
Then, we showered, did a little touring (driving around Stanley Park, across the bridge and into the downtown district), ate dinner at a burger place and had some donuts for dessert. Madeline, our Nutella fan, was psyched to find a Nutella filled croissant.
After dinner, I hung with Marilyn in the hotel for a bit. Then, I took the kiddos to the hot tub before bed. Marilyn and Rachel tried to get to bed kind of early, as we have to get up at 5:00 a.m. to get Marilyn and Rachel to the ferry for Butchart Gardens.
We got to Canada, stopped to take a picture of the “Welcome to Canada” sign and headed on to Vancouver. As we were walking to the car from the “sign stop”, Abby randomly decided she wanted to beat Bug to the car and pushed her into a sign scraping her stomach. We had a talk with Abby on being careful and she responded “I have only accidentally hurt five people in six months. That isn’t bad, is it?” Abbers isn’t the best at thinking before acting.
You really appreciate your cell phone MAPS when you can’t use it anymore. We put our cellphones on airplane mode to avoid international rates and tried to get to our hotel with a screenshot of the directions.
We made it OK, but our ride in included some detours and u-turns. Canada (and Seattle) make you nervous because they have signs that say “traffic laws enforced by camera.” I am still concerned I’ll get home to several hundred dollars in tickets.
We found the hotel and I went for a run with Madeline and Bug in Stanley Park. Stanley Park is a large well-known park in Vancouver. It has a very long “sea walk” and we ran along the water. I really didn’t want to run, as the trail runs in Orcas have my back at the point of going out. However, it seemed like a shame for the girls to run on a treadmill when cool scenery was right out the back door of our hotel. I ran slow, made it and now my back (and neck) are pretty stiff. Note to self: Don’t try to keep up with Madeline and Bug running up and down hills on rough trail terrain.
We asked the kids what they thought of when they think of Canada. Abby quickly responded “bacon.” Matthew mentioned Steve Nash and the other kids didn’t have too much to offer.
While we ran, Abbers, Matthew and Rachel swam while Marilyn read. The outdoor pool was heated and nice. Initial observations of Canada: You have to think constantly converting currency and thinking in kilometers, meters, liters and Celsius.
Then, we showered, did a little touring (driving around Stanley Park, across the bridge and into the downtown district), ate dinner at a burger place and had some donuts for dessert. Madeline, our Nutella fan, was psyched to find a Nutella filled croissant.
After dinner, I hung with Marilyn in the hotel for a bit. Then, I took the kiddos to the hot tub before bed. Marilyn and Rachel tried to get to bed kind of early, as we have to get up at 5:00 a.m. to get Marilyn and Rachel to the ferry for Butchart Gardens.
may 30, 2016
The day started early hearing the most amazing snore I have ever heard. There was a guy in a tent about 100 yards from our campsite whose snore sounded between a boat horn and a huge bull frog. It was loud and consistent. No snore sound has ever traveled so well. We got up and made pancakes and link sausage on a cook stove. Brett is an amazing camper and had everything we needed. We just brought the food. Everyone liked breakfast and then hung by the fire a bit before we started packing up to leave.
Packing actually went pretty smoothly. The kids were great in helping break everything down. Matthew and Trevor became quick buddies and took two tents down by themselves. Trevor is a great young man. He is happy, excitable, talkative, respectful, helpful and shows great initiative. Plus, he likes to talk and this worked great for he and Matthew’s relationship.
After we got everything packed, we went to the lake area. Some of the kids played while me, Brett, Abby, Bug and Madeline went for a run. I said “we need to let the slowest lead so they don’t get too far behind.” So, for the first lap (2.5 miles), Abby led. When Abby stopped, I made the mistake of telling Madeline to lead. She took offense thinking I was implying I was faster than her. So, she took the lead and ran much faster the next 2.5 miles. I made it, but was miserable. After the run, she told Marilyn “did you hear about me torturing dad.”
Then, we had a picnic by the lake and headed up Mount Constitution again. This time, we stopped and did some short hikes to waterfalls. A few of them were short enough that “broken foot Marilyn” could make it. Other than Matthew falling and scraping some skin off his lower back on a rock, everything went well. Plus, Rachel used her new walking stick and Brett called her Moses. She loved it and started calling herself “Moses.” She said she was “leading her people.” Rachel loves to ham it up, get attention and get other people to laugh.
After the short hikes, we drove up Mount Constitution, as it was a clear day and you could see Mount Baker, the San Juan Islands and tons of other stuff from the summit. The view was amazing.
Then, it was time to head to the ferry to get back to Seattle. We made it, had ice cream, took the ferry ride, went to Chick Fila and headed home. The ride back was kind of nasty. Our van smelled like something had died in it. It was gross. Turns out: It was Matthew’s feet. He wore the same socks all weekend and he was NASTY. When we ate at Chick FilA Marilyn made him take his shoes and socks off and wipe his feet with the sanitary wipes from the play area. Needless to say, Matthew was one proud boy. I have smelled some bad smells, but Matthew took the cake.
Camping turned out to be awesome. It actually makes me want to camp when I get home. It is a lot of fun (and work). The kids loved it and we had a blast getting closer to the Coffees.
Packing actually went pretty smoothly. The kids were great in helping break everything down. Matthew and Trevor became quick buddies and took two tents down by themselves. Trevor is a great young man. He is happy, excitable, talkative, respectful, helpful and shows great initiative. Plus, he likes to talk and this worked great for he and Matthew’s relationship.
After we got everything packed, we went to the lake area. Some of the kids played while me, Brett, Abby, Bug and Madeline went for a run. I said “we need to let the slowest lead so they don’t get too far behind.” So, for the first lap (2.5 miles), Abby led. When Abby stopped, I made the mistake of telling Madeline to lead. She took offense thinking I was implying I was faster than her. So, she took the lead and ran much faster the next 2.5 miles. I made it, but was miserable. After the run, she told Marilyn “did you hear about me torturing dad.”
Then, we had a picnic by the lake and headed up Mount Constitution again. This time, we stopped and did some short hikes to waterfalls. A few of them were short enough that “broken foot Marilyn” could make it. Other than Matthew falling and scraping some skin off his lower back on a rock, everything went well. Plus, Rachel used her new walking stick and Brett called her Moses. She loved it and started calling herself “Moses.” She said she was “leading her people.” Rachel loves to ham it up, get attention and get other people to laugh.
After the short hikes, we drove up Mount Constitution, as it was a clear day and you could see Mount Baker, the San Juan Islands and tons of other stuff from the summit. The view was amazing.
Then, it was time to head to the ferry to get back to Seattle. We made it, had ice cream, took the ferry ride, went to Chick Fila and headed home. The ride back was kind of nasty. Our van smelled like something had died in it. It was gross. Turns out: It was Matthew’s feet. He wore the same socks all weekend and he was NASTY. When we ate at Chick FilA Marilyn made him take his shoes and socks off and wipe his feet with the sanitary wipes from the play area. Needless to say, Matthew was one proud boy. I have smelled some bad smells, but Matthew took the cake.
Camping turned out to be awesome. It actually makes me want to camp when I get home. It is a lot of fun (and work). The kids loved it and we had a blast getting closer to the Coffees.
may 29, 2016
Good news! We woke up and it had stopped raining. Then, the sun came out and it was an amazing day. All of the tents (except the girls’ tent) stayed dry. There was a leak in one of the tents, but everyone slept okay. Our expert camper friends (the Coffees) had a clothes line and hung up the wet stuff to dry during the day. The Coffees made sausage and egg burritos for breakfast and we sat by a fire and ate in the morning. After breakfast, we loaded up the vans and drove to the top of Mount Constitution with a picnic lunch. The views of the mountains and Puget Sound were amazing.
Marilyn drove to the bottom because of her bum foot. The rest of us hiked five miles back down to our campsite. The hike was great – mixed with overlooks and wooded switchbacks. Rachel made it fine, but was definitely ready to be finished.
After the hike, we decided to take a day off running and go on a boat ride around Lake Moran. We rented two rowboats and a canoe for an hour. I took the youngers (Lanae, Abbers, Matthew and Rachel). They all loved rowing and worked on their rowing ability the entire time. We saw two bald eagles and had amazing views on the lake. The boat gig was great, as Marilyn could do this with her foot.
After boating, we came back to the campsite and started on dinner. Brett had bbq pork, baked potatoes and salad for us. It was great. Then, we had smores and hung by the fire. Chris, Chantelle, Ben and Hannah (friends from Seattle) came to the site and joined us around the fire. I love hanging with our friends from Seattle. They love the Lord and are a ton of fun. Ben whittled a stick with his knife. Rachel loved it and tried to make a stick with a plastic knife. Her efforts were pretty futile, but to Rachel’s delight, Ben left his carved stick. Now, it is in our trailer and destined to make the rest of the trip around the country.
The kids are having a blast. We loved hearing McKenna’s laugh blast out from her tent. The kids love camping and being together. Rachel said her favorite part of camping is “sleeping.” She loves sleeping in a tent. I don’t mind it, but sometimes it gets the best of my back and neck. Running too much on trails and sleeping in a tent has my back and neck in a bit of pain.
It was a smooth and amazing day camping. We love Orcas Island, love the Coffees and are really warming up to the camping idea.
Marilyn drove to the bottom because of her bum foot. The rest of us hiked five miles back down to our campsite. The hike was great – mixed with overlooks and wooded switchbacks. Rachel made it fine, but was definitely ready to be finished.
After the hike, we decided to take a day off running and go on a boat ride around Lake Moran. We rented two rowboats and a canoe for an hour. I took the youngers (Lanae, Abbers, Matthew and Rachel). They all loved rowing and worked on their rowing ability the entire time. We saw two bald eagles and had amazing views on the lake. The boat gig was great, as Marilyn could do this with her foot.
After boating, we came back to the campsite and started on dinner. Brett had bbq pork, baked potatoes and salad for us. It was great. Then, we had smores and hung by the fire. Chris, Chantelle, Ben and Hannah (friends from Seattle) came to the site and joined us around the fire. I love hanging with our friends from Seattle. They love the Lord and are a ton of fun. Ben whittled a stick with his knife. Rachel loved it and tried to make a stick with a plastic knife. Her efforts were pretty futile, but to Rachel’s delight, Ben left his carved stick. Now, it is in our trailer and destined to make the rest of the trip around the country.
The kids are having a blast. We loved hearing McKenna’s laugh blast out from her tent. The kids love camping and being together. Rachel said her favorite part of camping is “sleeping.” She loves sleeping in a tent. I don’t mind it, but sometimes it gets the best of my back and neck. Running too much on trails and sleeping in a tent has my back and neck in a bit of pain.
It was a smooth and amazing day camping. We love Orcas Island, love the Coffees and are really warming up to the camping idea.
may 28, 2016
We got up real early to pack for camping. When you are tired, even when you know it is a bad decision, it is easy to put off too much to the morning before. Our morning looked a little “Home Alon’ish” as everyone scrambled to pack bags, pack coolers and stuff things in our van. We had to fly, as the Coffees were stopping by the house for us to follow them at 7:30 a.m. Plus, we couldn’t be late, as we couldn’t miss our ferry reservation. Camping in the San Juan Islands are a very popular holiday weekend deal and the ferries are packed. We made it to the ferry on time and it was cold, real cold. The temperature was in the low 50’ies with a wind that seemed about 20 mph. The wind made my pull-over seem non-existent. Marilyn, who hates being cold, was quite fearful of the thought of freezing for three days.
We took the ferry and arrived at Oracas Island, an island in the San Juans. It was very beautiful and very cold. We stopped for lunch at Orcas Village, but couldn’t get a table at any restaurant. When our party of twelve, including 8 kids, walked in, the waitresses would look at us and send the obvious “we can’t help you” message. At one restaurant, the hostess told us the wait was one hour. Then, a waitress piped in and said “no, it’ll be more like three hours.”
So, we ended up eating from some food stands at some mini-festival. The food was fine, but the weather was not. It started raining and the wind picked up. I told the Italian Sausage food stand guy from Iowa that the weather was supposed to get better. He said “how can it get worse? It is windy, cold and raining.” Point well taken.
When we got to our campsite, it was still raining. We had two amazing sites at the campsite. The rain slowed and we were able to get all our tents up. Then, it started raining again. We sat and talked by the campfire for a while. Then, I went on a run with Brett, Madeline, McKenna and Bug. I ended up running 7.5 miles on trail terrain with a lot of hills. I was beat. Fortunately, I was in front so I could set the slow pace for all of us.
After the long run, Brett and Rene made us dinner. Brett grilled burgers, hot dogs and corn on the cob. Plus, we had salad and smores (with peanut butter cups ). It was a great dinner and a lot of fun hanging with the Coffees. Plus, we got to see the Finleys and Sinclairs, two young couples who came to the marraige retreat, as they stopped by to say “hi.”
It was a bit of a cold and rainy night. However, Brett brought Marilyn a water bottle full of very hot water to put in her sleeping bag. It is a Boy Scout trick they learned. The hot water bottle warms up your feet and helps keep you warm in your sleeping bag. We slept pretty well and stayed dry.
We went to bed hoping the rain would stop and the temperature would rise.
We took the ferry and arrived at Oracas Island, an island in the San Juans. It was very beautiful and very cold. We stopped for lunch at Orcas Village, but couldn’t get a table at any restaurant. When our party of twelve, including 8 kids, walked in, the waitresses would look at us and send the obvious “we can’t help you” message. At one restaurant, the hostess told us the wait was one hour. Then, a waitress piped in and said “no, it’ll be more like three hours.”
So, we ended up eating from some food stands at some mini-festival. The food was fine, but the weather was not. It started raining and the wind picked up. I told the Italian Sausage food stand guy from Iowa that the weather was supposed to get better. He said “how can it get worse? It is windy, cold and raining.” Point well taken.
When we got to our campsite, it was still raining. We had two amazing sites at the campsite. The rain slowed and we were able to get all our tents up. Then, it started raining again. We sat and talked by the campfire for a while. Then, I went on a run with Brett, Madeline, McKenna and Bug. I ended up running 7.5 miles on trail terrain with a lot of hills. I was beat. Fortunately, I was in front so I could set the slow pace for all of us.
After the long run, Brett and Rene made us dinner. Brett grilled burgers, hot dogs and corn on the cob. Plus, we had salad and smores (with peanut butter cups ). It was a great dinner and a lot of fun hanging with the Coffees. Plus, we got to see the Finleys and Sinclairs, two young couples who came to the marraige retreat, as they stopped by to say “hi.”
It was a bit of a cold and rainy night. However, Brett brought Marilyn a water bottle full of very hot water to put in her sleeping bag. It is a Boy Scout trick they learned. The hot water bottle warms up your feet and helps keep you warm in your sleeping bag. We slept pretty well and stayed dry.
We went to bed hoping the rain would stop and the temperature would rise.
may 27, 2016
After a long day yesterday and knowing we are leaving early tomorrow to go camping, we decided to have a stay at home day and a date night. The day started with me going to breakfast with Craig and Vicki Finley. They are an amazing couple with great ministries. We talked about how we may work together to launch Grace Marriage coaching at Cavalry Fellowship. It appears they have the people and the excitement to have a vibrant marriage ministry.
After i got back, we started packing for our camping trip for the weekend. It is going to be a MAJOR challenge to pack seven sleeping bags, our tent, pillows and all our camping stuff into the van with all our kids.
The kids are having a blast, but will look forward to getting home. As we are drawing close to the end of the trip, the kids have started thinking of home now. It has been great, but getting home to our church, friends and family will be great as well.
Marilyn and I had a nice (and needed) date tonight. We went into the town of Edmonds, had a cool dinner overlooking the water and just hung out for a while. It is so needed to just get away from the fray for a few hours together.
The Kneiffels are amazing hosts. Juergen makes Marilyn decaf every morning. Plus, they have made waffles several times and have been amazingly thoughtful in every way. They both really have the gifts of hospitality and service.
Matthew has loved having a basketball goal to play on. Juergen’s neighbors have a goal and Matthew has played and played and played. He loves playing, watching and talking about basketball.
I am learning stress and obligations follow you everywhere you go. There is constant demand, things to do and issues to face. My only hope of living in peace and enjoying life is trusting God and striving to enter the Sabbath rest of Christ.
Tomorrow, we embark on a three day, two night camping trip with the Coffees. It should be very entertaining for the Coffee family, as veteran campers meet raw rookies. Brett has done a ton of camping, including hiking the entire 2,000 mile Appalachian trail. We, on the other hand, have camped once for two nights that included an In and Out Burger dinner and a McDonald’s breakfast.
After i got back, we started packing for our camping trip for the weekend. It is going to be a MAJOR challenge to pack seven sleeping bags, our tent, pillows and all our camping stuff into the van with all our kids.
The kids are having a blast, but will look forward to getting home. As we are drawing close to the end of the trip, the kids have started thinking of home now. It has been great, but getting home to our church, friends and family will be great as well.
Marilyn and I had a nice (and needed) date tonight. We went into the town of Edmonds, had a cool dinner overlooking the water and just hung out for a while. It is so needed to just get away from the fray for a few hours together.
The Kneiffels are amazing hosts. Juergen makes Marilyn decaf every morning. Plus, they have made waffles several times and have been amazingly thoughtful in every way. They both really have the gifts of hospitality and service.
Matthew has loved having a basketball goal to play on. Juergen’s neighbors have a goal and Matthew has played and played and played. He loves playing, watching and talking about basketball.
I am learning stress and obligations follow you everywhere you go. There is constant demand, things to do and issues to face. My only hope of living in peace and enjoying life is trusting God and striving to enter the Sabbath rest of Christ.
Tomorrow, we embark on a three day, two night camping trip with the Coffees. It should be very entertaining for the Coffee family, as veteran campers meet raw rookies. Brett has done a ton of camping, including hiking the entire 2,000 mile Appalachian trail. We, on the other hand, have camped once for two nights that included an In and Out Burger dinner and a McDonald’s breakfast.
may 26, 2016
The kids continue to entertain us. Today, Rachel told me “I wish Matthew was a girl. If he was, we could have girl parties and dance parties.” I said “you wish he was a girl?” She said “well, he wishes I was a boy… so we are even… right?” Then, at dinner, Matthew took a long time. I finally went in to check on him. He told Marilyn “sometimes, when I finish going to the bathroom, I just wait in there so I can have a minute alone.” Even Matthew in the midst of this trip is looking for a bit of alone time.
Well, as to today. We took an all-day trip to the Olympic National Park and saw the Olympic Mountain range and Lake Crescent. It was a haul to get there. It took a 20 minute drive, a 30 minute ferry ride and then another hour and a half.
When we started driving up to Hurricane Ridge the clouds and fog was so dense you could not see anything. We felt it was an absolutely wasted trip, as the visibility was terrible. Then, as we got near the top, it all cleared so we could see the mountain range perfectly from the look-out point. It was so bad we saw an RV driving down and they stopped and asked us if you could see it. We told them they could and they turned around to drive to the viewpoint.
The kids did pretty well. They got edgy in the car/ferry on the way back. Hunger has a very negative impact on the spirits of our kids. Bug was melting down because she was afraid she wasn’t going to be able to fit her run in.
So, at the ferry on the way back, we ran around the parking lot for fifteen minutes, planning on doing the other thirty to forty at the Kneiffels. Finally we talked Bug out of the second leg of the run, ate at Olive Garden and went home.
Well, as to today. We took an all-day trip to the Olympic National Park and saw the Olympic Mountain range and Lake Crescent. It was a haul to get there. It took a 20 minute drive, a 30 minute ferry ride and then another hour and a half.
When we started driving up to Hurricane Ridge the clouds and fog was so dense you could not see anything. We felt it was an absolutely wasted trip, as the visibility was terrible. Then, as we got near the top, it all cleared so we could see the mountain range perfectly from the look-out point. It was so bad we saw an RV driving down and they stopped and asked us if you could see it. We told them they could and they turned around to drive to the viewpoint.
The kids did pretty well. They got edgy in the car/ferry on the way back. Hunger has a very negative impact on the spirits of our kids. Bug was melting down because she was afraid she wasn’t going to be able to fit her run in.
So, at the ferry on the way back, we ran around the parking lot for fifteen minutes, planning on doing the other thirty to forty at the Kneiffels. Finally we talked Bug out of the second leg of the run, ate at Olive Garden and went home.
may 25, 2016
Today, we got up and hung out while Madeline studied for her Spanish test. Then, I went to lunch with Dr. Gregory Jantz, an accomplished author and speaker who Juergen knows. He was very kind and generous to spend time with me. He has an amazing facility and has written over thirty books. After lunch, I made the decision to go to another Mariners game. I asked the Sinclairs if they wanted to join us. Joe and Katia came up strong on the spontaneity and fun scale and said yes.
We spent all afternoon re-organizing our stuff. It looked like Sanford and Sons in front of the Kneiffels house. We brought WAY too much stuff in our trailer. We are now better organized and found a lot of our lost items, but it is still a bit overwhelming.
After the clean-up mission, we ate some fish we had caught in Newport, Oregon and took off for the Mariners’ game. The game was a blast. The Mariners played great, hit four homers and won 13-3. Plus, Matthew, after many goofy dance efforts, got on the jumbo-tron in a big way. He entertained the Sinclairs with his many questions and many dances.
After the game, it was time to try to get autographs. The usher told Matthew “the players don’t sign autographs after the game.” Refusing to believe it, Matthew ran down low and tried hard to get a signature on his ball. Well, the usher knew what he was talking about – no autographs. Matthew stayed trying to the bitter end. He even waited for the relief pitchers and back-up catchers to run in from the bull-pen. Still, no luck. The jumbo-tron experience was a good consolation prize for him.
It was great spending time with the Sinclairs. They are extremely Godly, mission-minded, encouraging and fun people. Joe and Katia have been a HUGE encouragement to us in the marriage ministry.
Top 10 of the day. God providing for us in tough spots:
1. Our trailer breaks and the guy we are renting a house from takes the trailer off the van and fixes the jack for free.
2. I get a coal ember in my eye and a tech at an Optometrist office finds it, takes it out, gives us samples of eye drops and refuses to charge us a dime.
3. We get mega-stuck on a gravel hill with the trailer with a drop-off on one side. God provides a neighbor with a 4-wheel drive to rescue us from our major dilemma.
4. Marilyn breaks her foot and God provides a very kind and skilled (and reasonably priced) doctor to help us.
5. God has provided us great mechanical advice and direction on our van from friends and specifically from Mike at Mike’s automotive. Plus, despite not knowing anyone, we have gotten reasonable and good service from mechanics around the country for oil changes, brake checks and the like.
6. Our car is out of service for a full day and the Gibsons graciously let us use their Expedition to go to Lake Tahoe with the kids.
7. Marilyn and I were exhausted and the Hignells graciously give us both a day off by ourselves at their amazing cabin.
8. Marilyn has a health issue. We get help and it resolves without a problem.
9. I step on a huge needle, get good medical care and a heavy dose of anti-biotic and do not get infected and my foot heals so I can still run and exercise.
10. Matthew gets bit by a strange dog with a messed up eye and does not get infected and does have any complications from it (except for a permanent reminder on his backside of or trip).
If I could learn to trust God along the way, I’d enjoy life a lot more!!!!
We spent all afternoon re-organizing our stuff. It looked like Sanford and Sons in front of the Kneiffels house. We brought WAY too much stuff in our trailer. We are now better organized and found a lot of our lost items, but it is still a bit overwhelming.
After the clean-up mission, we ate some fish we had caught in Newport, Oregon and took off for the Mariners’ game. The game was a blast. The Mariners played great, hit four homers and won 13-3. Plus, Matthew, after many goofy dance efforts, got on the jumbo-tron in a big way. He entertained the Sinclairs with his many questions and many dances.
After the game, it was time to try to get autographs. The usher told Matthew “the players don’t sign autographs after the game.” Refusing to believe it, Matthew ran down low and tried hard to get a signature on his ball. Well, the usher knew what he was talking about – no autographs. Matthew stayed trying to the bitter end. He even waited for the relief pitchers and back-up catchers to run in from the bull-pen. Still, no luck. The jumbo-tron experience was a good consolation prize for him.
It was great spending time with the Sinclairs. They are extremely Godly, mission-minded, encouraging and fun people. Joe and Katia have been a HUGE encouragement to us in the marriage ministry.
Top 10 of the day. God providing for us in tough spots:
1. Our trailer breaks and the guy we are renting a house from takes the trailer off the van and fixes the jack for free.
2. I get a coal ember in my eye and a tech at an Optometrist office finds it, takes it out, gives us samples of eye drops and refuses to charge us a dime.
3. We get mega-stuck on a gravel hill with the trailer with a drop-off on one side. God provides a neighbor with a 4-wheel drive to rescue us from our major dilemma.
4. Marilyn breaks her foot and God provides a very kind and skilled (and reasonably priced) doctor to help us.
5. God has provided us great mechanical advice and direction on our van from friends and specifically from Mike at Mike’s automotive. Plus, despite not knowing anyone, we have gotten reasonable and good service from mechanics around the country for oil changes, brake checks and the like.
6. Our car is out of service for a full day and the Gibsons graciously let us use their Expedition to go to Lake Tahoe with the kids.
7. Marilyn and I were exhausted and the Hignells graciously give us both a day off by ourselves at their amazing cabin.
8. Marilyn has a health issue. We get help and it resolves without a problem.
9. I step on a huge needle, get good medical care and a heavy dose of anti-biotic and do not get infected and my foot heals so I can still run and exercise.
10. Matthew gets bit by a strange dog with a messed up eye and does not get infected and does have any complications from it (except for a permanent reminder on his backside of or trip).
If I could learn to trust God along the way, I’d enjoy life a lot more!!!!
may 24, 2016
School is finished for Matthew and Bug. Abby has a little Math left and Madeline has some World Civ to do and a big Spanish test to study for. Well, I worked with Madeline on World Civ while Marilyn got everything going with the other kids. After finishing World CIv and getting everything together, we took off for an afternoon excursion to Snoqualmie Falls. We stopped for a celebration of school being out at Applebee’s for lunch. Then, we took off to the Falls.
The Falls are really cool. They have used it as an energy creator. Abby contends that the falls is man-made, but it isn’t. When we arrived, we took some pictures and I took four of the five kiddos on a hike to the bottom. Bug stayed up to keep Marilyn company. It is VERY hard on Marilyn being unable to hike or do much of anything with her foot. The hike was fun and Madeline carried Rachel then entire way back up on her back. Madeline was proud of her accomplishment and Rachel enjoyed the ride.
After the hike, we played Frisbee for a while and then headed back to Seattle. We got the full Seattle rush hour experience on the way back. Seattle has the third worst rush hour in America, only behind New York and Los Angeles.
When we got home, we had steaks with the Kneiffels. They have been such a blessing to our family.
The Falls are really cool. They have used it as an energy creator. Abby contends that the falls is man-made, but it isn’t. When we arrived, we took some pictures and I took four of the five kiddos on a hike to the bottom. Bug stayed up to keep Marilyn company. It is VERY hard on Marilyn being unable to hike or do much of anything with her foot. The hike was fun and Madeline carried Rachel then entire way back up on her back. Madeline was proud of her accomplishment and Rachel enjoyed the ride.
After the hike, we played Frisbee for a while and then headed back to Seattle. We got the full Seattle rush hour experience on the way back. Seattle has the third worst rush hour in America, only behind New York and Los Angeles.
When we got home, we had steaks with the Kneiffels. They have been such a blessing to our family.
may 23, 2016
Today was set out as a full day of school. It got the best of all of us. We did two days of school in a day and it was tough. Marilyn went to the grocery and I TRIED to hold down the fort. The multitude of constant demands got the best of me. Matthew got SHOT TRACKER for his birthday. This is a contraption you put on your wrist and a net and it tracks how many shots you take, miss and make. He couldn’t wait for it to get here. I went for a run and, as I ran by the house, he was standing on the porch waiting for the UPS truck.
After a long day, we took off for a Mariners’ game. We got there early so the kids could take their best shot at some autographs. We just missed the Mariners, but took a shot at the Oakland A’s. Matthew did get a few autographs and a picture of some players I had never heard of, but in all honesty, I have not heard of one player on the A’s, except for Coco Crisp. How could you forget that name?
We had a great time with the Coffees, the Kneiffels and our family at the game. Other than the game, a 5-0 Mariners’ loss, it was a ton of fun. The Mariners are in first place, but baseball isn’t Seattle’s primary gig. The crowd was pretty sparse, but the stadium was unbelievable. It is about the coolest baseball stadium I have attended. Our seat looked out on the Space Needle and the Seattle skyline. Plus, the stadium has a retractable roof when it rains.
I am going to do a few top 10’s as we move toward the end of our trip. Top 10 weird things about other states:
1. Marijuana is crazy legal and available in Washington. I saw a sign today that said “$5 per joint.”
2. Oregon doesn’t let you pump your own gas. Gas station owners are required to hire people to do it. The law was to create jobs.
3. California charges you five cents a bottle of water and ten cents a bag at the grocery store – as an environmental initiative.
4. Oregon, despite being very liberal, has no sales tax.
5. The speed limit in Texas is 80.
6. There are coffee stands in Washington manned by women in almost nothing. We didn’t go to one, but saw the ads. There are actually signs that say “family friendly coffee stand.” Many coffee stands were actually fronts for prostitution and the women had to pay to work in it to advertise themselves. Other stands just used ¾ naked women to get men to stop by and buy coffee. Sick.
7. The security guards in the Texas capital carry automatic assault weapons.
8. Gas in California is more than double the cost of gas in the south.
9. In California and Washington, they have cameras on stoplights and tolls and, if you violate, you just get a ticket in the mail. In Oregon, they are considering putting a contraption in each car to track the miles you drive. Then, you’ll be taxed based on how much you travel. This is supposedly an attempt to get people to conserve energy.
10. In Arizona it is so dry that most of the yards are gravel.
We have a beautiful and interesting country.
After a long day, we took off for a Mariners’ game. We got there early so the kids could take their best shot at some autographs. We just missed the Mariners, but took a shot at the Oakland A’s. Matthew did get a few autographs and a picture of some players I had never heard of, but in all honesty, I have not heard of one player on the A’s, except for Coco Crisp. How could you forget that name?
We had a great time with the Coffees, the Kneiffels and our family at the game. Other than the game, a 5-0 Mariners’ loss, it was a ton of fun. The Mariners are in first place, but baseball isn’t Seattle’s primary gig. The crowd was pretty sparse, but the stadium was unbelievable. It is about the coolest baseball stadium I have attended. Our seat looked out on the Space Needle and the Seattle skyline. Plus, the stadium has a retractable roof when it rains.
I am going to do a few top 10’s as we move toward the end of our trip. Top 10 weird things about other states:
1. Marijuana is crazy legal and available in Washington. I saw a sign today that said “$5 per joint.”
2. Oregon doesn’t let you pump your own gas. Gas station owners are required to hire people to do it. The law was to create jobs.
3. California charges you five cents a bottle of water and ten cents a bag at the grocery store – as an environmental initiative.
4. Oregon, despite being very liberal, has no sales tax.
5. The speed limit in Texas is 80.
6. There are coffee stands in Washington manned by women in almost nothing. We didn’t go to one, but saw the ads. There are actually signs that say “family friendly coffee stand.” Many coffee stands were actually fronts for prostitution and the women had to pay to work in it to advertise themselves. Other stands just used ¾ naked women to get men to stop by and buy coffee. Sick.
7. The security guards in the Texas capital carry automatic assault weapons.
8. Gas in California is more than double the cost of gas in the south.
9. In California and Washington, they have cameras on stoplights and tolls and, if you violate, you just get a ticket in the mail. In Oregon, they are considering putting a contraption in each car to track the miles you drive. Then, you’ll be taxed based on how much you travel. This is supposedly an attempt to get people to conserve energy.
10. In Arizona it is so dry that most of the yards are gravel.
We have a beautiful and interesting country.
may 22, 2016
After the retreat and a late night last night, this morning seemed to come very early. We got up early, got ready and went to early church with the Kneiffels. It was a blessing to worship with our good friends.
After church, we took Abby, Bug and Madeline to Calvary Fellowship for youth group. They had a blast and really enjoy Calvary. They boldly proclaimed “if we ever moved to Seattle, we would go to Calvary.” Calvary is a great, lively and encouraging church.
After church, we had lunch with a group of the Kneiffels’ friends. Azteca is a good restaurant. Our kiddos still proclaim there is no Mexican restaurant we have visited that overtops Real Hacienda. The kiddos have gotten frustrated at restaurants around the country not serving white liquid cheese dip.
At lunch, Rachel hugged me and said “Dad, can we go on a date today?” I said “I’d love to go on a date with you sometime.” She said “can I go shopping?” She was trying to pull on my heartstrings to get to shop.
Marilyn has about had it with the school thing and is way ready to start touring. Even though she was exhausted, she wanted to go see something. Kathy was very gracious and took us to the Ballard Locks. It was cool watching the boats be raised and dropped to and from fresh and salt water.
Matthew and Rachel were more interested in rolling down the tall grassy hill. Madeline and Bug found a pine cone so we could play catch. While we visited the Locks, Abby hung out with the Coffees and had a blast. They have been GREAT in helping make Seattle an amazing experience for our kiddos.
We got back from the Locks around 7:30 and Bug would not give up on the idea of running seven miles. I tried to resist, but as Madeline’s foot is hurting and could only run 3, I had to go the full seven. Being tired from the retreat and the day, the last thing I wanted to do was run 7 miles. While we ran, Bug spent at least half of it lecturing me on having better eating and health habits.
When I got back, I had dinner and plan on getting to bed early.
After church, we took Abby, Bug and Madeline to Calvary Fellowship for youth group. They had a blast and really enjoy Calvary. They boldly proclaimed “if we ever moved to Seattle, we would go to Calvary.” Calvary is a great, lively and encouraging church.
After church, we had lunch with a group of the Kneiffels’ friends. Azteca is a good restaurant. Our kiddos still proclaim there is no Mexican restaurant we have visited that overtops Real Hacienda. The kiddos have gotten frustrated at restaurants around the country not serving white liquid cheese dip.
At lunch, Rachel hugged me and said “Dad, can we go on a date today?” I said “I’d love to go on a date with you sometime.” She said “can I go shopping?” She was trying to pull on my heartstrings to get to shop.
Marilyn has about had it with the school thing and is way ready to start touring. Even though she was exhausted, she wanted to go see something. Kathy was very gracious and took us to the Ballard Locks. It was cool watching the boats be raised and dropped to and from fresh and salt water.
Matthew and Rachel were more interested in rolling down the tall grassy hill. Madeline and Bug found a pine cone so we could play catch. While we visited the Locks, Abby hung out with the Coffees and had a blast. They have been GREAT in helping make Seattle an amazing experience for our kiddos.
We got back from the Locks around 7:30 and Bug would not give up on the idea of running seven miles. I tried to resist, but as Madeline’s foot is hurting and could only run 3, I had to go the full seven. Being tired from the retreat and the day, the last thing I wanted to do was run 7 miles. While we ran, Bug spent at least half of it lecturing me on having better eating and health habits.
When I got back, I had dinner and plan on getting to bed early.
may 21, 2016
Today was one crazy full day. We had three sessions of the retreat, picked up the kids and then I took Madeline to a Seattle Sounders game.
The retreat was a ton of fun. I pray it was a blessing to those who attended. Those who attended were extremely engaged and encouraging. Marilyn and I are both extremely thankful to have had the opportunity to participate.
We led three sessions. The first session was finishing up Grace-Based marriage. The second was a break-out session. I taught on avoiding passivity and Marilyn taught on practical ways to extend grace. After lunch we taught on the The Eye Exam and Date Night Challenge. We closed with some Q and A.
Thank you Craig Finley, the Sinclairs, Kneiffels, Coffees and all the people at Calvary Fellowship that made this weekend such an amazing experience!!! The authenticity and energy in the participants were a great encouragement.
After the retreat, we picked our kiddos up at the Coffees. Then, I took the family home and jumped into the car to take Madeline to the MLS Seattle Sounders soccer game. I was SO tired I had trouble staying awake driving down to the stadium.
The game was great! The crowd was over 40,000 and included drums, screaming and chants. It was a great atmosphere. Our seats were perfect. We were near mid-field but just high enough to avoid the cold rain. Plus, being in the club section, we were able to go inside and warm up at halftime.
Madeline loved the game. It was neat to see former Olympian and Furman grad Clint Dempsey play. The Sounders appeared to outplay Colorado, but still lost 1-0.
We closed out strong. We stopped at Dick’s Drive-Inn, a local burger joint on our way home. I had a late-night burger, fries and shake – a great way to close out a great day! It was awesome spending the time with Madeline. She is a JOY to be around.
The retreat was a ton of fun. I pray it was a blessing to those who attended. Those who attended were extremely engaged and encouraging. Marilyn and I are both extremely thankful to have had the opportunity to participate.
We led three sessions. The first session was finishing up Grace-Based marriage. The second was a break-out session. I taught on avoiding passivity and Marilyn taught on practical ways to extend grace. After lunch we taught on the The Eye Exam and Date Night Challenge. We closed with some Q and A.
Thank you Craig Finley, the Sinclairs, Kneiffels, Coffees and all the people at Calvary Fellowship that made this weekend such an amazing experience!!! The authenticity and energy in the participants were a great encouragement.
After the retreat, we picked our kiddos up at the Coffees. Then, I took the family home and jumped into the car to take Madeline to the MLS Seattle Sounders soccer game. I was SO tired I had trouble staying awake driving down to the stadium.
The game was great! The crowd was over 40,000 and included drums, screaming and chants. It was a great atmosphere. Our seats were perfect. We were near mid-field but just high enough to avoid the cold rain. Plus, being in the club section, we were able to go inside and warm up at halftime.
Madeline loved the game. It was neat to see former Olympian and Furman grad Clint Dempsey play. The Sounders appeared to outplay Colorado, but still lost 1-0.
We closed out strong. We stopped at Dick’s Drive-Inn, a local burger joint on our way home. I had a late-night burger, fries and shake – a great way to close out a great day! It was awesome spending the time with Madeline. She is a JOY to be around.
may 20, 2016
The marriage retreat starts tonight. Marilyn took a few hours to get ready for the retreat at Starbuck’s and get her hair cut. It was great for Marilyn to have a few hours to herself.
Me, on the other hand, spent the morning with breakfast, home-school and lunch. I cleaned the kitchen and, by the time I finished, the kids let me know it was time to mess it up again for lunch. Plus, it seems like everyone needs help at once. It is really hard to control tone when you are trying to help one kid while another yells from downstairs needing help as well.
I made it, but didn’t feel I had the greatest reservoir of energy after the morning. I wouldn’t say I was doing bad --- stoic is a better word. You get to that point where you just gut it out. After printing all our materials in the morning, thinking about the retreat and, as the kids call it, playing fommy, I had about all I could handle.
We got ready and went to drop off the kiddos at the Coffees. It was nice in that we had time to go to dinner together before the retreat. However, I had trouble staying focused, as a tv with a game on it was within eyeshot . Sure, it was the Boston U v. University of La. Lafayette women’s softball game, but if there is a winner or loser, I have trouble not getting drawn in. Obviously, I still remember who played and who won. Marilyn is baffled on how I cannot keep my eyes off a game with so little significance.
Well, the retreat went well. The crowd was good. Craig did a nice job, the worship was great and the crowd seemed very receptive to the grace-based approach to marriage. Plus, Jeremy Bennett did an amazing job with the graphics so the handouts looked great. Chelsea at Calvary helped and did an amazing job as well. I loved being there with Calvary. We have now led two retreats for this church and I have had a blast at both.
The kids had a blast at the Coffee's house. They jummped on the trampoline, watched a movie, and made cookies.
Marilyn’s foot still hurts. She stayed up front with me (on a stool) during the teaching, but paid for it later. The next morning her foot was really hurting and blue again. She opted to stay in the pew for Saturday morning’s session.
Everyone loved Marilyn. The feedback we get is they would love to hear more from Marilyn. Marilyn does not realize what a deep well of love and wisdom God has made her to be.
After the evening session, Joe and Katia invited us to go to Red Robin for dessert with Chris and Chantelle. We were exhausted, but couldn’t resist. Then, looking at a Red Robin menu, I could not limit myself to dessert. I ended up eating an entire meal plus part of Marilyn’s chili cheese fries. A terrible decision, but it was not hard to go to sleep with a totally full stomach.
May 19, 2016
I drew the easier of the two cards for today. I went to work all day on the retreat while Marilyn stayed home and did a ton of home-school.
I worked at Starbuck’s all day, drank coffee and thought. It was great to get the outline and materials for the retreat finalized. It is not cliché to say work is easier than home. I love home and being with everyone, but being alone thinking on how to present materials is a bit easier.
The most difficult part of my day was watching Marques Bolden take off one shirt to expose a Duke basketball shirt. Missing Bolden after this long recruitment process is a bummer.
When I got home, I went for a run. Sometimes I’ll go with all five, sometimes with just Bug, sometimes with Bug and Madeline… you never know… One of the Kneiffel neighbors noted “your group just keeps getting bigger” as I ran by with all five kids. Rachel was really proud as she ran two miles without stopping. She does really well and ran both miles at a little over a 10 minute per mile pace.
All our kiddos are doing well with running. Plus, they are keeping me from falling completely out of shape on this trip. I have run more on this trip than at home and I have eaten a lot more on this trip than at home.
After the run, we had dinner, talked about the retreat and settled in for bed.
I worked at Starbuck’s all day, drank coffee and thought. It was great to get the outline and materials for the retreat finalized. It is not cliché to say work is easier than home. I love home and being with everyone, but being alone thinking on how to present materials is a bit easier.
The most difficult part of my day was watching Marques Bolden take off one shirt to expose a Duke basketball shirt. Missing Bolden after this long recruitment process is a bummer.
When I got home, I went for a run. Sometimes I’ll go with all five, sometimes with just Bug, sometimes with Bug and Madeline… you never know… One of the Kneiffel neighbors noted “your group just keeps getting bigger” as I ran by with all five kids. Rachel was really proud as she ran two miles without stopping. She does really well and ran both miles at a little over a 10 minute per mile pace.
All our kiddos are doing well with running. Plus, they are keeping me from falling completely out of shape on this trip. I have run more on this trip than at home and I have eaten a lot more on this trip than at home.
After the run, we had dinner, talked about the retreat and settled in for bed.
may 18, 2016
Today was set aside as a school day. We had a bit more drama than usual on the home-school front, but oh well.
Marilyn ran an errand and went to the grocery while I held up the home front. It is non-stop here. As soon as you finish cleaning the kitchen, it is time for another meal and another kitchen that needs to be cleaned.
I didn’t enlist the kiddos help as I wanted them to try to finish homeschool. The kids did pretty well in school today, with the exception of Matthew’s continued inability to stay in the same chair for longer than five minutes at a time.
Additionally, I did some personal stuff. I got bad news from our insurance company on the medical front. As anticipated, the entire “get the needle out of the foot” bill is owed by us because we have such a large deductible. I didn’t anticipate there being no negotiated discount. I spent part of the morning talking to a guy at US Healthcare that is going to try to get us some relief.
After Marilyn got back from the grocery, it was time for the cross country work-out of the day. I took four of the five kids on the work-out. Bug, Madeline, Abby and Matthew all did much better than I expected. They had really good times on their two-mile time trial.
Their spirits were much better after they were happy with the run. The 10 minute cool-down was a fun time listening to the kids joke and laugh.
Now, we are having dinner at the Kneiffels and Marilyn and I are going out on an overdue and much-needed date.
Marilyn ran an errand and went to the grocery while I held up the home front. It is non-stop here. As soon as you finish cleaning the kitchen, it is time for another meal and another kitchen that needs to be cleaned.
I didn’t enlist the kiddos help as I wanted them to try to finish homeschool. The kids did pretty well in school today, with the exception of Matthew’s continued inability to stay in the same chair for longer than five minutes at a time.
Additionally, I did some personal stuff. I got bad news from our insurance company on the medical front. As anticipated, the entire “get the needle out of the foot” bill is owed by us because we have such a large deductible. I didn’t anticipate there being no negotiated discount. I spent part of the morning talking to a guy at US Healthcare that is going to try to get us some relief.
After Marilyn got back from the grocery, it was time for the cross country work-out of the day. I took four of the five kids on the work-out. Bug, Madeline, Abby and Matthew all did much better than I expected. They had really good times on their two-mile time trial.
Their spirits were much better after they were happy with the run. The 10 minute cool-down was a fun time listening to the kids joke and laugh.
Now, we are having dinner at the Kneiffels and Marilyn and I are going out on an overdue and much-needed date.
May 17, 2016
Today had the usual start with breakfast and home-school. Then, we went for a run, got ready and I took Bug, Abby, Matthew and Rachel into downtown Seattle for a little touring. We walked around Pike Place Market and had a great time.
Matthew found a cherished Seattle Sonics tee shirt and Abbers found a Seattle tee shirt she liked. Rachel will shop you in the ground. One day she blurted out “I don’t know about you, but I am shopping today!” At Pike Place Market she wanted to look at everything. She is pretty good about not buying much, but she can shop and shop and shop.
Downtown Seattle is cool and unique. The Market, the Space Needle, pro sports venues…. It is really cool. In the market, there are big fish markets. Matthew enjoyed looking at the whole fish for sale at the markets.
The kids had some fun food and a great time. We just beat the traffic and got out of Seattle right at 3:00 p.m. It is a good thing, as I have been told that Seattle has the third worst rush hour traffic in America, behind only LA and New York.
When we got home from Seattle, we hung a little bit and took off for a dinner with some friends of the Kneiffels. Madeline and Bug were stressed about school and Marilyn stayed back with them to play counselor.
It was fun hanging with the Kneiffels small group. They have great friends and a great community. The closest thing we have to a second home is Seattle. The people are so nice and so generous.
The Kneiffels have been amazing. They are laid back, kind to the kids and generous. It is relaxing to be in their home.
After we got back, I did T25 with three of the kiddos. It was funny watching them try to do the work-out. It was probably funnier watching me do it.
It is hard to believe we are less than six weeks from getting back home. It has and continues to be an amazing trip, but I will be ready to get back in a work and life routine.
We are having a blast hanging with good friends in Seattle and look forward to reuniting with good friends and family in Kentucky.
Matthew found a cherished Seattle Sonics tee shirt and Abbers found a Seattle tee shirt she liked. Rachel will shop you in the ground. One day she blurted out “I don’t know about you, but I am shopping today!” At Pike Place Market she wanted to look at everything. She is pretty good about not buying much, but she can shop and shop and shop.
Downtown Seattle is cool and unique. The Market, the Space Needle, pro sports venues…. It is really cool. In the market, there are big fish markets. Matthew enjoyed looking at the whole fish for sale at the markets.
The kids had some fun food and a great time. We just beat the traffic and got out of Seattle right at 3:00 p.m. It is a good thing, as I have been told that Seattle has the third worst rush hour traffic in America, behind only LA and New York.
When we got home from Seattle, we hung a little bit and took off for a dinner with some friends of the Kneiffels. Madeline and Bug were stressed about school and Marilyn stayed back with them to play counselor.
It was fun hanging with the Kneiffels small group. They have great friends and a great community. The closest thing we have to a second home is Seattle. The people are so nice and so generous.
The Kneiffels have been amazing. They are laid back, kind to the kids and generous. It is relaxing to be in their home.
After we got back, I did T25 with three of the kiddos. It was funny watching them try to do the work-out. It was probably funnier watching me do it.
It is hard to believe we are less than six weeks from getting back home. It has and continues to be an amazing trip, but I will be ready to get back in a work and life routine.
We are having a blast hanging with good friends in Seattle and look forward to reuniting with good friends and family in Kentucky.
may 16, 2016
Today was Matthew’s birthday. He woke up way excited. He was running around and dancing. He loved his gifts and was crazy fun.
The girls were so nice and all bought him cool presents. It was an NBA fest – he got a Lilard jersey, a used David Robinson jersey (from Abby and Madeline), an Anthony Davis jersey (from Bug), four packs of basketball cards and a signed Lorenzo Romar Hat.
He had already picked the menu of the day for his birthday. He wanted M and M pancakes for breakfast, Taco Bell for lunch and sliders, wings and seasoned fries on a platter during the NBA game for dinner. Rob Pierce said “Matthew is the Steph Curry of birthday orders.”
He had a blast getting his gifts and eating tacos. Then, the great dinner went right as planned. It was a great birthday for Matthew. At one point he was dancing around the basement by himself. I said “what are you doing?” He said “it’s my birthday.” Matthew is always excited, but add a birthday and Mountain Dew and you have about the most amped up boy in America.
We also got haircuts. Matthew got his haircut by a former ball boy and mascot assistant for the Seattle Supersonics. Needless to say, they talked NBA the entire haircut. Big man makes friends everywhere he goes.
This afternoon I went on a work-out with Madeline and Bug. I did the workout but hate workouts. I don’t like running but I hate intervals.
On a side-note, I have gained a few pounds this trip and have more of a gut than I did four months ago. Kate Bradley named my stomach Kevin and told me she wanted to help me get rid of Kevin. She researched how to get rid of belly fat and wrote me an “Anti-Kevin plan.” It includes what I am to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner. She says her goal is to “get rid of Kevin before June 5th.”
Rachel wore Matthew’s Lilard Jersey and Washington hat to lunch. It is pretty shocking that Matthew has Rachel wearing NBA jerseys and flatbills.
It was a great day celebrating Matthew’s birthday and hanging out with the Kneiffels.
The girls were so nice and all bought him cool presents. It was an NBA fest – he got a Lilard jersey, a used David Robinson jersey (from Abby and Madeline), an Anthony Davis jersey (from Bug), four packs of basketball cards and a signed Lorenzo Romar Hat.
He had already picked the menu of the day for his birthday. He wanted M and M pancakes for breakfast, Taco Bell for lunch and sliders, wings and seasoned fries on a platter during the NBA game for dinner. Rob Pierce said “Matthew is the Steph Curry of birthday orders.”
He had a blast getting his gifts and eating tacos. Then, the great dinner went right as planned. It was a great birthday for Matthew. At one point he was dancing around the basement by himself. I said “what are you doing?” He said “it’s my birthday.” Matthew is always excited, but add a birthday and Mountain Dew and you have about the most amped up boy in America.
We also got haircuts. Matthew got his haircut by a former ball boy and mascot assistant for the Seattle Supersonics. Needless to say, they talked NBA the entire haircut. Big man makes friends everywhere he goes.
This afternoon I went on a work-out with Madeline and Bug. I did the workout but hate workouts. I don’t like running but I hate intervals.
On a side-note, I have gained a few pounds this trip and have more of a gut than I did four months ago. Kate Bradley named my stomach Kevin and told me she wanted to help me get rid of Kevin. She researched how to get rid of belly fat and wrote me an “Anti-Kevin plan.” It includes what I am to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner. She says her goal is to “get rid of Kevin before June 5th.”
Rachel wore Matthew’s Lilard Jersey and Washington hat to lunch. It is pretty shocking that Matthew has Rachel wearing NBA jerseys and flatbills.
It was a great day celebrating Matthew’s birthday and hanging out with the Kneiffels.
may 15, 2016
I got up early this morning to prepare a promo for the two services at Calvary Fellowship. It was great seeing a lot of friends at Calvary Fellowship. Additionally, it was great to see Pastor Wayne Taylor and to meet Coach Lorenzo Romar. Coach Romar is the head coach of University of Washington and a five year NBA veteran. Most importantly, he is a strong committed Christian.
Listening to Coach Romar definitely put Washington among my secondary favorite teams. He told me he had one player who was a lottery pick this year and another guy in the draft as well. He said it isn’t hard when you get a five star and he goes pro, as you expect it. He said it is hard on a program when a guy does well and unexpectedly leaves for the pros.
During the service, he gave his testimony to the church. Further, he met Matthew who immediately started talking NBA with him. Among many statements, Matthew said “you played with an Isaiah Thomas and then coached an Isaiah Thomas.” Coach was impressed with Matthew’s NBA knowledge and said “you know more than most of my players".
After Coach gave a great testimony he came down from the stage and gave Matthew a fist bump. Juergen was awesome, slipped out, bought a Washington hat and had him sign it with a sharpie for Matthew. Juergen and Kathy are kind, generous, creative and fun.
During the first service I had the privilege of sitting in on Pastor Craig’s premarital class. Then, I worshipped in the second service.
The congregation at Calvary is loving and excited about Jesus. During my one minute promo, I was interrupted twice with applause. We caught up with so many friends. It was great to see and talk with so many people we have served with on mission trips to Nicaragua.
Wayne gave a great sermon, the worship was great and we had an excellent lunch at a Mexican restaurant with the Kneiffels after church. When I got home, I was exhausted. Getting up early, giving the promo, helping with the pre-marital and seeing so many people made me quite tired.
We hung out at the house a while and then I went for a run with Kate Bradley. For some reason, gravity felt extremely strong today. I absolutely would’ve walked if I wasn’t running with Bug.
After the run, the Sinclairs had set up a reunion for the Nicaragua teams at their house. They were so kind to set that up while we were here so we could see so many friends. The meal and fellowship at the Sinclairs was great.
The Sinclairs already were two of my favorite people. However, they went even higher in my book when I found out their dog was named “Nacho” after Nacho Libre. We traded Nacho quotes, talked, caught up and laughed a lot.
Then, the miserable part of the day. I had to do a two hour creative writing project with Madeline from 10:00 to midnight. We had to read some hard to understand story and try to answer a bunch of hard questions for two hours. I was grouchy but Madeline was sweet and was just appreciative of the help.
Matthew was crazy excited about his birthday. He begged to stay up to midnight and open a present.
Listening to Coach Romar definitely put Washington among my secondary favorite teams. He told me he had one player who was a lottery pick this year and another guy in the draft as well. He said it isn’t hard when you get a five star and he goes pro, as you expect it. He said it is hard on a program when a guy does well and unexpectedly leaves for the pros.
During the service, he gave his testimony to the church. Further, he met Matthew who immediately started talking NBA with him. Among many statements, Matthew said “you played with an Isaiah Thomas and then coached an Isaiah Thomas.” Coach was impressed with Matthew’s NBA knowledge and said “you know more than most of my players".
After Coach gave a great testimony he came down from the stage and gave Matthew a fist bump. Juergen was awesome, slipped out, bought a Washington hat and had him sign it with a sharpie for Matthew. Juergen and Kathy are kind, generous, creative and fun.
During the first service I had the privilege of sitting in on Pastor Craig’s premarital class. Then, I worshipped in the second service.
The congregation at Calvary is loving and excited about Jesus. During my one minute promo, I was interrupted twice with applause. We caught up with so many friends. It was great to see and talk with so many people we have served with on mission trips to Nicaragua.
Wayne gave a great sermon, the worship was great and we had an excellent lunch at a Mexican restaurant with the Kneiffels after church. When I got home, I was exhausted. Getting up early, giving the promo, helping with the pre-marital and seeing so many people made me quite tired.
We hung out at the house a while and then I went for a run with Kate Bradley. For some reason, gravity felt extremely strong today. I absolutely would’ve walked if I wasn’t running with Bug.
After the run, the Sinclairs had set up a reunion for the Nicaragua teams at their house. They were so kind to set that up while we were here so we could see so many friends. The meal and fellowship at the Sinclairs was great.
The Sinclairs already were two of my favorite people. However, they went even higher in my book when I found out their dog was named “Nacho” after Nacho Libre. We traded Nacho quotes, talked, caught up and laughed a lot.
Then, the miserable part of the day. I had to do a two hour creative writing project with Madeline from 10:00 to midnight. We had to read some hard to understand story and try to answer a bunch of hard questions for two hours. I was grouchy but Madeline was sweet and was just appreciative of the help.
Matthew was crazy excited about his birthday. He begged to stay up to midnight and open a present.
may 14, 2016
The morning started off great going to a men’s Bible study with Juergen. I met a lot of great men and attended an excellent study. I really enjoyed getting to know Bob Rainey better and talking to Scott Vincent, the pastor of the church. Scott really connects with people and has a real heart for God and other. The authenticity of Bob and Scott was evident.
When I got back from the study I went on a run with Abby and Matthew. Matthew felt good today and was like running with a trained squirrely. He’d run ahead, then into a yard, then behind… He ended up running a lot further than Abby or me. He was laughing and having fun the whole time. He borrowed Steph Curry’s line and said “I’m back.”
After the run, we had lunch and took the risk of taking Rachel to the American Girl store. Rachel still has some money left from generous gifts from a relative and friend. Rachel made a wise decision and chose to buy nothing at the American Girl store. I introduced her to the concept of knock-offs and took her to Target. Instead of spending way too much at the American Girl store, she bought matching house shoes and a pet for a reasonable price. I am convinced American Girl is designed for Grandparents to splurge on Grandkids. It is amazing how much people pay for so little.
After this, we went to the Nike Outlet north of Seattle. We had heard a lot about Seattle traffic and got to experience it today. It is amazing how many people are here. The Nike Outlet was full of people. I asked the worker “Are you having some kind of special sale or something?” She responded “No, this is a typical Saturday.”
Rachel said something funny. She said she wanted to use her Portland Trailblazers poster to help decorate her and Matthew’s man cave. Evidently, Matthew has recruited her to join him in his man cave creation.
Matthew is so excited about his birthday. First, he decided what he wanted to do. He said “I want wings, sliders and fries all served on a platter while I watch the NBA game.” Sounds like a reasonable request. Then, he asked “what are we going to do on my birthday eve?”
Madeline and Kate Bradley had a great day with the Coffees at George Fox University. We really love that family and thank God for them.
The Kneiffels had a great dinner (tacos) for us and now we are hanging out watching the Mariners blow another lead.
When I got back from the study I went on a run with Abby and Matthew. Matthew felt good today and was like running with a trained squirrely. He’d run ahead, then into a yard, then behind… He ended up running a lot further than Abby or me. He was laughing and having fun the whole time. He borrowed Steph Curry’s line and said “I’m back.”
After the run, we had lunch and took the risk of taking Rachel to the American Girl store. Rachel still has some money left from generous gifts from a relative and friend. Rachel made a wise decision and chose to buy nothing at the American Girl store. I introduced her to the concept of knock-offs and took her to Target. Instead of spending way too much at the American Girl store, she bought matching house shoes and a pet for a reasonable price. I am convinced American Girl is designed for Grandparents to splurge on Grandkids. It is amazing how much people pay for so little.
After this, we went to the Nike Outlet north of Seattle. We had heard a lot about Seattle traffic and got to experience it today. It is amazing how many people are here. The Nike Outlet was full of people. I asked the worker “Are you having some kind of special sale or something?” She responded “No, this is a typical Saturday.”
Rachel said something funny. She said she wanted to use her Portland Trailblazers poster to help decorate her and Matthew’s man cave. Evidently, Matthew has recruited her to join him in his man cave creation.
Matthew is so excited about his birthday. First, he decided what he wanted to do. He said “I want wings, sliders and fries all served on a platter while I watch the NBA game.” Sounds like a reasonable request. Then, he asked “what are we going to do on my birthday eve?”
Madeline and Kate Bradley had a great day with the Coffees at George Fox University. We really love that family and thank God for them.
The Kneiffels had a great dinner (tacos) for us and now we are hanging out watching the Mariners blow another lead.
may 13, 2016
Today was a full Mount Ranier Day. We left around 10 in the morning and toured all day. Juergen and Kathy did a great job mapping out our trip for us. They are amazing hosts.
First, we drove through Seattle and to a town called Enumclaw. We consulted Yelp and ate at a place called The Mercantile. It was actually very good, somewhat reasonable and very local. After our lunch, we took off toward Mount Ranier National Park.
We were stopped at an amazing overlook of the mountain and met a nice couple motorcycling around the mountain. The bad news is he informed us the road we were going to take was closed. The good news is he showed us an alternate (and quite a bit longer) way to get to the National Park. He was an interesting fellow. He stopped his motorcycle and cracked open a huge bottle of Beck’s beer. To me, driving a motorcycle and drinking a beer while going around a huge mountain with bad roads seemed like a bad idea. I can only hope it was his only beer of the day. However, he was extremely nice and hospitable. As he showed me our path on the map, I smelled a beer/chewing tobacco combo on his breath.
Madeline said “I really like that guy. He is hard core.” I liked him too, but wouldn’t mind if she didn’t choose one exactly like him as a husband.
The kids were very happy today. They really enjoyed the sites and entered into everything we did. We made it to the National Park around 4, did a little hiking, took some photos, got the Junior Ranger badges and enjoyed the overlook.
There are amazing views of Mount Ranier everywhere. We had a very unusual day. The weather was warm, little clouds, no rain and the crowds weren’t bad at all. I was informed this is very rare for Mount Ranier.
After our Ranier experience, we drove back, had some Subway and dropped Madeline and Bug off at McKenna’s house. They are going to George Fox University for a visit with McKenna tomorrow. Madeline said her dream life was for us to move to Oregon after she finishes high school and for her to attend George Fox University and play soccer.
We are having a blast with the kids. They all have their little gigs. Rachel likes to hold your hand and intertwine fingers. She says when we do this “it makes love grow.”
Marilyn is improving but can’t do any hiking. Her back nags her but is more tolerable. As long as she doesn’t try to do too much her foot is tolerable as well.
Today was a gift from God. Fun times and beautiful views.
First, we drove through Seattle and to a town called Enumclaw. We consulted Yelp and ate at a place called The Mercantile. It was actually very good, somewhat reasonable and very local. After our lunch, we took off toward Mount Ranier National Park.
We were stopped at an amazing overlook of the mountain and met a nice couple motorcycling around the mountain. The bad news is he informed us the road we were going to take was closed. The good news is he showed us an alternate (and quite a bit longer) way to get to the National Park. He was an interesting fellow. He stopped his motorcycle and cracked open a huge bottle of Beck’s beer. To me, driving a motorcycle and drinking a beer while going around a huge mountain with bad roads seemed like a bad idea. I can only hope it was his only beer of the day. However, he was extremely nice and hospitable. As he showed me our path on the map, I smelled a beer/chewing tobacco combo on his breath.
Madeline said “I really like that guy. He is hard core.” I liked him too, but wouldn’t mind if she didn’t choose one exactly like him as a husband.
The kids were very happy today. They really enjoyed the sites and entered into everything we did. We made it to the National Park around 4, did a little hiking, took some photos, got the Junior Ranger badges and enjoyed the overlook.
There are amazing views of Mount Ranier everywhere. We had a very unusual day. The weather was warm, little clouds, no rain and the crowds weren’t bad at all. I was informed this is very rare for Mount Ranier.
After our Ranier experience, we drove back, had some Subway and dropped Madeline and Bug off at McKenna’s house. They are going to George Fox University for a visit with McKenna tomorrow. Madeline said her dream life was for us to move to Oregon after she finishes high school and for her to attend George Fox University and play soccer.
We are having a blast with the kids. They all have their little gigs. Rachel likes to hold your hand and intertwine fingers. She says when we do this “it makes love grow.”
Marilyn is improving but can’t do any hiking. Her back nags her but is more tolerable. As long as she doesn’t try to do too much her foot is tolerable as well.
Today was a gift from God. Fun times and beautiful views.
may 12, 2016
I had more personal stuff to work on while the kiddos did home-school. I had the great privilege and joy of calling AT and T and being on hold with Apple for 30 plus minutes. Then, they sent me to their store. We went and were told they couldn’t help us. Two hours of work and NOTHING. They do a very good job in writing their policies in a way to avoid helping the consumer. If the phone detects moisture, it voids the warranty – irrespective if the problem is water related. Our problem may or may not be water-related, but I bet most every phone will have that moisture detector triggered. Then, their workers are great at the “sorry we can help you” spiel.
After taking care of personal stuff and a wonderful time in the Apple Store, I came home and helped the kiddos work on their school. We are trying to do a two-fer so we can go to Mount Ranier all day tomorrow. It looks like we are going to have an awesome day to sight-see at Ranier.
The weather has been amazing here. It has been in the mid to upper 70’ies and completely sunny. It has been an unusually warm and dry stretch for Seattle. Things are going to be great in Seattle, but the temperature up the mountain is a lot colder with a high of 41.
This afternoon I went on a run with Bug, Abby and Matthew. It is always entertaining when Abby and Matthew run together. It is a run/spar. They get tired and irritable and do a little humorous back and forth. We ran a slow 40 minutes and the kids did great.
After the run, we watched some NBA and played some basketball. The kids love playing knock-out and horse. Then, we grilled some rock fish, had an amazing dinner, watched an amazing sunset, hung out and settled in for the night.
The kids are very happy tonight. They are playing, laughing and very fun and loud. Rachel went walking the dog with Kathy and had a blast. She loves dogs, loves walking and loves to talk.
Marilyn had a better day – her foot and back are doing a little bit better. The trip to the chiropractor went well.
After taking care of personal stuff and a wonderful time in the Apple Store, I came home and helped the kiddos work on their school. We are trying to do a two-fer so we can go to Mount Ranier all day tomorrow. It looks like we are going to have an awesome day to sight-see at Ranier.
The weather has been amazing here. It has been in the mid to upper 70’ies and completely sunny. It has been an unusually warm and dry stretch for Seattle. Things are going to be great in Seattle, but the temperature up the mountain is a lot colder with a high of 41.
This afternoon I went on a run with Bug, Abby and Matthew. It is always entertaining when Abby and Matthew run together. It is a run/spar. They get tired and irritable and do a little humorous back and forth. We ran a slow 40 minutes and the kids did great.
After the run, we watched some NBA and played some basketball. The kids love playing knock-out and horse. Then, we grilled some rock fish, had an amazing dinner, watched an amazing sunset, hung out and settled in for the night.
The kids are very happy tonight. They are playing, laughing and very fun and loud. Rachel went walking the dog with Kathy and had a blast. She loves dogs, loves walking and loves to talk.
Marilyn had a better day – her foot and back are doing a little bit better. The trip to the chiropractor went well.
may 11, 2016
We started out with the usual – breakfast, home-school and getting the day started. Then, Marilyn went off to a place called “The Joint.” No, she hasn’t turned to pot (as it is very legal here); it is a chiropractic clinic. It is weird seeing billboards that say $6 per joint and $8 per gram with guys on the side of the street trying to get you to turn into their marijuana store. Don’t worry – the Rhoads are not going to come back potheads. The girls asked me “what is marijuana?” I told them “it is a drug that makes you lazy, fat and hungry.” Now, they see dope as the “lazy hungry drug.” Marilyn went to a chiropractor who was fine, but did not like to talk much. Marilyn would ask a question and he’d give a very short unemotional answer. Marilyn asked him “can I hike a mile or so?” His response: “Not if you want your foot to get better.”
Marilyn did get adjusted and a big honking heal lift so it would level her out with her boot. It has really helped her back. However, when her back got better, her foot seemed to start hurting more. I guess the back hurt enough she didn’t notice the foot pain until she got some back relief.
The girls had tough workouts today for cross country. I decided to try to do the workout with them and it was rough. I made it, but was miserable. I am not into this timed interval stuff. Both our girls worked really hard. They are very devoted to their team and coach.
After the run, I worked on personal stuff for most of the afternoon. Thank God for the Crabtrees, our amazing neighbors. Henry came to our home in Owensboro, fixed a leak and took care of everything. God really provides. We have had problem after problem and God has provided in each situation. I wish I’d just learn to trust along the way and avoid the useless stress I often live under.
Also, we thank God for Chris Lawrence, Cory Cunningham and Hardin Baptist Church. They did a mini-launch of Grace Marriage coaching and are doing an amazing job. The feedback I got back from Chris was encouraging and motivating.
For dinner, we went to the Coffee’s house (McKenna’s parents). The dinner and the fellowship was great. It is going to be way fun camping with them over Memorial Day weekend. However, they are real campers, we are not. Mr. Coffee once hiked the entire Appalachian trail (over 2,000 miles) and worked three years at Yellowstone. He will get a major kick out of Rhoads’ style camping. We will learn a lot and he will laugh a lot.
We love it here in Washington. The people are so so great. It is the closest thing we have to a second home. The Sinclairs are even having a bbq reunion for the Nicaragua mission trippers to all to get together, share a meal and fellowship.
After dinner with the coffees, we came back and watched the Trailblazers try hard in defeat and went to bed.
Marilyn did get adjusted and a big honking heal lift so it would level her out with her boot. It has really helped her back. However, when her back got better, her foot seemed to start hurting more. I guess the back hurt enough she didn’t notice the foot pain until she got some back relief.
The girls had tough workouts today for cross country. I decided to try to do the workout with them and it was rough. I made it, but was miserable. I am not into this timed interval stuff. Both our girls worked really hard. They are very devoted to their team and coach.
After the run, I worked on personal stuff for most of the afternoon. Thank God for the Crabtrees, our amazing neighbors. Henry came to our home in Owensboro, fixed a leak and took care of everything. God really provides. We have had problem after problem and God has provided in each situation. I wish I’d just learn to trust along the way and avoid the useless stress I often live under.
Also, we thank God for Chris Lawrence, Cory Cunningham and Hardin Baptist Church. They did a mini-launch of Grace Marriage coaching and are doing an amazing job. The feedback I got back from Chris was encouraging and motivating.
For dinner, we went to the Coffee’s house (McKenna’s parents). The dinner and the fellowship was great. It is going to be way fun camping with them over Memorial Day weekend. However, they are real campers, we are not. Mr. Coffee once hiked the entire Appalachian trail (over 2,000 miles) and worked three years at Yellowstone. He will get a major kick out of Rhoads’ style camping. We will learn a lot and he will laugh a lot.
We love it here in Washington. The people are so so great. It is the closest thing we have to a second home. The Sinclairs are even having a bbq reunion for the Nicaragua mission trippers to all to get together, share a meal and fellowship.
After dinner with the coffees, we came back and watched the Trailblazers try hard in defeat and went to bed.
may 10, 2016
Madeline and Kate Bradley went to McKenna’s the night before for Young Life and then spent the night with them. They had a great time and really enjoyed spending time with the Coffee family.
Back at the Kneifel-front, Marilyn did home-school with the kids. I went to a meeting with one of the pastors at Calvary Fellowship regarding the marriage conference we are leading on the 20th and 21st of this month. We love Calvary Fellowship. They are servant-hearted, generous and hospitable. We are very excited about attending church with them on Sunday and about the marriage retreat. University of Washington’s basketball coach is a committed Christian and is speaking at Calvary this Sunday.
After meeting with Craig at the church, I went to the grocery and it took me forever to get everything on Marilyn’s list and pick up prescriptions. After a long grocery run, I got home and we packed up to do some touring.
We took the fairy from Edmonds to Whidby Island and spent the rest of the day at Whidby Island. The views and parks are beautiful. We were actually just across the water from British Columbia, Canada. Marilyn was blown away by the views. The kids acknowledged the beauty of the views, but still aren’t crazy about “scenic views.”
The kiddos did love Fort Casey. There is a big fort on the water with larger artillery cannons. The kids ran around and played in the fort and had a blast.
I have been a bit flat and am struggling a bit. I find myself going through the motions and not really engaging spiritually and emotionally with the family enough. I am doing some better now, but getting flat is a struggle for me at times.
After the long afternoon of touring we drove home, had dinner and went to bed.
Back at the Kneifel-front, Marilyn did home-school with the kids. I went to a meeting with one of the pastors at Calvary Fellowship regarding the marriage conference we are leading on the 20th and 21st of this month. We love Calvary Fellowship. They are servant-hearted, generous and hospitable. We are very excited about attending church with them on Sunday and about the marriage retreat. University of Washington’s basketball coach is a committed Christian and is speaking at Calvary this Sunday.
After meeting with Craig at the church, I went to the grocery and it took me forever to get everything on Marilyn’s list and pick up prescriptions. After a long grocery run, I got home and we packed up to do some touring.
We took the fairy from Edmonds to Whidby Island and spent the rest of the day at Whidby Island. The views and parks are beautiful. We were actually just across the water from British Columbia, Canada. Marilyn was blown away by the views. The kids acknowledged the beauty of the views, but still aren’t crazy about “scenic views.”
The kiddos did love Fort Casey. There is a big fort on the water with larger artillery cannons. The kids ran around and played in the fort and had a blast.
I have been a bit flat and am struggling a bit. I find myself going through the motions and not really engaging spiritually and emotionally with the family enough. I am doing some better now, but getting flat is a struggle for me at times.
After the long afternoon of touring we drove home, had dinner and went to bed.
may 9, 2016
Our first day in Washington. It is nice to be in such an amazing house and have the trailer unhooked from the van. The Kneifel’s are amazing hosts. They are laid back, kind, thoughtful and a ton of fun.
Today was a bit of a catch up day. We slept in a bit and started home-school. Madeline spent the morning at McKenna’s house. Our entire family is so excited to see her and her family. When I arrived at their home, they had a big painted sign that said “Welcome Rhoads family.”
After picking Madeline up, I brought her back to the Kneifels for school and some hang-out time. There wasn’t a whole lot to today. We just hung out, caught up on school, went for a run, watched the Trail Blazers’ game as a family and went to bed.
As to Marilyn’s toe, not so good. Her foot still hurts and is discolored. Plus, her back is now hurting as well because the boot has her walking with the wrong gait. Actually, her back hurts worse than her foot right now She is going to a chiropractor this week to seek some help.
The kids are all in good spirits, as they know so many people here and are excited about continuing and renewing friendships.
Today was a bit of a catch up day. We slept in a bit and started home-school. Madeline spent the morning at McKenna’s house. Our entire family is so excited to see her and her family. When I arrived at their home, they had a big painted sign that said “Welcome Rhoads family.”
After picking Madeline up, I brought her back to the Kneifels for school and some hang-out time. There wasn’t a whole lot to today. We just hung out, caught up on school, went for a run, watched the Trail Blazers’ game as a family and went to bed.
As to Marilyn’s toe, not so good. Her foot still hurts and is discolored. Plus, her back is now hurting as well because the boot has her walking with the wrong gait. Actually, her back hurts worse than her foot right now She is going to a chiropractor this week to seek some help.
The kids are all in good spirits, as they know so many people here and are excited about continuing and renewing friendships.
may 8, 2016
We had another hectic morning as we packed up the entire house, loaded the trailer, got the kids ready and celebrated mother’s day. First, the stress of taking the trailer back down the steep gravel driveway was weighing on both of us. I had thoughts of the trailer pushing us down the gravel driveway with our brakes locked into oncoming traffic at the bottom.
So, I decided (in an abundance of caution) to load the front of the van with the heavy stuff from the trailer and keep the trailer as light as possible. I figured the more weight near the front of our front-wheel drive Odyssey the better and the less weight in the trailer pushing on us the better.
We got down the driveway as the kids walked behind us. Then, we unloaded the van and threw it all into the trailer. Overall, it worked pretty well.
On the Mother’s day front, I didn’t do so well with the gifts. Marilyn loved her flowers and the notes, but the two shirts I gave her got huge thumbs down. She held the first one up, an Oregon Ducks shirt and said “did you really think I’d like this?” Marilyn says she didnt say it like that, but that was what I heard. Then, she opened the second one – a Trailblazers shirt - and immediately gave it to Madeline. I thought, as she’d had a blast at the game, she might think a cool tee would be nice. At least Madeline was happy. Then, I made Marilyn an egg sandwich which got thrown in the trash because Teflon came off the pan onto her egg. This morning seemed to be full of failed efforts.
However, the good news is we made it safe down the hill and started our drive to Seattle. We stopped on the way and I went on a five mile run with the girls. They have been faithful to the coaches’ plan for them. Marilyn was frustrated as her foot was worse and more swollen. I was a bit frustrated at my failed Mother’s day efforts. However, we did have a good ride to Seattle, with the exception of some severe traffic that put us about an hour and a half behind.
I have learned there is no normal travel on this trip. Kid issues, van issues, mountains, traffic, road construction….. The reality: it appears we are never going to get anywhere on schedule. I have learned to just not worry about it. The attitude must be “no time goals” and “we’ll get there when we get there.” Otherwise, the delays will drive you crazy.
The girls were crazy excited about getting to Seattle to see McKenna. Madeline and McKenna are great friends and all our kiddos love her. Madeline was counting down the minutes to Seattle.
We arrived at our good friends’ house, the Kneiffel’s, and got settled in. It is always a great feeling to unhook the trailer from the van. Knowing I won’t re-hook the trailer for five weeks is a good feeling. The Kneiffel’s house and their hospitality is over the top. First, they have an amazing house – it has a panoramic view of the Puget Sound and the Olympic Mountain range. It is crazy pretty.
Plus, the Kneiffels are two of the most kind, fun, and laid back people I know. They have a great basement with four bedrooms and two full baths for our family. Plus, they have an extra fridge and freezer in the garage for all our food. God is good and is really blessing us through these two great friends.
They grilled out burgers for us and we hung out until about 11:00 p.m. Rachel has fallen in love with their little dog, Charlotte. Once Rachel gets over the fear of the dogs, she loves playing with them more than anyone.
I did have another Mother’s Day shirt waiting for Marilyn at the Kneiffels. My third try at a shirt she likes was a success. She loved it and is already wearing it. I guess one out of three ain’t bad. In baseball, I’d be hitting .333.
Marilyn is really disappointed in the progress of her foot. It continues to hurt a lot and is discolored. Plus, wearing the immobilizing boot has caused her back to start hurting.
So, I decided (in an abundance of caution) to load the front of the van with the heavy stuff from the trailer and keep the trailer as light as possible. I figured the more weight near the front of our front-wheel drive Odyssey the better and the less weight in the trailer pushing on us the better.
We got down the driveway as the kids walked behind us. Then, we unloaded the van and threw it all into the trailer. Overall, it worked pretty well.
On the Mother’s day front, I didn’t do so well with the gifts. Marilyn loved her flowers and the notes, but the two shirts I gave her got huge thumbs down. She held the first one up, an Oregon Ducks shirt and said “did you really think I’d like this?” Marilyn says she didnt say it like that, but that was what I heard. Then, she opened the second one – a Trailblazers shirt - and immediately gave it to Madeline. I thought, as she’d had a blast at the game, she might think a cool tee would be nice. At least Madeline was happy. Then, I made Marilyn an egg sandwich which got thrown in the trash because Teflon came off the pan onto her egg. This morning seemed to be full of failed efforts.
However, the good news is we made it safe down the hill and started our drive to Seattle. We stopped on the way and I went on a five mile run with the girls. They have been faithful to the coaches’ plan for them. Marilyn was frustrated as her foot was worse and more swollen. I was a bit frustrated at my failed Mother’s day efforts. However, we did have a good ride to Seattle, with the exception of some severe traffic that put us about an hour and a half behind.
I have learned there is no normal travel on this trip. Kid issues, van issues, mountains, traffic, road construction….. The reality: it appears we are never going to get anywhere on schedule. I have learned to just not worry about it. The attitude must be “no time goals” and “we’ll get there when we get there.” Otherwise, the delays will drive you crazy.
The girls were crazy excited about getting to Seattle to see McKenna. Madeline and McKenna are great friends and all our kiddos love her. Madeline was counting down the minutes to Seattle.
We arrived at our good friends’ house, the Kneiffel’s, and got settled in. It is always a great feeling to unhook the trailer from the van. Knowing I won’t re-hook the trailer for five weeks is a good feeling. The Kneiffel’s house and their hospitality is over the top. First, they have an amazing house – it has a panoramic view of the Puget Sound and the Olympic Mountain range. It is crazy pretty.
Plus, the Kneiffels are two of the most kind, fun, and laid back people I know. They have a great basement with four bedrooms and two full baths for our family. Plus, they have an extra fridge and freezer in the garage for all our food. God is good and is really blessing us through these two great friends.
They grilled out burgers for us and we hung out until about 11:00 p.m. Rachel has fallen in love with their little dog, Charlotte. Once Rachel gets over the fear of the dogs, she loves playing with them more than anyone.
I did have another Mother’s Day shirt waiting for Marilyn at the Kneiffels. My third try at a shirt she likes was a success. She loved it and is already wearing it. I guess one out of three ain’t bad. In baseball, I’d be hitting .333.
Marilyn is really disappointed in the progress of her foot. It continues to hurt a lot and is discolored. Plus, wearing the immobilizing boot has caused her back to start hurting.
may 7, 2016
We decided to let the kiddos sleep in before starting a VERY full day. We started out with a trek to the string of amazing waterfalls east of Portland. They were amazing. We saw Horse Tail Falls, Montnomah Falls and Latourelle Falls – three of the big five. Marilyn’s foot prevented the 2/3 mile downhill hike to Bridal Veil falls.
The good news is that most of the trails were close to the road. We did have a ½ mile hike from Multnomah to our car. I carried Marilyn on my back part of the way. A funny thing happened on the way back. This guy said to me while Marilyn was on my back “You are the man!” Then his wife piped in “Oh my gosh, you are the man!” I told Marilyn she was supposed to respond by saying “you have no idea….” Reality: Marilyn is the woMAN. Two days ago she hiked four miles with a broken foot. Then, today she walked to various falls without complaining and then made it up to the upper deck of the Blazers’ game.
Our kids continue to resist “scenic views.” After we saw one fall, the kids wanted to stop. They said “we have already seen a cool waterfall, why do we need to see more?” I backed them down and they did better after that. It was rough on Marilyn as we hiked to the base of Latourelle Falls why she had to sit at a picnic table with her foot up.
For some reason, Abby likes to pose for pictures in ballerina formations. Every picture is definitely unique.
A crazy thing happened on the way back from Multnomah falls. We actually ran into the doctor that treated Marilyn the day before. This stuff happens in small towns, but seems highly unlikely in a huge city like Portland.
After the falls, we hit Subway and headed through a lot of traffic to the Blazers’ game. Madeline, Bug, Abby, Matthew and Marilyn went to the game. I opted for a date with Rachel. Rachel doesn’t like it when people scream at games and I knew the Blazers’ game would be a bit much for her.
Rachel and I went shopping. Boy --- Rachel can flat out shop. She doesn’t even have to buy. She will just look and look and look at stuff. As we were walking out of the Nike store, Rachel turned me around and said there is more stuff to look at. She settled on a $9.97 Nike shirt. Oregon is nice, as it has no sales tax. Our doctor told us it is great to live across the Washington border, as Washington has no income tax and you can go across the border and shop where there is no sales tax.
After shopping and shopping, Rachel and I went for ice cream at a cool store in downtown. They had a “build your own ice cream sandwich” option. Two snickerdoodle cookies with double chocolate ice cream in between definitely filled Rachel’s cup. As we were looking for an ice cream store, Rachel saw a small bit of a cone on the ground. She looked at me and said “Dad, I found a clue.”
Then, we did some gluten/dairy free shopping at a place called Petunia’s for Yabbers, looked around a few more stores and then went to Moda Arena to pick up the rest of our clan. We watched the last 8 minutes of the game in the restaurant adjacent to the stadium. It was awesome listening to people scream out as the Blazers surged to the victory. Also, it was funny as we were listening to some loud celebratory music when Rachel shyly looked at me and said “Dad, do you want to dance?” I said “sure.” We danced, but Rachel got self-conscious quick and walked off the dance party area.
Inside the stadium, the kids and Marilyn had an absolute blast. Marilyn said it was the loudest crowd she had ever seen. The fans literally stay loud most of the game, even during timeouts. Portland has a VERY loud and loyal fan base.
Matthew defied the odds and got a bunch of autorgraphs --- again. He ran through the entire crowd of people and got Damian Lilard’s autograph almost immediately. Marilyn was worried about Matthew being rude and asked him, did you cut in front of all those people. Matthew’s response, “I said ‘excuse me’.”
After the game, we enjoyed the atmosphere, ate at Wendy’s and found our Oregon geo-cache before heading back to Washougal for bed. On another note, Madeline was frustrated at the website because she felt we didn’t adequately state how much the kids hated the lighthouse tour in Newport. Plus, Marilyn, keeping her foot up yesterday, went on a big tirade about how our family would be an absolute dirty, messy train wreck if it wasn’t for her. Needless to say, she was less than impressed how me and the kiddos have been keeping the house since the big toe took a big break. Actually, we wanted to make her feel needed. I thought of the Andy Griffith episode where Aunt B got very sad when everything went fine without her. Then, they messed everything up so she’d feel important again.
Tomorrow we head to Seattle. I am praying we will do OK pulling our trailer down our steep gravel driveway.
may 6, 2016
The plan for today was to take a 7-mile hike up Hamilton mountain. Needless to say, this got nixed as Marilyn cannot even walk much less hike. We both hoped for the best and kind of decided to assume it was sprained.
I went to the grocery with Rachel and on the way back saw a Foot and Ankle medical clinic. When I got back from shopping, I decided to call the Foot and Ankle clinic to ask some questions.
I decided, in an abundance of caution, to set Marilyn and appointment to get her foot x-rayed. Neither of us thought it was broken, but it would have been bad for me to ignore it and find out later she had done something more than sprain it. The appointment would make sure nothing was wrong and pacify my conscience.
Marilyn resisted, but decided to make the trip to the doctor. This turned out to be a great decision!
So, we went to Dr. Thun. He was very nice and professional and x-rayed her foot. When he came back in, he said three words “You broke it!” Turns out Marilyn’s toe slammed into her foot so hard that it broke thebase of her big toe through to the tendon. Left unattended, it could have gotten dislocated.
Well, Marilyn got a new expensive boot that she gets to wear for the next 4-6 weeks. The doctor warned Marilyn that, as the break went into the joint, it could be the beginning of arthritis.
We would certainly recommend Dr. Thun. He was great, kind, caring and helpful. Plus, he has traveled all over the country and was interested in our travels. Marilyn was mega-bummed, as she loves the outdoors and loves to hike and now will be spending most of the rest of our trip in a heavy immobilizing boot.
We e-mailed a good friend, Dr. David Boles and he was helpful as well in making sure we are making the right steps toward Marilyn making the right steps. With Marilyn in her immobilizer, we are a lot less mobile. I realize it is very hard on Marilyn, both mentally and physically. Plus, I kind of miss her being able to move around and do stuff. Tonight, the kiddos cannot ask Marilyn for anything, as she can hardly get up. So, they ask me. First, I feel like a wishbone jumping from brushing teeth, to helping with World Civ, to tucking Matthew in, to cleaning the kitchen, to about everything else. I realize I’ve got the easier gig without the broken foot, but this definitely complicates things for both of us.
Matthew was worried it was his fault Marilyn broke her foot. We told him it wasn’t and he went with it and didn’t think about it again.
After we got back from the doctor, I took the kids (minus Rachel) for a run. We drove to Washougal and ran along the Columbia River. It was really cool with the river on one side of us and a huge snow-capped mountain in front of us. Munch (Abby’s new nickname) did well but had to do a little walking.
We had convenience store burgers for dinner, did more school, tried to get things in order and went to bed.
Mike Leathers told me we should have a board at the top of the website that said “____ days since last accident” like a workplace. Well, if we did, I don’t think the sign would ever get past four or five. I found myself wondering what is going to happen next.
If you think about it, God was amazing to us today. First, He prompted us to go to a doctor. Second, we were able to get in the very same day. Third, as the brake is all the way through the bone, if we hadn’t gone to a doctor, it could have been easily displaced causing some extreme problems.
The key is trust and gratitude. No, we are not excited about having Marilyn down. However, we are extremely grateful to be together and for God taking care of us along the day. Jesus told us “in this world you will have troubles.” A broken foot is nothing compared to what others are going through and what we could be going through.
On a different note, our sensitive Madeline gave me a “talking to” on how I need to be more sympathetic with mom while she is hurt. I have an advantage as a husband: if I don’t do well, I have an intuitive daughter to point it out to me.
I went to the grocery with Rachel and on the way back saw a Foot and Ankle medical clinic. When I got back from shopping, I decided to call the Foot and Ankle clinic to ask some questions.
I decided, in an abundance of caution, to set Marilyn and appointment to get her foot x-rayed. Neither of us thought it was broken, but it would have been bad for me to ignore it and find out later she had done something more than sprain it. The appointment would make sure nothing was wrong and pacify my conscience.
Marilyn resisted, but decided to make the trip to the doctor. This turned out to be a great decision!
So, we went to Dr. Thun. He was very nice and professional and x-rayed her foot. When he came back in, he said three words “You broke it!” Turns out Marilyn’s toe slammed into her foot so hard that it broke thebase of her big toe through to the tendon. Left unattended, it could have gotten dislocated.
Well, Marilyn got a new expensive boot that she gets to wear for the next 4-6 weeks. The doctor warned Marilyn that, as the break went into the joint, it could be the beginning of arthritis.
We would certainly recommend Dr. Thun. He was great, kind, caring and helpful. Plus, he has traveled all over the country and was interested in our travels. Marilyn was mega-bummed, as she loves the outdoors and loves to hike and now will be spending most of the rest of our trip in a heavy immobilizing boot.
We e-mailed a good friend, Dr. David Boles and he was helpful as well in making sure we are making the right steps toward Marilyn making the right steps. With Marilyn in her immobilizer, we are a lot less mobile. I realize it is very hard on Marilyn, both mentally and physically. Plus, I kind of miss her being able to move around and do stuff. Tonight, the kiddos cannot ask Marilyn for anything, as she can hardly get up. So, they ask me. First, I feel like a wishbone jumping from brushing teeth, to helping with World Civ, to tucking Matthew in, to cleaning the kitchen, to about everything else. I realize I’ve got the easier gig without the broken foot, but this definitely complicates things for both of us.
Matthew was worried it was his fault Marilyn broke her foot. We told him it wasn’t and he went with it and didn’t think about it again.
After we got back from the doctor, I took the kids (minus Rachel) for a run. We drove to Washougal and ran along the Columbia River. It was really cool with the river on one side of us and a huge snow-capped mountain in front of us. Munch (Abby’s new nickname) did well but had to do a little walking.
We had convenience store burgers for dinner, did more school, tried to get things in order and went to bed.
Mike Leathers told me we should have a board at the top of the website that said “____ days since last accident” like a workplace. Well, if we did, I don’t think the sign would ever get past four or five. I found myself wondering what is going to happen next.
If you think about it, God was amazing to us today. First, He prompted us to go to a doctor. Second, we were able to get in the very same day. Third, as the brake is all the way through the bone, if we hadn’t gone to a doctor, it could have been easily displaced causing some extreme problems.
The key is trust and gratitude. No, we are not excited about having Marilyn down. However, we are extremely grateful to be together and for God taking care of us along the day. Jesus told us “in this world you will have troubles.” A broken foot is nothing compared to what others are going through and what we could be going through.
On a different note, our sensitive Madeline gave me a “talking to” on how I need to be more sympathetic with mom while she is hurt. I have an advantage as a husband: if I don’t do well, I have an intuitive daughter to point it out to me.
may 5, 2016
Despite our great difficulties getting here, this is a great house. We were able to spread out for home-school this morning and everyone, except Matthew, stayed focus and did well on their work. Matthew picks up school quickly, but trying to get him to sit still is a major chore. He is all over the place.
I spent most of the day catching up on personal items, bills and Grace Marriage stuff. It was great to get a bunch of things off my list and my mind.
After home-school, paying bills, etc., we took off for some sight-seeing. We started off a Dougan Falls. It was a cool waterfall with tons of rocks and a great view. We spent about 30 minutes skipping small rocks and climbing big ones. We were having fun until Matthew threw a rock and came close to hitting Bug. Bug about two feet in front of him and he whizzed one by her ear. Marilyn was very stressed/frustrated/relieved/a lot of other stuff… I think she was bothered by me not “big dealing” it enough.
After our Dougan Falls deal, the drama began. We went on a scenic hike called “Cape Horn.” Matthew kept saying “there is a snake!” trying to scare Marilyn. I told him “if you keep saying it and finally see one, no one is going to believe you.” Well, within fifteen minutes, Matthew yelled yet again “There is a snake!” This time he was serious – there were three of them.
Marilyn saw them, panicked (she hates snakes) and tried to run. When she did it, she jammed her toe hard against a rock causing instant pain. She decided to keep hiking hoping it was just a minor jam. She used a walking stick and was able to limp the remaining mile and a half to the look-out. The two and a half miles back down were rough. Marilyn’s foot got worse and I had to piggy back her part of the way down.
To further the complications, Bug and Madeline were mad they had to run on a hiking trail and felt we should’ve been more thoughtful in our planning so “we wouldn’t have to hike five miles and run a cross country work-out.” Plus, Abby suddenly slipped, fell and hurt her wrist. She was fine and her wrist did stop hurting. Then, Bug slipped and fell and her watch jammed into her wrist. She was fine too. Comically and within minutes, Matthew fell hard. At this point, I was a bit scared wandering what would happen next.
Meanwhile, Marilyn kept getting worse. By the time we got to the car, she could hardly walk. I had to help her to the house. By the time she went to bed she could not even touch her foot to the carpet. We did a bunch of googling and determined she had “turf toe.” This turned out to be a missed diagnosis.
With Marilyn completely down, it was up to me and the girls to make dinner and clean up. The girls did great on the dinner part (except for bickering at me for not helping enough), but as Marilyn limped to bed she glanced at the kitchen and was amazed in the worst kind of way. She even noted how awful our house would look if it wasn’t for her and she is right. I and the kiddos responded to her horror and cleaned before we went to bed. If I am tired, it is not hard for me to leave things in extreme disarray and dirt.
I spent most of the day catching up on personal items, bills and Grace Marriage stuff. It was great to get a bunch of things off my list and my mind.
After home-school, paying bills, etc., we took off for some sight-seeing. We started off a Dougan Falls. It was a cool waterfall with tons of rocks and a great view. We spent about 30 minutes skipping small rocks and climbing big ones. We were having fun until Matthew threw a rock and came close to hitting Bug. Bug about two feet in front of him and he whizzed one by her ear. Marilyn was very stressed/frustrated/relieved/a lot of other stuff… I think she was bothered by me not “big dealing” it enough.
After our Dougan Falls deal, the drama began. We went on a scenic hike called “Cape Horn.” Matthew kept saying “there is a snake!” trying to scare Marilyn. I told him “if you keep saying it and finally see one, no one is going to believe you.” Well, within fifteen minutes, Matthew yelled yet again “There is a snake!” This time he was serious – there were three of them.
Marilyn saw them, panicked (she hates snakes) and tried to run. When she did it, she jammed her toe hard against a rock causing instant pain. She decided to keep hiking hoping it was just a minor jam. She used a walking stick and was able to limp the remaining mile and a half to the look-out. The two and a half miles back down were rough. Marilyn’s foot got worse and I had to piggy back her part of the way down.
To further the complications, Bug and Madeline were mad they had to run on a hiking trail and felt we should’ve been more thoughtful in our planning so “we wouldn’t have to hike five miles and run a cross country work-out.” Plus, Abby suddenly slipped, fell and hurt her wrist. She was fine and her wrist did stop hurting. Then, Bug slipped and fell and her watch jammed into her wrist. She was fine too. Comically and within minutes, Matthew fell hard. At this point, I was a bit scared wandering what would happen next.
Meanwhile, Marilyn kept getting worse. By the time we got to the car, she could hardly walk. I had to help her to the house. By the time she went to bed she could not even touch her foot to the carpet. We did a bunch of googling and determined she had “turf toe.” This turned out to be a missed diagnosis.
With Marilyn completely down, it was up to me and the girls to make dinner and clean up. The girls did great on the dinner part (except for bickering at me for not helping enough), but as Marilyn limped to bed she glanced at the kitchen and was amazed in the worst kind of way. She even noted how awful our house would look if it wasn’t for her and she is right. I and the kiddos responded to her horror and cleaned before we went to bed. If I am tired, it is not hard for me to leave things in extreme disarray and dirt.
may 4, 2016
Today was flat out wild. First, we had to pack an entire house, eat breakfast, do some homeschool, hook up the trailer and be out of the house by 11:00 a.m. We scrambled hard and pulled away tired at 10:59 a.m. The kiddos were helpful.
Then, the decision. Do we go the standard route to Portland, Oregon or the scenic route which takes 34 minutes longer> Guess what Marilyn wanted to do? The scenic route. Well, actually the scenic route included a 39-mile additional jaunt off the scenic route to make it longer and more scenic.
Marilyn felt awful and guilty when we started our upward scenic ascent along the coast. I was quiet but pretty worried about the van. It was a hilly and stressful ride to Washougal. The low point on the ride here was when we hit a big dip and the trailer bottomed out.
We thought we had made it when we arrived at our place, but this was far from the case. When we arrived, the house had a steep gravel driveway. We hit it with some speed but not enough. About ¾ the way up the van’s wheels started spinning. Now, we are ¾’s the way up on a narrow gravel driveway with a bank on one side and a drop-off on the other. What are we to do? I tried to back it down and was successful until about 100 feet from the bottom. At this point, the trailer was pressed up against the bank and I could not go forward because the tires would just spin. The most stressful part was when we’d stop and the trailer would pull the van further down.
Marilyn was so stressed she was shaking. I was just ticked and trying to think of some way out of this mess. I decided we’d unload the trailer and drive our stuff up the hill and see if we could hand adjust the trailer on the wheel jack and then try to either back it down or yank it up the hill with the van. It seemed like a bad option with a lot of possible bad outcomes.
Then, I saw some heavily-bearded guy walking in front of his trailer. I got out of my car and tried to be conspicuous. We made eye contact and I stopped. He walked toward me and I told him our predicament. The good news is that he could not leave his driveway until the trailer was moved. Actually, he was very nice but said he didn’t have the right hitch to move our trailer.
We came up with an alternate idea, took my hitch off the van which fit into his SUV. Then, after we took some stuff out of the trailer, he was able to pull the trailer up the hill. His old Rodeo had no problem, but did shoot out some serious dark smoke. He told me he had a “valve problem.” He was great – he even took the spare off his SUV so he could get to the hitch.
God is good and provided a way. When I could not come up with an idea to safely get our trailer to our place, God provided us a friend. The man obviously did not have a lot of means but tried to refuse us paying him anything. I finally got him to take something, but I could tell he just enjoyed helping us. It does something for a man to tow someone else out with your truck.
The Oregon coast was awesome. It goes from beach, to mountain, to huge rocks protruding out of the ocean… It has amazing scenery. However, knowing what we do now, we would have taken A BIG PASS on the scenic drive. I have learned “scenic” might as well mean “mountainous.”
I have trouble even getting myself to check the fluids of our van. I almost prefer thinking everything is OK than seeing if it really is. It reminds me of the old country song where the singer says he wished he never found out his wife was cheating on him. He’d rather go on thinking all is OK, even if it is not.
Well, we are now at our place and doing fine. The kids did well and were not stressed about the trailer/van issue. I once asked the kids if they were stressed about something and they said “we weren’t stressed. It was really your problem.” The mind of a kid – don’t worry about it – mom and dad have to take care of it.
On a different note, after Matthew couldn’t find a redbox movie in the van, Kate Bradley just made an accurate statement. She said “Bottom line! Boys can’t find stuff.”
We closed off the night with a good fried fish dinner and I watched a movie with the kiddos while Marilyn read a book.
Then, the decision. Do we go the standard route to Portland, Oregon or the scenic route which takes 34 minutes longer> Guess what Marilyn wanted to do? The scenic route. Well, actually the scenic route included a 39-mile additional jaunt off the scenic route to make it longer and more scenic.
Marilyn felt awful and guilty when we started our upward scenic ascent along the coast. I was quiet but pretty worried about the van. It was a hilly and stressful ride to Washougal. The low point on the ride here was when we hit a big dip and the trailer bottomed out.
We thought we had made it when we arrived at our place, but this was far from the case. When we arrived, the house had a steep gravel driveway. We hit it with some speed but not enough. About ¾ the way up the van’s wheels started spinning. Now, we are ¾’s the way up on a narrow gravel driveway with a bank on one side and a drop-off on the other. What are we to do? I tried to back it down and was successful until about 100 feet from the bottom. At this point, the trailer was pressed up against the bank and I could not go forward because the tires would just spin. The most stressful part was when we’d stop and the trailer would pull the van further down.
Marilyn was so stressed she was shaking. I was just ticked and trying to think of some way out of this mess. I decided we’d unload the trailer and drive our stuff up the hill and see if we could hand adjust the trailer on the wheel jack and then try to either back it down or yank it up the hill with the van. It seemed like a bad option with a lot of possible bad outcomes.
Then, I saw some heavily-bearded guy walking in front of his trailer. I got out of my car and tried to be conspicuous. We made eye contact and I stopped. He walked toward me and I told him our predicament. The good news is that he could not leave his driveway until the trailer was moved. Actually, he was very nice but said he didn’t have the right hitch to move our trailer.
We came up with an alternate idea, took my hitch off the van which fit into his SUV. Then, after we took some stuff out of the trailer, he was able to pull the trailer up the hill. His old Rodeo had no problem, but did shoot out some serious dark smoke. He told me he had a “valve problem.” He was great – he even took the spare off his SUV so he could get to the hitch.
God is good and provided a way. When I could not come up with an idea to safely get our trailer to our place, God provided us a friend. The man obviously did not have a lot of means but tried to refuse us paying him anything. I finally got him to take something, but I could tell he just enjoyed helping us. It does something for a man to tow someone else out with your truck.
The Oregon coast was awesome. It goes from beach, to mountain, to huge rocks protruding out of the ocean… It has amazing scenery. However, knowing what we do now, we would have taken A BIG PASS on the scenic drive. I have learned “scenic” might as well mean “mountainous.”
I have trouble even getting myself to check the fluids of our van. I almost prefer thinking everything is OK than seeing if it really is. It reminds me of the old country song where the singer says he wished he never found out his wife was cheating on him. He’d rather go on thinking all is OK, even if it is not.
Well, we are now at our place and doing fine. The kids did well and were not stressed about the trailer/van issue. I once asked the kids if they were stressed about something and they said “we weren’t stressed. It was really your problem.” The mind of a kid – don’t worry about it – mom and dad have to take care of it.
On a different note, after Matthew couldn’t find a redbox movie in the van, Kate Bradley just made an accurate statement. She said “Bottom line! Boys can’t find stuff.”
We closed off the night with a good fried fish dinner and I watched a movie with the kiddos while Marilyn read a book.
may 3, 2016
The day started with me getting up early to take our van to get the oil changed, filter changed and transmission fluid drained and refilled. I dropped it off and rode a bike back to the house. I got a call saying our van was fine, but the wiring on the back had been broken in half. Praise God he saw that and fixed it. If I had packed the trailer tomorrow to find out there is no wiring, I would have been WAY ticked. I have no idea how it got broken, but God took care of us again.
At this point, our van had gotten to the “intolerable to Marilyn” dirty stage. So, I took the van for a good bath, vacuum and inside cleaning. I thought while I cleaned “if any van deserves a good bath and vacuum, it is ours.” The van has held up great, but we have put A LOT of stress on it – including big dents throughout the underside from Marilyn hitting a big rock.
After cleaning the van, we played Frisbee on the beach. All my kiddos have shown exceptional Frisbee improvement. They are now at a point where they really enjoy Frisbee.
After a good quiet-time this morning, I had a much better and more patient day. I decided to just go with it and not get stressed with all the bumps in the road.
After Frisbee, we loaded up to go on a drive down the Oregon Coast. We took off south and the views were amazing. The kiddos still do not like touring. I am like the mediator between Marilyn and the kids. Marilyn wants to sight-see and the kids want to just stay at the place and play on the beach. I finally told the kids “Look, we have done two full days at the beach. Honor your mom.” They jumped on board and hesitantly agreed the views were amazing.
I am very thankful for Marilyn. If it wasn’t for her, we would not be experiencing our country like we are. We drove to Perpetua Park right on the coast and hiked down to Devil"s Churn. There were tide pools with sea urchin and star fish. Even the kids were glad we came. They had fun climbing on the lava rocks by the ocean and looking at the tide pools. We drove about 50 miles down the coast and stopped in Florence for dinner. I went for a run with the girls while Marilyn picked a restaurant. We had a great meal while watching the Trailblazers play.
Madeline decided to use her money to buy a ticket to the Blazers/Warriors game on Saturday. She is WAY excited. She is definitely a Blazers’ fan.
Tomorrow is shaping up to be a stressful day. We have not started packing up the house or the trailer and have to be out of the house by 11:00 a.m. A good (and bad) quality of me and Marilyn is that we tend to just think it’ll work out.
On a side-note it is funny to watch Marilyn and Matthew interact. Matthew will ask the same question about 10 times in a row. Then, Marilyn will get frustrated. Then, Matthew will say “My strategy is to just keep asking the question until I get an answer.”
Matthew never stops – moving, thinking and talking. He keeps things alive, funny and happy in our house.
At this point, our van had gotten to the “intolerable to Marilyn” dirty stage. So, I took the van for a good bath, vacuum and inside cleaning. I thought while I cleaned “if any van deserves a good bath and vacuum, it is ours.” The van has held up great, but we have put A LOT of stress on it – including big dents throughout the underside from Marilyn hitting a big rock.
After cleaning the van, we played Frisbee on the beach. All my kiddos have shown exceptional Frisbee improvement. They are now at a point where they really enjoy Frisbee.
After a good quiet-time this morning, I had a much better and more patient day. I decided to just go with it and not get stressed with all the bumps in the road.
After Frisbee, we loaded up to go on a drive down the Oregon Coast. We took off south and the views were amazing. The kiddos still do not like touring. I am like the mediator between Marilyn and the kids. Marilyn wants to sight-see and the kids want to just stay at the place and play on the beach. I finally told the kids “Look, we have done two full days at the beach. Honor your mom.” They jumped on board and hesitantly agreed the views were amazing.
I am very thankful for Marilyn. If it wasn’t for her, we would not be experiencing our country like we are. We drove to Perpetua Park right on the coast and hiked down to Devil"s Churn. There were tide pools with sea urchin and star fish. Even the kids were glad we came. They had fun climbing on the lava rocks by the ocean and looking at the tide pools. We drove about 50 miles down the coast and stopped in Florence for dinner. I went for a run with the girls while Marilyn picked a restaurant. We had a great meal while watching the Trailblazers play.
Madeline decided to use her money to buy a ticket to the Blazers/Warriors game on Saturday. She is WAY excited. She is definitely a Blazers’ fan.
Tomorrow is shaping up to be a stressful day. We have not started packing up the house or the trailer and have to be out of the house by 11:00 a.m. A good (and bad) quality of me and Marilyn is that we tend to just think it’ll work out.
On a side-note it is funny to watch Marilyn and Matthew interact. Matthew will ask the same question about 10 times in a row. Then, Marilyn will get frustrated. Then, Matthew will say “My strategy is to just keep asking the question until I get an answer.”
Matthew never stops – moving, thinking and talking. He keeps things alive, funny and happy in our house.
may 2, 2016
Wow! What a day. Started very early getting ready to go on a fishing trip with Matthew and Abby. We were on a bigger boat with 16 people. It was a bit rough getting Matthew and Abby ready, fed and to the dock by 6:30 a.m.
It was a nerve-racking morning as we were worried about Marilyn’s dad who had surgery to repair and aortic aneurysm today. It was awesome to get the text saying the surgery went well and Pa is OK.
The trip was actually a huge hit. First, the boat ride was beautiful. We rode under the Newport bridge, along the coast, set crab traps and went fishing. The fishing was actually pretty good. We caught what they call Rock Fish. They look like a freshwater smallmouth with teeth.
Matthew loved it! He went up in the boat to talk to the captain and got to know a lot of people on the boat. Matthew does not hesitate on asking questions.
Yabbers liked it as well. We all caught fish, the deal was great and we came back with about 10 pounds of filets and 6 big crabs.
The sea was pretty rough, as the Pacific is totally different than the Gulf. We were able to see land and all survived without getting sick. One family wasn’t so lucky. They had four kids and four of the six of them were vomiting off the side.
The captain let Matthew and a few of the other boys pull up a crab basket from 100 feet down. It took all they had to pull it up, but Matthew’s version of “Deadliest Catch” was fun to watch. Plus, the kiddos loved playing with the keeper crabs.
There was a guy at the dock that cleans fish for $1 per fish. I couldn’t resist and let him do it. I watched him and he was amazing. He literally fileted two fish a minute. He gave me some tips and explained why it took me much longer and how I was wasting meat in the way I fileted fish.
It was very loud at the dock, as sea lions covered an abandoned dock and barked loud and constantly. Abby told me sea lions are like dog mermaids. She said they bark like dogs and have tails. Interesting analogy that she found on pinterest.
After the fishing trip we went on a tour of the last working lighthouse on the west coast. It was a very informative tour. Abby was so tired she was falling asleep standing up. At one point, Marilyn said “catch her” as Abby started falling asleep and leaning to one side.
Today was also a good “whale day.” We saw several whales on the fishing trip and then saw several more from the shore at the Lighthouse. Marilyn loves tours and love sight-seeing. It troubles her how little our kids want to learn about all the stuff we are seeing. They are taking it in – I just think it is natural for kids to just want to play.
When we got back Madeline and Marilyn went for a bike ride along the bay. A local told us it was an amazing scenic ride. Newport has been a great stop – fishing, beach, bike riding, whale watching and some scenic drives.
On a side note, it is like we have ten minor injuries a day. In the last few days: Abby banged her knee on the bedpost, it bled and now she is walking with a limp. I made the mistake of asking Abby and Matthew to sweep the floor together. Within five minutes Matthew was on the floor holding his eye because Abby “accidentally” hit him with the broom.
Today, Matthew was so tired from fishing he fell off the couch and hit his lip on the edge of the table bloodying his lip. Rachel says her knees hurt and told Marilyn “you don’t care about my knee and, if you don’t care about my knee, you don’t care about me!” A little jump for our little diva. Kate Bradley has a bruised foot from where she dropped the bike on it. I am still limping a little bit from the needle going through my foot. Matthew has a scar on his rear from the dog bite in Colorado.
It was a nerve-racking morning as we were worried about Marilyn’s dad who had surgery to repair and aortic aneurysm today. It was awesome to get the text saying the surgery went well and Pa is OK.
The trip was actually a huge hit. First, the boat ride was beautiful. We rode under the Newport bridge, along the coast, set crab traps and went fishing. The fishing was actually pretty good. We caught what they call Rock Fish. They look like a freshwater smallmouth with teeth.
Matthew loved it! He went up in the boat to talk to the captain and got to know a lot of people on the boat. Matthew does not hesitate on asking questions.
Yabbers liked it as well. We all caught fish, the deal was great and we came back with about 10 pounds of filets and 6 big crabs.
The sea was pretty rough, as the Pacific is totally different than the Gulf. We were able to see land and all survived without getting sick. One family wasn’t so lucky. They had four kids and four of the six of them were vomiting off the side.
The captain let Matthew and a few of the other boys pull up a crab basket from 100 feet down. It took all they had to pull it up, but Matthew’s version of “Deadliest Catch” was fun to watch. Plus, the kiddos loved playing with the keeper crabs.
There was a guy at the dock that cleans fish for $1 per fish. I couldn’t resist and let him do it. I watched him and he was amazing. He literally fileted two fish a minute. He gave me some tips and explained why it took me much longer and how I was wasting meat in the way I fileted fish.
It was very loud at the dock, as sea lions covered an abandoned dock and barked loud and constantly. Abby told me sea lions are like dog mermaids. She said they bark like dogs and have tails. Interesting analogy that she found on pinterest.
After the fishing trip we went on a tour of the last working lighthouse on the west coast. It was a very informative tour. Abby was so tired she was falling asleep standing up. At one point, Marilyn said “catch her” as Abby started falling asleep and leaning to one side.
Today was also a good “whale day.” We saw several whales on the fishing trip and then saw several more from the shore at the Lighthouse. Marilyn loves tours and love sight-seeing. It troubles her how little our kids want to learn about all the stuff we are seeing. They are taking it in – I just think it is natural for kids to just want to play.
When we got back Madeline and Marilyn went for a bike ride along the bay. A local told us it was an amazing scenic ride. Newport has been a great stop – fishing, beach, bike riding, whale watching and some scenic drives.
On a side note, it is like we have ten minor injuries a day. In the last few days: Abby banged her knee on the bedpost, it bled and now she is walking with a limp. I made the mistake of asking Abby and Matthew to sweep the floor together. Within five minutes Matthew was on the floor holding his eye because Abby “accidentally” hit him with the broom.
Today, Matthew was so tired from fishing he fell off the couch and hit his lip on the edge of the table bloodying his lip. Rachel says her knees hurt and told Marilyn “you don’t care about my knee and, if you don’t care about my knee, you don’t care about me!” A little jump for our little diva. Kate Bradley has a bruised foot from where she dropped the bike on it. I am still limping a little bit from the needle going through my foot. Matthew has a scar on his rear from the dog bite in Colorado.
may 1, 2016
Four months into the trip. 15,000 miles, 16 states, visits with great friends and tons of amazing experiences. We are closer as a family than ever before. Our kiddos are closer to one another than ever before. I never realized how little our family was all together until our family is ALL TOGETHER. We eat three meals a day together --- we are all together like all the time.
It is great! Don’t get me wrong – we have plenty of conflicts and issues, like on a daily basis. However, it continues to be an amazing bonding experience for all of us.
Today, the weather was amazing. We started the day off with a mini-church service in our house. We watched a sermon given to us by a friend named Mark from Chico. It was entitled “It’s Him Again.” It was a great reminder to look for God’s work in this world. The kids stayed engaged and it sparked some good post-sermon discussion.
After the sermon, we went to the beach. Abbers and Bug continue to be the swimmers. They will swim and swim no matter how cold it is. They had a blast. Then, we threw the Frisbee for a while before going back to the place for lunch.
It was unseasonably warm here today and got in the upper 70’ies. One local told us to “enjoy it. We only get three or four days like this a year.” So, we decided to make it a beach day. We went back to the beach, more Frisbee, more swimming and more walking down the beach. It was a great and warm day at the beach.
We got another warning from a local about the “sneaker waves” and were told to never turn your back to the ocean when you are near the water.
After a good beach day, Marilyn went for a run with our oldest four while I stayed back at the place with Rachel. Rachel watched Frozen and loved it --- she never gets tired of this movie.
After the run, we made dinner for everyone and Marilyn and I went out on a date. I have been a bit flat and a date was a good idea. First, at Marilyn’s recommendation, we went to the lighthouse which turned out to be an amazing idea. We saw seals and three whales from the overlook. The whales are amazing. You can see them come out of the water and spray water up into the air. It is really cool.
After the lighthouse, we went to dinner at a place called “The Local Ocean.” A good friend had given us some “date night money” and it has been a blessing to go to some nicer places.
Marilyn could be a tour guide for a living. She loves seeing stuff and loves taking other people to see stuff. The kids are kind of amazed at how much she loves sight-seeing. We saw a bridge here in Newport and Marilyn thought it was way cool. Bug responded “I think Owensboro’s bridge is prettier.” Actually, we should be thankful. Marilyn is the driver of us getting to experience so much of America.
Our kiddos (and us) will never forget this trip and we will be forever grateful to God for this amazing opportunity. It has been fascinating to see so many cultures, states, sites and geography. Our country really is amazing. The stuff we have seen is so cool you could literally spend a month at each place and never see everything.
I was hesitant to do this trip, but now see it as one of the best decisions we have ever made. It is an amazing gift from God to get six months with my family. Right now, I get to run with them. I get to hang with them. When we get home, I will be sharing them with so many people, coaches, teachers and friends. I realize that is a good thing, but having this time with them is truly amazing.
Tomorrow morning, I am going rock fishing with Abbers and Matthew on a big boat with 17 other people. It could be great or it could be one tangled mess intertwining ourselves literally with a bunch of other families.
We have tried to be relatively transparent on the website, but in reality, there is a ton of stuff that didn’t make it to the website. The joy is greater than we have written. The troubles have been greater than we have written. The complications have been greater than we have written. You get the drift. Reality is always less pretty than the written description of it. However, in this case, the reality is both more awesome and more messy than what has been written.
Two more months – I will be VERY sad when this is over. I have gotten a little emotional thinking about this glorious window closing. However, I am very excited and anticipatory about what God has in store for our family in helping marriages and hopefully changing marriage in our culture.
It is great! Don’t get me wrong – we have plenty of conflicts and issues, like on a daily basis. However, it continues to be an amazing bonding experience for all of us.
Today, the weather was amazing. We started the day off with a mini-church service in our house. We watched a sermon given to us by a friend named Mark from Chico. It was entitled “It’s Him Again.” It was a great reminder to look for God’s work in this world. The kids stayed engaged and it sparked some good post-sermon discussion.
After the sermon, we went to the beach. Abbers and Bug continue to be the swimmers. They will swim and swim no matter how cold it is. They had a blast. Then, we threw the Frisbee for a while before going back to the place for lunch.
It was unseasonably warm here today and got in the upper 70’ies. One local told us to “enjoy it. We only get three or four days like this a year.” So, we decided to make it a beach day. We went back to the beach, more Frisbee, more swimming and more walking down the beach. It was a great and warm day at the beach.
We got another warning from a local about the “sneaker waves” and were told to never turn your back to the ocean when you are near the water.
After a good beach day, Marilyn went for a run with our oldest four while I stayed back at the place with Rachel. Rachel watched Frozen and loved it --- she never gets tired of this movie.
After the run, we made dinner for everyone and Marilyn and I went out on a date. I have been a bit flat and a date was a good idea. First, at Marilyn’s recommendation, we went to the lighthouse which turned out to be an amazing idea. We saw seals and three whales from the overlook. The whales are amazing. You can see them come out of the water and spray water up into the air. It is really cool.
After the lighthouse, we went to dinner at a place called “The Local Ocean.” A good friend had given us some “date night money” and it has been a blessing to go to some nicer places.
Marilyn could be a tour guide for a living. She loves seeing stuff and loves taking other people to see stuff. The kids are kind of amazed at how much she loves sight-seeing. We saw a bridge here in Newport and Marilyn thought it was way cool. Bug responded “I think Owensboro’s bridge is prettier.” Actually, we should be thankful. Marilyn is the driver of us getting to experience so much of America.
Our kiddos (and us) will never forget this trip and we will be forever grateful to God for this amazing opportunity. It has been fascinating to see so many cultures, states, sites and geography. Our country really is amazing. The stuff we have seen is so cool you could literally spend a month at each place and never see everything.
I was hesitant to do this trip, but now see it as one of the best decisions we have ever made. It is an amazing gift from God to get six months with my family. Right now, I get to run with them. I get to hang with them. When we get home, I will be sharing them with so many people, coaches, teachers and friends. I realize that is a good thing, but having this time with them is truly amazing.
Tomorrow morning, I am going rock fishing with Abbers and Matthew on a big boat with 17 other people. It could be great or it could be one tangled mess intertwining ourselves literally with a bunch of other families.
We have tried to be relatively transparent on the website, but in reality, there is a ton of stuff that didn’t make it to the website. The joy is greater than we have written. The troubles have been greater than we have written. The complications have been greater than we have written. You get the drift. Reality is always less pretty than the written description of it. However, in this case, the reality is both more awesome and more messy than what has been written.
Two more months – I will be VERY sad when this is over. I have gotten a little emotional thinking about this glorious window closing. However, I am very excited and anticipatory about what God has in store for our family in helping marriages and hopefully changing marriage in our culture.
april 30, 2016
Today was a chill day on the beach. The only problem was, when we got to the beach, the winds were about 30 miles per hour. The sand would rip on your leg.
Abbers provided the usual random analysis. Out of nowhere she said “jails are kind of like cages for people. When people act like animals, they get put in those cages.”
When we got back from the beach we tried to put together a plan. After lunch, we went looking for a basketball court (unsuccessfully), bought virgin pina colada stuff for the kids and drove around Newport. It is tough going shopping with Matthew. It is like going shopping with a puppy off a leash. He runs around, acts like he is shooting fade-aways, tries to push the cart backward and laughs at virtually everything. We had fun at the store – the kiddos felt like rebels when I asked for “Cream of Coconut” and, when asked what it was for, I said “we are making virgin pina coladas."
Newport is a cool town. The bay, bridge and area are very pretty. One catch, it is never very warm here. The temperatures in the summer are high 60’ies or low 70’ies for the high and 40’ies to 50’ies for the low. On the positive side, it never really gets cold either. The temperature stays pretty much the same all year.
We got a warning about beach swimming. They have these “sneaker waves” that can come out of nowhere, level you and drag you out to sea. There are warning signs everywhere. Plus, it is weird to have a sign in our rental that says “tsunami zone. If you feel an earthquake, do not wait for a warning. Go to higher ground immediately.”
Another odd gig about this place is that we are ½ block from a recreational marijuana store. If you are over 21, it appears like you can just go in and buy some. Don’t worry – we aren’t partaking.
When we got back the place, the kiddos enjoyed acting like they were living the high life, as they drank pina coladas and hung out in the hot tub.
After that, we ate wings and watched some NBA. Unfortunately, the Spurs were up 33 at half blowing the fun NBA experience.
After the game, we watched two episodes of Good Luck Charlie and a movie. Marilyn went downstairs to read a book, but didn’t finish ten pages before falling asleep.
Marilyn and I went for a run during the day. On the way out we had about a 30 mile per hour wind at our back. When we turned around to run back, it was unbearable. We walked a bit and then walked up a walkway to take the less windy road back.
Overall, it was a pretty good down day. Watching shows with the kids, going to the beach, running with Marilyn and just driving around was a nice day. Marilyn is one HUGE tourist. She wants to tour, hike and see everything. I bought her an “Oregon Coast” magazine. She almost got stressed when she realized how much she wants to see around here.
Abbers provided the usual random analysis. Out of nowhere she said “jails are kind of like cages for people. When people act like animals, they get put in those cages.”
When we got back from the beach we tried to put together a plan. After lunch, we went looking for a basketball court (unsuccessfully), bought virgin pina colada stuff for the kids and drove around Newport. It is tough going shopping with Matthew. It is like going shopping with a puppy off a leash. He runs around, acts like he is shooting fade-aways, tries to push the cart backward and laughs at virtually everything. We had fun at the store – the kiddos felt like rebels when I asked for “Cream of Coconut” and, when asked what it was for, I said “we are making virgin pina coladas."
Newport is a cool town. The bay, bridge and area are very pretty. One catch, it is never very warm here. The temperatures in the summer are high 60’ies or low 70’ies for the high and 40’ies to 50’ies for the low. On the positive side, it never really gets cold either. The temperature stays pretty much the same all year.
We got a warning about beach swimming. They have these “sneaker waves” that can come out of nowhere, level you and drag you out to sea. There are warning signs everywhere. Plus, it is weird to have a sign in our rental that says “tsunami zone. If you feel an earthquake, do not wait for a warning. Go to higher ground immediately.”
Another odd gig about this place is that we are ½ block from a recreational marijuana store. If you are over 21, it appears like you can just go in and buy some. Don’t worry – we aren’t partaking.
When we got back the place, the kiddos enjoyed acting like they were living the high life, as they drank pina coladas and hung out in the hot tub.
After that, we ate wings and watched some NBA. Unfortunately, the Spurs were up 33 at half blowing the fun NBA experience.
After the game, we watched two episodes of Good Luck Charlie and a movie. Marilyn went downstairs to read a book, but didn’t finish ten pages before falling asleep.
Marilyn and I went for a run during the day. On the way out we had about a 30 mile per hour wind at our back. When we turned around to run back, it was unbearable. We walked a bit and then walked up a walkway to take the less windy road back.
Overall, it was a pretty good down day. Watching shows with the kids, going to the beach, running with Marilyn and just driving around was a nice day. Marilyn is one HUGE tourist. She wants to tour, hike and see everything. I bought her an “Oregon Coast” magazine. She almost got stressed when she realized how much she wants to see around here.
april 29, 2016
Today, the big decision for me was whether to drive to Portland for the NBA playoff game tonight. It sounds a ton of fun, but it is almost three hours each way. I was leaning a little against it until Madeline told me she’d love to go too. With Madeline and Matthew REALLY wanting to go, the prospect of watching them have that much fun pushed me over the edge to go.
I have been online on and off all morning trying to get the best deal on NBA tickets. I have yet to hit the deal I want and, as of now, the prospects of me getting the deal I want seems somewhat slim.
Everyone is doing home-school while Marilyn is at the grocery. When Marilyn got back, I took Abbers to the gluten-free bakery while Marilyn made lunch. When I got back, I finally pulled the trigger on tickets. The deal I was hoping for never occurred, but we did OK.
I took off for the game with Madeline and Matthew three times. The first time we had to turn around to go get medication. The second time we had to turn around and come back to give Marilyn the key to the trailer and the movies. Third time was a charm – we headed out for the arena.
The game was crazy amazing. It was like a home NCAA tournament game. The crowd was loud the entire game and even before the game started. Before the game, there were tons of people buzzing around in Blazers’ stuff with a band playing in front of a sign that said “Rip City.” I asked an usher why everyone calls Portland “Rip City.” He said he wasn’t sure but thinks it was from an announcer years ago who used the term rip as the ball went through the net and Rip City somehow stuck.
Before the game, Matthew, of course, wanted to try to get autographs. I told him he was not going to get autographs with upper deck tickets to a playoff game. He insisted on trying, found a nice usher, got down low and actually got the autograph of the Blazers’ two best players, Damion Lilard and C.J. McCollom. He literally laid down on the armrests of chairs and on the ground to slide between someone’s legs to slide his poster over the rail in the site of the players. He told me “Damion looked at me funny, but did grab and sign my poster.” Matthew is persistent and has become an excellent autograph-getter.
There was a “Rip City” tee shirt in every seat and they gave away noise makers and other stuff to increase the fan craziness.
From the national anthem to the final buzzer, the crowd was loud and rowdy. Pre-game everyone had Blazers light-up sticks and it was real cool seeing 20,000 plus of them in the dark in the huge arena.
Cheers would spontaneously erupt, the crowd did the wave and some questionable language would ring out when things went south. Madeline absolutely loved it. She says she is now a huge Blazers’ fan, has no second favorite team and wants to get cable to watch the Blazers’ games.
Matthew ranked it clearly #1 in all the NBA games he has seen. He was wearing a Clippers hat (from our Clippers hat night experience in LA), but took it off quickly and jumped on the bandwagon.
After the game, everything was buzzing. Tons of strangers gave us high fives and “Let’s Go Blazers” cheers rang through the stairwells. An energetic usher at the gate was slapping hard 5’s to everyone who came through. It was awesome.
As we were walking out, a band was blaring “welcome to my house” while fans yelled and danced. Plus, a TV camera came up to us and asked us “Who won?” Matthew paused, held up a number one and screamed “THE RIP CITY!!!!!!” The TV guy started laughing. Later, Matthew said his only regret was he didn’t think to take his shirt off before screaming “The Rip City.” I told him not to scream, as he had already lost his voice, but after the scream, he said “being in front of a TV camera is an exception. Right dad?”
The game was really like a college tournament game at a home venue. It was amazing how excited everyone was. Portland has an AMAZING fan following.
Madeline and Matthew promptly fell asleep and the three-hour drive back was rough, but worth it. I got home around 1:30 a.m. and making it to the bed felt awesome.
While we were having fun at the game, Marilyn stayed back with Abbers, Bug and Rachel. They watched movies, walked on the beach and had ice cream. .
I have been online on and off all morning trying to get the best deal on NBA tickets. I have yet to hit the deal I want and, as of now, the prospects of me getting the deal I want seems somewhat slim.
Everyone is doing home-school while Marilyn is at the grocery. When Marilyn got back, I took Abbers to the gluten-free bakery while Marilyn made lunch. When I got back, I finally pulled the trigger on tickets. The deal I was hoping for never occurred, but we did OK.
I took off for the game with Madeline and Matthew three times. The first time we had to turn around to go get medication. The second time we had to turn around and come back to give Marilyn the key to the trailer and the movies. Third time was a charm – we headed out for the arena.
The game was crazy amazing. It was like a home NCAA tournament game. The crowd was loud the entire game and even before the game started. Before the game, there were tons of people buzzing around in Blazers’ stuff with a band playing in front of a sign that said “Rip City.” I asked an usher why everyone calls Portland “Rip City.” He said he wasn’t sure but thinks it was from an announcer years ago who used the term rip as the ball went through the net and Rip City somehow stuck.
Before the game, Matthew, of course, wanted to try to get autographs. I told him he was not going to get autographs with upper deck tickets to a playoff game. He insisted on trying, found a nice usher, got down low and actually got the autograph of the Blazers’ two best players, Damion Lilard and C.J. McCollom. He literally laid down on the armrests of chairs and on the ground to slide between someone’s legs to slide his poster over the rail in the site of the players. He told me “Damion looked at me funny, but did grab and sign my poster.” Matthew is persistent and has become an excellent autograph-getter.
There was a “Rip City” tee shirt in every seat and they gave away noise makers and other stuff to increase the fan craziness.
From the national anthem to the final buzzer, the crowd was loud and rowdy. Pre-game everyone had Blazers light-up sticks and it was real cool seeing 20,000 plus of them in the dark in the huge arena.
Cheers would spontaneously erupt, the crowd did the wave and some questionable language would ring out when things went south. Madeline absolutely loved it. She says she is now a huge Blazers’ fan, has no second favorite team and wants to get cable to watch the Blazers’ games.
Matthew ranked it clearly #1 in all the NBA games he has seen. He was wearing a Clippers hat (from our Clippers hat night experience in LA), but took it off quickly and jumped on the bandwagon.
After the game, everything was buzzing. Tons of strangers gave us high fives and “Let’s Go Blazers” cheers rang through the stairwells. An energetic usher at the gate was slapping hard 5’s to everyone who came through. It was awesome.
As we were walking out, a band was blaring “welcome to my house” while fans yelled and danced. Plus, a TV camera came up to us and asked us “Who won?” Matthew paused, held up a number one and screamed “THE RIP CITY!!!!!!” The TV guy started laughing. Later, Matthew said his only regret was he didn’t think to take his shirt off before screaming “The Rip City.” I told him not to scream, as he had already lost his voice, but after the scream, he said “being in front of a TV camera is an exception. Right dad?”
The game was really like a college tournament game at a home venue. It was amazing how excited everyone was. Portland has an AMAZING fan following.
Madeline and Matthew promptly fell asleep and the three-hour drive back was rough, but worth it. I got home around 1:30 a.m. and making it to the bed felt awesome.
While we were having fun at the game, Marilyn stayed back with Abbers, Bug and Rachel. They watched movies, walked on the beach and had ice cream. .
april 28, 2016
I woke up worried about the van, did some mechanic research and took off to get an assessment of the damage, if any, to the van. The recommended mechanic didn’t have an opening for 5 days. However, he did have one of his workers check our transmission fluid. He said it looked fine and told me the smell from the night before wasn’t something to worry about it.
Plus, I called my friend Mike Aull at Mike’s Automotive in Owensboro and he confirmed what I’d been told. Mike has been amazing. I have called him about 5 times this trip and he has be informative, helpful and kind every time.
Then, I headed to another place to have the brakes checked. Turns out, the brakes (and tires) are fine. I felt better, but still had not wound down from the night before.
On the way back from the mechanic, I stopped at a bike shop to talk about the area. I met some really nice people who gave us great recommendations on what to do and where to eat in Newport. It is nice to be in Newport (and safe) and to have the trailer unhooked from the van for a week.
When I got back we went to the beach. Actually and surprisingly, the water was warmer here than it was in San Francisco. Don’t get me wrong – it was still painfully cold. Somehow Bug and Yabbers don’t seem to be fazed by freezing water. I got in with them up to my knees and my legs just hurt. They were so cold it made them hurt.
On the beach, Marilyn went for a walk with Rachel and I played Frisbee with the other kiddos. Our kids are growing in frisbability. Bug usually isn’t too good at throwing a Frisbee, but yesterday she had it going. Abby speculated that an angel came to her in the middle of the night and bestowed Frisbee throwing ability.
After the beach, we got in the hot tub, cooled off and went for a run. Madeline and Bug did a pretty hard workout. I had the privilege of a much less challenging run with Matthew and Abby.
The plan was to celebrate my birthday last night. We went to a fun restaurant called the Chowder Bowl and went to Walmart for me to pick out a cake. The kiddos got me some fun gifts and we had a pretty good night. Marilyn and I were still a bit fried from the day before and kind of limped to the end of the day. The plan was to watch a rental movie, but Marilyn and I both conked out and fell asleep.
Abby had a couple of funnies today. First, she was extremely troubled that Marilyn didn’t get candles for my cake. She told Marilyn she had inflicted “birthday abuse” on her dad. Also, Abby had to write a paper on the “worst homework assignment ever.” She really expressed her dislike for school in one page. It reminds me what a doctor told us when Abby was younger: “she has a unique disdain for school.”
Plus, I called my friend Mike Aull at Mike’s Automotive in Owensboro and he confirmed what I’d been told. Mike has been amazing. I have called him about 5 times this trip and he has be informative, helpful and kind every time.
Then, I headed to another place to have the brakes checked. Turns out, the brakes (and tires) are fine. I felt better, but still had not wound down from the night before.
On the way back from the mechanic, I stopped at a bike shop to talk about the area. I met some really nice people who gave us great recommendations on what to do and where to eat in Newport. It is nice to be in Newport (and safe) and to have the trailer unhooked from the van for a week.
When I got back we went to the beach. Actually and surprisingly, the water was warmer here than it was in San Francisco. Don’t get me wrong – it was still painfully cold. Somehow Bug and Yabbers don’t seem to be fazed by freezing water. I got in with them up to my knees and my legs just hurt. They were so cold it made them hurt.
On the beach, Marilyn went for a walk with Rachel and I played Frisbee with the other kiddos. Our kids are growing in frisbability. Bug usually isn’t too good at throwing a Frisbee, but yesterday she had it going. Abby speculated that an angel came to her in the middle of the night and bestowed Frisbee throwing ability.
After the beach, we got in the hot tub, cooled off and went for a run. Madeline and Bug did a pretty hard workout. I had the privilege of a much less challenging run with Matthew and Abby.
The plan was to celebrate my birthday last night. We went to a fun restaurant called the Chowder Bowl and went to Walmart for me to pick out a cake. The kiddos got me some fun gifts and we had a pretty good night. Marilyn and I were still a bit fried from the day before and kind of limped to the end of the day. The plan was to watch a rental movie, but Marilyn and I both conked out and fell asleep.
Abby had a couple of funnies today. First, she was extremely troubled that Marilyn didn’t get candles for my cake. She told Marilyn she had inflicted “birthday abuse” on her dad. Also, Abby had to write a paper on the “worst homework assignment ever.” She really expressed her dislike for school in one page. It reminds me what a doctor told us when Abby was younger: “she has a unique disdain for school.”
april 27, 2016
My birthday started out nice, but ended pretty rough. First, we got up, had the traditional Rhoads’ birthday M and M pancakes. The kids and Marilyn had all written me nice cards. Plus, random Abbers gave me $10 bucks to buy myself a gift. Madeline used pinterest to turn a $1 bill into a heart.
After breakfast, we started the packing effort. I packed, Madeline and Bug worked on school and Marilyn took the youngers to the Sharc for some swimming. I unloaded, reloaded and packed the trailer and then went for a run with Madeline and Bug.
We finally got out and started our drive to Newport, Oregon. We stopped at an outlet for running shoes and didn’t really get on the road until almost 5:00 p.m. Then, the adventure began.
I tried my best to find the right route to Newport, but failed. I called the Oregon Highway Patrol, checked the weather, checked the travel website and felt Hwy 20 was a good route. Turns out, it was real rough.
Before the stressful action, we did stop for dinner in Sisters, OR. Sisters (and Oregon for that matter) is one amazing and beautiful state. Plus, before the drive got bad, we played a fun question game with the kids in the car.
We should’ve known it was going to be bad when we saw a sign that said “First Warning.” Then, we saw a sign that said “Final Warning.” The warning was for an 11-mile steep drive down the Cascade mountains. With the trailer pushing us with too much momentum, we had to ride the brakes hard. After three miles, I stopped and our brakes were fire hot. You couldn’t even touch the hubcap it was so hot. The problem: We still had 8 miles of straight downhill to go.
Plus, it stressed me out more that there were almost no cars on the road, it was at night and there was ZERO cell service. We did think that we had plenty of junk in the trailer to keep warm and it wasn’t crazy cold.
We sat on the side of the road for 30 minutes to allow our brakes to cool. Sitting on the side of the road worried about your car, with the kids conflicting and trying to figure out what to do next wasn’t the best gig in the world. Then, we put the van in low and drove 15 mph for the next 8 miles. Near the bottom, we smelled an unsettling odor from the car. At the bottom, I stopped, checked the transmission fluid and it had a troubling smell to it.
Worried about our brakes and our transmission, the rest of the drive was windy, hilly and stressful. We finally made it to Newport around 12:15 a.m. The good news is our rental place is nice and I think our van is going to be OK.
After breakfast, we started the packing effort. I packed, Madeline and Bug worked on school and Marilyn took the youngers to the Sharc for some swimming. I unloaded, reloaded and packed the trailer and then went for a run with Madeline and Bug.
We finally got out and started our drive to Newport, Oregon. We stopped at an outlet for running shoes and didn’t really get on the road until almost 5:00 p.m. Then, the adventure began.
I tried my best to find the right route to Newport, but failed. I called the Oregon Highway Patrol, checked the weather, checked the travel website and felt Hwy 20 was a good route. Turns out, it was real rough.
Before the stressful action, we did stop for dinner in Sisters, OR. Sisters (and Oregon for that matter) is one amazing and beautiful state. Plus, before the drive got bad, we played a fun question game with the kids in the car.
We should’ve known it was going to be bad when we saw a sign that said “First Warning.” Then, we saw a sign that said “Final Warning.” The warning was for an 11-mile steep drive down the Cascade mountains. With the trailer pushing us with too much momentum, we had to ride the brakes hard. After three miles, I stopped and our brakes were fire hot. You couldn’t even touch the hubcap it was so hot. The problem: We still had 8 miles of straight downhill to go.
Plus, it stressed me out more that there were almost no cars on the road, it was at night and there was ZERO cell service. We did think that we had plenty of junk in the trailer to keep warm and it wasn’t crazy cold.
We sat on the side of the road for 30 minutes to allow our brakes to cool. Sitting on the side of the road worried about your car, with the kids conflicting and trying to figure out what to do next wasn’t the best gig in the world. Then, we put the van in low and drove 15 mph for the next 8 miles. Near the bottom, we smelled an unsettling odor from the car. At the bottom, I stopped, checked the transmission fluid and it had a troubling smell to it.
Worried about our brakes and our transmission, the rest of the drive was windy, hilly and stressful. We finally made it to Newport around 12:15 a.m. The good news is our rental place is nice and I think our van is going to be OK.
april 26, 2016
The day started out early with Marilyn being frustrated with me as my cell phone started dinging with the Fellas text thread(5:00 a.m. because we are two hours behind). I forget to turn off my ringer regularly and “the Fellas” start texting early each day.
I got up and, good news, Marilyn did fall back asleep this time. I fell asleep in a recliner with Rachel in my lap. Matthew came downstairs and fell asleep on the couch. Then, everyone woke up and we started home-school. Rachel has spent all morning coloring me a picture for my birthday tomorrow.
We love this place and wish we’d booked it longer. It is very reasonable in price, includes a nice indoor pool, has a hot tub and tons to do. The disadvantage of going to new places is you have no idea what to expect. This is also the advantage --- it continues to be one fun adventure.
Needless to say, Matthew has been begging me to go fishing. I went in a fishing shop and found a lake stocked with trout. Oregon regulations do not allow live bait. Oregon has some interesting laws – no sales tax, no live bait and gas stations are required to have an employee to pump the gas. I started to pump gas, was stopped and informed she had to do it. I asked why. She said “it is a law.” I asked “why do they have that law?” She said “it creates jobs.” Maybe that is why gas is more expensive here. However, it is still WAY cheaper than California.
Today we went to Bend, OR to see the downtown and explore a bit. Bend is a pretty awesome city and area. It is known as the best outdoor area anywhere. You can ski one day and golf the next. There are ton of ski slopes, bike trails, hiking trails, snow mobile trails, golf courses and natural beauty everywhere. Plus, a cool river goes right through downtown Bend. It is one of the coolest cities we have seen.
While we were walking through Bend and going through a few stores Rachel came up to me with her hands on her hips and said “DAD, you don’t care about how cute stuff is, you just care about how much it costs!” There is a lot of truth in her statement. Abbers and Madeline did find a cool Bend hat to share and we had a great time in the city.
After our tour of Bend we drove to Mount Bachelor. It is amazing how quickly you drive up to snow here. It’ll be in the upper 60’ies and, ten minutes later, there will be snow everywhere. Mount Bachelor was beautiful, as were the other mountains around it.
It continues to be fun watching Marilyn do school with Matthew. One example: Marilyn: “name an action verb.” Matthew: “pooping!” Marilyn: “Matthew!!!”
After our Bend tour, we went to the Sharc for some swimming. Then, we came back and I grilled chicken while Marilyn went for a run with the girls (and Matthew).
We had a nice day. This area is amazing. If we had it all over again, we would have planned to spend more time in this area.
I got up and, good news, Marilyn did fall back asleep this time. I fell asleep in a recliner with Rachel in my lap. Matthew came downstairs and fell asleep on the couch. Then, everyone woke up and we started home-school. Rachel has spent all morning coloring me a picture for my birthday tomorrow.
We love this place and wish we’d booked it longer. It is very reasonable in price, includes a nice indoor pool, has a hot tub and tons to do. The disadvantage of going to new places is you have no idea what to expect. This is also the advantage --- it continues to be one fun adventure.
Needless to say, Matthew has been begging me to go fishing. I went in a fishing shop and found a lake stocked with trout. Oregon regulations do not allow live bait. Oregon has some interesting laws – no sales tax, no live bait and gas stations are required to have an employee to pump the gas. I started to pump gas, was stopped and informed she had to do it. I asked why. She said “it is a law.” I asked “why do they have that law?” She said “it creates jobs.” Maybe that is why gas is more expensive here. However, it is still WAY cheaper than California.
Today we went to Bend, OR to see the downtown and explore a bit. Bend is a pretty awesome city and area. It is known as the best outdoor area anywhere. You can ski one day and golf the next. There are ton of ski slopes, bike trails, hiking trails, snow mobile trails, golf courses and natural beauty everywhere. Plus, a cool river goes right through downtown Bend. It is one of the coolest cities we have seen.
While we were walking through Bend and going through a few stores Rachel came up to me with her hands on her hips and said “DAD, you don’t care about how cute stuff is, you just care about how much it costs!” There is a lot of truth in her statement. Abbers and Madeline did find a cool Bend hat to share and we had a great time in the city.
After our tour of Bend we drove to Mount Bachelor. It is amazing how quickly you drive up to snow here. It’ll be in the upper 60’ies and, ten minutes later, there will be snow everywhere. Mount Bachelor was beautiful, as were the other mountains around it.
It continues to be fun watching Marilyn do school with Matthew. One example: Marilyn: “name an action verb.” Matthew: “pooping!” Marilyn: “Matthew!!!”
After our Bend tour, we went to the Sharc for some swimming. Then, we came back and I grilled chicken while Marilyn went for a run with the girls (and Matthew).
We had a nice day. This area is amazing. If we had it all over again, we would have planned to spend more time in this area.
april 25, 2016
Our first day in Sunriver. It started off with some frustrating home-school. We were hoping to knock it out pretty quickly to get to the sights, but Matthew and Abby made sure that didn’t happen.
It was pretty cool building a fire in Central Oregon and hanging out, but trying to force-feed math into Matthew and Abby wouldn’t have been my first choice.
We finally finished home-school around 1:00 p.m. and went to a Mexican restaurant for lunch. Rachel insisted she ride her bike to the restaurant and so did Matthew. Rachel likes biking in greater measure than her skill in biking. My phone ran out of juice and Marilyn couldn’t call us to tell us where they were eating. We looked around and finally found them.
The restaurant was great. I was a bit edgy after a full day’s driving and a full morning of home-school. When I seem edgy Marilyn always looks in my eyes and says “are you OK?” I say “fine.” Then, she says “you know I hate the word fine.” This is just a regular conversation of ours.
After lunch I rode bikes back with Matthew and Rachel. The ride start off the wrong way. I buckled Rachel’s chin with her helmet. Her scream was like a siren going off. Plus, Rachel is never too quick in stopping her screaming.
After we got back, I took the girls swimming while Marilyn took Matthew on a bike ride. The indoor swimming facility here is amazing. It is called the “Sharc.” It has a basketball goal, a volleyball net and other cool features. All the kids loved it. Rachel continued her progress, swam in the deep end and even jumped in by herself off the side. Rachel will slowly develop necessary courage. You just have to give her the space she needs.
The funniest part of our swimming adventure was on the way out.After we changed out of our swimsuits into clothes Rachel walked past two female workers and said “I had to go commando. I forgot my panties.” We looked so redneck with our five-year old proclaiming she was commando. The ladies burst out laughing.
Marilyn and Matthew went on a long bike ride. Matthew is a good bike rider, but struggles going downhill. He’ll get going fast and decide to put his legs out instead of braking. This is not a recipe for a very graceful stop. Marilyn loved the one on one time and, even though they got lost about five times, they had an amazing two-hour ride. There are over thirty miles of bike paths that go all around Sunriver by streams, small lakes and the river.
When they got back I went on a run with Madeline and the Bug. It is great running with them, even though I was pretty much miserable the entire time. You seem to have more bad days when you are 47 than when you are a teenager. However, it is a blessing to be able to run with them.
After running, we made a makeshift dinner and Marilyn and I left for a date. After going to the restaurant, Marilyn and I went outside to the hot tub to extend our date while the kids wrapped up their Men in Black marathon. They all agreed the first one was the best, then the third one and then the second one.
Today was a great day. I bounced back from my early afternoon grouchies and actually had a blast. As we were hanging together at a restaurant I thought “what a blessing to be hanging out with my family in Central Oregon!” Wow!! Thank you LORD!!!!
It was pretty cool building a fire in Central Oregon and hanging out, but trying to force-feed math into Matthew and Abby wouldn’t have been my first choice.
We finally finished home-school around 1:00 p.m. and went to a Mexican restaurant for lunch. Rachel insisted she ride her bike to the restaurant and so did Matthew. Rachel likes biking in greater measure than her skill in biking. My phone ran out of juice and Marilyn couldn’t call us to tell us where they were eating. We looked around and finally found them.
The restaurant was great. I was a bit edgy after a full day’s driving and a full morning of home-school. When I seem edgy Marilyn always looks in my eyes and says “are you OK?” I say “fine.” Then, she says “you know I hate the word fine.” This is just a regular conversation of ours.
After lunch I rode bikes back with Matthew and Rachel. The ride start off the wrong way. I buckled Rachel’s chin with her helmet. Her scream was like a siren going off. Plus, Rachel is never too quick in stopping her screaming.
After we got back, I took the girls swimming while Marilyn took Matthew on a bike ride. The indoor swimming facility here is amazing. It is called the “Sharc.” It has a basketball goal, a volleyball net and other cool features. All the kids loved it. Rachel continued her progress, swam in the deep end and even jumped in by herself off the side. Rachel will slowly develop necessary courage. You just have to give her the space she needs.
The funniest part of our swimming adventure was on the way out.After we changed out of our swimsuits into clothes Rachel walked past two female workers and said “I had to go commando. I forgot my panties.” We looked so redneck with our five-year old proclaiming she was commando. The ladies burst out laughing.
Marilyn and Matthew went on a long bike ride. Matthew is a good bike rider, but struggles going downhill. He’ll get going fast and decide to put his legs out instead of braking. This is not a recipe for a very graceful stop. Marilyn loved the one on one time and, even though they got lost about five times, they had an amazing two-hour ride. There are over thirty miles of bike paths that go all around Sunriver by streams, small lakes and the river.
When they got back I went on a run with Madeline and the Bug. It is great running with them, even though I was pretty much miserable the entire time. You seem to have more bad days when you are 47 than when you are a teenager. However, it is a blessing to be able to run with them.
After running, we made a makeshift dinner and Marilyn and I left for a date. After going to the restaurant, Marilyn and I went outside to the hot tub to extend our date while the kids wrapped up their Men in Black marathon. They all agreed the first one was the best, then the third one and then the second one.
Today was a great day. I bounced back from my early afternoon grouchies and actually had a blast. As we were hanging together at a restaurant I thought “what a blessing to be hanging out with my family in Central Oregon!” Wow!! Thank you LORD!!!!
april 24, 2016
Today is another day of travel. Now, Kate Bradley has been released to run the coaches’ schedule,and she won’t waiver off of it. Today, she was scheduled to run 8 miles. We told her to miss, as we were driving all day. She refused, got up early and took off. Marilyn ran the first 3.3 with her and I ran the next 4.7. Bug is good for the physical health of all of us. In fact, Abby even got up and ran the first 3.3 miles. Madeline would’ve run, but she was sick this morning.
We packed up and left the place around 11:00 a.m. The kiddos were very helpful and it was a pretty smooth exit. Our destination today is Bend, Oregon – with a stop at Crater Lake on the way.
The drive was a bit stressful, as we had to go over two mountain ranges, the Siskiyou and the Cascades. We drove slow, but our van made it.
The kids started with XM radio (thanks to Todd Carter) and then moved on to a Men in Black marathon. Rachel put on headphones and watched Open Season on a computer.
The road to Crater Lake was much different than expected. First, it was a steep incline. Second, it got colder and snowier the further we drove. We thought about turning around, but decided “we’ve gone this far – let’s give it a shot.” There were huge snow walls on each side of the road, but the road was pretty clear.
As we got higher, the temperature went below freezing and it started snowing. We stopped at the visitors’ center, dropped the trailer and drove the last three miles up to the overlook. It is amazing how much snow they get. The North Entrance and the road around Crater Lake doesn’t open until July. Plus, the West Entrance (where we were) was “day to day.” We took a quick Griswold look at Crater Lake, got our Junior Ranger badges, changed out of short sleeves and flip flops and, per the ranger’s encouragement, hooked the trailer up quickly and started back down the Cascades. The ranger told us “we could get some more weather” – an unsettling statement.
We made it down and on to Bend. After a stop at Subway, backtracking twenty minutes to get Matthew’s hat and a long drive, we made it to Sunriver, a resort near Bend, Oregon.
Our kids seem to be on a mission to drive me crazy. It seems like every time we drive off, one of the kids says “stop, I shut the seatbelt in my door.” It seems like it happens every time we leave a place.
We made it to our place and it is amazing. It is a rustic cabin with a fireplace. Marilyn loved the Bend, OR area as we drove in. After Matthew, Rachel and Abbers went to bed, I got in the hot tub with Madeline and Bug. We hung out, laughed and had a great time.
Other than me getting real frustrated with the trailer when we got here, it was a great day. After driving 9 hours, my skills were tested and came up wanting. Finally, it got it parked, but not in the garage. Then, I mega-stressed Marilyn having me and the kids push it into the garage. It is not a good idea to push through when you are tired and ticked.
However, by God’s grace, we all made it in fine, the trailer is in tact and we are in beautiful Sunriver!
We packed up and left the place around 11:00 a.m. The kiddos were very helpful and it was a pretty smooth exit. Our destination today is Bend, Oregon – with a stop at Crater Lake on the way.
The drive was a bit stressful, as we had to go over two mountain ranges, the Siskiyou and the Cascades. We drove slow, but our van made it.
The kids started with XM radio (thanks to Todd Carter) and then moved on to a Men in Black marathon. Rachel put on headphones and watched Open Season on a computer.
The road to Crater Lake was much different than expected. First, it was a steep incline. Second, it got colder and snowier the further we drove. We thought about turning around, but decided “we’ve gone this far – let’s give it a shot.” There were huge snow walls on each side of the road, but the road was pretty clear.
As we got higher, the temperature went below freezing and it started snowing. We stopped at the visitors’ center, dropped the trailer and drove the last three miles up to the overlook. It is amazing how much snow they get. The North Entrance and the road around Crater Lake doesn’t open until July. Plus, the West Entrance (where we were) was “day to day.” We took a quick Griswold look at Crater Lake, got our Junior Ranger badges, changed out of short sleeves and flip flops and, per the ranger’s encouragement, hooked the trailer up quickly and started back down the Cascades. The ranger told us “we could get some more weather” – an unsettling statement.
We made it down and on to Bend. After a stop at Subway, backtracking twenty minutes to get Matthew’s hat and a long drive, we made it to Sunriver, a resort near Bend, Oregon.
Our kids seem to be on a mission to drive me crazy. It seems like every time we drive off, one of the kids says “stop, I shut the seatbelt in my door.” It seems like it happens every time we leave a place.
We made it to our place and it is amazing. It is a rustic cabin with a fireplace. Marilyn loved the Bend, OR area as we drove in. After Matthew, Rachel and Abbers went to bed, I got in the hot tub with Madeline and Bug. We hung out, laughed and had a great time.
Other than me getting real frustrated with the trailer when we got here, it was a great day. After driving 9 hours, my skills were tested and came up wanting. Finally, it got it parked, but not in the garage. Then, I mega-stressed Marilyn having me and the kids push it into the garage. It is not a good idea to push through when you are tired and ticked.
However, by God’s grace, we all made it in fine, the trailer is in tact and we are in beautiful Sunriver!
april 23, 2016
I stayed up late last night watching “After Earth” with the girls. They love when Marilyn and I watch movies with them. This morning, we slept in and settled in for another movie.
We watched Woodlawn. It is a great Christian high school football movie. It had a great message, all the kids enjoyed it and was a spiritual encouragement to all of us. It is a Christian motivational movie to encourage all believers to be bold in their faith.
After the movie, we settled into some home-school. I got Matthew working hard, promising him I’d take him fishing if he’d finish his work. He and Abby worked hard and, after it was finished, we went surf fishing. Before fishing, we stopped a thrift store and Matthew sprung $4 for a Sacramento Kings practice jersey for Rachel, who loved it.
When we got to the water, it was real rough. We tried to walk down the beach, but the water was so high and rough it went all the way over the beach up to the rocks. I quickly turned the kiddos around for safety and rushed back to the larger sand area.
Unfortunately, where the sand was longer, there were rocks and it was very difficult to fish. I decided to let the kids take a wild try and see if we could catch anything in the rough surf. Surprise! First cast and a big fish was on. Abby reeled it in and, as Dave McClelland described it in a picture, it looked like a messed up crappie.
I wasn’t sure what it was, but it looked edible so we kept it. The fishing was rough but successful. We lost about four rigs and walked on a lot of rough rocks, but caught six good sized sea perch. Matthew caught three and Abby caught three. We all had a blast fishing and the six fish were a surprise gift from God.
A funny twist on the fish catching. Matthew told Marilyn and the girls "They're having babies!" Marilyn looked in our bucket and saw a baby fish coming out the underside of the fish. Marilyn and the girls were very troubled by us catching pregnant fish. I said “no, it ate fish and it is in her stomach.” Well, there were fish in five of the six fish I cleaned. I googled it and it said perch keep their eggs inside and give live birth in April or May. Marilyn was bothered, but cooked the fish telling the kids we needed to make sure the fishes’ life had worth.
After fishing, I cleaned them with Matthew in the backyard and put them in baggies to fry tonight. Marilyn went on a run with Bug and Madeline. They are doing great with their cross country. They both ran 6 miles today and are slated for eight miles tomorrow.
Today was great, but we are a bit worried about tomorrow. We have a five-hour drive (according to maps) and about a 9-hour drive Rhoads’ time with a ton of relatively steep uphill driving. I have asked for alternative routes and have been informed you just have to go back over the mountain ranges to get to central Oregon.
Tonight, we had some Kentucky surf and turf – chicken and fried perch. The fish really wasn’t than good. I don’t know if we over-fried it or if perch is just a bit gritty. It wasn’t bad – it just wasn’t good.
Then, we realized we don’t have a California geo-cache yet and are leaving the state tomorrow. So, we took off, got our California badge and headed back to the place.
After dinner, Marilyn and I did some packing. Then, Marilyn went to our room to watch a movie and I am watching Captain Phillips with the girls. The kids love action movies.
Before leaving on another long drive, one of our kids said “Well, at least trips to Florida won’t seem very long anymore." We have put 14,400 miles on the van and have been in 15 states. It has been an unbelievable adventure and bonding experience for our family.
We watched Woodlawn. It is a great Christian high school football movie. It had a great message, all the kids enjoyed it and was a spiritual encouragement to all of us. It is a Christian motivational movie to encourage all believers to be bold in their faith.
After the movie, we settled into some home-school. I got Matthew working hard, promising him I’d take him fishing if he’d finish his work. He and Abby worked hard and, after it was finished, we went surf fishing. Before fishing, we stopped a thrift store and Matthew sprung $4 for a Sacramento Kings practice jersey for Rachel, who loved it.
When we got to the water, it was real rough. We tried to walk down the beach, but the water was so high and rough it went all the way over the beach up to the rocks. I quickly turned the kiddos around for safety and rushed back to the larger sand area.
Unfortunately, where the sand was longer, there were rocks and it was very difficult to fish. I decided to let the kids take a wild try and see if we could catch anything in the rough surf. Surprise! First cast and a big fish was on. Abby reeled it in and, as Dave McClelland described it in a picture, it looked like a messed up crappie.
I wasn’t sure what it was, but it looked edible so we kept it. The fishing was rough but successful. We lost about four rigs and walked on a lot of rough rocks, but caught six good sized sea perch. Matthew caught three and Abby caught three. We all had a blast fishing and the six fish were a surprise gift from God.
A funny twist on the fish catching. Matthew told Marilyn and the girls "They're having babies!" Marilyn looked in our bucket and saw a baby fish coming out the underside of the fish. Marilyn and the girls were very troubled by us catching pregnant fish. I said “no, it ate fish and it is in her stomach.” Well, there were fish in five of the six fish I cleaned. I googled it and it said perch keep their eggs inside and give live birth in April or May. Marilyn was bothered, but cooked the fish telling the kids we needed to make sure the fishes’ life had worth.
After fishing, I cleaned them with Matthew in the backyard and put them in baggies to fry tonight. Marilyn went on a run with Bug and Madeline. They are doing great with their cross country. They both ran 6 miles today and are slated for eight miles tomorrow.
Today was great, but we are a bit worried about tomorrow. We have a five-hour drive (according to maps) and about a 9-hour drive Rhoads’ time with a ton of relatively steep uphill driving. I have asked for alternative routes and have been informed you just have to go back over the mountain ranges to get to central Oregon.
Tonight, we had some Kentucky surf and turf – chicken and fried perch. The fish really wasn’t than good. I don’t know if we over-fried it or if perch is just a bit gritty. It wasn’t bad – it just wasn’t good.
Then, we realized we don’t have a California geo-cache yet and are leaving the state tomorrow. So, we took off, got our California badge and headed back to the place.
After dinner, Marilyn and I did some packing. Then, Marilyn went to our room to watch a movie and I am watching Captain Phillips with the girls. The kids love action movies.
Before leaving on another long drive, one of our kids said “Well, at least trips to Florida won’t seem very long anymore." We have put 14,400 miles on the van and have been in 15 states. It has been an unbelievable adventure and bonding experience for our family.
april 22, 2016
Our kids are officially very loud. I knew it, but tonight Marilyn and I decided to take 15 minutes by ourselves to watch the sunset on the beach. When we were three houses down we could hear our kids laughing. They are happy, fun and loud.
It was supposed to rain all day so we planned on an all-day home-school run. However, school went pretty well and the weather was much better than expected. While the kids did school, I worked on Grace Marriage and personal stuff. While we worked, Rachel made crafts with duct tape and Marilyn took a long Wal-Mart run. After that, I took Matthew fishing and Marilyn took the girls to the scenic lighthouse in Crescent City.
As to fishing, we continued our futile efforts. We have now been fishing ten times on this trip and have caught two bass and three blue gill. Today, Matthew did get several bites and got a crab up to the edge before it let go. We did see a bunch of seals – they made a lot of noise while we fished. Matthew said “at first, seals are kind of cool. Then, they just get real annoying.” Even though we didn’t catch anything and barely got a bite, Matthew proclaimed fishing was the best thing of the day. Matthew’s second favorite thing was seeing a Rachel-sized Karl Malone jersey in the window of a thrift store. He can’t wait to go back tomorrow and see how much it costs. Looks like Rachel may be sporting the Mail Man jersey tomorrow.
The good news! We saw another guy who fished on the beach and had five fish in his bucket. We are going to the spot where he fished and giving it another shot tomorrow morning.
Marilyn said the lighthouse was amazing. She said the views and watching the water crash against the rocks were way cool. The girls did not want to go, but hesitantly admitted it was fun and beautiful.
We like our house, but Marilyn was bothered by how dark it is in here. Then, tonight Kate Bradley realized all the lights are on dimmers and were on low. It was funny – we have been in the dim lighting for two days before realizing the dimmer deal. Also, our place is great but Marilyn insists it smells like “old people.” She even bought cheap candles at Wal-Mart to offset the old people smell.
After the fishing/lighthouse excursion, we went on a run with the kiddos. I took them on an “adventure run” around the beach and over the rocks. I had to stop my part of the run early as running over the rocks and sand aggravated my foot which I thought was totally better, but still has a little way to go.
Marilyn made tacos for dinner. She apologized for overcooking the carrots. Abby said “I actually like them. Please overcook them again.” Then, Abby got up and got seconds.
Now, we are going to settle in and watch a movie tonight. The girls watched “After Earth” last night and are insisting that I watch it with them tonight.
It was supposed to rain all day so we planned on an all-day home-school run. However, school went pretty well and the weather was much better than expected. While the kids did school, I worked on Grace Marriage and personal stuff. While we worked, Rachel made crafts with duct tape and Marilyn took a long Wal-Mart run. After that, I took Matthew fishing and Marilyn took the girls to the scenic lighthouse in Crescent City.
As to fishing, we continued our futile efforts. We have now been fishing ten times on this trip and have caught two bass and three blue gill. Today, Matthew did get several bites and got a crab up to the edge before it let go. We did see a bunch of seals – they made a lot of noise while we fished. Matthew said “at first, seals are kind of cool. Then, they just get real annoying.” Even though we didn’t catch anything and barely got a bite, Matthew proclaimed fishing was the best thing of the day. Matthew’s second favorite thing was seeing a Rachel-sized Karl Malone jersey in the window of a thrift store. He can’t wait to go back tomorrow and see how much it costs. Looks like Rachel may be sporting the Mail Man jersey tomorrow.
The good news! We saw another guy who fished on the beach and had five fish in his bucket. We are going to the spot where he fished and giving it another shot tomorrow morning.
Marilyn said the lighthouse was amazing. She said the views and watching the water crash against the rocks were way cool. The girls did not want to go, but hesitantly admitted it was fun and beautiful.
We like our house, but Marilyn was bothered by how dark it is in here. Then, tonight Kate Bradley realized all the lights are on dimmers and were on low. It was funny – we have been in the dim lighting for two days before realizing the dimmer deal. Also, our place is great but Marilyn insists it smells like “old people.” She even bought cheap candles at Wal-Mart to offset the old people smell.
After the fishing/lighthouse excursion, we went on a run with the kiddos. I took them on an “adventure run” around the beach and over the rocks. I had to stop my part of the run early as running over the rocks and sand aggravated my foot which I thought was totally better, but still has a little way to go.
Marilyn made tacos for dinner. She apologized for overcooking the carrots. Abby said “I actually like them. Please overcook them again.” Then, Abby got up and got seconds.
Now, we are going to settle in and watch a movie tonight. The girls watched “After Earth” last night and are insisting that I watch it with them tonight.
april 21, 2016
As today is the only day in this area where rain is not forecasted, we decided to do an entire day of sight-seeing. We left around 10 in the morning and had an amazing day.
First, we drove up toward the Redwood National Forest. Our first stop was at a gondola that takes you up over the Redwoods and on a hike through massive trees. We opted against it – as the price was a bit high.
Then, we stopped at some amazing overlooks of the Pacific Ocean. The beauty of the Northern California coast is hard to describe. Mountains, cliffs, massive rocks and huge waves all at one time. It is way cool. Plus, it is weird to see signs like “if you feel an earthquake, head immediately to high ground as a Tsunami is likely.” Not a sign you see in Kentucky. Plus, the waves are large and unpredictable. The sign said “watch out for ‘sneaker waves.’” Well, we read the sign after a “sneaker wave” leveled Matthew in his clothes. He started off the day of touring in soaking wet sweats, shirt, socks and shoes.
We went on and our next stop was a tourist attraction where you could drive your car through a massive tree. For $7 it didn’t seem like a bad idea. Our car BARELY made it through the tree. I had to retract both our rearview mirrors for us to make it and, even then, we had about an inch or two clearance on each side.
After driving our car through the tree, we went on to an amazing overlook, had a picnic lunch and did some whale-watching. We actually saw a whale and seals. The kids wanted to see it, but didn’t seem too impressed. Some really nice man showed us where to look and helped us sight one. Madeline saw it and said “now I have seen it, I am going to the car. I am cold.”
The guy who showed us the whale was a nice (large) man. When we got in the car, Abby said “did you notice? He had a front butt.” I had never heard that term. Abby credited learning it to her Uncle Doug.
We then took off on a drive through the Redwood forest. First, we took a very bumpy dirt and gravel road that took us to Fern Valley. It was really cool. It was a stream running through a valley with ferns everywhere. The kids had fun splashing each other and walking on logs over the creek.
After Fern Valley, we went to Redwoods National Park, filled out the Junior Ranger books and let the kiddos get their junior ranger badges. Then, we took about a two-mile hike through the Redwood forest. It was crazy cool. The trees are so huge it is hard to describe. They are so big, they don’t seem real. It was an amazing hike and a hike I don’t think our kids will ever forget.
We got home and I went for a run with Madeline and Bug while Marilyn made dinner. After a good spaghetti dinner and hanging out, we settled in for the night. Tomorrow, the plan is most of the day home-school because of rain.
It was an amazing day!
First, we drove up toward the Redwood National Forest. Our first stop was at a gondola that takes you up over the Redwoods and on a hike through massive trees. We opted against it – as the price was a bit high.
Then, we stopped at some amazing overlooks of the Pacific Ocean. The beauty of the Northern California coast is hard to describe. Mountains, cliffs, massive rocks and huge waves all at one time. It is way cool. Plus, it is weird to see signs like “if you feel an earthquake, head immediately to high ground as a Tsunami is likely.” Not a sign you see in Kentucky. Plus, the waves are large and unpredictable. The sign said “watch out for ‘sneaker waves.’” Well, we read the sign after a “sneaker wave” leveled Matthew in his clothes. He started off the day of touring in soaking wet sweats, shirt, socks and shoes.
We went on and our next stop was a tourist attraction where you could drive your car through a massive tree. For $7 it didn’t seem like a bad idea. Our car BARELY made it through the tree. I had to retract both our rearview mirrors for us to make it and, even then, we had about an inch or two clearance on each side.
After driving our car through the tree, we went on to an amazing overlook, had a picnic lunch and did some whale-watching. We actually saw a whale and seals. The kids wanted to see it, but didn’t seem too impressed. Some really nice man showed us where to look and helped us sight one. Madeline saw it and said “now I have seen it, I am going to the car. I am cold.”
The guy who showed us the whale was a nice (large) man. When we got in the car, Abby said “did you notice? He had a front butt.” I had never heard that term. Abby credited learning it to her Uncle Doug.
We then took off on a drive through the Redwood forest. First, we took a very bumpy dirt and gravel road that took us to Fern Valley. It was really cool. It was a stream running through a valley with ferns everywhere. The kids had fun splashing each other and walking on logs over the creek.
After Fern Valley, we went to Redwoods National Park, filled out the Junior Ranger books and let the kiddos get their junior ranger badges. Then, we took about a two-mile hike through the Redwood forest. It was crazy cool. The trees are so huge it is hard to describe. They are so big, they don’t seem real. It was an amazing hike and a hike I don’t think our kids will ever forget.
We got home and I went for a run with Madeline and Bug while Marilyn made dinner. After a good spaghetti dinner and hanging out, we settled in for the night. Tomorrow, the plan is most of the day home-school because of rain.
It was an amazing day!
april 20, 2016
This morning, we got up early, ate breakfast, said our good byes to the Hignells and hit the road for a long drive. We had two choices of routes – one was 4 hours and 40 minutes, the other was 5 hours and 20 minutes. As the longer route was more trailer friendly, we took it. Turns out, it was still full of mountains and turns. However, from what we read, it wasn’t ¼ as bad as the other route which included 55 hairpin turns on a slope.
Everyone was in pretty good spirits as we took off. Plus, the kids were ready for an “Ice Age” marathon. They watched all four Ice Age movies on the drive. In typical Rhoads’ fashion, the drive took us a little over 9 hours. We can’t help ourselves – we stop way too much. This trip included a lunch stop at a hole in the wall saying they were voted one of the top 100 restaurants in America, a 25-mile detour to an overlook of Mount Shasta and a stop at a souvenir shop in Weed, CA. The stop to the overlook included unhooking and re-hooking our trailer as the drive was up several thousand feet. However, Mount Shasta was crazy cool. It is a massive snow covered mountain that dwarfs all the mountains around it. It is amazing the beauty of God’s creation and the amount of it found right here in our country.
We ate lunch at YAKS. The cinnamon buns, the jalapeno poppers and the burgers were amazing. The tagline for their restaurant is “You Need a Belly.” After eating there, it was apparent it wouldn’t take long if you were a regular.
The restaurant was near Weed, California which is a huge novelty stop. Every play on the word “weed” you can think of is in the gift shop. We settled for three stickers.
The ride was a bit difficult with the trailer. I-5 near the Oregon border has pretty steep inclines both up and down. We had to drive up into Oregon and then back down into California because of the mountains. This enabled us to get our usual family picture of the state sign, as we missed it on our first pass into California.
Then, the final leg of the trip was the most difficult. The good news is that it was almost entirely downhill. The bad news is we have to take that same road back out on Sunday. I have searched for an alternate route, but mountains are almost impossible to avoid in this area. We are praying for the health and safety of our family and our van!
The plan was to stay at a hotel tonight and then camp in the Redwoods for three nights. As an anniversary surprise, I had booked a house in Crescent City to avoid the pains of camping for Marilyn (and the family). I told Marilyn we were pulling up to a hotel, but we pulled up to our rental house. Marilyn was thrilled as she had been quite stressed about camping because the forecast for Friday was 100 percent chance of rain and Saturday didn’t look too good either.
After arriving at our place, we took a walk on the beach and then went out for a family anniversary dinner. The ocean is amazing and full of huge rocks and crashing waves. Plus, this area is known for whale-watching and we are still in whale season.
At dinner, we all went around and shared our three most fun moments as a family. Then, we shared our three most funny moments. It was a great time together as a family.
Considering the day included 9 hours of driving up and down mountains, it was a great anniversary.
Everyone was in pretty good spirits as we took off. Plus, the kids were ready for an “Ice Age” marathon. They watched all four Ice Age movies on the drive. In typical Rhoads’ fashion, the drive took us a little over 9 hours. We can’t help ourselves – we stop way too much. This trip included a lunch stop at a hole in the wall saying they were voted one of the top 100 restaurants in America, a 25-mile detour to an overlook of Mount Shasta and a stop at a souvenir shop in Weed, CA. The stop to the overlook included unhooking and re-hooking our trailer as the drive was up several thousand feet. However, Mount Shasta was crazy cool. It is a massive snow covered mountain that dwarfs all the mountains around it. It is amazing the beauty of God’s creation and the amount of it found right here in our country.
We ate lunch at YAKS. The cinnamon buns, the jalapeno poppers and the burgers were amazing. The tagline for their restaurant is “You Need a Belly.” After eating there, it was apparent it wouldn’t take long if you were a regular.
The restaurant was near Weed, California which is a huge novelty stop. Every play on the word “weed” you can think of is in the gift shop. We settled for three stickers.
The ride was a bit difficult with the trailer. I-5 near the Oregon border has pretty steep inclines both up and down. We had to drive up into Oregon and then back down into California because of the mountains. This enabled us to get our usual family picture of the state sign, as we missed it on our first pass into California.
Then, the final leg of the trip was the most difficult. The good news is that it was almost entirely downhill. The bad news is we have to take that same road back out on Sunday. I have searched for an alternate route, but mountains are almost impossible to avoid in this area. We are praying for the health and safety of our family and our van!
The plan was to stay at a hotel tonight and then camp in the Redwoods for three nights. As an anniversary surprise, I had booked a house in Crescent City to avoid the pains of camping for Marilyn (and the family). I told Marilyn we were pulling up to a hotel, but we pulled up to our rental house. Marilyn was thrilled as she had been quite stressed about camping because the forecast for Friday was 100 percent chance of rain and Saturday didn’t look too good either.
After arriving at our place, we took a walk on the beach and then went out for a family anniversary dinner. The ocean is amazing and full of huge rocks and crashing waves. Plus, this area is known for whale-watching and we are still in whale season.
At dinner, we all went around and shared our three most fun moments as a family. Then, we shared our three most funny moments. It was a great time together as a family.
Considering the day included 9 hours of driving up and down mountains, it was a great anniversary.
Mount Shasta (our detour of the day)
april 19, 2016
I woke up a bit overwhelmed, as we have a TON on the schedule today. Pack, take Marilyn anniversary shopping, have an anniversary dinner with Marilyn, tour the Sierra Nevada brewery, get the trailer from Doug’s office, do homeschool and run with the girls. I spent some time thanking God and was just convicted to work hard and knock things out. If we spend time thinking big picture and dwelling on God’s blessings, life seems to become a lot more tolerable.
Then, we got a HUGE perspective check. We learned Jeremy Hatfield had turned for the worse and nothing seemed to matter except Jeremy getting better. We have been glued to our phones and in prayer for updates on Jeremy.
I went for a run with Abby, Matthew, Kate Bradley and Madeline. It was fun. We ran different paces and had a great time. Bug was especially excited as it was her first day to run faster. She said it was a ton of fun to be able to run faster again. Plus, we ran in Bidwell Park (a cool huge park in Chico) beside a rushing stream. The ever optimistic Matthew decided he would just run with Kate Bradley. Needless to say, after about a mile, he faded. However, he told me “I’ll be able to run that fast in a month or maybe half a month.”
Marilyn and I did go anniversary shopping. She just looked around, but didn’t buy anything. We had a great lunch at a nice place. Downtown Chico is a really cool area, full of shops and restaurants. It is near a large college, Chico State and there is a lot of action downtown.
After a great lunch, I toured the Sierra Nevada Brewery with Doug Hignell. It was an amazing tour of the Brewery. The brewery started in the garage of a 14 year-old and has grown into the 7th largest brewery in America and the third largest micro-brewery. It is an amazing story or entrepreneurship and vision.
During the tour I met a very interesting guy. He told me he had hitchhiked to Alaska four times. He said “people will tell a hitchhiker stuff they’ll never tell anyone else.” Plus, he said it was cool developing relationships and never seeing them again. Interesting perspective? He was a fascinating guy and appeared to only like one thing more than travel…. BEER. He bought like $200 in beer in the gift shop. The worker had to get a dolly to help him carry his stash to the car.
Tonight, I have the privilege of going on an anniversary date with Marilyn. It has been an amazing 20 years…. Tomorrow is our 20 year anniversary, which we will be celebrating with an 8 hour drive in the car. The kids are cool with it, as we found a deal on all 4 Ice Age movies and they are planning on an Ice Age marathon.
Our kids are amazing and fun. They really choose to have fun whatever we do.
Then, we got a HUGE perspective check. We learned Jeremy Hatfield had turned for the worse and nothing seemed to matter except Jeremy getting better. We have been glued to our phones and in prayer for updates on Jeremy.
I went for a run with Abby, Matthew, Kate Bradley and Madeline. It was fun. We ran different paces and had a great time. Bug was especially excited as it was her first day to run faster. She said it was a ton of fun to be able to run faster again. Plus, we ran in Bidwell Park (a cool huge park in Chico) beside a rushing stream. The ever optimistic Matthew decided he would just run with Kate Bradley. Needless to say, after about a mile, he faded. However, he told me “I’ll be able to run that fast in a month or maybe half a month.”
Marilyn and I did go anniversary shopping. She just looked around, but didn’t buy anything. We had a great lunch at a nice place. Downtown Chico is a really cool area, full of shops and restaurants. It is near a large college, Chico State and there is a lot of action downtown.
After a great lunch, I toured the Sierra Nevada Brewery with Doug Hignell. It was an amazing tour of the Brewery. The brewery started in the garage of a 14 year-old and has grown into the 7th largest brewery in America and the third largest micro-brewery. It is an amazing story or entrepreneurship and vision.
During the tour I met a very interesting guy. He told me he had hitchhiked to Alaska four times. He said “people will tell a hitchhiker stuff they’ll never tell anyone else.” Plus, he said it was cool developing relationships and never seeing them again. Interesting perspective? He was a fascinating guy and appeared to only like one thing more than travel…. BEER. He bought like $200 in beer in the gift shop. The worker had to get a dolly to help him carry his stash to the car.
Tonight, I have the privilege of going on an anniversary date with Marilyn. It has been an amazing 20 years…. Tomorrow is our 20 year anniversary, which we will be celebrating with an 8 hour drive in the car. The kids are cool with it, as we found a deal on all 4 Ice Age movies and they are planning on an Ice Age marathon.
Our kids are amazing and fun. They really choose to have fun whatever we do.
april 18, 2016
Today, the plan is to pack, clean the cabin and head down the mountain to Chico, CA. The kids worked hard, as did the adults and we got out of the cabin around 1:30 p.m.
The cabin is amazing and we all had an amazing time seeing the beauty of God’s creation, relaxing in the cabin and enjoying one another. Plus, the kids absolutely loved the 4-wheelers and the razor.
We drove down the mountain and ate at an In and Out Burger. This is a Christian owned fast-food burger place. The food is great and verses are sprinkled on the cups and wrappers. It is like the Western Burger version of Chick FilA.
After In and Out Burger, we came back and did a crash course in home-schooling and a run. Marilyn and I have to take shifts to run with the girls. Marilyn ran 30 minutes with her and then I did the same.
It was one hectic three-hours trying to get everything done to go to a reception with the Hignells. The reception was great. We got to hang out with members of their small group some more and enjoyed great food and fellowship at a very nice restaurant.
The host of the party, Mark, has an amazing testimony being a two-time cancer survivor. He says he just looks for God in everything and every time he sees God working, he just says to himself “It is Him again.” He said he decided he could just be miserable and pout or decide to believe, trust , look for and praise God. He is an amazing upbeat guy and a joy to be around.
The kids did great, ordered a pizza and hung out at the Hignells house while we were gone.
Afterwards, we watched the end of the Warriors game and went to bed. The time at the Hignells has been refreshing. Doug and Kaylinn are just refreshing presences. One more night and then we head out to Redwoods National Park in Northern California.
The cabin is amazing and we all had an amazing time seeing the beauty of God’s creation, relaxing in the cabin and enjoying one another. Plus, the kids absolutely loved the 4-wheelers and the razor.
We drove down the mountain and ate at an In and Out Burger. This is a Christian owned fast-food burger place. The food is great and verses are sprinkled on the cups and wrappers. It is like the Western Burger version of Chick FilA.
After In and Out Burger, we came back and did a crash course in home-schooling and a run. Marilyn and I have to take shifts to run with the girls. Marilyn ran 30 minutes with her and then I did the same.
It was one hectic three-hours trying to get everything done to go to a reception with the Hignells. The reception was great. We got to hang out with members of their small group some more and enjoyed great food and fellowship at a very nice restaurant.
The host of the party, Mark, has an amazing testimony being a two-time cancer survivor. He says he just looks for God in everything and every time he sees God working, he just says to himself “It is Him again.” He said he decided he could just be miserable and pout or decide to believe, trust , look for and praise God. He is an amazing upbeat guy and a joy to be around.
The kids did great, ordered a pizza and hung out at the Hignells house while we were gone.
Afterwards, we watched the end of the Warriors game and went to bed. The time at the Hignells has been refreshing. Doug and Kaylinn are just refreshing presences. One more night and then we head out to Redwoods National Park in Northern California.
april 17, 2016
Today has been a chill day at the cabin. We had a waffle breakfast and hung out with Doug and Kaylinn. They shared some of their encouraging testimony regarding Kaylinn’s cancer and Doug finding peace in God to replace fear and anxiety.
God has been very gracious and Kaylinn’s outlook is much better now than it was a few years ago. Doug read from Romans and encouraged our family to rest in the love of Christ.
After breakfast, we got to work replacing the wheels on the Razor. It has the snow apparatus on it and needed to be changed to the wheels. We got everything fixed, got their chairs out of the garage and went for a run.
The entire family ran. Even Rachel ran two miles. I was blessed to have my first exercise since I hurt my foot. I made it almost thirty minutes. I can still clearly tell where it was hurt with each step. However, my foot did seem to tolerate it OK. I took my shoe off after the run to make sure there wasn’t blood on my sock. Good news! White sock….
Now, Doug is riding on the Razor with Abby and Madeline and Bug are following them on four-wheelers. They LOVE this stuff and I’m so thankful Doug is taking them. They love riding four wheelers at Uncle Chris’ and Grandddaddy’s farm and I know are having a blast right now.
Needless to say, Matthew is bugging me to go fishing. After Doug telling me we’d catch nothing and two unfruitful days, I told him “not today.” His response: “I think there are some better spots up the creek a bit.” Nothing can cause that rascal to want to give up on trying to catch a fish.
We had a great 4-wheeler/razor driving afternoon. Doug allowed all the kids (minus Rachel) to drive the 4-wheeler. They had a BLAST. Bug showed a little struggles behind the wheel of the Razor, but they all had a major blast. Doug was amazingly patient and kind in giving everyone an amazing time. I gave Rachel a ride and let her steer in my lap. She loved it.
After all the riding, I decided to let Kate Bradley try driving. Well, Bug is a better runner than driver. When you say “barely hit the gas”, Bug hears “try to drive like you are a clown in the circus.” She started steering a little better by the time we were finished, but I took over before she finished because I had a mental picture of her punching the gas and us ending up in the river at the end of the Hignell driveway.
After fun riding, we had an amazing tri-tip dinner. Tri-tip is what Californians do for BBQ. From what I can tell, it is the best cut off the sirloin and cut in thin slices. It was excellent. Our kids ate a lot, as did I. Plus, with the expertise of the Hignell wood chip grill, hit was cooked to perfection.
Our family is in much more of a happy spot than we have been in a while. Our trip to Chico and the Sierra Nevada mountains has been great for all of us. Plus, Bug and Madeline had an amazing time in Kentucky and were awesome when they returned. They said the length of the trip was perfect.
I am becoming more refreshed and ready to have an amazing finally two and a half months. Plus, I need to celebrate, as Marilyn and I will have been married 20 years on Wednesday.
If you are wondering why there have been a delay in website posts, it is because Bug has been away for a week. Now, she is back and the website is updated.
God is good and we thank Him for this trip. It has and continues to be great for our family!!
God has been very gracious and Kaylinn’s outlook is much better now than it was a few years ago. Doug read from Romans and encouraged our family to rest in the love of Christ.
After breakfast, we got to work replacing the wheels on the Razor. It has the snow apparatus on it and needed to be changed to the wheels. We got everything fixed, got their chairs out of the garage and went for a run.
The entire family ran. Even Rachel ran two miles. I was blessed to have my first exercise since I hurt my foot. I made it almost thirty minutes. I can still clearly tell where it was hurt with each step. However, my foot did seem to tolerate it OK. I took my shoe off after the run to make sure there wasn’t blood on my sock. Good news! White sock….
Now, Doug is riding on the Razor with Abby and Madeline and Bug are following them on four-wheelers. They LOVE this stuff and I’m so thankful Doug is taking them. They love riding four wheelers at Uncle Chris’ and Grandddaddy’s farm and I know are having a blast right now.
Needless to say, Matthew is bugging me to go fishing. After Doug telling me we’d catch nothing and two unfruitful days, I told him “not today.” His response: “I think there are some better spots up the creek a bit.” Nothing can cause that rascal to want to give up on trying to catch a fish.
We had a great 4-wheeler/razor driving afternoon. Doug allowed all the kids (minus Rachel) to drive the 4-wheeler. They had a BLAST. Bug showed a little struggles behind the wheel of the Razor, but they all had a major blast. Doug was amazingly patient and kind in giving everyone an amazing time. I gave Rachel a ride and let her steer in my lap. She loved it.
After all the riding, I decided to let Kate Bradley try driving. Well, Bug is a better runner than driver. When you say “barely hit the gas”, Bug hears “try to drive like you are a clown in the circus.” She started steering a little better by the time we were finished, but I took over before she finished because I had a mental picture of her punching the gas and us ending up in the river at the end of the Hignell driveway.
After fun riding, we had an amazing tri-tip dinner. Tri-tip is what Californians do for BBQ. From what I can tell, it is the best cut off the sirloin and cut in thin slices. It was excellent. Our kids ate a lot, as did I. Plus, with the expertise of the Hignell wood chip grill, hit was cooked to perfection.
Our family is in much more of a happy spot than we have been in a while. Our trip to Chico and the Sierra Nevada mountains has been great for all of us. Plus, Bug and Madeline had an amazing time in Kentucky and were awesome when they returned. They said the length of the trip was perfect.
I am becoming more refreshed and ready to have an amazing finally two and a half months. Plus, I need to celebrate, as Marilyn and I will have been married 20 years on Wednesday.
If you are wondering why there have been a delay in website posts, it is because Bug has been away for a week. Now, she is back and the website is updated.
God is good and we thank Him for this trip. It has and continues to be great for our family!!
APRIL 16, 2016
We had a beautiful day at the cabin. After breakfast, we went fishing with Matthew. Despite Doug telling him he is NOT going to catch any fish in the stream, Matthew was undeterred. This is the second day in a row he has tried the stream. The stream is simply too fast and too cold to catch fish right now. However, Matthew fished until we made him stop.
Rachel loves Hero, the Hignells’ dog. He is big, gentle and distinguished. Rachel spends a lot of time just hugging on Hero.
Abbers is loving the dogs at our different houses. After a lot of thought, Abby has decided that she will have three dogs when she gets older – a Great Dame, a Saint Bernard and a Golden Doodle. She is going to have a lot of Dogs in her house.
After a fun morning, I headed out with Yabbers to go pick up Madeline and Kate Bradley. It was neat how Abby wanted to go pick them up. Abby and I had a good time hanging out and eating snacks in the car.
We had a little scare on the way – the car almost didn’t start. If it hadn’t, I don’t know what we’d done to get the girls. We were the only people (and only car) at the cabin. It did start and is now fine. We simply had driven it for a few days and the door had been opened and closed a bunch over a matter of days.
Plus, it was a ton of fun picking up Madeline and Kate Bradley. We got them Starbuck’s drinks and good snacks as a welcome back gift. They came off the plane laughing and bubbling. They had an amazing trip in Kentucky but seemed very excited about joining the family again. They laughed hard most of the way back to the cabin.
We stopped at Red Robin for burgers and fries on the way home, did a little shopping and made the drive back to the cabin. We listened to music, danced, laughed and had a blast in the car. I had the thought on the way back “it is never going to get any better than this.” Kate Bradley and Madeline are AMAZING, CLASSY, BEAUTIFUL young ladies. I could not be more blessed. I just love hanging out with them. It is so GOOD to have them back. I know it is coming someday and pray it does, but I dread the day they meet the right guy. I am praying for a Godly husband but am going to have a REAL hard time adjusting to it… A REAL HARD TIME.
When we got home, Doug made popcorn and we watched Mall Cop. I forgot how funny I thought it was. Madeline and Bug fell asleep early with Rachel. Yabbers couldn’t sleep and came downstairs and switched sleeping places with me.
The cabin is great. I love hearing the rushing water through the windows while I sit here and type. It is ABSOLUTELY beautiful here. We thank God and the Hignells!!!
Rachel loves Hero, the Hignells’ dog. He is big, gentle and distinguished. Rachel spends a lot of time just hugging on Hero.
Abbers is loving the dogs at our different houses. After a lot of thought, Abby has decided that she will have three dogs when she gets older – a Great Dame, a Saint Bernard and a Golden Doodle. She is going to have a lot of Dogs in her house.
After a fun morning, I headed out with Yabbers to go pick up Madeline and Kate Bradley. It was neat how Abby wanted to go pick them up. Abby and I had a good time hanging out and eating snacks in the car.
We had a little scare on the way – the car almost didn’t start. If it hadn’t, I don’t know what we’d done to get the girls. We were the only people (and only car) at the cabin. It did start and is now fine. We simply had driven it for a few days and the door had been opened and closed a bunch over a matter of days.
Plus, it was a ton of fun picking up Madeline and Kate Bradley. We got them Starbuck’s drinks and good snacks as a welcome back gift. They came off the plane laughing and bubbling. They had an amazing trip in Kentucky but seemed very excited about joining the family again. They laughed hard most of the way back to the cabin.
We stopped at Red Robin for burgers and fries on the way home, did a little shopping and made the drive back to the cabin. We listened to music, danced, laughed and had a blast in the car. I had the thought on the way back “it is never going to get any better than this.” Kate Bradley and Madeline are AMAZING, CLASSY, BEAUTIFUL young ladies. I could not be more blessed. I just love hanging out with them. It is so GOOD to have them back. I know it is coming someday and pray it does, but I dread the day they meet the right guy. I am praying for a Godly husband but am going to have a REAL hard time adjusting to it… A REAL HARD TIME.
When we got home, Doug made popcorn and we watched Mall Cop. I forgot how funny I thought it was. Madeline and Bug fell asleep early with Rachel. Yabbers couldn’t sleep and came downstairs and switched sleeping places with me.
The cabin is great. I love hearing the rushing water through the windows while I sit here and type. It is ABSOLUTELY beautiful here. We thank God and the Hignells!!!
april 15, 2016
I got up early and headed out to Chico to get the flat tire fixed. We had gotten the tire off and put it in the back of Doug’s truck. I ran some errands, got our tire fixed and came back to the cabin with Kaylinn.
Doug and Kaylinn are extremely hospitable Doug helped me with my tire and they are so so generous with their cabin and belongings. Even more than that, just being with them is refreshing and relaxing. Their friendship is truly a gift from God.
I had the privilege of spending time with Rick, Doug and Kaylinn’s son-in-law. He is a high-energy, fascinating lover of Jesus who has lived in Sweden, China and the United States. I really enjoyed the time with him.
It was nice spending some time alone running errands. I have learned and am learning that alone time is a must for everyone. It is hard to hear God when others are talking. Plus, we simply need space to let our minds rest and gain any level of clarity.
When I got back from Chico, we had the privilege and joy of spending time with the Croziers. They shared their amazing testimony and it was EXTREMELY refreshing to hang out with them. Anyone who hears their testimony will have their faith and belief in Christ strengthened. They are an awesome couple and I pray our paths cross again in the future.
While we hung out with the Croziers, Doug played with our kiddos. They went four-wheel riding and on a scenic drive in his pick-up truck. They all had a blast.
After asking about twenty times, I took Matthew fishing. I bought him an ultra-lite and some small spinners to fish in the stream. Knowing he would not catch anything, let him fish anyway. He fished and fished and refused to believe he would not catch anything.
When it was time to quit fishing Matthew said “wait a minute! I have a REALLY good feeling about this spot over here.” We let him go with his feeling and, still no fish.
After some hard unfruitful fishing we came in for dinner with the Croziers. We had some great laughs and sharing at dinners and the Croziers headed home.
Matthew wanted to watch a movie, but Doug and I couldn’t get the DVD player working. Matthew sat there and gave us advice as to what we were doing wrong and how to fix it. Then, he said “switch the input on the TV.” I finally got inpatient and said “MATTHEW, STOP!” Then, I did what he said and it worked… the DVD player was fixed. Needless to say, Matthew was proud and pointed out more than once how he was right.
After dinner, we hung out and talked a while and hit the bed.
Doug and Kaylinn are extremely hospitable Doug helped me with my tire and they are so so generous with their cabin and belongings. Even more than that, just being with them is refreshing and relaxing. Their friendship is truly a gift from God.
I had the privilege of spending time with Rick, Doug and Kaylinn’s son-in-law. He is a high-energy, fascinating lover of Jesus who has lived in Sweden, China and the United States. I really enjoyed the time with him.
It was nice spending some time alone running errands. I have learned and am learning that alone time is a must for everyone. It is hard to hear God when others are talking. Plus, we simply need space to let our minds rest and gain any level of clarity.
When I got back from Chico, we had the privilege and joy of spending time with the Croziers. They shared their amazing testimony and it was EXTREMELY refreshing to hang out with them. Anyone who hears their testimony will have their faith and belief in Christ strengthened. They are an awesome couple and I pray our paths cross again in the future.
While we hung out with the Croziers, Doug played with our kiddos. They went four-wheel riding and on a scenic drive in his pick-up truck. They all had a blast.
After asking about twenty times, I took Matthew fishing. I bought him an ultra-lite and some small spinners to fish in the stream. Knowing he would not catch anything, let him fish anyway. He fished and fished and refused to believe he would not catch anything.
When it was time to quit fishing Matthew said “wait a minute! I have a REALLY good feeling about this spot over here.” We let him go with his feeling and, still no fish.
After some hard unfruitful fishing we came in for dinner with the Croziers. We had some great laughs and sharing at dinners and the Croziers headed home.
Matthew wanted to watch a movie, but Doug and I couldn’t get the DVD player working. Matthew sat there and gave us advice as to what we were doing wrong and how to fix it. Then, he said “switch the input on the TV.” I finally got inpatient and said “MATTHEW, STOP!” Then, I did what he said and it worked… the DVD player was fixed. Needless to say, Matthew was proud and pointed out more than once how he was right.
After dinner, we hung out and talked a while and hit the bed.
april 14, 2016
I do not like waking up without the kids without Marilyn. Getting the home-school deal going and fixing meals are not my biggest strength. Matthew likes to argue during homework. He was doing an exercise involving a dictionary. He told me “Dad, ‘locust’ is not in the dictionary.” I told him to look harder and that it is in the dictionary. Then, he kept arguing with me saying it is not in the dictionary. Finally, I got frustrated and grabbed the dictionary and, guess what? Locust was not in the dictionary he was holding.
Actually, Abby, Matthew and Rachel did great. They finished most of their work and then Abby and Matthew went fishing while Rachel and I cleaned the house. They didn’t catch anything, but Matthew is “pretty sure” he got three bites.
After schoolwork, we had lunch and packed up to go to the Hignells’ cabin. We loaded up and headed into the Sierra Nevada mountains to meet Marilyn.
Matthew got a treat. Ryan (Doug’s son) and Doug took us shooting. Ryan had a really cool semi-automatic gun and Doug had numerous pistols. Matthew had a blast. After he’d unload a clip, he’d look over smiling so much he was almost laughing. Target shooting was definitely one of the highlights of the trip for Matthew.
Madeline and Bug continue to have a blast catching up with their friends in Owensboro. Madeline is getting to spend this evening with Granna and Pa.
One glitch on our end.. We can now add a flat tire to the adventure. Fortunately, Doug helped me jack the car up and get the spare on. I am going to drive into Chico to get the tire fixed tomorrow. Praise God the flat tire didn’t happen with our big trailer on.
After shooting, we had a great chicken chili Marilyn-prepared dinner. Then, Doug and I worked on the car while Rachel and Matthew played outside. Our kids LOVE this cabin. They run around outside, play with wood and climb in the playhouse. They will have an absolute blast here.
Matthew is dying to go stream fishing. I hear the words “Dad, can we go fishing?” about 20 times a day. Then, he just asked me “when is the next time we are going hunting? What would be your guess Dad.” Matthew loves fishing, hunting, NBA, basketball, guns and knives.
I am still tired, but hopefully we are regaining our mojo for the rest of the trip.
Actually, Abby, Matthew and Rachel did great. They finished most of their work and then Abby and Matthew went fishing while Rachel and I cleaned the house. They didn’t catch anything, but Matthew is “pretty sure” he got three bites.
After schoolwork, we had lunch and packed up to go to the Hignells’ cabin. We loaded up and headed into the Sierra Nevada mountains to meet Marilyn.
Matthew got a treat. Ryan (Doug’s son) and Doug took us shooting. Ryan had a really cool semi-automatic gun and Doug had numerous pistols. Matthew had a blast. After he’d unload a clip, he’d look over smiling so much he was almost laughing. Target shooting was definitely one of the highlights of the trip for Matthew.
Madeline and Bug continue to have a blast catching up with their friends in Owensboro. Madeline is getting to spend this evening with Granna and Pa.
One glitch on our end.. We can now add a flat tire to the adventure. Fortunately, Doug helped me jack the car up and get the spare on. I am going to drive into Chico to get the tire fixed tomorrow. Praise God the flat tire didn’t happen with our big trailer on.
After shooting, we had a great chicken chili Marilyn-prepared dinner. Then, Doug and I worked on the car while Rachel and Matthew played outside. Our kids LOVE this cabin. They run around outside, play with wood and climb in the playhouse. They will have an absolute blast here.
Matthew is dying to go stream fishing. I hear the words “Dad, can we go fishing?” about 20 times a day. Then, he just asked me “when is the next time we are going hunting? What would be your guess Dad.” Matthew loves fishing, hunting, NBA, basketball, guns and knives.
I am still tired, but hopefully we are regaining our mojo for the rest of the trip.
april 13, 2016
Today was Marilyn’s day to go to the cabin and spend a day and a half by herself. It was tough getting out. Home-school and getting the kids’ fed took much longer than it should. Then, Marilyn went on a run and headed to the cabin. Then, Marilyn went on a huge grocery run and learned the hard way they do not take credit. It delayed her leaving to the cabin and she didn’t get there until about 3:00 p.m.
Meanwhile, I was in charge of the kiddos. The kids still call me Fommy, but I struggle in the Fommy role. Anyone who thinks “stay at home mom” isn’t work ought to try it sometime. There are always three or four demands at the same time. “Help me with school. I am hungry. Matthew hit me!” All at the same time… It is a challenge. The few days that Marilyn left for a day or so have been a challenge for me.
Doug got home mid-afternoon and we went out running errands – Costco, gas and then out for some ice-cream. When we got back, I played some basketball with the kids – until Rachel fell and hurt her knee. Rachel is one dramatic rascal when she gets hurt. The other day she hit her nose and was so upset that she didn’t breathe until she almost passed out. Marilyn said she started turning blue. Then, when she finally cried – it was quite loud.
After basketball, I took the kiddos for a walk and fishing. Matthew and Abby love to fish. Matthew caught a good size bass. Rachel’s passion is looking for flowers to pick. She absolutely loves flowers. Matthew has turned into an excellent fisherman. He rigs the poles up, puts on the lure and does it all himself. I was pretty impressed.
After fishing, we ate dinner and started watching basketball. It was a ton of fun watching the Warriors win their 73rd game. Matthew kept us entertained trying to show off his knowledge, yelling in excitement and giving us his play by play.
At the cabin, Marilyn was having an awesome time. She got to just read, nap and watch a movie. It is EXTREMELY kind of the Hignells to try to help us regain energy for the rest of the trip.
Meanwhile, I was in charge of the kiddos. The kids still call me Fommy, but I struggle in the Fommy role. Anyone who thinks “stay at home mom” isn’t work ought to try it sometime. There are always three or four demands at the same time. “Help me with school. I am hungry. Matthew hit me!” All at the same time… It is a challenge. The few days that Marilyn left for a day or so have been a challenge for me.
Doug got home mid-afternoon and we went out running errands – Costco, gas and then out for some ice-cream. When we got back, I played some basketball with the kids – until Rachel fell and hurt her knee. Rachel is one dramatic rascal when she gets hurt. The other day she hit her nose and was so upset that she didn’t breathe until she almost passed out. Marilyn said she started turning blue. Then, when she finally cried – it was quite loud.
After basketball, I took the kiddos for a walk and fishing. Matthew and Abby love to fish. Matthew caught a good size bass. Rachel’s passion is looking for flowers to pick. She absolutely loves flowers. Matthew has turned into an excellent fisherman. He rigs the poles up, puts on the lure and does it all himself. I was pretty impressed.
After fishing, we ate dinner and started watching basketball. It was a ton of fun watching the Warriors win their 73rd game. Matthew kept us entertained trying to show off his knowledge, yelling in excitement and giving us his play by play.
At the cabin, Marilyn was having an awesome time. She got to just read, nap and watch a movie. It is EXTREMELY kind of the Hignells to try to help us regain energy for the rest of the trip.
april 12, 2016
I woke up in Doug’s cabin to just hang out. It turned out I needed to do quite a bit of editing to get materials ready for the upcoming year one sessions. Then, I spent a few hours trying to iron out some of our plans for June. I learned quickly that the Grand Tetons are a popular place to visit in June.
Madeline and Kate Bradley had a blast yesterday surprising their cross country team. Today, they hung out with friends and had the privilege of having lunch with their grandmother, granddad, Chris, Char and their boys. They said they had a blast! Then, they got to go see our dog “Lucy” at Donna’s house. Donna has done an amazing and generous job treating our dog like a queen.
At the cabin, I got a lot of work done, talked to Tim Fair at Bethany Church in Anderson, IN. I am very excited about his heart for marriage and what God will do in that body.
The cabin is great. It is an amazing, peaceful, place in an amazing setting. Just to stand on the deck and listen to water rushing is great.
Things definitely are not the same without Bug and Madeline – I am thrilled they are having a blast, but cannot wait to pick them up in Sacramento on Saturday.
The highlight of the day was getting to be a part of the Hignells’ small group. It was SO SO encouraging. Marilyn and I really needed the spiritual refreshment. They shared their stories, we prayed and shared Grace Marriage with them. I cannot express out spiritually refreshing it was to be with them. The group has gone on for over ten years and I see why. They love one another well and, even though we didn’t know anyone (except the Hignells), we immediately felt a connection and love that refreshed the heart.
We really needed some “spiritual community” connection. I praise and thank God for the privilege to meet these great people. It looks like we are going to get to spend more time with at least two of the couples in the group.
Matthew, Rachel and Abby were great during group. Matthew got Rachel to wear an Oklahoma City Thunder and watch the game. It is amazing how much Rachel and Matthew play. They are best buddies.
Madeline and Kate Bradley had a blast yesterday surprising their cross country team. Today, they hung out with friends and had the privilege of having lunch with their grandmother, granddad, Chris, Char and their boys. They said they had a blast! Then, they got to go see our dog “Lucy” at Donna’s house. Donna has done an amazing and generous job treating our dog like a queen.
At the cabin, I got a lot of work done, talked to Tim Fair at Bethany Church in Anderson, IN. I am very excited about his heart for marriage and what God will do in that body.
The cabin is great. It is an amazing, peaceful, place in an amazing setting. Just to stand on the deck and listen to water rushing is great.
Things definitely are not the same without Bug and Madeline – I am thrilled they are having a blast, but cannot wait to pick them up in Sacramento on Saturday.
The highlight of the day was getting to be a part of the Hignells’ small group. It was SO SO encouraging. Marilyn and I really needed the spiritual refreshment. They shared their stories, we prayed and shared Grace Marriage with them. I cannot express out spiritually refreshing it was to be with them. The group has gone on for over ten years and I see why. They love one another well and, even though we didn’t know anyone (except the Hignells), we immediately felt a connection and love that refreshed the heart.
We really needed some “spiritual community” connection. I praise and thank God for the privilege to meet these great people. It looks like we are going to get to spend more time with at least two of the couples in the group.
Matthew, Rachel and Abby were great during group. Matthew got Rachel to wear an Oklahoma City Thunder and watch the game. It is amazing how much Rachel and Matthew play. They are best buddies.
april 11, 2016
Today started with me going to Trader Joe’s on a gluten/dairy free hunt for food for Abby. Trader Joe’s was great and reasonable in price.
I came home with the groceries and taught Abby math before hopping in the van to drive to Doug’s cabin. When I arrived, I really didn’t know what to do. It has been three of the best months of my life. However, I don’t think I have had a stretch where I have been constantly around people so much. Neither Marilyn nor myself have really had much of a break.
I got here and thought “what do I need to do?” Then, I watched a movie “Daddy’s Home.” Movies starring Will Farrell seem to be kind of stupid (and funny) and this one did not disappoint. It had some really funny scenes, but I would only rate it about a five out of ten.
It was nice eating snacks by myself while watching a movie. Meanwhile, Marilyn went hiking with Doug’s daughter, Rachel, Matthew and Abbers.
Doug’s cabin is amazing --- restful, pretty and very well done. It lives up to its name “Sabbath Rest.” It is interesting. I feel better already.
I talked to Madeline and Bug today and they are having a blast. They surprised their cross country team today and have already gotten to see a number of friends. Tomorrow, they are having lunch with my mom and dad, Chris and Char and possibly the boys.
This week is good for all of us. Madeline and Bug are having a blast. Marilyn and I are getting some rest and enjoying good friends. I think we’ll be fueled up to go camp in the Redwoods and see what Oregon has in store for us.
I got tired and decided it would be fun to just fall asleep watching a movie. I put in “Bucket List” and enjoyed dozing in and out watching it. Marilyn did school and hung out with Rachel, Matthew and Abby in Chico. There is a beautiful walking trail behind the Hignell’s home that goes around two small lakes. Marilyn and the kids love walking on the trails and exploring. Madeline and the Bug had a blast in Owensboro.
I have learned the more tired you get, the harder everything is. When I got to the cabin, even the thought of making lunch seemed like a big pain. So, I just warmed up a big bowl of soup Kaylinn Hignell gave me and ate three granola bars.
Hopefully, I’ll hit the ground running tomorrow.
I came home with the groceries and taught Abby math before hopping in the van to drive to Doug’s cabin. When I arrived, I really didn’t know what to do. It has been three of the best months of my life. However, I don’t think I have had a stretch where I have been constantly around people so much. Neither Marilyn nor myself have really had much of a break.
I got here and thought “what do I need to do?” Then, I watched a movie “Daddy’s Home.” Movies starring Will Farrell seem to be kind of stupid (and funny) and this one did not disappoint. It had some really funny scenes, but I would only rate it about a five out of ten.
It was nice eating snacks by myself while watching a movie. Meanwhile, Marilyn went hiking with Doug’s daughter, Rachel, Matthew and Abbers.
Doug’s cabin is amazing --- restful, pretty and very well done. It lives up to its name “Sabbath Rest.” It is interesting. I feel better already.
I talked to Madeline and Bug today and they are having a blast. They surprised their cross country team today and have already gotten to see a number of friends. Tomorrow, they are having lunch with my mom and dad, Chris and Char and possibly the boys.
This week is good for all of us. Madeline and Bug are having a blast. Marilyn and I are getting some rest and enjoying good friends. I think we’ll be fueled up to go camp in the Redwoods and see what Oregon has in store for us.
I got tired and decided it would be fun to just fall asleep watching a movie. I put in “Bucket List” and enjoyed dozing in and out watching it. Marilyn did school and hung out with Rachel, Matthew and Abby in Chico. There is a beautiful walking trail behind the Hignell’s home that goes around two small lakes. Marilyn and the kids love walking on the trails and exploring. Madeline and the Bug had a blast in Owensboro.
I have learned the more tired you get, the harder everything is. When I got to the cabin, even the thought of making lunch seemed like a big pain. So, I just warmed up a big bowl of soup Kaylinn Hignell gave me and ate three granola bars.
Hopefully, I’ll hit the ground running tomorrow.
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The view from the cabin's deck is beautiful
april 10, 2016
Today, it was time to hit the road to Chico, CA to visit with one of my very best friends – Doug Hignell. The impact Doug has had on our family is indescribable. He is a Godly, loving man who has taken a special interest in me and our family. I thank God for our friendship.
We dropped Jon Gibson off at the airport, took a look at his airplane and hit the road to go to Chico, CA. I’ll spare the details because they’d get edited out by Marilyn anyway, but our kids did give Jon a good flavor of what it is like traveling in a van with the Rhoads.
We really miss Bug and Madeline. It is not near the same without them. I LOVE being with them. Even the ride to the airport was a blast. They are SO SO fun to talk to and be around. God has blessed me with the MOST awesome teenagers. I’m sure Bug won’t edit this out – she doesn’t mind a little good recognition.
The two-hour car ride to Chico was a piece of cake. We are accustomed to a lot more driving pain that that. In fact, we have put over 13,300 miles on the car since we left on January 1st.
When we arrived in Chico, we drove downtown and had some California bbq. It was not bad, but affirmed why they call Owensboro the bbq capital of the world. After eating, we went through a few shops, dropped by Wal-mart for some prescriptions and headed to the Hignells.
Doug is loving and perceptive. He could tell just by reading our blog that we were tired. He was right. Things are great, but we are both tired. He said “our goal while you are in Chico is to refresh you and send you on your way ready to enjoy the last couple months of your adventure.”
He started by telling us that we are both going to spend a couple of days alone at his cabin. Then, at dinner, he asked Marilyn “I know you greatly fear being a burden on other people and have a hard time relaxing. What can we do to help you relax here?” Marilyn laughed and Doug said “I am serious. What do we need to do to get you to relax.” Marilyn said “go about your regular activities and don’t let us get in your way.” Doug said “deal.”
We watched some sports (Masters L and the Warriors game J), hung out and went to bed. I was asleep at about the exact same time my head hit the pillow.
Matthew started talking to the Hignell’s as if he has known them for years… surprise.. Rachel and Abbers had a good time as well.
We are thankful for our friends and excited about spending time with them and at the cabin.
We dropped Jon Gibson off at the airport, took a look at his airplane and hit the road to go to Chico, CA. I’ll spare the details because they’d get edited out by Marilyn anyway, but our kids did give Jon a good flavor of what it is like traveling in a van with the Rhoads.
We really miss Bug and Madeline. It is not near the same without them. I LOVE being with them. Even the ride to the airport was a blast. They are SO SO fun to talk to and be around. God has blessed me with the MOST awesome teenagers. I’m sure Bug won’t edit this out – she doesn’t mind a little good recognition.
The two-hour car ride to Chico was a piece of cake. We are accustomed to a lot more driving pain that that. In fact, we have put over 13,300 miles on the car since we left on January 1st.
When we arrived in Chico, we drove downtown and had some California bbq. It was not bad, but affirmed why they call Owensboro the bbq capital of the world. After eating, we went through a few shops, dropped by Wal-mart for some prescriptions and headed to the Hignells.
Doug is loving and perceptive. He could tell just by reading our blog that we were tired. He was right. Things are great, but we are both tired. He said “our goal while you are in Chico is to refresh you and send you on your way ready to enjoy the last couple months of your adventure.”
He started by telling us that we are both going to spend a couple of days alone at his cabin. Then, at dinner, he asked Marilyn “I know you greatly fear being a burden on other people and have a hard time relaxing. What can we do to help you relax here?” Marilyn laughed and Doug said “I am serious. What do we need to do to get you to relax.” Marilyn said “go about your regular activities and don’t let us get in your way.” Doug said “deal.”
We watched some sports (Masters L and the Warriors game J), hung out and went to bed. I was asleep at about the exact same time my head hit the pillow.
Matthew started talking to the Hignell’s as if he has known them for years… surprise.. Rachel and Abbers had a good time as well.
We are thankful for our friends and excited about spending time with them and at the cabin.
april 9, 2016
The morning started early, getting up to drive Bug and Madeline to the airport. They were hilarious from the start. First, they told me they debated on whether to set their alarm, but decided to rely on me. Then, they laughed about needing time to get ready.
Due to my unfamiliarity with the “early bird” system at Southwest and my tendency to be “last minute”, my kiddos were in the C group for boarding. I hated they’d have to sit apart for the flight. Then, a nice Southwest worker rescued me with a slight rule-bending and moving them between the A and B group with family boarding. The kids seemed fine sitting apart, but I felt better having them together.
Madeline was a bit stressed with the change plane/gates thing in Denver. Bug had the “it’ll work out” mentality. I gave Madeline a walk-through on gate-changing in Sacramento and she felt better. After she boarded the plane, I got a cell call saying “don’t we need some money.” Well, I had remembered everything… except cash. I told her to walk back down the walkway and I’d meet her with cash. It looked like a drug deal, but I slipped her some money.
On the way to the airport, Bug texted Riley that she expected a special sign and wanted Riley to wear all black and sunglasses. Bug and Riley are great goofy friends. Riley complied with the request and a sign was awaiting them at the airport.
We stayed at the Gibson’s and hung out with them, their son and grandchildren all day. We hung out at their house and got in their hot tub. Rachel had another great day with Eden. Matthew played with Clayton and Brecken. Even though they are both under four years old, Matthew plays with them like they are in his grade. Matthew just needs someone who will listen to him and follow him around.
We had a nice dinner with the Gibson’s and stayed up and talked until we went to bed. It is kind of funny that Rachel seems to have no idea if we are coming or going. She regularly asks “are we leaving today?” Unable to grasp the schedule, she is never sure if we are hopping in the car, hanging at a house or going on a tour. However, she seems to really enjoy the ride.
Due to my unfamiliarity with the “early bird” system at Southwest and my tendency to be “last minute”, my kiddos were in the C group for boarding. I hated they’d have to sit apart for the flight. Then, a nice Southwest worker rescued me with a slight rule-bending and moving them between the A and B group with family boarding. The kids seemed fine sitting apart, but I felt better having them together.
Madeline was a bit stressed with the change plane/gates thing in Denver. Bug had the “it’ll work out” mentality. I gave Madeline a walk-through on gate-changing in Sacramento and she felt better. After she boarded the plane, I got a cell call saying “don’t we need some money.” Well, I had remembered everything… except cash. I told her to walk back down the walkway and I’d meet her with cash. It looked like a drug deal, but I slipped her some money.
On the way to the airport, Bug texted Riley that she expected a special sign and wanted Riley to wear all black and sunglasses. Bug and Riley are great goofy friends. Riley complied with the request and a sign was awaiting them at the airport.
We stayed at the Gibson’s and hung out with them, their son and grandchildren all day. We hung out at their house and got in their hot tub. Rachel had another great day with Eden. Matthew played with Clayton and Brecken. Even though they are both under four years old, Matthew plays with them like they are in his grade. Matthew just needs someone who will listen to him and follow him around.
We had a nice dinner with the Gibson’s and stayed up and talked until we went to bed. It is kind of funny that Rachel seems to have no idea if we are coming or going. She regularly asks “are we leaving today?” Unable to grasp the schedule, she is never sure if we are hopping in the car, hanging at a house or going on a tour. However, she seems to really enjoy the ride.
april 8, 2016
This day started very early. I got up at 5:00 a.m. to take Matthew fishing with a couple of guys from Jon’s team. Chris and Matt were great fishing hosts. We fished Folsom lake, tried really hard, but didn’t catch anything. It was still fun. Matthew LOVES fishing – whether you catch fish or not.
After fishing, we went to Chick FilA for breakfast and then tried another fishing spot. It was a pond that had a reputation for easy catching. Well, it didn’t hold up to its reputation. Matthew did catch five small blue-gill and I caught one bass.
When I returned Madeline was excited to remove the stitches from my foot. Once she removed stitches from my eye after she watched a bunch of youtube videos. She was excited about another opportunity to show her skills. Removing the foot stitches was easy and my foot is doing much better. Plus, it is great to be off the heavy anti-biotic, as I am now feeling much better and less fatigued.
When we returned, we loaded up and had a picnic with the Gibsons, their son and their grandchildren. The kids had a great time and we toured the sight where gold was first discovered in California. As usual, we had to force the kids to focus on the historical side. However, I think more of it sticks than they lead on.
Our family is now settling back in and doing better. Marilyn really needs some time alone to catch her breath. Full-time parenting, home-schooling, packing, cooking, cleaning and touring is AWESOME, but breaks are needed.
After the picnic, we went home. Marilyn stayed back with our kids and the Gibson’s grandchildren. I went with Marcus and Jon for some time with the guys. It turned out to be VERY fun. Jon took his plane out and we flew to another airport, had dinner and ice cream and flew back.
On the way back, the clouds were too bad to land at the air strip near Jon’s office. So, we had to go to another strip and land at a base about 40 minutes away. Then, we got a UBER and got back to my car to get home.
I am loving being with my family. I feel closer to our kids than I have ever felt. The more I spend time with them, the more I dread them going to college and getting married one day.
now, we are in a better spot as a family. Everyone is getting along pretty well and Marilyn and I have really been blessed by the hospitality and comfort of the Gibsons’ home.
After fishing, we went to Chick FilA for breakfast and then tried another fishing spot. It was a pond that had a reputation for easy catching. Well, it didn’t hold up to its reputation. Matthew did catch five small blue-gill and I caught one bass.
When I returned Madeline was excited to remove the stitches from my foot. Once she removed stitches from my eye after she watched a bunch of youtube videos. She was excited about another opportunity to show her skills. Removing the foot stitches was easy and my foot is doing much better. Plus, it is great to be off the heavy anti-biotic, as I am now feeling much better and less fatigued.
When we returned, we loaded up and had a picnic with the Gibsons, their son and their grandchildren. The kids had a great time and we toured the sight where gold was first discovered in California. As usual, we had to force the kids to focus on the historical side. However, I think more of it sticks than they lead on.
Our family is now settling back in and doing better. Marilyn really needs some time alone to catch her breath. Full-time parenting, home-schooling, packing, cooking, cleaning and touring is AWESOME, but breaks are needed.
After the picnic, we went home. Marilyn stayed back with our kids and the Gibson’s grandchildren. I went with Marcus and Jon for some time with the guys. It turned out to be VERY fun. Jon took his plane out and we flew to another airport, had dinner and ice cream and flew back.
On the way back, the clouds were too bad to land at the air strip near Jon’s office. So, we had to go to another strip and land at a base about 40 minutes away. Then, we got a UBER and got back to my car to get home.
I am loving being with my family. I feel closer to our kids than I have ever felt. The more I spend time with them, the more I dread them going to college and getting married one day.
now, we are in a better spot as a family. Everyone is getting along pretty well and Marilyn and I have really been blessed by the hospitality and comfort of the Gibsons’ home.
april 7, 2016
We got up, had breakfast, did home-school and hung out at the GIbsons. The Gibsons are amazing hosts. They are thoughtful, kind, conversational and have done everything possible to help our time in the Sacramento area be great. We are very grateful for them and thankful to have them as friends.
The kids watched the new Star Wars movie was we drove to Sacramento. First, we stopped to look around the capital building. Matthew can’t help himself. No matter how hard we try, the boy cannot quit running, exploring and pretending to play basketball.
After the capital, we went on to see Old Sacramento. It is a cool downtown – we perused some museums, did some souvenir shopping, looked at the river and got in the car to go to the Kings’ game.
We endured the traffic and Marilyn dropped Matthew, me, Abby and Rachel off at the game. Marilyn took the Madeline and Kate Bradley out to eat.
We got to the game early and went down to the front to watch warm-ups. Rachel was cute in her Jordan jersey and a UK hat. They got two autographs and a picture with Abby and one of the players.
The game was fun. Matthew was 100 percent full-speed. Every time they through any give-away into the crowd, Matthew would run to the aisle and down to the front screaming trying to get his free tee shirt or mini-ball. He did not catch any toy, but he did lose his voice.
The game was fun. I love spending one on one time with Abby. She is so conversational and pleasant. Matthew and Rachel sat in the row in front of us. Rachel cheered and had fun. Somehow, Matthew has really turned her into a UK fan.
After the game, we were walking to meet Marilyn and were running a little late. Abby said “you know, Dad – they say the early bird gets the worm. I disagree. The early bird just has to wait.” Abby is always full of funny observations.
While we were at the game, Marilyn had a blast with Madeline and Kate Bradley. Other than narrowly avoiding a wreck on the way home, it was a really good day.
The kids watched the new Star Wars movie was we drove to Sacramento. First, we stopped to look around the capital building. Matthew can’t help himself. No matter how hard we try, the boy cannot quit running, exploring and pretending to play basketball.
After the capital, we went on to see Old Sacramento. It is a cool downtown – we perused some museums, did some souvenir shopping, looked at the river and got in the car to go to the Kings’ game.
We endured the traffic and Marilyn dropped Matthew, me, Abby and Rachel off at the game. Marilyn took the Madeline and Kate Bradley out to eat.
We got to the game early and went down to the front to watch warm-ups. Rachel was cute in her Jordan jersey and a UK hat. They got two autographs and a picture with Abby and one of the players.
The game was fun. Matthew was 100 percent full-speed. Every time they through any give-away into the crowd, Matthew would run to the aisle and down to the front screaming trying to get his free tee shirt or mini-ball. He did not catch any toy, but he did lose his voice.
The game was fun. I love spending one on one time with Abby. She is so conversational and pleasant. Matthew and Rachel sat in the row in front of us. Rachel cheered and had fun. Somehow, Matthew has really turned her into a UK fan.
After the game, we were walking to meet Marilyn and were running a little late. Abby said “you know, Dad – they say the early bird gets the worm. I disagree. The early bird just has to wait.” Abby is always full of funny observations.
While we were at the game, Marilyn had a blast with Madeline and Kate Bradley. Other than narrowly avoiding a wreck on the way home, it was a really good day.
april 6, 2016
Marilyn could tell I was in pretty bad need of a break. So, she insisted I go to work with Jon and work on marriage materials. I resisted at first, but decided to go work. It has been a nice day editing materials. Plus, I got to have lunch with a member of Jon’s team. We learned we both like to fish and are going on an early morning fishing excursion on Friday.
Marilyn stayed home and is doing a full-day of homeschool to make up for our going to Tahoe yesterday. Tonight, we are having dinner with Marilyn’s cousin (Mary Ellen) and going to her house to hang out for a while. It should be a great time.
.I picked up the car with it's new transmission and timing belt. After picking up the car, I went and picked up the family to go to Folsom to meet Marilyn’s cousin, aunt and family. We drove by Folsom prison (the subject of a famous Johnny Cash song). Then, we met Mary Ellen and the crew at Chicago Fire, a cool pizza place in downtown Folsom.
It was great seeing Mary Ellen, Will, Barbara and her family. Marilyn has told me repeatedly how awesome she is and how much she loved her growing up. The conversation was fun, the pizza was great and we had a great time at the restaurant. The pizza place had great gluten free pizza for Abby as well. Mary Ellen and Will were so generous in treating us to dinner.
After dinner, we went for a walk around Folsom, took photos and hung out. We walked across and old bridge over the American River, learned about the city and enjoyed family. Matthew really hit it off with Frankie, who was really nice and conversational.
Then, we went to Mary Ellen’s house to hang out with Will, Mary Ellen and Aunt Barbara. Marilyn hung out with Mary Ellen and Barbara while the girls watched American Idol and Matthew, Frank, Will and I watched the NBA game.
It was great spending time with them. If we lived closer, I think we’d be very close to that family.
Marilyn stayed home and is doing a full-day of homeschool to make up for our going to Tahoe yesterday. Tonight, we are having dinner with Marilyn’s cousin (Mary Ellen) and going to her house to hang out for a while. It should be a great time.
.I picked up the car with it's new transmission and timing belt. After picking up the car, I went and picked up the family to go to Folsom to meet Marilyn’s cousin, aunt and family. We drove by Folsom prison (the subject of a famous Johnny Cash song). Then, we met Mary Ellen and the crew at Chicago Fire, a cool pizza place in downtown Folsom.
It was great seeing Mary Ellen, Will, Barbara and her family. Marilyn has told me repeatedly how awesome she is and how much she loved her growing up. The conversation was fun, the pizza was great and we had a great time at the restaurant. The pizza place had great gluten free pizza for Abby as well. Mary Ellen and Will were so generous in treating us to dinner.
After dinner, we went for a walk around Folsom, took photos and hung out. We walked across and old bridge over the American River, learned about the city and enjoyed family. Matthew really hit it off with Frankie, who was really nice and conversational.
Then, we went to Mary Ellen’s house to hang out with Will, Mary Ellen and Aunt Barbara. Marilyn hung out with Mary Ellen and Barbara while the girls watched American Idol and Matthew, Frank, Will and I watched the NBA game.
It was great spending time with them. If we lived closer, I think we’d be very close to that family.
april 5, 2016
My car needed to go in for a flush of the transmission fluid, timing belt and water pump change. So, we were without a car. However, the Gibsons allowed us to use one of their vehicles and go to Lake Tahoe as a family.
It was amazing! The views and the hike was great. I was distracted most of the day in thought, prayer and concern for my brother. He had a trial that ended today and went to the jury. The jury deliberated all day and “PRAISE GOD” came back with a good verdict for my brother and his client.
Plus, I spent part of the morning talking with mechanics trying to decide what to have done and not to have done on the van. Thankfully, we were advised to get a new timing belt as we were 30,000 miles overdue for one. If it breaks, the engine is ruined. That would have been a bad development. Better to buy a new timing belt than a new van!
The kids were unusually happy and goofy and loud today. They sang, laughed and had a blast in the car on the way to and from Lake Tahoe. I was edgy and tired and really preferred silence – something non-existent (ever) in our family. Loud singing noises and conversation are a constant in any vehicle we occupy. In reality, we are blessed with very fun, outgoing and happy kids.
Our rides in the car are eventful. There is either singing, laughing, or griping going on. Rarely is there a moment of silence. A reality in the world of five fun kids.
We saw views of Lake Tahoe from above and hiked down to the lake. There are not many places in the world prettier than Lake Tahoe. It is a huge lake with snow-capped mountains all around it.
I was able to limp the 2 ½ mile hike, but my foot didn’t look quite as good after a day of walking on it. However, I do believe it’ll be fine and is moving in the right direction. At Lake Tahoe, Matthew managed to walk in the water with his shoes and get his pants wet. As usual, when confronted he said “I didn’t see it.” Matthew really experiences everything and loves every minute of it. There were ducks at the edge of Lake Tahoe that would let you walk right up to them. Madeline offered Matthew five bucks if he could pick a feather off one of the ducks. Fortunately, Marilyn saw and stopped what was about to happen.
We tried to eat at a restaurant on the water, but made several direction blunders and ended up eating at Applebee’s. Actually, it was very good. Our family has really come to like Applebee’s this trip.
The Gibsons are amazingly thoughtful and generous and gracious. It turned out my car needed to stay overnight with the mechanic. I forgot Mr. Gibson was going to use my car after the transmission fluid flush. So, he was left without a car. I felt bad I didn’t think of it quicker, but Jon was tremendously gracious to me about the blunder.
We had the privilege of getting to know Jon’s brother and sister-in-law over dessert last night. We had the privilege of talking and praying with them.
The Gibsons are amazing, wonderful, and gracious hosts. We are blessed (and grateful) to have such kind and generous friends.
It was amazing! The views and the hike was great. I was distracted most of the day in thought, prayer and concern for my brother. He had a trial that ended today and went to the jury. The jury deliberated all day and “PRAISE GOD” came back with a good verdict for my brother and his client.
Plus, I spent part of the morning talking with mechanics trying to decide what to have done and not to have done on the van. Thankfully, we were advised to get a new timing belt as we were 30,000 miles overdue for one. If it breaks, the engine is ruined. That would have been a bad development. Better to buy a new timing belt than a new van!
The kids were unusually happy and goofy and loud today. They sang, laughed and had a blast in the car on the way to and from Lake Tahoe. I was edgy and tired and really preferred silence – something non-existent (ever) in our family. Loud singing noises and conversation are a constant in any vehicle we occupy. In reality, we are blessed with very fun, outgoing and happy kids.
Our rides in the car are eventful. There is either singing, laughing, or griping going on. Rarely is there a moment of silence. A reality in the world of five fun kids.
We saw views of Lake Tahoe from above and hiked down to the lake. There are not many places in the world prettier than Lake Tahoe. It is a huge lake with snow-capped mountains all around it.
I was able to limp the 2 ½ mile hike, but my foot didn’t look quite as good after a day of walking on it. However, I do believe it’ll be fine and is moving in the right direction. At Lake Tahoe, Matthew managed to walk in the water with his shoes and get his pants wet. As usual, when confronted he said “I didn’t see it.” Matthew really experiences everything and loves every minute of it. There were ducks at the edge of Lake Tahoe that would let you walk right up to them. Madeline offered Matthew five bucks if he could pick a feather off one of the ducks. Fortunately, Marilyn saw and stopped what was about to happen.
We tried to eat at a restaurant on the water, but made several direction blunders and ended up eating at Applebee’s. Actually, it was very good. Our family has really come to like Applebee’s this trip.
The Gibsons are amazingly thoughtful and generous and gracious. It turned out my car needed to stay overnight with the mechanic. I forgot Mr. Gibson was going to use my car after the transmission fluid flush. So, he was left without a car. I felt bad I didn’t think of it quicker, but Jon was tremendously gracious to me about the blunder.
We had the privilege of getting to know Jon’s brother and sister-in-law over dessert last night. We had the privilege of talking and praying with them.
The Gibsons are amazing, wonderful, and gracious hosts. We are blessed (and grateful) to have such kind and generous friends.
APRIL 4, 2016
Spring break is over and it is time to start home-school again. The kids got back on it pretty well. Kate Bradley and Madeline continue to do very well as virtual students.
Rachel spent the day playing with Eden, the Gibsons’ five-year old granddaughter. They had a blast all day. The made a hide-out under a huge weeping willow tree, played in the hot tub, colored, had a picnic and literally had a blast all day. Rachel DID NOT want Eden to leave. They hit it off from the very start.
I was a little stressed about the potential state of our van. Mike at Mike’s Automotive eased my fears and told me we should be fine. Marilyn and I just hung with the kids most of the day, did home-school, got things ordered, paid bills and got some odds and ends done. It never seems like there is enough time to get done all that needs to get done.
The Gibsons are amazing hosts. They asked us what we wanted to do in the area, put me on to their mechanic to look at the car and were amazingly nice and conversational with all of our kiddos.
I got to know Marcus, the Gibsons’ son a little better as we took Eden back to his house after he finished work. Rachel and Eden immediately went to Eden’s room and kept playing.
The kids are enamored by the Gibsons’ two St. Bernard dogs. Rachel actually got up one morning and asked Mrs. Gibson “where are your puffy dogs?” They are huge, beautiful, gentle and kind dogs. Our kids absolutely love them.
I continue to lack the pep or patience I’d like to have. I don’t know if it is just fatigue from travel and change or if it is from being on 2000 milligrams of Keflex a day for my foot. My foot is doing better and I can walk relatively well with a limp now.
We had pizza for dinner and Rachel decided to do a little “parent embarrassment” night. First, she said the salad was “horrible”, as she can’t stand anything with lettuce. Then, she tried it and spit it out. After a “talking to” she came back and did a better job eating desert, until she was refused a second piece of cake. She said “if I can’t have another piece of cake, I’ll just lick my plate.” Then, she got in trouble again for plate licking. Kids are unpredictable: they can surprise you and make you look good or they can go the other way.
We really enjoyed hanging out with the Gibsons, put the kids down and went to bed ourselves. Overall, it was a pretty chill day that we all needed.
Rachel spent the day playing with Eden, the Gibsons’ five-year old granddaughter. They had a blast all day. The made a hide-out under a huge weeping willow tree, played in the hot tub, colored, had a picnic and literally had a blast all day. Rachel DID NOT want Eden to leave. They hit it off from the very start.
I was a little stressed about the potential state of our van. Mike at Mike’s Automotive eased my fears and told me we should be fine. Marilyn and I just hung with the kids most of the day, did home-school, got things ordered, paid bills and got some odds and ends done. It never seems like there is enough time to get done all that needs to get done.
The Gibsons are amazing hosts. They asked us what we wanted to do in the area, put me on to their mechanic to look at the car and were amazingly nice and conversational with all of our kiddos.
I got to know Marcus, the Gibsons’ son a little better as we took Eden back to his house after he finished work. Rachel and Eden immediately went to Eden’s room and kept playing.
The kids are enamored by the Gibsons’ two St. Bernard dogs. Rachel actually got up one morning and asked Mrs. Gibson “where are your puffy dogs?” They are huge, beautiful, gentle and kind dogs. Our kids absolutely love them.
I continue to lack the pep or patience I’d like to have. I don’t know if it is just fatigue from travel and change or if it is from being on 2000 milligrams of Keflex a day for my foot. My foot is doing better and I can walk relatively well with a limp now.
We had pizza for dinner and Rachel decided to do a little “parent embarrassment” night. First, she said the salad was “horrible”, as she can’t stand anything with lettuce. Then, she tried it and spit it out. After a “talking to” she came back and did a better job eating desert, until she was refused a second piece of cake. She said “if I can’t have another piece of cake, I’ll just lick my plate.” Then, she got in trouble again for plate licking. Kids are unpredictable: they can surprise you and make you look good or they can go the other way.
We really enjoyed hanging out with the Gibsons, put the kids down and went to bed ourselves. Overall, it was a pretty chill day that we all needed.
april 3, 2016
It has been a nice slow day. We got up, took our time and hung out at the hotel. Marilyn went for a run with Bug and Madeline. I took Rachel, Matthew and Abby swimming. The pool and hot tub were great. The pool was salt-water and heated to 86 degrees.
Rachel enjoyed showing off her new-found swimming ability. She actually ventured out to water above her head and swam without a floatie. Abby and Matthew played hard. I took it pretty easy and helped Rachel swim and hung out in the hot tub.
We took out time packing, go the trailer hooked up for another drive, ate lunch and jumped in the car to Sacramento. Surprise: Tons of traffic... The kids have done well in the car, watching “Open Season” for the fourth time. The kids are camping on some really random movies. Madeline and Kate Bradley are being very kind to let the smaller kids pick the movies.
Rachel wanted to wear her Air Jordan jersey today, but Marilyn didn’t want the Gibson’s (our next stop) first impression of Rachel to be in a boy Air Jordan jersey.
Matthew is sporting his Brooklyn “Deron Williams” jersey. During lunch, Rachel and Matthew went to the bar area to watch the Thunder/Rockets game. Rachel did say “when I get home, don’t tell my friends I am an NBA fan. It would be embarrassing.” She is one funny little girl.
Marilyn and I both are needing some time alone with the Lord to just settle a bit. We have been together a lot for a long time. It is great, but a break is needed.
Bug has turned out to be a real experiencer. She always wants to go and see. I think she is going to follow in her mother’s travel footsteps.
On our way to Sacramento, we drove through Stanford University and showed the kids around. We have seen quite a few cool colleges and universities on this trip. Madeline started feeling really bad in the car, didn’t eat dinner, but rebounded and seems to be doing OK now.
We had a nice dinner with the Gibsons and drove on out to their house. It was a pretty steep grade getting to the house. It stressed me out a bit because the transmission fluid has a burnt smell. We are getting it checked this week. Then, we found out we had left Abby’s long-term favorite “can’t sleep without” blanket in Palo Alto. Fortunately, the staff found it. Unfortunately, it is a weighted blanket and will not be cheap to ship to the Gibsons.
Rachel enjoyed showing off her new-found swimming ability. She actually ventured out to water above her head and swam without a floatie. Abby and Matthew played hard. I took it pretty easy and helped Rachel swim and hung out in the hot tub.
We took out time packing, go the trailer hooked up for another drive, ate lunch and jumped in the car to Sacramento. Surprise: Tons of traffic... The kids have done well in the car, watching “Open Season” for the fourth time. The kids are camping on some really random movies. Madeline and Kate Bradley are being very kind to let the smaller kids pick the movies.
Rachel wanted to wear her Air Jordan jersey today, but Marilyn didn’t want the Gibson’s (our next stop) first impression of Rachel to be in a boy Air Jordan jersey.
Matthew is sporting his Brooklyn “Deron Williams” jersey. During lunch, Rachel and Matthew went to the bar area to watch the Thunder/Rockets game. Rachel did say “when I get home, don’t tell my friends I am an NBA fan. It would be embarrassing.” She is one funny little girl.
Marilyn and I both are needing some time alone with the Lord to just settle a bit. We have been together a lot for a long time. It is great, but a break is needed.
Bug has turned out to be a real experiencer. She always wants to go and see. I think she is going to follow in her mother’s travel footsteps.
On our way to Sacramento, we drove through Stanford University and showed the kids around. We have seen quite a few cool colleges and universities on this trip. Madeline started feeling really bad in the car, didn’t eat dinner, but rebounded and seems to be doing OK now.
We had a nice dinner with the Gibsons and drove on out to their house. It was a pretty steep grade getting to the house. It stressed me out a bit because the transmission fluid has a burnt smell. We are getting it checked this week. Then, we found out we had left Abby’s long-term favorite “can’t sleep without” blanket in Palo Alto. Fortunately, the staff found it. Unfortunately, it is a weighted blanket and will not be cheap to ship to the Gibsons.
april 2, 2016
We slept in and headed to Half Moon Bay Beach with the kids. It was too cold to go bathing suit or swim, but the beach was awesome and we played games and walked along the shoreline. The kids had a good time and were impressed. The rolling hills, the flowers and the cliffs overlooking the ocean were amazing. Marilyn went for a nice walk down the beach with Madeline, Abby and Bug. After some time at the beach, we headed to see the Golden Gate Bridge.
The kids had only had one Egg McMuffin and were really hungry. We struggled to find a restaurant, missed lunch and didn’t eat until 5:30 p.m. Before dinner, we went to the Golden Gate Bridge overlook and drove across the bridge. It was really cool. The kids reflected on how many movies they had seen the Golden Gate Bridge in.
After dinner, we rode down “crooked street” (Lombard Street) and drove around Fisherman’s Wharf. Then, we went home, Bug went for a run and Marilyn and I had a MUCH needed two-hour date.
Traffic in California is amazing. It seems like you are constantly stuck in traffic. Madeline said “this is unbelievable. Even Owensboro traffic gets on my nerves!” Stuck in traffic, the kids were unbelievably hungry and boisterous in repeatedly sharing that fact. Abby said “It is time for all of us to acknowledge the fact that it is 5:23 p.m. and all I have had to eat today is one egg. “
Right after dinner, we stopped at a Ross store and Matthew bought Rachel an Air Jordan jersey. Rachel loved it and proclaimed that her jersey is her favorite part of the entire trip. Matthew got a new Jordan shirt and Deron Williams jersey as well. Ross is great. Two jerseys and a shirt for $26.50. Rachel is now insisting on going to the next NBA game with Matthew and me.
On a side-note, the Stanford Park Inn is amazing. We have a fireplace in our room and they pay attention to every little detail. It is classy, well-appointed and a great place to stay. I cannot believe we got it for $89.50 a night, plus tax.
We were told that the twins were eating chocolate “to drown out the pain.” They are hilarious kids. I love being around them.
As to my foot, it is coming along. I still can’t completely walk on it, but I can limp around and enjoy the days. Marilyn has been great about making sure it stays clean and uninfected.
The kids enjoyed the day and, needless to say, it was a vast improvement over yesterday.
The kids had only had one Egg McMuffin and were really hungry. We struggled to find a restaurant, missed lunch and didn’t eat until 5:30 p.m. Before dinner, we went to the Golden Gate Bridge overlook and drove across the bridge. It was really cool. The kids reflected on how many movies they had seen the Golden Gate Bridge in.
After dinner, we rode down “crooked street” (Lombard Street) and drove around Fisherman’s Wharf. Then, we went home, Bug went for a run and Marilyn and I had a MUCH needed two-hour date.
Traffic in California is amazing. It seems like you are constantly stuck in traffic. Madeline said “this is unbelievable. Even Owensboro traffic gets on my nerves!” Stuck in traffic, the kids were unbelievably hungry and boisterous in repeatedly sharing that fact. Abby said “It is time for all of us to acknowledge the fact that it is 5:23 p.m. and all I have had to eat today is one egg. “
Right after dinner, we stopped at a Ross store and Matthew bought Rachel an Air Jordan jersey. Rachel loved it and proclaimed that her jersey is her favorite part of the entire trip. Matthew got a new Jordan shirt and Deron Williams jersey as well. Ross is great. Two jerseys and a shirt for $26.50. Rachel is now insisting on going to the next NBA game with Matthew and me.
On a side-note, the Stanford Park Inn is amazing. We have a fireplace in our room and they pay attention to every little detail. It is classy, well-appointed and a great place to stay. I cannot believe we got it for $89.50 a night, plus tax.
We were told that the twins were eating chocolate “to drown out the pain.” They are hilarious kids. I love being around them.
As to my foot, it is coming along. I still can’t completely walk on it, but I can limp around and enjoy the days. Marilyn has been great about making sure it stays clean and uninfected.
The kids enjoyed the day and, needless to say, it was a vast improvement over yesterday.
april 1, 2016
A sad day leaving the Leathers. Tears and frustration reigned this morning. Packing and leaving a family you love is no fun. Shortly after we left, Anna told Sharon “our house feels so empty.”
Well, we are learning a lot is different about California:
· Gas prices are about double what they are in Kentucky.
· When you buy bottle waters, they add a 5 cent per bottle charge to your bill for the California assessment.
· If you want to bag your groceries, they charge you 10 cents a bag.
· We went through a toll booth and it was $15.
· They ration water and many feel the farmers use too much of the water. The “many” don’t include the farmers.
· California is huge: It takes 14 hours (normal people time) to drive from the bottom to the top.
· Gas prices vary widely from station to station. We paid $3.17 per gallon at one exit and our next stop is was $2.49.
· The weather is amazing and it almost never rains.
· They don’t have seasons.
· The traffic is crazy.
· Taxes are very high. Our hotel room is $90 per night and the taxes/fees are $27 per night.
· There are a lot more laws – bicycle helmet laws, requirements to recycle, 55 mph speed limit for cars with trailers, etc.
· Ice is very expensive at $4 to $5 per 7 pound bag.
Well, today is the family grouchy driving day. Kate Bradley and Rachel are happy, the rest of us not so much. Well, Matthew is still Matthew. Everything everyone does seems to get on everyone’s nerves. Where to eat, what to watch, what to listen to -- all subjects sparking more family frustration. We need some downtime and rest. We are limping a bit to San Francisco.
There were some tears (especially from Abby) in the car. Abby said “this stinks. I don’t get to see them for a year and then I see them for one week and it seems like one minute. Now, I won’t get to see them for like another year.” She is understandably sad.
The trailer driving continues to be stressful --- especially going up and down big hills and when we are in traffic. It is no fun driving up hills seeing other cars on the side of the road over-heated.
The Leathers were amazing hosts. They were so kind and hospitable. Mike did a ton for me this week helping me with the details of life. It was great getting to spend a lot of time with him, including our 6-hour time together in Urgent Care and the ER. Mike suggested we add to the blog “____ days since last accident.”
Well, by the time we got to Palo Alto, the whole family was in melt-down mode. I lost it on about everyone in the hotel room. We had two big rooms and were going to have a kid room and an adult room as they were adjoining. Then, the kids erupted in a “that is not fair” rant. Then, I erupted with a less than beautiful Howard Dean type stump speech. Marilyn’s quote to me “you have a lot of apologizing to do.” This immediately brought me to contrition and repentance,JK!
I’ll spare all the details, but our kids seemed to agree that today was the worst day of our trip. We had 4 out of 7 of us over the edge at the same time. Incredibly, Mathew was oblivious and unaffected, as usual.
We agreed that the 2nd would have to be better than the 1st and went to bed.
Well, we are learning a lot is different about California:
· Gas prices are about double what they are in Kentucky.
· When you buy bottle waters, they add a 5 cent per bottle charge to your bill for the California assessment.
· If you want to bag your groceries, they charge you 10 cents a bag.
· We went through a toll booth and it was $15.
· They ration water and many feel the farmers use too much of the water. The “many” don’t include the farmers.
· California is huge: It takes 14 hours (normal people time) to drive from the bottom to the top.
· Gas prices vary widely from station to station. We paid $3.17 per gallon at one exit and our next stop is was $2.49.
· The weather is amazing and it almost never rains.
· They don’t have seasons.
· The traffic is crazy.
· Taxes are very high. Our hotel room is $90 per night and the taxes/fees are $27 per night.
· There are a lot more laws – bicycle helmet laws, requirements to recycle, 55 mph speed limit for cars with trailers, etc.
· Ice is very expensive at $4 to $5 per 7 pound bag.
Well, today is the family grouchy driving day. Kate Bradley and Rachel are happy, the rest of us not so much. Well, Matthew is still Matthew. Everything everyone does seems to get on everyone’s nerves. Where to eat, what to watch, what to listen to -- all subjects sparking more family frustration. We need some downtime and rest. We are limping a bit to San Francisco.
There were some tears (especially from Abby) in the car. Abby said “this stinks. I don’t get to see them for a year and then I see them for one week and it seems like one minute. Now, I won’t get to see them for like another year.” She is understandably sad.
The trailer driving continues to be stressful --- especially going up and down big hills and when we are in traffic. It is no fun driving up hills seeing other cars on the side of the road over-heated.
The Leathers were amazing hosts. They were so kind and hospitable. Mike did a ton for me this week helping me with the details of life. It was great getting to spend a lot of time with him, including our 6-hour time together in Urgent Care and the ER. Mike suggested we add to the blog “____ days since last accident.”
Well, by the time we got to Palo Alto, the whole family was in melt-down mode. I lost it on about everyone in the hotel room. We had two big rooms and were going to have a kid room and an adult room as they were adjoining. Then, the kids erupted in a “that is not fair” rant. Then, I erupted with a less than beautiful Howard Dean type stump speech. Marilyn’s quote to me “you have a lot of apologizing to do.” This immediately brought me to contrition and repentance,JK!
I’ll spare all the details, but our kids seemed to agree that today was the worst day of our trip. We had 4 out of 7 of us over the edge at the same time. Incredibly, Mathew was oblivious and unaffected, as usual.
We agreed that the 2nd would have to be better than the 1st and went to bed.
march 31, 2016
We woke up early, got everyone ready and headed out to Disneyland. We are VERY blessed at the generosity of Mr. and Mrs. Wise, Sharon’s parents. They have passes and are treating all of us. We made it through the LA traffic and got to the park around 9:30 a.m.
The first dilemma of the day. What to do with me? Marilyn had looked at my foot and was concerned that a stitch might have popped. I cannot really walk and can’t do crutches all day. Marilyn wanted to get me one of those Wal-Mart type scooters. Kate said “are you gonna get him one like the real big people use in Wal-Mart?” I told Marilyn “I WILL NOT ride around. Because Mr. and Mrs. Wise both are retired from Disneyland we got a free wheelchair for the day. It was quite humbling being pushed around in a wheelchair most of the day. However, if we didn’t have it, I couldn’t have done Disney. My foot is very tender and, if I walk on it, the stitches will come out.
I made the mistake of letting one of the twins push me. It wasn’t five minutes until I crashed into the back of some ladies’ leg. Well, we had an awesome day at Disney and rode most all of the cool rides.
We were hoping the wheelchair deal would be a ticket to the front of the line. I kept my hospital bracelet on, put on a blue bootie and even brought my medical records for verification. At California Adventure, it was no line benefit.
Then, when we got to Disneyland, the wheelchair deal started paying off. We got bumped to the front of the line of about four rides. Mike is sore from pushing me around all day. Everyone did all the rides except I skipped the “soak you” ride because I didn’t want to roll around in a wet sock all day.
Marilyn spent the day with Rachel who LOVES Disney. Rachel is crazy about the princesses and even asked one of the Frozen Princesses “Can you now control your powers?” She is the perfect age; it is all so real to her. She was so juiced when one of the Frozen princesses complimented the recently purchased and worn Frozen jewelry on her ears and neck.
The Wise’s were so kind and generous. They are dignified, generous and delightful. A real treat of our stay was getting to know them better.
Marilyn and I aren’t totally clicking right now. It has been a long time since our last date and we have quite a whirlwind of a three weeks. Marilyn thinks I have been grouchy since my foot piercing. She even said "Is this how you are going to be when you are old?” It is definitely harder to stay happy when you are hobbling and hurting a bit. I am gaining a new appreciation for those with physical problems who are joyful and encouraging.
We closed the park down and didn’t leave the parking structure until 12:30 a.m. We were all very very tired. I went to bed around 2:00 a.m. thinking about how much fun we’d have in the morning packing all our stuff out and handling the tears from our kiddos leaving the Leathers.
The first dilemma of the day. What to do with me? Marilyn had looked at my foot and was concerned that a stitch might have popped. I cannot really walk and can’t do crutches all day. Marilyn wanted to get me one of those Wal-Mart type scooters. Kate said “are you gonna get him one like the real big people use in Wal-Mart?” I told Marilyn “I WILL NOT ride around. Because Mr. and Mrs. Wise both are retired from Disneyland we got a free wheelchair for the day. It was quite humbling being pushed around in a wheelchair most of the day. However, if we didn’t have it, I couldn’t have done Disney. My foot is very tender and, if I walk on it, the stitches will come out.
I made the mistake of letting one of the twins push me. It wasn’t five minutes until I crashed into the back of some ladies’ leg. Well, we had an awesome day at Disney and rode most all of the cool rides.
We were hoping the wheelchair deal would be a ticket to the front of the line. I kept my hospital bracelet on, put on a blue bootie and even brought my medical records for verification. At California Adventure, it was no line benefit.
Then, when we got to Disneyland, the wheelchair deal started paying off. We got bumped to the front of the line of about four rides. Mike is sore from pushing me around all day. Everyone did all the rides except I skipped the “soak you” ride because I didn’t want to roll around in a wet sock all day.
Marilyn spent the day with Rachel who LOVES Disney. Rachel is crazy about the princesses and even asked one of the Frozen Princesses “Can you now control your powers?” She is the perfect age; it is all so real to her. She was so juiced when one of the Frozen princesses complimented the recently purchased and worn Frozen jewelry on her ears and neck.
The Wise’s were so kind and generous. They are dignified, generous and delightful. A real treat of our stay was getting to know them better.
Marilyn and I aren’t totally clicking right now. It has been a long time since our last date and we have quite a whirlwind of a three weeks. Marilyn thinks I have been grouchy since my foot piercing. She even said "Is this how you are going to be when you are old?” It is definitely harder to stay happy when you are hobbling and hurting a bit. I am gaining a new appreciation for those with physical problems who are joyful and encouraging.
We closed the park down and didn’t leave the parking structure until 12:30 a.m. We were all very very tired. I went to bed around 2:00 a.m. thinking about how much fun we’d have in the morning packing all our stuff out and handling the tears from our kiddos leaving the Leathers.
march 30, 2016
I woke up early, took the car to be cleaned (as it still had clay stuck in in from Zion National Park), had the brakes checked and had a good look-over done on the car. By all appearances, the van seems to be holding up OK. Mike gave me some recommendations as to car care.
Today, we decided to hit Hollywood. We took the twins, Abbers, Rachel and Matthew. First, we hiked to Griffin Observatory. The pace of my walking, coupled with the foot pain put me in a bit of a grouchy mood. The views of LA and the Hollywood sign were cool. There was a girl at the Observatory in a prom dress and Rachel insisted on getting her picture taken with the princess.
The twins (OiliviAnna as I call them) loved the experience, were very grateful and did not complain at all. They loved putting quarters into the metal binoculars and looking at things up close. Plus, one of the twins insisted on me using her as a crutch when I walked. The Leathers’ kids are awesome.
After walking back to the car, we drove Hollywood Boulevard. We stopped and walked down the sidewalk of the stars. It was neat and sketchy. Our kids find it pretty cool to see the country.
We drove back, stopped at a very good bbq place. Matthew continues to indoctrinate Rachel into an NBA fan. Rachel actually knows a lot of players and really wants to go to the game in Sacramento. I plan on taking Rachel and Matthew to the Kings/Timberwolves game.
When we got home, the kids settled into a good game of Monopoly, had dinner and then played Baulerdash, with Lizzie taking home the win.
I don’t know why, but I have been very tired. I don’t know if it is the culmination of craziness, my foot or the heavy anti-biotic I am on. Good news: I get to rest tomorrow as we get up early and go to Disneyland with nine kids and the park doesn’t close until midnight. Sharon's parents worked for disney and are getting all of us in free! I already know our kids will want to stay late, as the lines get shorter as the hour gets later. Then, we get up early the next morning to pack and drive to San Francisco.
The twins made Rachel a shoe box covered with duct tape with bows and gold all over it. Rachel is enamored by it and actually wants to sleep with it. First, it is pink and sparkly. Second, the twins made it for her.
I ran out and got some groceries with the twins, Abby and Rachel. As I was limping around the store, two guys (one with a huge beard) came up to me, prayed over me and charismatically proclaimed me healed from head to do. I honestly hoped their prayers had worked and took a few steps hoping for a miraculous healing of my foot. It kind of freaked out the kids, as they approached us rapidly with a loud voice and a lot of energy.
Today, we decided to hit Hollywood. We took the twins, Abbers, Rachel and Matthew. First, we hiked to Griffin Observatory. The pace of my walking, coupled with the foot pain put me in a bit of a grouchy mood. The views of LA and the Hollywood sign were cool. There was a girl at the Observatory in a prom dress and Rachel insisted on getting her picture taken with the princess.
The twins (OiliviAnna as I call them) loved the experience, were very grateful and did not complain at all. They loved putting quarters into the metal binoculars and looking at things up close. Plus, one of the twins insisted on me using her as a crutch when I walked. The Leathers’ kids are awesome.
After walking back to the car, we drove Hollywood Boulevard. We stopped and walked down the sidewalk of the stars. It was neat and sketchy. Our kids find it pretty cool to see the country.
We drove back, stopped at a very good bbq place. Matthew continues to indoctrinate Rachel into an NBA fan. Rachel actually knows a lot of players and really wants to go to the game in Sacramento. I plan on taking Rachel and Matthew to the Kings/Timberwolves game.
When we got home, the kids settled into a good game of Monopoly, had dinner and then played Baulerdash, with Lizzie taking home the win.
I don’t know why, but I have been very tired. I don’t know if it is the culmination of craziness, my foot or the heavy anti-biotic I am on. Good news: I get to rest tomorrow as we get up early and go to Disneyland with nine kids and the park doesn’t close until midnight. Sharon's parents worked for disney and are getting all of us in free! I already know our kids will want to stay late, as the lines get shorter as the hour gets later. Then, we get up early the next morning to pack and drive to San Francisco.
The twins made Rachel a shoe box covered with duct tape with bows and gold all over it. Rachel is enamored by it and actually wants to sleep with it. First, it is pink and sparkly. Second, the twins made it for her.
I ran out and got some groceries with the twins, Abby and Rachel. As I was limping around the store, two guys (one with a huge beard) came up to me, prayed over me and charismatically proclaimed me healed from head to do. I honestly hoped their prayers had worked and took a few steps hoping for a miraculous healing of my foot. It kind of freaked out the kids, as they approached us rapidly with a loud voice and a lot of energy.
MARCH 29, 2016
Today, Marilyn took the kiddos to the beach with Sharon. I stayed back to edit materials. It was a nice day at Starbuck’s with Lizzie. Lizzie worked on her college stuff while I worked on marriage materials. We had a great day.
Lizzie is an impressive young lady, mature beyond her years. She has a really neat future ahead of her.
The day at the beach for the girls wasn’t ideal. The wind was so strong it whipped sand into them and limited their beach time to about five minutes. Instead, they walked around a cool little town and had ice cream. The drive from the Leathers to Carpinteria Beach is beautiful. Mountains, orchards,and beaches made for a great time even though the weather did not permit for hanging out at the beach.
Matthew has been looking on NBA trying to find the best NBA items to purchase. Rachel really wants an Oklahoma Thunder bear that zips up in a cloth basketball. Matthew is trying hard to convice her that a jersey is a better option.
It has been a nice, uneventful day. The kids have enjoyed one another and I got some editing completed. My foot continues to get better little by little. I hate crutches. At this point, I’d rather feel extra pain in my foot than try to do the crutch thing. Marilyn is pro-crutch while I am more pro-sock.
After everything, we settled in with the Leathers and watched Barnyard yet again.
Lizzie is an impressive young lady, mature beyond her years. She has a really neat future ahead of her.
The day at the beach for the girls wasn’t ideal. The wind was so strong it whipped sand into them and limited their beach time to about five minutes. Instead, they walked around a cool little town and had ice cream. The drive from the Leathers to Carpinteria Beach is beautiful. Mountains, orchards,and beaches made for a great time even though the weather did not permit for hanging out at the beach.
Matthew has been looking on NBA trying to find the best NBA items to purchase. Rachel really wants an Oklahoma Thunder bear that zips up in a cloth basketball. Matthew is trying hard to convice her that a jersey is a better option.
It has been a nice, uneventful day. The kids have enjoyed one another and I got some editing completed. My foot continues to get better little by little. I hate crutches. At this point, I’d rather feel extra pain in my foot than try to do the crutch thing. Marilyn is pro-crutch while I am more pro-sock.
After everything, we settled in with the Leathers and watched Barnyard yet again.
march 28, 2016
You learn quickly what a headache it is not to be weight-bearing. I could walk on my heel, but after about ten minutes, the muscles on the front of my ankle really start hurting. Marilyn insisted I used crutches and the Leathers quickly located crutches for a 6’4” person.
We have had some eventful times: Matthew got a puncture wound getting bit in the rear by an Australian Shepherd, Rachel got a stomach bug and made a Honda Odyssey chocolate fountain, Rachel got a fever, I got a coal ember stuck in my eye and had to go to the eye doctor and now, I get a full inch needle completed embedded in my foot and now non-weight bearing. This is just the drama I am allowed to publicly share.
Actually, it is pretty similar to what goes on at home. It is just a bit more memorable in a mini-van pulling a large trailer around the United States.
We did have a pretty good day hanging around the Leathers’ house. The older kids did school and the youngers just played. Matthew enjoys the twins. He told me “they are not like other girls. They like sports and are good at video games and I actually like them.”
I did decide to go ahead and go to the Clippers/Celtics game at the Staples Center with Matthew. Marilyn was hesitant but let me go on the condition I use crutches. I did not realize how much I hate crutches. They are bulky and it is very tiring to pull yourself around.
We did have a great time at the Clippers game. The crowd was big, the game was good and the people around us were very nice. A guy behind me kept offering to go get me something to drink and help. I thanked him and he said “I am just one of those.”
As usual, Matthew made friends with the strangers around us and educated them on the NBA – past and present.
While we were waiting to get in the gate to the game, they were giving out bracelets for the “pre-game experience.” I wasn’t part of the “pre-game experience” group but certainly didn’t refuse the bracelet when offered. So, Matthew and I went in with a group, sat mid-court and watched warm-ups.
The game turned out great, we got free hats for hat night and a nice guy gave Matthew a tee shirt he caught from the Clippers tee shirt cannon. Our society is messed up, but we do have a lot of nice people. The people we have encountered around the nation have been very kind, generous and hospitable.
Matthew and I had a Burger King dinner on the way home and got back to change bandages, take another anti-biotic and go to bed.
We have had some eventful times: Matthew got a puncture wound getting bit in the rear by an Australian Shepherd, Rachel got a stomach bug and made a Honda Odyssey chocolate fountain, Rachel got a fever, I got a coal ember stuck in my eye and had to go to the eye doctor and now, I get a full inch needle completed embedded in my foot and now non-weight bearing. This is just the drama I am allowed to publicly share.
Actually, it is pretty similar to what goes on at home. It is just a bit more memorable in a mini-van pulling a large trailer around the United States.
We did have a pretty good day hanging around the Leathers’ house. The older kids did school and the youngers just played. Matthew enjoys the twins. He told me “they are not like other girls. They like sports and are good at video games and I actually like them.”
I did decide to go ahead and go to the Clippers/Celtics game at the Staples Center with Matthew. Marilyn was hesitant but let me go on the condition I use crutches. I did not realize how much I hate crutches. They are bulky and it is very tiring to pull yourself around.
We did have a great time at the Clippers game. The crowd was big, the game was good and the people around us were very nice. A guy behind me kept offering to go get me something to drink and help. I thanked him and he said “I am just one of those.”
As usual, Matthew made friends with the strangers around us and educated them on the NBA – past and present.
While we were waiting to get in the gate to the game, they were giving out bracelets for the “pre-game experience.” I wasn’t part of the “pre-game experience” group but certainly didn’t refuse the bracelet when offered. So, Matthew and I went in with a group, sat mid-court and watched warm-ups.
The game turned out great, we got free hats for hat night and a nice guy gave Matthew a tee shirt he caught from the Clippers tee shirt cannon. Our society is messed up, but we do have a lot of nice people. The people we have encountered around the nation have been very kind, generous and hospitable.
Matthew and I had a Burger King dinner on the way home and got back to change bandages, take another anti-biotic and go to bed.
march 27, 2016
We got up, got ready and went to the Leathers’ church Easter service at a local football stadium. The worship and sermon was great. Plus, it was very well organized and well done. It was SO good to hear the Gospel clearly preached. It reminded us of PVCC – the worship leader actually looked like Brandon and the pastor was engaging, funny and deep – like Jamus.
After church, we came home and had a great Easter lunch with the Leathers and Sharon’s parents. So far, it has been a normal Easter – but things were about to change. I then hid a TON of filled plastic eggs in the front and back yards. After hiding the eggs, I came in and walked down the hall and OUCH – I had stepped on something sharp. I yanked off my sock and Mike Leathers could see the edge of it sticking out of my foot. He grabbed tweezers and tried to pull it out. He gave it a good yank and…….. a piece of the metal just broke off.
We tried for about ten minutes, but could not get the remainder of the metal out. I said “I don’t care what you do, get it out. I DO NOT want to go to Urgent Care on Easter.” Well, we couldn’t get it out and to Urgent Care we went. We endured a less than congenial receptionist. Then, we waited, got called back and the doctor decided to do x-rays.
The x-ray tech took the films and said “wow!” I was like “what?” He said “come see this!” I looked at the x-ray and there was an entire inch long needle completely inside of my foot. It went in the bottom of my foot and almost came out the top. It was nasty!
Then, they took me into a treatment room and another tech came in and said and I quote, “Man, that sucks! The doctor is going to have to do ton of digging.” Professional and comforting – NO. Big needle – yes. Then, the doctor came in and said he could not treat me. He said he couldn’t see it, it was deep, it could be close to a nerve and bone and told me I needed a general surgeon and sent us to the ER. I was TICKED. Then, they told me I needed to stay in the seat and be wheeled out in a wheelchair. At this point, I was very frustrated. Our medical bills were climbing fast and we had gotten nowhere.
Mike asked for the x-rays and were told “you don’t need them; the hospital will want their own x-rays.” Then, we went to the hospital and what did they ask for? The x-rays. As we have a huge deductible, I did not want to pay for an urgent care visit, an ER visit and two sets of x-rays.
I called the Urgent Care and they said they could not e-mail or send the x-rays to the hospital. They said I could get them but had to pick them up in person. As I had already been checked in and taken back at the ER, I really couldn’t just walk out and go get the x-rays.
Then, Debbie the nurse rescued us and said “go out the door, don’t say anything, get the x-rays, come back through, go to hall 14 and ask for me.” She saved us several hours and several hundred dollars. Debbie wasn’t supposed to allow me to leave with a hospital bracelet on and did tell us as we left “don’t stop for a burger.”
Then, I got put in a hospital bed in the hall and Mike and I waited. Mike Leathers was great and hung with me most of the day. The day had a lot of humor. We talked to several hospital employees who all seemed enamored by the size of the needle in my foot. Then, the doctor showed up, told me to roll over, gave me several numbing shots in my foot, made an incision and yanked the needle out. He did it right in the hallway.
Sharon texted Mike seeing an opportunity in the whole deal. She told me to get some handicap stickers so we could go to the front of the line at Disneyland later in the week. Impressive thinking. Well, I was told I am not weight-bearing for a week and cannot run for two weeks. Front of the lines here we come!
I waited to send the x-ray photo until the needle was out. Marilyn kind of freaked and thought the x-ray was photo-shopped. Mike did catch a good picture of me laying on my stomach getting my foot cut into.
Meanwhile at the ranch, the kids had a great day playing at the Leathers. Matthew, Abby, Olivia and Anna spent the day making me duct tape treats. WE LOVE THE LEATHERS!!!
Now, we are all settled in on the couch watching The Intern. A great, eventful, expensive EASTER in California.
After church, we came home and had a great Easter lunch with the Leathers and Sharon’s parents. So far, it has been a normal Easter – but things were about to change. I then hid a TON of filled plastic eggs in the front and back yards. After hiding the eggs, I came in and walked down the hall and OUCH – I had stepped on something sharp. I yanked off my sock and Mike Leathers could see the edge of it sticking out of my foot. He grabbed tweezers and tried to pull it out. He gave it a good yank and…….. a piece of the metal just broke off.
We tried for about ten minutes, but could not get the remainder of the metal out. I said “I don’t care what you do, get it out. I DO NOT want to go to Urgent Care on Easter.” Well, we couldn’t get it out and to Urgent Care we went. We endured a less than congenial receptionist. Then, we waited, got called back and the doctor decided to do x-rays.
The x-ray tech took the films and said “wow!” I was like “what?” He said “come see this!” I looked at the x-ray and there was an entire inch long needle completely inside of my foot. It went in the bottom of my foot and almost came out the top. It was nasty!
Then, they took me into a treatment room and another tech came in and said and I quote, “Man, that sucks! The doctor is going to have to do ton of digging.” Professional and comforting – NO. Big needle – yes. Then, the doctor came in and said he could not treat me. He said he couldn’t see it, it was deep, it could be close to a nerve and bone and told me I needed a general surgeon and sent us to the ER. I was TICKED. Then, they told me I needed to stay in the seat and be wheeled out in a wheelchair. At this point, I was very frustrated. Our medical bills were climbing fast and we had gotten nowhere.
Mike asked for the x-rays and were told “you don’t need them; the hospital will want their own x-rays.” Then, we went to the hospital and what did they ask for? The x-rays. As we have a huge deductible, I did not want to pay for an urgent care visit, an ER visit and two sets of x-rays.
I called the Urgent Care and they said they could not e-mail or send the x-rays to the hospital. They said I could get them but had to pick them up in person. As I had already been checked in and taken back at the ER, I really couldn’t just walk out and go get the x-rays.
Then, Debbie the nurse rescued us and said “go out the door, don’t say anything, get the x-rays, come back through, go to hall 14 and ask for me.” She saved us several hours and several hundred dollars. Debbie wasn’t supposed to allow me to leave with a hospital bracelet on and did tell us as we left “don’t stop for a burger.”
Then, I got put in a hospital bed in the hall and Mike and I waited. Mike Leathers was great and hung with me most of the day. The day had a lot of humor. We talked to several hospital employees who all seemed enamored by the size of the needle in my foot. Then, the doctor showed up, told me to roll over, gave me several numbing shots in my foot, made an incision and yanked the needle out. He did it right in the hallway.
Sharon texted Mike seeing an opportunity in the whole deal. She told me to get some handicap stickers so we could go to the front of the line at Disneyland later in the week. Impressive thinking. Well, I was told I am not weight-bearing for a week and cannot run for two weeks. Front of the lines here we come!
I waited to send the x-ray photo until the needle was out. Marilyn kind of freaked and thought the x-ray was photo-shopped. Mike did catch a good picture of me laying on my stomach getting my foot cut into.
Meanwhile at the ranch, the kids had a great day playing at the Leathers. Matthew, Abby, Olivia and Anna spent the day making me duct tape treats. WE LOVE THE LEATHERS!!!
Now, we are all settled in on the couch watching The Intern. A great, eventful, expensive EASTER in California.
march 26, 2016
We got off to a slow start today. The plan was for Mike and I to take all the kids to the beach while Marilyn and Sharon got ready for Easter. We were slow and didn’t get out the door till almost 1:00 p.m.
We arrived at the beach around 2:00 p.m. and landed a great beach parking spot. We had a blast at the beach – playing volleyball and a made up game called the Pacific Ocean Beach Olympics. I made up teams and a game. It included a shell finding contest, a roll in the sand speed contest, a freezing ocean cheerleading challenge, a photography contest, a sand mermaid contest and a beach wave riding contest.
While all the kiddos did the Olympic thing, Rachel searched and searched for shells. Rachel loves sand and the beach. She can just play and play and play.
I am still tired and struggling a bit, but it is getting better. The last week or two have been a bit exhausting. A ton of packing, a ton of driving and a lot of car bickering. Getting settled in a place for a week again is nice – especially with a family we love so much.
Other than Rachel hating the beach restrooms because they are yucky, we all had a blast. After the beach, we went to a local restaurant called “The Spot.” Rachel learned she LOVES corn dogs and ate her entire corn dog.
We were at Carpenteria beach – a neat beach-front community. It was very fun learning more and more about California from Mike and hanging out for the day. Other than the usual bantering between our kids – it was a great day. Today, most of the conflict revolved around Rachel and Matthew. Rachel got upset because she didn’t get something and Matthew started singing “You can’t always get what you want.”
Marilyn had a good day Easter shopping and decorating with Sharon. When we got back from the beach, we had the privilege of welcoming Lizzie back from Rome, Italy. With all the tumult in the world, it was even more sweet seeing Lizzie. Lizzie was tired, but did stay up for a while to tell us about her awesome time in Rome.
Matthew is having fun here too. Olivia and Anna are the first girls (other than his sisters) that Matthew has really spent time playing with. They play Mindecraft and talk junk to each other.
Matthew just asked me “what is that stuff that falls out when I scratch my head.” Evidently, we have some 9 year-old dandruff issues.
We arrived at the beach around 2:00 p.m. and landed a great beach parking spot. We had a blast at the beach – playing volleyball and a made up game called the Pacific Ocean Beach Olympics. I made up teams and a game. It included a shell finding contest, a roll in the sand speed contest, a freezing ocean cheerleading challenge, a photography contest, a sand mermaid contest and a beach wave riding contest.
While all the kiddos did the Olympic thing, Rachel searched and searched for shells. Rachel loves sand and the beach. She can just play and play and play.
I am still tired and struggling a bit, but it is getting better. The last week or two have been a bit exhausting. A ton of packing, a ton of driving and a lot of car bickering. Getting settled in a place for a week again is nice – especially with a family we love so much.
Other than Rachel hating the beach restrooms because they are yucky, we all had a blast. After the beach, we went to a local restaurant called “The Spot.” Rachel learned she LOVES corn dogs and ate her entire corn dog.
We were at Carpenteria beach – a neat beach-front community. It was very fun learning more and more about California from Mike and hanging out for the day. Other than the usual bantering between our kids – it was a great day. Today, most of the conflict revolved around Rachel and Matthew. Rachel got upset because she didn’t get something and Matthew started singing “You can’t always get what you want.”
Marilyn had a good day Easter shopping and decorating with Sharon. When we got back from the beach, we had the privilege of welcoming Lizzie back from Rome, Italy. With all the tumult in the world, it was even more sweet seeing Lizzie. Lizzie was tired, but did stay up for a while to tell us about her awesome time in Rome.
Matthew is having fun here too. Olivia and Anna are the first girls (other than his sisters) that Matthew has really spent time playing with. They play Mindecraft and talk junk to each other.
Matthew just asked me “what is that stuff that falls out when I scratch my head.” Evidently, we have some 9 year-old dandruff issues.
march 25, 2016
First, reflecting on yesterday… It was rough. About 8 hours of being in real rough traffic with a trailer behind us. At one point, we covered 60 miles in 4 hours.
The kids and the adults were at the end of their rope. Abby was really frustrated at our late arrival to the Leathers’ house. First, we told her we’d arrive at 7:30. We kept adjusting the time to Abby’s dismay. Frustrated, Abby said “I can no longer trust you or mom on anything.”
Then, we told her we were arriving in 20 minutes. She set her stopwatch and said “if we are not there in twenty minutes, I am going to lose it!!” I said “what does losing it look like?” She said “if we are not there in 20 minutes, you will find out.” Fortunately for all of us we made it within one minute of the 20-minute deadline.
If you can have a traffic jam hang-over, I had one today. I felt flat and tired and life seemed a struggle. Today is Abby’s birthday and she had an amazing day. She spent it with two of her best friends in the world, Olivia and Anna. Plus, she got her ears pierced and got a lot of cool gifts. She has been beaming and happy all day.
The ear-piercing experience was fun. Abby, Olivia and Anna all got their ears pierced and all had different reactions and their ears got pierced.
It was a full day of fun for everyone. We played basketball, ate slushees, had pizza and hung out. Plus, Bug squeezed in a night run. I was beat, but managed to ride a bike beside her. She is excited about her speed and mileage getting better.
There is a ton to do around here and a ton of people. We are very thankful for the opportunity to spend a week with our good friends. Bug and Madeline had fun with Emma and Abby had a blast with the twins. We are praying for and looking forward to Lizzie flying in from Rome tomorrow night.
We have really missed the Leathers and their fun girls. One of the twins wrote out what she wants in a spouse. She also shared this idea “I’ll marry a rich old man. Then, when he dies, I’ll be very rich, marry who I want and not have to worry about money the rest of my life.” Interesting idea from an 11 year-old. In the past, Matthew told me “I want to marry a woman with a bunch of money, so I won’t have to worry about the bills.”
Marilyn had a great day visiting with Sharon and is out Easter shopping with her right now. The rest of the family is hanging at the house playing a card game and watching television.
The kids and the adults were at the end of their rope. Abby was really frustrated at our late arrival to the Leathers’ house. First, we told her we’d arrive at 7:30. We kept adjusting the time to Abby’s dismay. Frustrated, Abby said “I can no longer trust you or mom on anything.”
Then, we told her we were arriving in 20 minutes. She set her stopwatch and said “if we are not there in twenty minutes, I am going to lose it!!” I said “what does losing it look like?” She said “if we are not there in 20 minutes, you will find out.” Fortunately for all of us we made it within one minute of the 20-minute deadline.
If you can have a traffic jam hang-over, I had one today. I felt flat and tired and life seemed a struggle. Today is Abby’s birthday and she had an amazing day. She spent it with two of her best friends in the world, Olivia and Anna. Plus, she got her ears pierced and got a lot of cool gifts. She has been beaming and happy all day.
The ear-piercing experience was fun. Abby, Olivia and Anna all got their ears pierced and all had different reactions and their ears got pierced.
It was a full day of fun for everyone. We played basketball, ate slushees, had pizza and hung out. Plus, Bug squeezed in a night run. I was beat, but managed to ride a bike beside her. She is excited about her speed and mileage getting better.
There is a ton to do around here and a ton of people. We are very thankful for the opportunity to spend a week with our good friends. Bug and Madeline had fun with Emma and Abby had a blast with the twins. We are praying for and looking forward to Lizzie flying in from Rome tomorrow night.
We have really missed the Leathers and their fun girls. One of the twins wrote out what she wants in a spouse. She also shared this idea “I’ll marry a rich old man. Then, when he dies, I’ll be very rich, marry who I want and not have to worry about money the rest of my life.” Interesting idea from an 11 year-old. In the past, Matthew told me “I want to marry a woman with a bunch of money, so I won’t have to worry about the bills.”
Marilyn had a great day visiting with Sharon and is out Easter shopping with her right now. The rest of the family is hanging at the house playing a card game and watching television.
march 24, 2016
The advantage of our campsite is it is close to the restroom. The disadvantage of our campsite is it is close to the restroom. You hear campers walk by all night. Some camper woke us up around 4:00 a.m. popping his water bottle. Overall, we slept fine I got up early with Rachel and took her to McDonald’s to get coffee and go to the bathroom. Who closes the bathroom for cleaning at 7:00 a.m. in the morning????
A very frantic morning ensued. I ran with Madeline. Marilyn got the kids started in homeschool and started taking down tents. We all worked hard, took our coin showers and got out of the campsite around 12:05. Packing up our family is complicated. I am convinced there is no bigger “Sanford and Son” trailer in America right now. Our kids don’t make it easier. After packing up the entire tent, Rachel informs us her necklaces are rolled up in it. We did unpack and repack and find the necklaces.
It looks like Rachel, Madeline and Matthew are our three biggest campers. Kate Bradley flat out prefers comfort. Abby said “it was not my favorite thing ever, but I did like making s’mores.”
I was about at the end of my energy and patience. We have been moving around a lot lately. Henderson, NV, Las Vegas, camping and then to LA… Camping was great, but a lot of work. Our campsite looked like a bedroom shared by four teenage girls. We had other campers taking second looks at our site. With Matthew’s mini-hoop hanging from a tree and everything imaginable spread around the site, it was something to see.
We took off for La Jolla and ate in the car on the way. We played on the beach for about an hour with Rachel having a blast in the sand. Plus, the beach is Abby’s favorite thing to do.
Then, we got a full taste of California traffic. There are A LOT of people here. We were stuck in traffic for like 40 miles. It is even more fun with the trailer. I had the idea of getting in the express lane for people with more than two in the car. However, after working my way across six lanes to get to the lane, I saw a sign saying “no trailers in the express lane” and “minimum fine of $401 for those violating the law.”
We have been traveling 2 hours and 45 minutes and have gone less than 100 miles. You go from city to city to city. We learned, if you leave San Diego at 3:15 p.m. and go north, it isn’t going to be pretty or fast.
The traffic on top of my previous fatigue didn’t produce the best mood. Marilyn stayed positive for most of the day, but then my spirit got the best of hers.
Now, we are in the car driving north on I-5 by the Pacific Ocean on the way to Santa Clarita, California to see the Leathers. Our kids are EXTREMELY excited to see the Leathers. They even want to drive through for dinner to get there 30 minutes earlier.
Well, the camping experience was a positive and learning experience. I think we will definitely do more of it when we get back home.
A very frantic morning ensued. I ran with Madeline. Marilyn got the kids started in homeschool and started taking down tents. We all worked hard, took our coin showers and got out of the campsite around 12:05. Packing up our family is complicated. I am convinced there is no bigger “Sanford and Son” trailer in America right now. Our kids don’t make it easier. After packing up the entire tent, Rachel informs us her necklaces are rolled up in it. We did unpack and repack and find the necklaces.
It looks like Rachel, Madeline and Matthew are our three biggest campers. Kate Bradley flat out prefers comfort. Abby said “it was not my favorite thing ever, but I did like making s’mores.”
I was about at the end of my energy and patience. We have been moving around a lot lately. Henderson, NV, Las Vegas, camping and then to LA… Camping was great, but a lot of work. Our campsite looked like a bedroom shared by four teenage girls. We had other campers taking second looks at our site. With Matthew’s mini-hoop hanging from a tree and everything imaginable spread around the site, it was something to see.
We took off for La Jolla and ate in the car on the way. We played on the beach for about an hour with Rachel having a blast in the sand. Plus, the beach is Abby’s favorite thing to do.
Then, we got a full taste of California traffic. There are A LOT of people here. We were stuck in traffic for like 40 miles. It is even more fun with the trailer. I had the idea of getting in the express lane for people with more than two in the car. However, after working my way across six lanes to get to the lane, I saw a sign saying “no trailers in the express lane” and “minimum fine of $401 for those violating the law.”
We have been traveling 2 hours and 45 minutes and have gone less than 100 miles. You go from city to city to city. We learned, if you leave San Diego at 3:15 p.m. and go north, it isn’t going to be pretty or fast.
The traffic on top of my previous fatigue didn’t produce the best mood. Marilyn stayed positive for most of the day, but then my spirit got the best of hers.
Now, we are in the car driving north on I-5 by the Pacific Ocean on the way to Santa Clarita, California to see the Leathers. Our kids are EXTREMELY excited to see the Leathers. They even want to drive through for dinner to get there 30 minutes earlier.
Well, the camping experience was a positive and learning experience. I think we will definitely do more of it when we get back home.
march 23, 2016
As we went to bed, camping seemed like the best idea. Then, it got cold. Marilyn had to leave the tent in the middle of the night to get socks. I kept rolling over to smash my cold face on the pillow to take turn warming up each side.
We woke up this morning freezing and scrambled to the van to get to McDonald’s for breakfast. We are not the expert campers. We arrived, went to In and Out Burgers, got back, went to sleep, woke up and drove to McDonald’s. We do plan on cooking at the campground tonight.
We all, except Matthew and Madeline, woke up cold. They must have gotten the Goebel-borrowed fancy sleeping bags. It was 45 degrees when we woke up this morning. Our site is not in the most sleep-friendly spot – right beside the sidewalk to the bathroom. However, it is well lighted as it is next to the light-post lighting up the trail to the bathroom.
With the exception of Kate Bradley, who prefers luxury and quiet to about everything, all the kids liked camping. Bug said she would prefer the comfort and warmth of her own bed.
Now, we are on our wifi hotspot and the kiddos are doing their home-school at the campsite. Although everything is not ideal, this is one of the cooler things we have done. This afternoon the plan is for Marilyn to take the girls to San Diego while Matthew and I play basketball and fish at the campground. We called and were told the fishing is terrible here, but Matthew will have fun trying anyway.
I sent photos of us camping/doing homeschool to Keith Ransdell. He told me we looked homeless. Matthew continues to be Matthew. Marilyn said “look at the rabbit.” Matthew yelled “get my pistol!!” loud enough for other campers to hear us.
Marilyn left the campsite to go sightseeing with the girls. I stayed back to fish and play basketball with Matthew. First, we tried fishing. I didn’t tell him the park ranger had told Marilyn the fishing was terrible. Unfortunately, the park ranger turned out to be right. The lake was very difficult to fish and we got no bites. It didn’t bother Matthew and we had fun trying.
After fishing, Matthew and I played basketball. He loves basketball and gives a play by play the entire time you play with him. Then, we came back and I gave him permission to build a fire in the fire-pit. He spent over an hour throwing leaves and sticks in the fire frantically trying to keep it from going out. He then asked me this question: “Dad, can I get one of those square things you put in your pocket that you click and it makes fire.” A funny way to ask for a lighter. It reminded me when we were on the four-wheeler on Colorado and he asked me where the honk button was.
Marilyn and the girls had a good day hanging out on the beach and viewing the huge flower fields in Carlsbad. When they got back we grilled chicken and potatoes and talked by the fire.
Rachel went to bed first. She LOVES sleeping in the tent. She makes tents in our house at home and asks to sleep in them. To actually sleep in a real tent has been huge for her. Matthew loved it, but asked Marilyn if we could camp “somewhere more untouched.” ”
It was a nice campground, but we could see ten RV’s or campers from our site and a stoplight in the background as we went to the bathroom.
We woke up this morning freezing and scrambled to the van to get to McDonald’s for breakfast. We are not the expert campers. We arrived, went to In and Out Burgers, got back, went to sleep, woke up and drove to McDonald’s. We do plan on cooking at the campground tonight.
We all, except Matthew and Madeline, woke up cold. They must have gotten the Goebel-borrowed fancy sleeping bags. It was 45 degrees when we woke up this morning. Our site is not in the most sleep-friendly spot – right beside the sidewalk to the bathroom. However, it is well lighted as it is next to the light-post lighting up the trail to the bathroom.
With the exception of Kate Bradley, who prefers luxury and quiet to about everything, all the kids liked camping. Bug said she would prefer the comfort and warmth of her own bed.
Now, we are on our wifi hotspot and the kiddos are doing their home-school at the campsite. Although everything is not ideal, this is one of the cooler things we have done. This afternoon the plan is for Marilyn to take the girls to San Diego while Matthew and I play basketball and fish at the campground. We called and were told the fishing is terrible here, but Matthew will have fun trying anyway.
I sent photos of us camping/doing homeschool to Keith Ransdell. He told me we looked homeless. Matthew continues to be Matthew. Marilyn said “look at the rabbit.” Matthew yelled “get my pistol!!” loud enough for other campers to hear us.
Marilyn left the campsite to go sightseeing with the girls. I stayed back to fish and play basketball with Matthew. First, we tried fishing. I didn’t tell him the park ranger had told Marilyn the fishing was terrible. Unfortunately, the park ranger turned out to be right. The lake was very difficult to fish and we got no bites. It didn’t bother Matthew and we had fun trying.
After fishing, Matthew and I played basketball. He loves basketball and gives a play by play the entire time you play with him. Then, we came back and I gave him permission to build a fire in the fire-pit. He spent over an hour throwing leaves and sticks in the fire frantically trying to keep it from going out. He then asked me this question: “Dad, can I get one of those square things you put in your pocket that you click and it makes fire.” A funny way to ask for a lighter. It reminded me when we were on the four-wheeler on Colorado and he asked me where the honk button was.
Marilyn and the girls had a good day hanging out on the beach and viewing the huge flower fields in Carlsbad. When they got back we grilled chicken and potatoes and talked by the fire.
Rachel went to bed first. She LOVES sleeping in the tent. She makes tents in our house at home and asks to sleep in them. To actually sleep in a real tent has been huge for her. Matthew loved it, but asked Marilyn if we could camp “somewhere more untouched.” ”
It was a nice campground, but we could see ten RV’s or campers from our site and a stoplight in the background as we went to the bathroom.
march 22, 2016
We learned a quick lesson this morning. If you have seven people in two rooms and have to do home-school and have the kids run, don’t wait until the morning to start packing up two rooms. Plus, we had to go to the grocery for breakfast and lunch.
We really needed to get out quick as we had a four hour a twenty minute (regular person time), seven-hour (Rhoads’ time) trip to San Diego to our campsite.
The drive was nerve-racking as we had to go up significant inclines with the trailer, had high winds and a bunch of trucks. Plus, we really needed to get moving as we had to set up our tents before dark. We were on pace to make it to the site by 6, but didn’t factor in rush-hour traffic near Riverside/San Bernardino. We sat in traffic with and finally got to the site fifteen minutes before sunset.
Actually, it went better than we thought --- thanks to Curt Hoffman. Curt let us borrow a tent that was great. It was big and easy to put up. We got the tents up in a massive scramble right at dark.
It was really cool. --- all of us camping in Southern California. Then, after we got our camp all set up, we did what every good camper does – went out for fast-food burgers.
The car-ride to California included more drama than usual. I’ll spare the details, but Matthew came in first place in the lack of wisdom and discretion category.
We asked Rachel her favorite thing of the entire trip. She responded “the M & M store” and told me about a free movie at the M & M store that looks real. It was her first 3-D movie experience. Again, don’t assume you know what blesses kids.
We got the kids in bed and it was really nice hanging out by a fire talking to Marilyn for forty-five minutes.
After we got our tents up, I looked around and noticed we are the only site doing tent camping – the rest have a camper or an RV. It is fun, but not the atmosphere Marilyn had envisioned. .
We really needed to get out quick as we had a four hour a twenty minute (regular person time), seven-hour (Rhoads’ time) trip to San Diego to our campsite.
The drive was nerve-racking as we had to go up significant inclines with the trailer, had high winds and a bunch of trucks. Plus, we really needed to get moving as we had to set up our tents before dark. We were on pace to make it to the site by 6, but didn’t factor in rush-hour traffic near Riverside/San Bernardino. We sat in traffic with and finally got to the site fifteen minutes before sunset.
Actually, it went better than we thought --- thanks to Curt Hoffman. Curt let us borrow a tent that was great. It was big and easy to put up. We got the tents up in a massive scramble right at dark.
It was really cool. --- all of us camping in Southern California. Then, after we got our camp all set up, we did what every good camper does – went out for fast-food burgers.
The car-ride to California included more drama than usual. I’ll spare the details, but Matthew came in first place in the lack of wisdom and discretion category.
We asked Rachel her favorite thing of the entire trip. She responded “the M & M store” and told me about a free movie at the M & M store that looks real. It was her first 3-D movie experience. Again, don’t assume you know what blesses kids.
We got the kids in bed and it was really nice hanging out by a fire talking to Marilyn for forty-five minutes.
After we got our tents up, I looked around and noticed we are the only site doing tent camping – the rest have a camper or an RV. It is fun, but not the atmosphere Marilyn had envisioned. .
march 21, 2016
A full day with the kids at the Casino Hotel. We started off with school while I ran errands with Rachel. I had a phone meeting while Rachel was in the car. Rachel was completely quiet during my meeting. After the meeting, I thanked her for being so good while I had my meeting. Rachel responded, “Dad, I was quiet because I was so tired.” She wanted to make sure I didn’t mistaken her good behavior as obedience.
After picking up a prescription, I came back to the hotel, picked everyone up and went to IHOP. It wasn’t overly pretty at IHOP. First, I take Matthew to the bathroom. While I am washing my hands, I hear a loud bang and Matthew bends over holding his hand. He actually hurt his hand slam dunking his paper towel in the bathroom. Another guy in the bathroom was amused.
Then, Abby was really sour because she couldn’t have any of their pancakes. Her sour mood continued until we got back to the hotel. I pulled Abby aside, walked around at the hotel and we just talked. It was amazing how 20 minutes together totally settled her down. A kind word truly turns away wrath. All I had to do was tell her I am sorry she couldn’t have pancakes, hate that she is gluten free and walk around a store for 10 minutes.
We went back to the room and Marilyn took Madeline shopping for Abby's birthday while I took the other four swimming. The kids were bummed because you had to be 16 to get I the huge hot tub and the pool was cold. So, I had a contest between Abby and Matthew called “who can stay in the hot tub the longest without getting booted.”
Rachel was unaffected by the cold pool and loved swimming. She swam and swam and then danced in the turf yard. It was windy and a bit chilly, but we did have a good time.
When we finished swimming, Madeline and Marilyn returned and we went bowling. Madeline was on fire and bowled a 122, whipping all the other kids pretty good. Rachel had a good score and seemed oblivious to the fact she was the only kid that had the bumper up. The kids LOVED bowling and asked if we could go bowling as a family once a month when we get back home. This really blessed Marilyn.
Matthew, as usual, made a scene diving onto the wood as he released each throw. Abby found her groove and won the second time-shortened game. We had the usual kid stuff going on with stuff like “Abby licked me.” Abby responds “No, I didn’t. I just stuck my tongue out and it hit your nose."
After bowling, I took the kids back to the hot tub. We had a laid back lifeguard who said he didn’t like the under 16 rule and allowed us to all get in. We ran into two guys from Maryland and Matthew literally talked their heads off. He quizzed them on the NBA, told a bunch of basketball stories and kept talking and talking. I grabbed Matthew’s leg and told him to slow down, but he was undeterred. Then, Matthew told them of his career plans: got to college for one year, get drafted and go free agent as quickly as possible and sign with the Pelicans. They were humored by Matthew but I am sure they were ready for us to leave. They were there to talk to girls more than listen to a 9 year-old. Bug, Abby and Madeline were absolutely amazed and Madeline asked me “how will he ever have a wife? He will never listen to her.”
Marilyn told Madeline to work on her posture. Madeline said “I just let my back be my back. Just let me be who I am.” Our kids are really funny.
After we got back to the room, Marilyn and I went to the lobby to hang out for an hour of calm (among the hotel chaos). The kids had a great day bowling, shopping and swimming.
After picking up a prescription, I came back to the hotel, picked everyone up and went to IHOP. It wasn’t overly pretty at IHOP. First, I take Matthew to the bathroom. While I am washing my hands, I hear a loud bang and Matthew bends over holding his hand. He actually hurt his hand slam dunking his paper towel in the bathroom. Another guy in the bathroom was amused.
Then, Abby was really sour because she couldn’t have any of their pancakes. Her sour mood continued until we got back to the hotel. I pulled Abby aside, walked around at the hotel and we just talked. It was amazing how 20 minutes together totally settled her down. A kind word truly turns away wrath. All I had to do was tell her I am sorry she couldn’t have pancakes, hate that she is gluten free and walk around a store for 10 minutes.
We went back to the room and Marilyn took Madeline shopping for Abby's birthday while I took the other four swimming. The kids were bummed because you had to be 16 to get I the huge hot tub and the pool was cold. So, I had a contest between Abby and Matthew called “who can stay in the hot tub the longest without getting booted.”
Rachel was unaffected by the cold pool and loved swimming. She swam and swam and then danced in the turf yard. It was windy and a bit chilly, but we did have a good time.
When we finished swimming, Madeline and Marilyn returned and we went bowling. Madeline was on fire and bowled a 122, whipping all the other kids pretty good. Rachel had a good score and seemed oblivious to the fact she was the only kid that had the bumper up. The kids LOVED bowling and asked if we could go bowling as a family once a month when we get back home. This really blessed Marilyn.
Matthew, as usual, made a scene diving onto the wood as he released each throw. Abby found her groove and won the second time-shortened game. We had the usual kid stuff going on with stuff like “Abby licked me.” Abby responds “No, I didn’t. I just stuck my tongue out and it hit your nose."
After bowling, I took the kids back to the hot tub. We had a laid back lifeguard who said he didn’t like the under 16 rule and allowed us to all get in. We ran into two guys from Maryland and Matthew literally talked their heads off. He quizzed them on the NBA, told a bunch of basketball stories and kept talking and talking. I grabbed Matthew’s leg and told him to slow down, but he was undeterred. Then, Matthew told them of his career plans: got to college for one year, get drafted and go free agent as quickly as possible and sign with the Pelicans. They were humored by Matthew but I am sure they were ready for us to leave. They were there to talk to girls more than listen to a 9 year-old. Bug, Abby and Madeline were absolutely amazed and Madeline asked me “how will he ever have a wife? He will never listen to her.”
Marilyn told Madeline to work on her posture. Madeline said “I just let my back be my back. Just let me be who I am.” Our kids are really funny.
After we got back to the room, Marilyn and I went to the lobby to hang out for an hour of calm (among the hotel chaos). The kids had a great day bowling, shopping and swimming.
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march 20, 2016
We woke up at the Homewood Suites which turned out to be a great hotel. Marilyn had her fears stuffing 7 of us in one room. It turns out a pull-out couch, a blow-up mattress and a bed did the trick.
I got up early with Matthew and Rachel, had the free breakfast and walked around killing time until the others got up. The kids really like just exploring around – putting feet in the hot tub, walking around a strip mall (with the stores closed) and collecting a few extra single-serving cereal boxes for Rachel’s girl party. Rachel loves having girl parties.
Then, Marilyn and the rest got up, had breakfast and we endured the mayhem of getting everything together. It is amazing what our seven can do to a room in less than 15 hours. We came in and exited through the side door not wanting the front desk lady to ask if all seven of us were staying in one room. They never asked how many were staying and, to avoid the question, I made a point to tell the lady we only needed two keys.
We left the Homewood Suites, made a quick Trader Joe stop for our gluten-free Abby and headed off to the hotel. Our hotel is vintage Vegas. It has a huge casino and 25 floors. It is actually perfect, as it is 6 miles from the strip, in a good area and with a huge pool and fitness center. The non-gambler gets a good deal on hotel rooms in Vegas during the week.
As we walked in the hotel, Rachel looked around and saw all the slot machines and lights and said “I like this place. It looks like it has a lot of toys.” Rachel asked mom “why does it smell like smoke?” Matthew loudly responded in front of others “it is because people who gamble smoke. They don’t make good decisions in gambling or smoking.”
Our room is really cool. You can see the strip from our room and they are nice. We checked in and got on the road to the strip. Walking with five kids along an extremely crowded strip in Vegas is stressful. I bet I said “NO Matthew” or “STOP Matthew” two-hundred times today. It is like he completely lacks the ability to walk normal and just stay with us. He is either pretending to play basketball or running to climb on something. Today, in the midst of tens of thousands of people (with many being sketchy), it drove me crazy trying to keep us all together.
The time on the strip started eventfully. I hit the wrong floor on the elevator leaving the parking garage. Instead of getting back on the elevator, I said “we can just go through this door.” Well, the door locked behind us and we were in some random area we did not recognize. I acted like we were fine and found a staircase that looked like it led to something. When we got to the top of the staircase (about 6 stories), we realized we were on the emergency fire stairwell of the mono-rail system. Now, we are at the top and there is a door that says an alarm will go off if we open it. Do we go back down? NO, I really didn’t want to go back down six flights of stairs with five kids. So, we all climbed over the wall to get on the mono-rail. Marilyn was without words and in a bit of disbelief. I had the thought of being confronted by security, but we got on the mono-rail and everything turned out fine.
Vegas was crazy. Very neat, unique and inappropriate. I was proud of Matthew as he turned his head every time we approached something inappropriate. Matthew learned the hard way that, if there is a card laying on the ground in Vegas, it is not a basketball card.egas.
The kids were getting grouchy as it was almost three and we had not eaten. We decided to just do McDonald’s and get on our way. Then, we hit the M and M store. Rachel LOVED it. She spent over an hour looking at M and M jewelry and M and M clothes. Finally, she decided to spend her money on an M and M necklace and a nightgown. .
While Rachel was having fun at the M and M store with Marilyn, I took the girls and Mathew to the rollercoaster at New York/New York. It was a cool coaster with good drops and great views of the strip of Vegas. After that, we worked our way back to the car and headed back home.
At the hotel, we went for a run in the fitness center and took in a movie at the hotel’s cinema. Yes, the hotel has a theatre with 16 cinemas and 32 bowling alleys. Bowling is only $1 a game after midnight. We may give that a shot tomorrow night.
I am ready for a little quiet. It was pretty stressful on the strip with the kids. Actually, it was just Matthew. I would rather clean toilets than supervise Matthew on an escalator.
Now, Marilyn, Madeline, Bug and Abbers are in one room. I am holding down the fort with Rachel and Matthew. Of course, Matthew is in the other bed playing NBA 2K telling me a bunch of information I do not want to hear. On a sidenote, it really gets on my nerves when that little rascal argues with me about things I know to be right. He will stick to his guns even if he has no idea if he is right or not.
Our kids are great and fun. Matthew really keeps it fun, funny and lively. We thank God for a great full day!!!!!!
I got up early with Matthew and Rachel, had the free breakfast and walked around killing time until the others got up. The kids really like just exploring around – putting feet in the hot tub, walking around a strip mall (with the stores closed) and collecting a few extra single-serving cereal boxes for Rachel’s girl party. Rachel loves having girl parties.
Then, Marilyn and the rest got up, had breakfast and we endured the mayhem of getting everything together. It is amazing what our seven can do to a room in less than 15 hours. We came in and exited through the side door not wanting the front desk lady to ask if all seven of us were staying in one room. They never asked how many were staying and, to avoid the question, I made a point to tell the lady we only needed two keys.
We left the Homewood Suites, made a quick Trader Joe stop for our gluten-free Abby and headed off to the hotel. Our hotel is vintage Vegas. It has a huge casino and 25 floors. It is actually perfect, as it is 6 miles from the strip, in a good area and with a huge pool and fitness center. The non-gambler gets a good deal on hotel rooms in Vegas during the week.
As we walked in the hotel, Rachel looked around and saw all the slot machines and lights and said “I like this place. It looks like it has a lot of toys.” Rachel asked mom “why does it smell like smoke?” Matthew loudly responded in front of others “it is because people who gamble smoke. They don’t make good decisions in gambling or smoking.”
Our room is really cool. You can see the strip from our room and they are nice. We checked in and got on the road to the strip. Walking with five kids along an extremely crowded strip in Vegas is stressful. I bet I said “NO Matthew” or “STOP Matthew” two-hundred times today. It is like he completely lacks the ability to walk normal and just stay with us. He is either pretending to play basketball or running to climb on something. Today, in the midst of tens of thousands of people (with many being sketchy), it drove me crazy trying to keep us all together.
The time on the strip started eventfully. I hit the wrong floor on the elevator leaving the parking garage. Instead of getting back on the elevator, I said “we can just go through this door.” Well, the door locked behind us and we were in some random area we did not recognize. I acted like we were fine and found a staircase that looked like it led to something. When we got to the top of the staircase (about 6 stories), we realized we were on the emergency fire stairwell of the mono-rail system. Now, we are at the top and there is a door that says an alarm will go off if we open it. Do we go back down? NO, I really didn’t want to go back down six flights of stairs with five kids. So, we all climbed over the wall to get on the mono-rail. Marilyn was without words and in a bit of disbelief. I had the thought of being confronted by security, but we got on the mono-rail and everything turned out fine.
Vegas was crazy. Very neat, unique and inappropriate. I was proud of Matthew as he turned his head every time we approached something inappropriate. Matthew learned the hard way that, if there is a card laying on the ground in Vegas, it is not a basketball card.egas.
The kids were getting grouchy as it was almost three and we had not eaten. We decided to just do McDonald’s and get on our way. Then, we hit the M and M store. Rachel LOVED it. She spent over an hour looking at M and M jewelry and M and M clothes. Finally, she decided to spend her money on an M and M necklace and a nightgown. .
While Rachel was having fun at the M and M store with Marilyn, I took the girls and Mathew to the rollercoaster at New York/New York. It was a cool coaster with good drops and great views of the strip of Vegas. After that, we worked our way back to the car and headed back home.
At the hotel, we went for a run in the fitness center and took in a movie at the hotel’s cinema. Yes, the hotel has a theatre with 16 cinemas and 32 bowling alleys. Bowling is only $1 a game after midnight. We may give that a shot tomorrow night.
I am ready for a little quiet. It was pretty stressful on the strip with the kids. Actually, it was just Matthew. I would rather clean toilets than supervise Matthew on an escalator.
Now, Marilyn, Madeline, Bug and Abbers are in one room. I am holding down the fort with Rachel and Matthew. Of course, Matthew is in the other bed playing NBA 2K telling me a bunch of information I do not want to hear. On a sidenote, it really gets on my nerves when that little rascal argues with me about things I know to be right. He will stick to his guns even if he has no idea if he is right or not.
Our kids are great and fun. Matthew really keeps it fun, funny and lively. We thank God for a great full day!!!!!!
march 19, 2016
Every time we leave a place, it is like the first scene in Home Alone. We are scrambling and everyone is running around the place for about 3 hours trying to get everything done. It seems like no matter how hard we try, we get finished around 11:00 a.m.
Bug came in my room and said “today, can we be twinsies and both wear our state champ tees?” Blessed me much and we wore the same shirt today.
We had some funny conversations today. Rachel, the new NBA fan, came to me and said “Dad, the cheerleaders in the NBA are extremely inappropriate.”
Then, Rachel came to me with two fingers down on each hand and three up. She was excited to tell me “Look, I have bird hands!!!”
We hooked the trailer up and got on the road. The trailer still scrapes occasionally. NOTHING makes me madder than to hear the scraping noise when we go over a dip.
We crossed into Arizona, back into Utah, back into Arizona, back into Utah and then finally into Nevada. We had a disagreement over eating destinations so three of us ate at Five Guys and four at Chick Fila.
The kids were great in the car (for the most part). We played loud music, sang and played games all the way to Vegas. We stopped at a Springhill Suites to watch the UK game and left way bummed out. Matthew was extremely ticked and angry at the loss and we were all sad about UK’s exit. Rachel was confused as to why we were sitting in a hotel lobby where we weren’t staying and complained about being bored for about an hour.
We left Springhill Suites to head to Hoover Dam. It was a little worrisome going down such a huge elevation on the way. We wondered if we’d make it back up with the huge trailer. We finally got to Hoover Dam and was informed we were not allowed to take the trailer with us. We were told to turn around, drive two miles to a lodge parking lot, unhook the trailer and come back.
We have gotten a lot better with the trailer and getting it unhooked wasn’t too big of a deal. Then, the guard told me “I’ve got good news and bad news.” I was like “CRUD.” He said the good news is you get to see the dam. The bad news is UK lost.
Hoover Dam exceeded our expectations. We took a really cool hike across a massive bridge with a view of the river and the dam. Finally, a place that had guardrails. Still, Matthew running crazy pretending he is playing basketball on the bridge sidewalk was unsettling.
After the bridge, we drove over the dam and back, took some photos and headed out to the hotel. By this time, it was loud and we were very tired. Marilyn said “I am really going to need some time alone.” A lot is going on in this area and hotels were crazy hard to find. We found a king suite for an OK rate and booked it.
On a side-note, Matthew loves to pretend to dunk on Rachel. He has Madeline put a fake goal over her head. Then, he jumps at her and pretends to slam dunk on her head. Then, he talks junk to her.
Now, there are seven of us in one room on a pull-out couch, a bed and a blow-up mattress. We are packed tight, but doing OK.
Before settling in for dinner, I dropped Marilyn off at the hotel and took the kids to Applebee’s for dinner. We were again reminded of the generosity of the people of PVCC as we used a gift card for the meal and then another one to buy batteries for the blow-up mattress.
The kids love Applebee's, except Rachel. Abby said “I like this place. I have never failed here and have failed at about every other restaurant.” Madeline now ranks it among her favorite restaurants. Rachel, on the other hand, had bad pizza. She looked at me with a scowl on her face and said “frozen is better.”
We have done a ton of driving lately, now topping 10,500 miles in the two months and 20 days we have been gone. Actually, the time in the car is pretty fun – our kids are great and loud and creative.
Tomorrow we hit Vegas and show the kids what gauky looks like. We have a hotel off the strip that is kid friendly with a huge pool and a movie theatre. Weekday rates in Vegas hotels are way cheap. If you don’t gamble (which we don’t), the rooms are one great deal.
Rob Pierce put us onto a thing called the Bed Bug Registry. I checked Stratosphere where I stayed in Vegas a few nights ago. It had a lot of complaints and nothing done about it. Against Pierce’s recommendation, I made the mistake of telling Marilyn about it. She freaked out and is even afraid to let the kids do the roller-coaster, fearing a bed bug hanging out waiting to grab us.
Well, it is time to crash and get ready for Vegas…
Bug came in my room and said “today, can we be twinsies and both wear our state champ tees?” Blessed me much and we wore the same shirt today.
We had some funny conversations today. Rachel, the new NBA fan, came to me and said “Dad, the cheerleaders in the NBA are extremely inappropriate.”
Then, Rachel came to me with two fingers down on each hand and three up. She was excited to tell me “Look, I have bird hands!!!”
We hooked the trailer up and got on the road. The trailer still scrapes occasionally. NOTHING makes me madder than to hear the scraping noise when we go over a dip.
We crossed into Arizona, back into Utah, back into Arizona, back into Utah and then finally into Nevada. We had a disagreement over eating destinations so three of us ate at Five Guys and four at Chick Fila.
The kids were great in the car (for the most part). We played loud music, sang and played games all the way to Vegas. We stopped at a Springhill Suites to watch the UK game and left way bummed out. Matthew was extremely ticked and angry at the loss and we were all sad about UK’s exit. Rachel was confused as to why we were sitting in a hotel lobby where we weren’t staying and complained about being bored for about an hour.
We left Springhill Suites to head to Hoover Dam. It was a little worrisome going down such a huge elevation on the way. We wondered if we’d make it back up with the huge trailer. We finally got to Hoover Dam and was informed we were not allowed to take the trailer with us. We were told to turn around, drive two miles to a lodge parking lot, unhook the trailer and come back.
We have gotten a lot better with the trailer and getting it unhooked wasn’t too big of a deal. Then, the guard told me “I’ve got good news and bad news.” I was like “CRUD.” He said the good news is you get to see the dam. The bad news is UK lost.
Hoover Dam exceeded our expectations. We took a really cool hike across a massive bridge with a view of the river and the dam. Finally, a place that had guardrails. Still, Matthew running crazy pretending he is playing basketball on the bridge sidewalk was unsettling.
After the bridge, we drove over the dam and back, took some photos and headed out to the hotel. By this time, it was loud and we were very tired. Marilyn said “I am really going to need some time alone.” A lot is going on in this area and hotels were crazy hard to find. We found a king suite for an OK rate and booked it.
On a side-note, Matthew loves to pretend to dunk on Rachel. He has Madeline put a fake goal over her head. Then, he jumps at her and pretends to slam dunk on her head. Then, he talks junk to her.
Now, there are seven of us in one room on a pull-out couch, a bed and a blow-up mattress. We are packed tight, but doing OK.
Before settling in for dinner, I dropped Marilyn off at the hotel and took the kids to Applebee’s for dinner. We were again reminded of the generosity of the people of PVCC as we used a gift card for the meal and then another one to buy batteries for the blow-up mattress.
The kids love Applebee's, except Rachel. Abby said “I like this place. I have never failed here and have failed at about every other restaurant.” Madeline now ranks it among her favorite restaurants. Rachel, on the other hand, had bad pizza. She looked at me with a scowl on her face and said “frozen is better.”
We have done a ton of driving lately, now topping 10,500 miles in the two months and 20 days we have been gone. Actually, the time in the car is pretty fun – our kids are great and loud and creative.
Tomorrow we hit Vegas and show the kids what gauky looks like. We have a hotel off the strip that is kid friendly with a huge pool and a movie theatre. Weekday rates in Vegas hotels are way cheap. If you don’t gamble (which we don’t), the rooms are one great deal.
Rob Pierce put us onto a thing called the Bed Bug Registry. I checked Stratosphere where I stayed in Vegas a few nights ago. It had a lot of complaints and nothing done about it. Against Pierce’s recommendation, I made the mistake of telling Marilyn about it. She freaked out and is even afraid to let the kids do the roller-coaster, fearing a bed bug hanging out waiting to grab us.
Well, it is time to crash and get ready for Vegas…
march 18, 2016
Today, we had a recipe for a tough day. Marilyn and the kids were a bit stir crazy. I was crazy tired having only slept three and a half hours the night before.
I arrived with Marilyn itching to leave the house and me itching to go to bed. We decided to hop in the car and drive to Lake Powell and do a short boat rental. I tried to fake patience, but struggled with the noise in the car and with my spirit.
We called the boat rental place and learned they don’t rent boats after 2:00 p.m. and it was 2:10 p.m. We were bummed and then the lady said “it is only 1:10 p.m." Good news! Arizona doesn’t do daylight savings time and, as we crossed the border, we gained an hour.
We rented the pontoon boat and had a blast on the lake. The boat had a 250 horse engine on it and moved fast. We drove through a big canyon and saw extremely cool views.
After two hours of driving around Lake Powell, we parked the boat and learned we had used 15 gallons of gas in two hours. Seemed like a lot – but it was worth it. All the kids loved the boat ride. Marilyn loved it the most. Matthew kicked in with a usual funny comment. As he was peeing in the lake he said “I forgot how much I love peeing in lakes. It brings me alive!”
After the boat ride, we went to see Horseshoe Bend, a massive rock with the river going all around it. It was awesome and scary. At the end of the hike, there is a HUGE cliff with no guardrails at all. Matthew’s motto is “can I do this?” right as he does it. It was way scary having Matthew up along the cliff, but we cautiously enjoyed the views and got back to the van.
On the way back to the place we did successfully get our Arizona geo badge. It was funny. Matthew thought he knew right where it was and as soon as we stopped, he jumped out of the van and took off sprinting down some dirt road. He was like a dog who saw a squirrel. He was off and Bug got out and found the geo.
The night was a bit of a bummer – we had to pack and I was grouchy from having no sleep and tons to do. We did put a decent dent in it before we went to bed.
I arrived with Marilyn itching to leave the house and me itching to go to bed. We decided to hop in the car and drive to Lake Powell and do a short boat rental. I tried to fake patience, but struggled with the noise in the car and with my spirit.
We called the boat rental place and learned they don’t rent boats after 2:00 p.m. and it was 2:10 p.m. We were bummed and then the lady said “it is only 1:10 p.m." Good news! Arizona doesn’t do daylight savings time and, as we crossed the border, we gained an hour.
We rented the pontoon boat and had a blast on the lake. The boat had a 250 horse engine on it and moved fast. We drove through a big canyon and saw extremely cool views.
After two hours of driving around Lake Powell, we parked the boat and learned we had used 15 gallons of gas in two hours. Seemed like a lot – but it was worth it. All the kids loved the boat ride. Marilyn loved it the most. Matthew kicked in with a usual funny comment. As he was peeing in the lake he said “I forgot how much I love peeing in lakes. It brings me alive!”
After the boat ride, we went to see Horseshoe Bend, a massive rock with the river going all around it. It was awesome and scary. At the end of the hike, there is a HUGE cliff with no guardrails at all. Matthew’s motto is “can I do this?” right as he does it. It was way scary having Matthew up along the cliff, but we cautiously enjoyed the views and got back to the van.
On the way back to the place we did successfully get our Arizona geo badge. It was funny. Matthew thought he knew right where it was and as soon as we stopped, he jumped out of the van and took off sprinting down some dirt road. He was like a dog who saw a squirrel. He was off and Bug got out and found the geo.
The night was a bit of a bummer – we had to pack and I was grouchy from having no sleep and tons to do. We did put a decent dent in it before we went to bed.
march 17, 2016
After sleeping in my old room at the house, I got up, got ready and went to breakfast with dad. It was great catching up. My parents are extremely supportive of Chris and me and always have.
After breakfast, I drove to Owensboro for Paula Horn’s visitation. Paula was about the most joyful, kind, warm woman I have ever met. She was so warm and kind it was like she was hugging you while you were talking to her. She was a face and spirit that you just wanted to be around. She was loving, calming, generous and amazing.
It was great seeing some friends at the funeral. I was reminded of the great comradery we have at our church. It is a VERY fun place to attend and serve. I saw Ryan Bays and he looked at me and said “I feel like am not supposed to be seeing you.”
After the visitation, I had a nice time reminiscing and hanging with great friends at Rhoads and Rhoads.
Then, I embarked on the trip back to Nashville, I enjoyed three convenient store chicken fingers (which were surprisingly good) and arrived in Nashville. Then, the temptation: an offer to get off my flight for a free voucher. I asked the amount of the voucher and it was high enough for me to jump. The only downside: I had to fly to Denver (arriving at the hotel around 11:00 p.m.) and fly out the next morning at 5:30 a.m. I called Marilyn and said “do you want me home around midnight tonight or home tomorrow at 11:00 a.m. with a flight voucher.” My travel-loving wife said “I’ll see you tomorrow.”
While waiting, I did run into a good friend of mine from my old law firm in Nashville. It was great catching up with Mark and Tammy Sheets. I learned he had given up basketball to be on a competitive barbecue team, The Swine Enthusiasts.
On the good side, they have free CBS on the plane and I got to watch the game. The downside is I arrived in Denver in cargo shorts and a tee shirt in below freezing weather and snow.
Back in Kanab, the family is ready to get out of the house after being without a car for 2 days. Tomorrow, a rental boat on Lake Powell. Then, Hoover Dam and onto Las Vegas, Nevada.
As I checked in the Quality Inn, the worker told me “I’d recommend you take the 3:15 a.m. shuttle instead of the 4:00 a.m." I was like “NO, not the 3:15.” She said I’d probably be OK if I took the 4. Well, I took the 4 the next morning and barely made it. The airport was crazy, the lines were way long and I made it through the open door of the plane after they had finished boarding.
I was determined not to lose any of my voucher savings on spending while in airports or hotels. So, I lived on the free snacks on the plane and some free granola and yogurt at the hotel.
After breakfast, I drove to Owensboro for Paula Horn’s visitation. Paula was about the most joyful, kind, warm woman I have ever met. She was so warm and kind it was like she was hugging you while you were talking to her. She was a face and spirit that you just wanted to be around. She was loving, calming, generous and amazing.
It was great seeing some friends at the funeral. I was reminded of the great comradery we have at our church. It is a VERY fun place to attend and serve. I saw Ryan Bays and he looked at me and said “I feel like am not supposed to be seeing you.”
After the visitation, I had a nice time reminiscing and hanging with great friends at Rhoads and Rhoads.
Then, I embarked on the trip back to Nashville, I enjoyed three convenient store chicken fingers (which were surprisingly good) and arrived in Nashville. Then, the temptation: an offer to get off my flight for a free voucher. I asked the amount of the voucher and it was high enough for me to jump. The only downside: I had to fly to Denver (arriving at the hotel around 11:00 p.m.) and fly out the next morning at 5:30 a.m. I called Marilyn and said “do you want me home around midnight tonight or home tomorrow at 11:00 a.m. with a flight voucher.” My travel-loving wife said “I’ll see you tomorrow.”
While waiting, I did run into a good friend of mine from my old law firm in Nashville. It was great catching up with Mark and Tammy Sheets. I learned he had given up basketball to be on a competitive barbecue team, The Swine Enthusiasts.
On the good side, they have free CBS on the plane and I got to watch the game. The downside is I arrived in Denver in cargo shorts and a tee shirt in below freezing weather and snow.
Back in Kanab, the family is ready to get out of the house after being without a car for 2 days. Tomorrow, a rental boat on Lake Powell. Then, Hoover Dam and onto Las Vegas, Nevada.
As I checked in the Quality Inn, the worker told me “I’d recommend you take the 3:15 a.m. shuttle instead of the 4:00 a.m." I was like “NO, not the 3:15.” She said I’d probably be OK if I took the 4. Well, I took the 4 the next morning and barely made it. The airport was crazy, the lines were way long and I made it through the open door of the plane after they had finished boarding.
I was determined not to lose any of my voucher savings on spending while in airports or hotels. So, I lived on the free snacks on the plane and some free granola and yogurt at the hotel.
march 16, 2016
After a spotty night’s sleep, I got ready and went to the airport. Brief scare as I saw the flight was ten minutes delayed, as I couldn’t afford any real delay and make it to mom’s retirement reception. My experience is that a ten-minute initial delay rarely means a ten-minute delay, but praise God, this time it did. We made up time in the air and arrived on time. The rental car experience went fine and I made it to the reception ahead of schedule.
The reception was great and appropriate. Different speakers highlighted the wonderful accomplishments and characteristics of my mom. Vision, work-ethic, empowering others, success and love of students and children were just some of the topics. Madisonville and the college are MUCH better because of mom.
It was great seeing Aunt B, Mom, Dad, Chris, Char and the boys. Plus, it was nice seeing friends. Meanwhile, back in Kanab, Marilyn was doing some home-school, running and hanging with the kiddos.
As I had some time to reflect, I became more and more grateful for this trip. I did not realize how little time our family spends together. Each child has school, sports activities and church activities. Rarely are we all together. I realize it will not be our ongoing reality, but having all 7 us together for seven months has been awesome.
I am getting to run with Madeline and Bug. When we get back, they will be running with their friends on the team. I am thrilled they have such good friends and will run with them. I am even more thrilled I have this opportunity to be with them during the trip.
The reception was great and appropriate. Different speakers highlighted the wonderful accomplishments and characteristics of my mom. Vision, work-ethic, empowering others, success and love of students and children were just some of the topics. Madisonville and the college are MUCH better because of mom.
It was great seeing Aunt B, Mom, Dad, Chris, Char and the boys. Plus, it was nice seeing friends. Meanwhile, back in Kanab, Marilyn was doing some home-school, running and hanging with the kiddos.
As I had some time to reflect, I became more and more grateful for this trip. I did not realize how little time our family spends together. Each child has school, sports activities and church activities. Rarely are we all together. I realize it will not be our ongoing reality, but having all 7 us together for seven months has been awesome.
I am getting to run with Madeline and Bug. When we get back, they will be running with their friends on the team. I am thrilled they have such good friends and will run with them. I am even more thrilled I have this opportunity to be with them during the trip.
march 15, 2016
As I am getting ready to leave for two days to Kentucky for my mom’s retirement reception, today was a day of sight-seeing. We did some school in the morning and headed out to Bryce Canyon National Park. Before leaving, I had the van checked from Marilyn driving over a big rock.
While the car got worked on, Madeline and I worked on school and hung out at McDonald’s. The trip has been great for my relationship with our kiddos and for their relationships with one another. Marilyn is VERY grateful we took this trip. Now, I think it was as great an idea as she does.
You don’t realize how little you spend time together as a family. Sports, church, school, friends….. Rarely is everyone together. Well, now we are all together for a time and it has been great. I want to savor this wonderful gift from GOD!
The ride to Bryce was entertaining as usual. The movie/music conflict came up again and the compromise was: music for Madeline and Bug on the way and “The Good Dinosaur” movie for Rachel on the way back. After thousands of miles listening to the girls’ music, I actually like a lot of it. I catch myself knowing the words of a lot of songs I never thought I’d listen to.
Well, we arrived in Bryce and, of course, had to get to work on the Junior Ranger program. The book was a little more laborious, but we got it done and another Junior Ranger badge was secured. Then, we embarked on a three mile hike down into and back out of the canyon.
As usual, Matthew made the hike VERY stressful, wanting to climb and jump all over everything. There are no rails at the edge of the canyon during the hike and that boy is about to stress me out. Rachel is proud of her ability to hike with everyone and made it the entire way.
However, she did slip and fall on her backside once and cried and cried and cried. I held her part of the way so we wouldn’t look like bad parents to the other hikers. A five-year old hiking uphill while screaming doesn’t look so good. The other kids get a big kick out of how long Rachel cries. I saw her fall and it wasn’t bad. However, it did warrant 10 full minutes of crying according to Madeline’s cell phone.
The hike and views were really cool. Bryce is very unique. Our hikes are awesome but not relaxing. In addition to Matthew issues and Rachel crying, there was the usual bantering among the kids. Bug continues to torment Matthew with affection. She hugs him and calls him “Cinnamon Sticks” and “Cutesickle.” Matthew hates it and runs. Bug does really like Matthew, Matthew runs from Bug, but did agree not to run if Bug would quit hugging him.
Our kids do not realize how blessed they are to have such a fun mom. Marilyn schedules fun things and then makes them even more fun. Marilyn is great at experiencing things and adventure. She doesn’t let convenience get in the way of experience.
After the hike, Madeline wanted to go on her run. As I had about a 3 ½ hour drive ahead of me, I didn’t want to run, but did it anyway. Running with Madeline has been great. I finally got out of the house to drive to Vegas around 8:15 p.m. I stayed at a hotel that I found on Hotwire for $22. Other than being awakened in the middle of the night listening to someone violently puke in the hall, it was a nice hotel (especially for $22). Well, tomorrow I embark for a day in Kentucky.
While the car got worked on, Madeline and I worked on school and hung out at McDonald’s. The trip has been great for my relationship with our kiddos and for their relationships with one another. Marilyn is VERY grateful we took this trip. Now, I think it was as great an idea as she does.
You don’t realize how little you spend time together as a family. Sports, church, school, friends….. Rarely is everyone together. Well, now we are all together for a time and it has been great. I want to savor this wonderful gift from GOD!
The ride to Bryce was entertaining as usual. The movie/music conflict came up again and the compromise was: music for Madeline and Bug on the way and “The Good Dinosaur” movie for Rachel on the way back. After thousands of miles listening to the girls’ music, I actually like a lot of it. I catch myself knowing the words of a lot of songs I never thought I’d listen to.
Well, we arrived in Bryce and, of course, had to get to work on the Junior Ranger program. The book was a little more laborious, but we got it done and another Junior Ranger badge was secured. Then, we embarked on a three mile hike down into and back out of the canyon.
As usual, Matthew made the hike VERY stressful, wanting to climb and jump all over everything. There are no rails at the edge of the canyon during the hike and that boy is about to stress me out. Rachel is proud of her ability to hike with everyone and made it the entire way.
However, she did slip and fall on her backside once and cried and cried and cried. I held her part of the way so we wouldn’t look like bad parents to the other hikers. A five-year old hiking uphill while screaming doesn’t look so good. The other kids get a big kick out of how long Rachel cries. I saw her fall and it wasn’t bad. However, it did warrant 10 full minutes of crying according to Madeline’s cell phone.
The hike and views were really cool. Bryce is very unique. Our hikes are awesome but not relaxing. In addition to Matthew issues and Rachel crying, there was the usual bantering among the kids. Bug continues to torment Matthew with affection. She hugs him and calls him “Cinnamon Sticks” and “Cutesickle.” Matthew hates it and runs. Bug does really like Matthew, Matthew runs from Bug, but did agree not to run if Bug would quit hugging him.
Our kids do not realize how blessed they are to have such a fun mom. Marilyn schedules fun things and then makes them even more fun. Marilyn is great at experiencing things and adventure. She doesn’t let convenience get in the way of experience.
After the hike, Madeline wanted to go on her run. As I had about a 3 ½ hour drive ahead of me, I didn’t want to run, but did it anyway. Running with Madeline has been great. I finally got out of the house to drive to Vegas around 8:15 p.m. I stayed at a hotel that I found on Hotwire for $22. Other than being awakened in the middle of the night listening to someone violently puke in the hall, it was a nice hotel (especially for $22). Well, tomorrow I embark for a day in Kentucky.
MARCH 14, 2016
Today was a bit of an out of sorts day. I had a ton of personal stuff to do this morning – taking care of a recall on one of our cars, changing reservations, registering kids for school, paying bills and numerous other details at the home. Duties pile up – no matter where you are.
Meanwhile, Marilyn was in sole control of home-school. By 1:00 p.m. I was tired and ready for a break and so was Marilyn. About this time, a three way loud argument broke out with Abby, Madeline and Bug. They have been “bursting each other’s bubble” for about two weeks. I had no idea what this meant until it culminated in chaos today. “Bursting a bubble” is sneaking up behind someone and blowing on the back of their neck.
Well, the kids did poorly and I did my best to make sure my parenting response didn’t exceed the behavior that prompted it. After they snapped --- I snapped. Plus, our door was open and some kid was walking by our house to listen to the deal ensue.
Everyone calmed down pretty quickly and we headed out for Coral Pink Sand Dunes State Park. Rachel was very dissappointed claiming they lied. The sand dunes were not pink and pink is her favorite color. It was cool and weird. It was a huge open area of sand with huge steep dunes. It is open for use of 4-wheelers and Dune Buggies. The sand was so steep it was hard to make it to the top. Plus, the wind absolutely ripped at the top of the dune. Our map blew away and there was no fetching it.
Kids are good at recovering. They went from a mess to having a blast in about ten minutes. We had dune races, faked falls and really liked the park.
We had to get back early as Madeline needed to get in her 9 mile run. I ran the first part (with Bug and Madeline) and Marilyn ran the second leg. Madeline and Bug are doing very well with their running.
We are all filling out NCAA brackets. It was hilarious listening to the kids pick. Rachel picked Maryland to do very well because “it is my mom’s name.” She picked Fresno to lose because Derek was not good to Susan in the movie Monsters v. Aliens. I vetoed Matthew’s request to pick Austin Peay to beat Kansas. Rachel laughed hysterically when she heard Duke and Austin Peay was in the field – she likes potty talk way too much for a 5 year-old. Matthew has UK beating California in the finals.
After the run, we had grilled burgers, had the kids watch “A Good Dinosaur” and then settled into bed. Today, wasn’t Marilyn and my best day. We both felt the other was the cause. Praise God His mercies are new every morning. There is no reason we can’t have a great day tomorrow.
Marilyn spent part of the evening mapping our way through California and Oregon. It has been fun planning parts of the trip on the fly. Marilyn has done an amazing job with the logistics.
Meanwhile, Marilyn was in sole control of home-school. By 1:00 p.m. I was tired and ready for a break and so was Marilyn. About this time, a three way loud argument broke out with Abby, Madeline and Bug. They have been “bursting each other’s bubble” for about two weeks. I had no idea what this meant until it culminated in chaos today. “Bursting a bubble” is sneaking up behind someone and blowing on the back of their neck.
Well, the kids did poorly and I did my best to make sure my parenting response didn’t exceed the behavior that prompted it. After they snapped --- I snapped. Plus, our door was open and some kid was walking by our house to listen to the deal ensue.
Everyone calmed down pretty quickly and we headed out for Coral Pink Sand Dunes State Park. Rachel was very dissappointed claiming they lied. The sand dunes were not pink and pink is her favorite color. It was cool and weird. It was a huge open area of sand with huge steep dunes. It is open for use of 4-wheelers and Dune Buggies. The sand was so steep it was hard to make it to the top. Plus, the wind absolutely ripped at the top of the dune. Our map blew away and there was no fetching it.
Kids are good at recovering. They went from a mess to having a blast in about ten minutes. We had dune races, faked falls and really liked the park.
We had to get back early as Madeline needed to get in her 9 mile run. I ran the first part (with Bug and Madeline) and Marilyn ran the second leg. Madeline and Bug are doing very well with their running.
We are all filling out NCAA brackets. It was hilarious listening to the kids pick. Rachel picked Maryland to do very well because “it is my mom’s name.” She picked Fresno to lose because Derek was not good to Susan in the movie Monsters v. Aliens. I vetoed Matthew’s request to pick Austin Peay to beat Kansas. Rachel laughed hysterically when she heard Duke and Austin Peay was in the field – she likes potty talk way too much for a 5 year-old. Matthew has UK beating California in the finals.
After the run, we had grilled burgers, had the kids watch “A Good Dinosaur” and then settled into bed. Today, wasn’t Marilyn and my best day. We both felt the other was the cause. Praise God His mercies are new every morning. There is no reason we can’t have a great day tomorrow.
Marilyn spent part of the evening mapping our way through California and Oregon. It has been fun planning parts of the trip on the fly. Marilyn has done an amazing job with the logistics.
march 13, 2016
We actually slept in and the kids slept well – a great change from the past week. We ate breakfast and listened to a PVCC sermon as a family. We REALLY miss our church. Listening to a sermon made us miss it even more. It was nice to be unhurried with the kids loving the place.
I have learned the kids are enamored by different things than adults. Our kids are way excited about the two cats at our place. Matthew was giving the cats something to drink and holding them. It is like he wants one of them to bite him or scratch him. He tries to pick them up and is less than slow in his movements. I think he is even glad he got his bum bit by the dog in Colorado. His scar is like a badge of honor. He loves telling his friends what happened and, even more than that, where he got bit.
After a slow start, we packed our lunches and took off for Zion National Park. Matthew was ticked, as he wanted to stay back and watch the Clippers/Cavaliers game. His complaining persisted to consequence before the day was over.
We listened to the great finish of the UK game on the way. As we drove into the park, we saw a herd of buffalo. Then, we spent about 45 minutes filling out Junior Ranger books as Abby secured her 14th Junior Ranger badge.
Rachel joined in the fun saying “I quitted, but now I am going to do it again.” She got her Junior Ranger badge in no time. The requirements for five year olds are minimal. The books are pretty long for Abby and Matthew.
Matthew HATES having to do the Junior Ranger books. Learning about national parks has not become a craving for him. After securing the badges, we took the bus to the Emerald Loop trail. It was a three-mile loop with waterfalls and cool overlooks. Again, stressful hiking with kids but we made it fine.
Other than Rachel scratching her hand and acting like she had been stabbed, it went great. A group of people felt for her, gave her a band-aid and made over how cute Rachel is. Rachel continues to thrive at a lot of things – toughness is definitely not one of them. MINOR IS MAJOR.
After some significant sibling hike bantering, we got on the bus to go on another hike along a river. Zion is mega-popular. There were people everywhere – of every nationality and every shape and size. It seemed like the Disney World of National Parks – shuttle buses and all.
The second hike was crazy cool as well. Kate Bradley was complaining about not being able to get her run in and I said “just take off running.” Well, she did and took Matthew and Abby with her. They ran over four miles up and down the trail.
I was shocked Yabbers went with her. She is one VERY unpredictable girl. After hiking over 4 miles, I thought there was no way she’d take off and run 4 more.
Well, it was a great day! Zion is one of Marilyn’s very favorite national parks. Then, we closed the night off with some pizza hut and settled in for bed.
I have learned the kids are enamored by different things than adults. Our kids are way excited about the two cats at our place. Matthew was giving the cats something to drink and holding them. It is like he wants one of them to bite him or scratch him. He tries to pick them up and is less than slow in his movements. I think he is even glad he got his bum bit by the dog in Colorado. His scar is like a badge of honor. He loves telling his friends what happened and, even more than that, where he got bit.
After a slow start, we packed our lunches and took off for Zion National Park. Matthew was ticked, as he wanted to stay back and watch the Clippers/Cavaliers game. His complaining persisted to consequence before the day was over.
We listened to the great finish of the UK game on the way. As we drove into the park, we saw a herd of buffalo. Then, we spent about 45 minutes filling out Junior Ranger books as Abby secured her 14th Junior Ranger badge.
Rachel joined in the fun saying “I quitted, but now I am going to do it again.” She got her Junior Ranger badge in no time. The requirements for five year olds are minimal. The books are pretty long for Abby and Matthew.
Matthew HATES having to do the Junior Ranger books. Learning about national parks has not become a craving for him. After securing the badges, we took the bus to the Emerald Loop trail. It was a three-mile loop with waterfalls and cool overlooks. Again, stressful hiking with kids but we made it fine.
Other than Rachel scratching her hand and acting like she had been stabbed, it went great. A group of people felt for her, gave her a band-aid and made over how cute Rachel is. Rachel continues to thrive at a lot of things – toughness is definitely not one of them. MINOR IS MAJOR.
After some significant sibling hike bantering, we got on the bus to go on another hike along a river. Zion is mega-popular. There were people everywhere – of every nationality and every shape and size. It seemed like the Disney World of National Parks – shuttle buses and all.
The second hike was crazy cool as well. Kate Bradley was complaining about not being able to get her run in and I said “just take off running.” Well, she did and took Matthew and Abby with her. They ran over four miles up and down the trail.
I was shocked Yabbers went with her. She is one VERY unpredictable girl. After hiking over 4 miles, I thought there was no way she’d take off and run 4 more.
Well, it was a great day! Zion is one of Marilyn’s very favorite national parks. Then, we closed the night off with some pizza hut and settled in for bed.
march 12, 2016
We got up around 8:00 to drive to Kanab, UT for the next leg of the trip. Before we left, we thought we’d go for a run. Well, it was in the low 40’ies with a wind that felt in the low 40’ies. Marilyn stopped after about a tenth of a mile. Bug and I made it another tenth and went in. Then, it started snowing, triggering our fear of getting stuck in a snowstorm.
Seven people with one bedroom (and a loft) and one bath has proved a bit tight. The place was great, but our numbers are a bit much for the square footage. Marilyn said “I don’t want to get stuck here” and we got out.
I learned a lesson I should have already known. Don’t eat at a restaurant without a name. It was just an ugly building with “RESTAURANT” on it located in Mexican Water, Utah on a Navajo Indian reservation. We stopped because literally you can go 100 miles without seeing a gas station or restaurant.
It was quite an experience. First, Madeline was quiet because Abby had said something to hurt her feelings. Then, Matthew blurts out this is “Mexican redneck” in front of the Navajo waitresses. Then, Abby sees a yellow car and yells skittles and tries to slap Bug. They play a game where if you see a yellow car you can say “skittles” and hit someone. Well, Abby’s “skittles” triggered a big water spill all over Marilyn, Bug and Bug’s cell phone. Plus, Matthew put together about four straws and announced the creation of the “largest spit ball launcher ever.” Rachel decided to kick in with a good ketchup spill on her shirt. The only thing worse than our kids’ behavior was the food.
Well, we continued our slow travels – making a 5 hour drive in 8 hours. However, we did hit “Four Corners”, Glenn Canyon Dam and ate a terrible meal on the way. Four Corners is pretty funny. You pay $5 a person to get in. Then, you get the privilege of standing on a copper tile where AZ, UT, NM and CO come together. We gave the kids the option and they wanted to do it.
Glen Canyon and Glen Canyon dam were really cool. We did a Griswold drive-by on these two attractions – spending less than thirty minutes combined at both. With the help of a laid back Park Ranger, Abbers was able to secure two more Junior Ranger badges.
The last hour or two of each leg gets pretty dicey. Fatigue and multiple mutual irritations set in hard. It gets louder, more conflictual and Marilyn and I have less patience to handle it. We did make it. It was very very windy and pulling that hog trailer behind the van didn’t feel too fun. I was so glad to pull it in and unhook it. It is always a great feeling.
Our house is GREAT! With seven people, the difference between one bath and two baths and one bedroom/loft and four bedrooms is mammoth. The additional space has been awesome.
Kanab is a cool western mountain town. They call it Abra Kanabra because it is unspoiled in the middle of tourist country.
I went to the grocery, grilled pork chops and we called it a night.
Seven people with one bedroom (and a loft) and one bath has proved a bit tight. The place was great, but our numbers are a bit much for the square footage. Marilyn said “I don’t want to get stuck here” and we got out.
I learned a lesson I should have already known. Don’t eat at a restaurant without a name. It was just an ugly building with “RESTAURANT” on it located in Mexican Water, Utah on a Navajo Indian reservation. We stopped because literally you can go 100 miles without seeing a gas station or restaurant.
It was quite an experience. First, Madeline was quiet because Abby had said something to hurt her feelings. Then, Matthew blurts out this is “Mexican redneck” in front of the Navajo waitresses. Then, Abby sees a yellow car and yells skittles and tries to slap Bug. They play a game where if you see a yellow car you can say “skittles” and hit someone. Well, Abby’s “skittles” triggered a big water spill all over Marilyn, Bug and Bug’s cell phone. Plus, Matthew put together about four straws and announced the creation of the “largest spit ball launcher ever.” Rachel decided to kick in with a good ketchup spill on her shirt. The only thing worse than our kids’ behavior was the food.
Well, we continued our slow travels – making a 5 hour drive in 8 hours. However, we did hit “Four Corners”, Glenn Canyon Dam and ate a terrible meal on the way. Four Corners is pretty funny. You pay $5 a person to get in. Then, you get the privilege of standing on a copper tile where AZ, UT, NM and CO come together. We gave the kids the option and they wanted to do it.
Glen Canyon and Glen Canyon dam were really cool. We did a Griswold drive-by on these two attractions – spending less than thirty minutes combined at both. With the help of a laid back Park Ranger, Abbers was able to secure two more Junior Ranger badges.
The last hour or two of each leg gets pretty dicey. Fatigue and multiple mutual irritations set in hard. It gets louder, more conflictual and Marilyn and I have less patience to handle it. We did make it. It was very very windy and pulling that hog trailer behind the van didn’t feel too fun. I was so glad to pull it in and unhook it. It is always a great feeling.
Our house is GREAT! With seven people, the difference between one bath and two baths and one bedroom/loft and four bedrooms is mammoth. The additional space has been awesome.
Kanab is a cool western mountain town. They call it Abra Kanabra because it is unspoiled in the middle of tourist country.
I went to the grocery, grilled pork chops and we called it a night.
MARCH 11, 2016
I woke up and my eye was not worse, but was not better either. Rachel came to bed and, knowing I was hurting, cuddled with me. She has been real sweet.
We got up and headed to the eye doctor’s office. Well, the doctor was not in, the other office was closed and another office didn’t have an opening until 1:00 p.m. Then, one of the assistants came in. Her name was Melissa and she was amazing. She numbed my eye, examined my eye, found the coal ember under my eyelid and gave us free samples of lubricant eye drops. My eye still looks bad, but feels much better. Then, they refuse to accept any payment and say “just have a great trip!”
Our God is so good and worthy of trust. Matthew gets bitten, but is OK and lacks ANY fear of dogs. My eye gets hurt, God provides care and it doesn’t cost us anything. God relieves financial stress by having our house rent the entire time we are gone. Literally, our house will likely be unoccupied only three days while we are gone. The renters need the house immediately and the Taylors, Monya Crowe and our neighbor Lorel Crabtree work hard to get it ready. Plus, Gary Maglinger has been amazing in getting it rented and encouraging us.
We have loved this place, the owners and the farm, but it has been a bit crazy doing homeschool with everyone in a one bedroom/loft, one bath place. Kate Bradley said “everywhere I turn there is a person!”
Marilyn took Abby and Kate Bradley to Telluride to sightsee and eat dinner. I stayed back with Madeline, Rachel and Matthew. On the way, Marilyn hit a huge rock in the road which punctured part of the undercarriage of the car. She took it to a service station and, fortunately, it didn’t hit the transmission or do any real damage == other than puncturing a hole in the underside of the car.
Madeline really helped me pack. We are pretty close to ready to re-load the trailer yet again.
We got up and headed to the eye doctor’s office. Well, the doctor was not in, the other office was closed and another office didn’t have an opening until 1:00 p.m. Then, one of the assistants came in. Her name was Melissa and she was amazing. She numbed my eye, examined my eye, found the coal ember under my eyelid and gave us free samples of lubricant eye drops. My eye still looks bad, but feels much better. Then, they refuse to accept any payment and say “just have a great trip!”
Our God is so good and worthy of trust. Matthew gets bitten, but is OK and lacks ANY fear of dogs. My eye gets hurt, God provides care and it doesn’t cost us anything. God relieves financial stress by having our house rent the entire time we are gone. Literally, our house will likely be unoccupied only three days while we are gone. The renters need the house immediately and the Taylors, Monya Crowe and our neighbor Lorel Crabtree work hard to get it ready. Plus, Gary Maglinger has been amazing in getting it rented and encouraging us.
We have loved this place, the owners and the farm, but it has been a bit crazy doing homeschool with everyone in a one bedroom/loft, one bath place. Kate Bradley said “everywhere I turn there is a person!”
Marilyn took Abby and Kate Bradley to Telluride to sightsee and eat dinner. I stayed back with Madeline, Rachel and Matthew. On the way, Marilyn hit a huge rock in the road which punctured part of the undercarriage of the car. She took it to a service station and, fortunately, it didn’t hit the transmission or do any real damage == other than puncturing a hole in the underside of the car.
Madeline really helped me pack. We are pretty close to ready to re-load the trailer yet again.
march 10, 2016
We got up early, ate breakfast and jumped in the van to go to Durango, Colorado. There is a famous coal powered steam engine that goes from Durango to Silverton. It is an amazingly cool ride.
We were none too early, but did get on the train in time. The ride went up into the mountains. It was cool being on the edge of a cliff in an open air train car.
The kids really liked the train ride as well. Abby said “I thought this was going to be boring, but actually it is pretty cool.” All the kids remained engaged and loved the ride.
The train stopped by a river about 26 miles out of Durango. We then got out, had a picnic, took photos and hung out. Matthew saw it as an opportunity to run everywhere – over rocks around the river. I am learning more and more to just let him enjoy life.
After the picnic, we took the train ride back down the mountain. It was great – except I got a coal ember stuck in my eye and we could not get it out. It got harder and harder to keep my eyes open and my eye got redder and redder.
We drove back to Yellow Jacket, went for a run and had dinner. Marilyn and the kids watched American Idol while I stayed in the room with my eye shut. By now, my eyes were so red I could hardly keep an eye open.
We tried everything we could find on youtube to get it out, but were unsuccessful. I put my face in a bowl of water and had running water poured over my bare eye. I have never had anything stuck in my eye before, but I learned when you get it in the eye, you really really really want it out.
When we got back from Durango, I ran with the girls (further irritating the eye) and Matthew went target shooting. When we got home, we turned around and could not find Matthew. He was not inside and was not around the house either. Finally, I found him walking down the road looking for Mr. Duncan, hoping he could go shooting and feed the cows.
Matthew was not at all worried about another dog attack. I have been impressed how he has bounced back from the bite.
Marilyn read that I should go to get care immediately. I told her I was not going to the ER and waited till the next morning to go to an eye doctor.
We were none too early, but did get on the train in time. The ride went up into the mountains. It was cool being on the edge of a cliff in an open air train car.
The kids really liked the train ride as well. Abby said “I thought this was going to be boring, but actually it is pretty cool.” All the kids remained engaged and loved the ride.
The train stopped by a river about 26 miles out of Durango. We then got out, had a picnic, took photos and hung out. Matthew saw it as an opportunity to run everywhere – over rocks around the river. I am learning more and more to just let him enjoy life.
After the picnic, we took the train ride back down the mountain. It was great – except I got a coal ember stuck in my eye and we could not get it out. It got harder and harder to keep my eyes open and my eye got redder and redder.
We drove back to Yellow Jacket, went for a run and had dinner. Marilyn and the kids watched American Idol while I stayed in the room with my eye shut. By now, my eyes were so red I could hardly keep an eye open.
We tried everything we could find on youtube to get it out, but were unsuccessful. I put my face in a bowl of water and had running water poured over my bare eye. I have never had anything stuck in my eye before, but I learned when you get it in the eye, you really really really want it out.
When we got back from Durango, I ran with the girls (further irritating the eye) and Matthew went target shooting. When we got home, we turned around and could not find Matthew. He was not inside and was not around the house either. Finally, I found him walking down the road looking for Mr. Duncan, hoping he could go shooting and feed the cows.
Matthew was not at all worried about another dog attack. I have been impressed how he has bounced back from the bite.
Marilyn read that I should go to get care immediately. I told her I was not going to the ER and waited till the next morning to go to an eye doctor.
march 9, 2016
We got up late, got ready and headed out to Moab, Utah to see Arches National Park. The drive was amazing and our kids were amazingly loud. For some reason, they were all in the singing mood. They got along fine, but about drove us crazy.
On the way to Moab, Gary Maglinger called and let us know he had rented our hose for the next three months. What a gift from God!!!! Gary has been great and our house will be rented until we return. We both knew our house renting was a gift straight from God.
The couple who is renting our home had their house burn and need a place to live for three months. We hate their house burned, pray their house is repaired well and quickly and pray our house is a blessing to them while we are gone.
We arrived at Arches and embarked on a three and a half mile hike to Delicate Arch. It was a beautiful, challenging and stressful hike. Our kids hiking along ledges and down rocks is very stressful. Matthew and Abby are a lot of things. Careful they are not! Rachel made it fine but was extremely tired by the time we finished.
The hike is what you’d expect. Fun craziness. Hiking with Matthew is like hiking with a squirrel. He tries to jump on and climb everything.
When we got to the arch, it was really really cool. The incline was stressful getting down to it, but it was worth it.
After the Arches, we headed to Canyonlands National Park. Canyonlands was amazing. It is like a smaller Grand Canyon with snow capped mountains behind it. We went on a short hike, stopped at numerous overlooks and were all amazed by this park.
We avoided a crisis as Matthew lost his i-pad. Randomly, I ran into the visitors center and Matthew had left it laying on the ledge.
On the way back, we stopped in Moab, had dinner and went for yogurt. As we were driving back, I was reflecting on what an amazing day God had blessed us with, two parks, saved i-pad and a rented house. I stopped and got gas and when I got back from paying, chaos had broken out in our car.
Randomly, radically and unexpectedly, Rachel vomited all over herself and the car. It was like a triple chocolate yogurt explosion. Rachel was freaking and the car was stinking. We got her changed and got back to the house around 10. Now, time to go to bed and get ready to go to Durango in the morning.
On the way to Moab, Gary Maglinger called and let us know he had rented our hose for the next three months. What a gift from God!!!! Gary has been great and our house will be rented until we return. We both knew our house renting was a gift straight from God.
The couple who is renting our home had their house burn and need a place to live for three months. We hate their house burned, pray their house is repaired well and quickly and pray our house is a blessing to them while we are gone.
We arrived at Arches and embarked on a three and a half mile hike to Delicate Arch. It was a beautiful, challenging and stressful hike. Our kids hiking along ledges and down rocks is very stressful. Matthew and Abby are a lot of things. Careful they are not! Rachel made it fine but was extremely tired by the time we finished.
The hike is what you’d expect. Fun craziness. Hiking with Matthew is like hiking with a squirrel. He tries to jump on and climb everything.
When we got to the arch, it was really really cool. The incline was stressful getting down to it, but it was worth it.
After the Arches, we headed to Canyonlands National Park. Canyonlands was amazing. It is like a smaller Grand Canyon with snow capped mountains behind it. We went on a short hike, stopped at numerous overlooks and were all amazed by this park.
We avoided a crisis as Matthew lost his i-pad. Randomly, I ran into the visitors center and Matthew had left it laying on the ledge.
On the way back, we stopped in Moab, had dinner and went for yogurt. As we were driving back, I was reflecting on what an amazing day God had blessed us with, two parks, saved i-pad and a rented house. I stopped and got gas and when I got back from paying, chaos had broken out in our car.
Randomly, radically and unexpectedly, Rachel vomited all over herself and the car. It was like a triple chocolate yogurt explosion. Rachel was freaking and the car was stinking. We got her changed and got back to the house around 10. Now, time to go to bed and get ready to go to Durango in the morning.
march 8, 2016
Rachel came downstairs about 7 starting the day out as usual. Then, Matthew came in around about 7:30. We were obviously tired as all four of us slept in one bed until 9:00 a.m.
We got up, had breakfast and started homeschool. Matthew loves the farm and kept going outside to play with the dogs and look at the cows. Then, one of the dogs randomly charged Matthew. He took off running and the dog bit him in the upper part of the back of the leg, breaking the skin and causing about a two inch cut.
Matthew was pretty shaken up but shook it off pretty quickly. It wasn’t an hour until he was playing with the dogs (minus the one that bit him) again. The owner was great, informed us the dog had its shots and even offered to hold the dog down and let Matthew bite him.
They were really surprised the dog bit Matthew as he had never done it before. Marilyn changed the bandages and Matthew said “you just want to see my butt again.” Matthew was bit, but he was still Matthew.
After getting him patched up, I took him prairie dog hunting. Mr. Duncan let us borrow his four wheeler and his gun with a scope. We saw a bunch of prairie dogs and got them on the scope, but were unable to kill them. I don’ t know if it was the wind, the scope or the likely problem, user error.
Matthew had a blast hunting. Then, Mr. Duncan let us go for a ride on his four-wheeler with Matthew driving. He loved driving, was completely unafraid and completely lacking the appropriate level of care. It was funny watching Matthew gun it in reverse with Marilyn in the passenger seat scared. Now, Marilyn won’t ride with him. Actually, I think he is catching on pretty quickly.
Then, I took Matthew target shooting – getting out our 22 and my 9 mm pistol. I didn’t let Matthew shoot the pistol and barely beat him in the 22 shooting contest.
Then, we watched Mr. Duncan feed the cows. Those big rascals eat 50 lbs. of food per day. Mr. Duncan was a bit bummed as he lost a calf this morning. He has had six calves and two of them passed. Last year he had 56 with no deaths. He is very hopeful the stillborn calves are not a trend.
It is interesting how the mom will just stay with the deceased calf and won’t leave it. Mr. Duncan will often buy another calf and put the carcass of the deceased calf over it so the mom will nurse and move on more effectively.
After watching the cows eat, we went to dinner in Cortez, to the grocery and back home.
Kate Bradley continues to terrorize Matthew with affection. Matthew can’t stand it and Bug is having a blast with it. She calls him cutesickle, cinnamon sticks and love kinz. He hates all three names equally.
Well, a full fun day at the farm. We are very thankful to be here!!!
We got up, had breakfast and started homeschool. Matthew loves the farm and kept going outside to play with the dogs and look at the cows. Then, one of the dogs randomly charged Matthew. He took off running and the dog bit him in the upper part of the back of the leg, breaking the skin and causing about a two inch cut.
Matthew was pretty shaken up but shook it off pretty quickly. It wasn’t an hour until he was playing with the dogs (minus the one that bit him) again. The owner was great, informed us the dog had its shots and even offered to hold the dog down and let Matthew bite him.
They were really surprised the dog bit Matthew as he had never done it before. Marilyn changed the bandages and Matthew said “you just want to see my butt again.” Matthew was bit, but he was still Matthew.
After getting him patched up, I took him prairie dog hunting. Mr. Duncan let us borrow his four wheeler and his gun with a scope. We saw a bunch of prairie dogs and got them on the scope, but were unable to kill them. I don’ t know if it was the wind, the scope or the likely problem, user error.
Matthew had a blast hunting. Then, Mr. Duncan let us go for a ride on his four-wheeler with Matthew driving. He loved driving, was completely unafraid and completely lacking the appropriate level of care. It was funny watching Matthew gun it in reverse with Marilyn in the passenger seat scared. Now, Marilyn won’t ride with him. Actually, I think he is catching on pretty quickly.
Then, I took Matthew target shooting – getting out our 22 and my 9 mm pistol. I didn’t let Matthew shoot the pistol and barely beat him in the 22 shooting contest.
Then, we watched Mr. Duncan feed the cows. Those big rascals eat 50 lbs. of food per day. Mr. Duncan was a bit bummed as he lost a calf this morning. He has had six calves and two of them passed. Last year he had 56 with no deaths. He is very hopeful the stillborn calves are not a trend.
It is interesting how the mom will just stay with the deceased calf and won’t leave it. Mr. Duncan will often buy another calf and put the carcass of the deceased calf over it so the mom will nurse and move on more effectively.
After watching the cows eat, we went to dinner in Cortez, to the grocery and back home.
Kate Bradley continues to terrorize Matthew with affection. Matthew can’t stand it and Bug is having a blast with it. She calls him cutesickle, cinnamon sticks and love kinz. He hates all three names equally.
Well, a full fun day at the farm. We are very thankful to be here!!!
march 7, 2016
I love this farm! It is so cool waking up and seeing cows out the window with the beautiful Colorado mountains in the background.
The day started off well talking to a pastor at a church in Anderson, Indiana who is very excited about possibly implementing Grace Marriage in his church and community. It was a refreshing conversation.
Today was a bit of chaos. Five kids doing school in a one-bedroom house with a loft is far from orderly. Matthew got off to a slow start until he learned he wasn’t going to be able to go hunting unless he finished his work first.
One of Mr. Duncan’s cows had a calf this morning around nine. He came over, handed me his binoculars and showed me the new mother and her calf. Our kids think it is really cool here. Madeline loves it. She even said “when you get older could you move to a place like this.” Madeline definitely wants us to stay in Owensboro for now, but is studying the best place to visit to choose for our retirement location.
Mr. Duncan went out, got a new jack and installed it on our trailer. He is an incredibly nice and generous guy. By about 1:00 p.m. today Marilyn and I were both a bit stir crazy and decided we have to go somewhere. So, we took an afternoon trip to Mesa Verde National Park.
Our kids are tired of seeing Indian ruins and Marilyn is about there with them. It is our fourth Indian ruins stop. The views on the drive to Mesa Verde were amazing and the dwellings were cool. Everyone liked the drive and agree that Colorado is beautiful. Plus, Abbers did get her ninth National Park/Monument badge
We got back from Mesa Verde about 5:00 p.m. Then, I took Matthew prairie dog hunting while Marilyn and Madeline went for a run. We didn’t get any shots off at the prairie dogs, but did some target shooting. As the dogs aren’t much bigger than the bottle we targeted, the prairie dogs should be safe tomorrow. The only wildcard is the fact that Mr. Duncan has a rifle with a scope with much more power. Matthew is really excited about the possibility of killing something tomorrow.
The prairie dogs are a real nuisance to the farmers. They dig big holes, like moles times 10. You can put your leg down in the holes they are so big. The holes can hurt the animals and damage farm equipment.
On a sidenote, it looks like Abby is going to get very strong this trip. Marilyn instituted a ten pushup per negative comment to Matthew rule.
We love our place, but going from 6 bedrdooms has been an adjustment. It is crazy loud. When one gets up, we are all up. Plus, if anyone says anything, we can all hear it and, at all times, at least three people are saying something.
We love it here, are glad we are here and Madeline thinks it is about the coolest place yet. We thank God for the beauty of HIS creation and HIS kindness in getting our trailer fixed.
We got the kids in bed upstairs and got in our room. Then, we laid in bed and listened. For some random reason, Abby starts singing My Old Kentucky Home. Everyone had a good laugh.
The day started off well talking to a pastor at a church in Anderson, Indiana who is very excited about possibly implementing Grace Marriage in his church and community. It was a refreshing conversation.
Today was a bit of chaos. Five kids doing school in a one-bedroom house with a loft is far from orderly. Matthew got off to a slow start until he learned he wasn’t going to be able to go hunting unless he finished his work first.
One of Mr. Duncan’s cows had a calf this morning around nine. He came over, handed me his binoculars and showed me the new mother and her calf. Our kids think it is really cool here. Madeline loves it. She even said “when you get older could you move to a place like this.” Madeline definitely wants us to stay in Owensboro for now, but is studying the best place to visit to choose for our retirement location.
Mr. Duncan went out, got a new jack and installed it on our trailer. He is an incredibly nice and generous guy. By about 1:00 p.m. today Marilyn and I were both a bit stir crazy and decided we have to go somewhere. So, we took an afternoon trip to Mesa Verde National Park.
Our kids are tired of seeing Indian ruins and Marilyn is about there with them. It is our fourth Indian ruins stop. The views on the drive to Mesa Verde were amazing and the dwellings were cool. Everyone liked the drive and agree that Colorado is beautiful. Plus, Abbers did get her ninth National Park/Monument badge
We got back from Mesa Verde about 5:00 p.m. Then, I took Matthew prairie dog hunting while Marilyn and Madeline went for a run. We didn’t get any shots off at the prairie dogs, but did some target shooting. As the dogs aren’t much bigger than the bottle we targeted, the prairie dogs should be safe tomorrow. The only wildcard is the fact that Mr. Duncan has a rifle with a scope with much more power. Matthew is really excited about the possibility of killing something tomorrow.
The prairie dogs are a real nuisance to the farmers. They dig big holes, like moles times 10. You can put your leg down in the holes they are so big. The holes can hurt the animals and damage farm equipment.
On a sidenote, it looks like Abby is going to get very strong this trip. Marilyn instituted a ten pushup per negative comment to Matthew rule.
We love our place, but going from 6 bedrdooms has been an adjustment. It is crazy loud. When one gets up, we are all up. Plus, if anyone says anything, we can all hear it and, at all times, at least three people are saying something.
We love it here, are glad we are here and Madeline thinks it is about the coolest place yet. We thank God for the beauty of HIS creation and HIS kindness in getting our trailer fixed.
We got the kids in bed upstairs and got in our room. Then, we laid in bed and listened. For some random reason, Abby starts singing My Old Kentucky Home. Everyone had a good laugh.
march 6, 2016
I remember when I said “packing wasn’t that bad.” I completely take that statement back, as we have been in Flagstaff long enough that I forgot what it was like. This morning our goal was to get out of the house by 9. I got up early and was informed by Bug she needed to run 35 minutes this morning. Madeline’s back was sore from our 10-mile jaunt and crawl yesterday and said she couldn’t do it. I decided “why not?”, took off and ran. Then, I packed the trailer and hooked it up without incident.
The van seemed to sit better with our new air bags between the shocks and everything seemed great. Then, it all changed. First, the kids kept bringing down more and more bags messing up my packing. Then, it took forever to get out. We did not leave until almost 11:00 a.m. putting our Monument Valley plans in jeopardy.
Then, as we left the neighborhood we hit a dip and heard the bad sound of trailer scrape. As a precautionary matter, I decided to stop and check the trailer to make sure the jack didn’t get bent again. Rarely do I really feel like cussing, but when I saw the jack was re-bent, I was really ticked. We had spent $40 to get it bent back and over $400 for air bags in the shocks to keep it from happening again. Then, within 200 feet of leaving the house, it is bent again.
Our next move: We are going to buy a jack that goes up and down to keep it from happening again. I hope this is our last deal with the van or trailer, but I doubt it. Overall, we have been very blessed. Van has done fine, we haven’t broken down and have only had one $40 repair bill.
Well, on to Dove Creek, Colorado. About an hour and a half into the trip, we realized we had left some stuff in Flagstaff. Heidi, the owner of the house, is sending it to us. Plus, the owner of our next house is a farmer and acted like it’d be no big deal for him to get our trailer jack in working order again.
As usual, we turned a 4 ½ hour drive into a 7 hour drive. We stopped at Navajo National Monument on the way and saw some wild big-horn sheep on the way. Abbers got her 8th National Monument/Park Junior Ranger badge to boot.
The entire drive was absolutely beautiful. I had a case of the grouchies a good part of the way letting my newly fixed and re-broken jack impact my mood. The kids did well the first part, had some drama in the middle and settled in to watch a movie at the end.
The only bummer was our attempt to see Four Corners Monument, the place where you can stand in four states (AZ, UT, CO, NM) at once. We arrived at 5:03 to learn it closed at 5:00. The guy would not let us through. It seemed like a bad decision for them, as it would have cost us $30 to stand in a place with a bunch of flags around it.
Well, we are within 20 minutes of our destination. The fun continues…..
When we arrived in Yellow Jacket, Colorado, the day go WAY better. We met the Duncans, the owner of the place we are staying. They are incredibly nice. Mr. Duncan is a farmer with 60 plus head of cattle.
When Mr. Duncan saw the boogered up trailer jack, he said “that shouldn’t be a big deal at all to fix.” Then, he got a jack out of his garage and took it off of our van for us. Then, he offered to take Matthew and I prairie dog and coyote hunting, telling us he had the right guns and could take us to the right spots.
The place is great and staying on a working farm with snow-capped mountains in the background is absolutely amazing. Plus, Mr. Duncan took Matthew to his shop and showed him the rack off a huge elk he had killed
Mr. Duncan told me “let me know when it works to fix the trailer jack.” God has and continues to be so good to us. I really need to learn to trust more. We messed up the trailer jack and God provided a nice farmer to fix it for us.
Thank God for the Duncans, this beautiful place and an amazing family!!!!!
The van seemed to sit better with our new air bags between the shocks and everything seemed great. Then, it all changed. First, the kids kept bringing down more and more bags messing up my packing. Then, it took forever to get out. We did not leave until almost 11:00 a.m. putting our Monument Valley plans in jeopardy.
Then, as we left the neighborhood we hit a dip and heard the bad sound of trailer scrape. As a precautionary matter, I decided to stop and check the trailer to make sure the jack didn’t get bent again. Rarely do I really feel like cussing, but when I saw the jack was re-bent, I was really ticked. We had spent $40 to get it bent back and over $400 for air bags in the shocks to keep it from happening again. Then, within 200 feet of leaving the house, it is bent again.
Our next move: We are going to buy a jack that goes up and down to keep it from happening again. I hope this is our last deal with the van or trailer, but I doubt it. Overall, we have been very blessed. Van has done fine, we haven’t broken down and have only had one $40 repair bill.
Well, on to Dove Creek, Colorado. About an hour and a half into the trip, we realized we had left some stuff in Flagstaff. Heidi, the owner of the house, is sending it to us. Plus, the owner of our next house is a farmer and acted like it’d be no big deal for him to get our trailer jack in working order again.
As usual, we turned a 4 ½ hour drive into a 7 hour drive. We stopped at Navajo National Monument on the way and saw some wild big-horn sheep on the way. Abbers got her 8th National Monument/Park Junior Ranger badge to boot.
The entire drive was absolutely beautiful. I had a case of the grouchies a good part of the way letting my newly fixed and re-broken jack impact my mood. The kids did well the first part, had some drama in the middle and settled in to watch a movie at the end.
The only bummer was our attempt to see Four Corners Monument, the place where you can stand in four states (AZ, UT, CO, NM) at once. We arrived at 5:03 to learn it closed at 5:00. The guy would not let us through. It seemed like a bad decision for them, as it would have cost us $30 to stand in a place with a bunch of flags around it.
Well, we are within 20 minutes of our destination. The fun continues…..
When we arrived in Yellow Jacket, Colorado, the day go WAY better. We met the Duncans, the owner of the place we are staying. They are incredibly nice. Mr. Duncan is a farmer with 60 plus head of cattle.
When Mr. Duncan saw the boogered up trailer jack, he said “that shouldn’t be a big deal at all to fix.” Then, he got a jack out of his garage and took it off of our van for us. Then, he offered to take Matthew and I prairie dog and coyote hunting, telling us he had the right guns and could take us to the right spots.
The place is great and staying on a working farm with snow-capped mountains in the background is absolutely amazing. Plus, Mr. Duncan took Matthew to his shop and showed him the rack off a huge elk he had killed
Mr. Duncan told me “let me know when it works to fix the trailer jack.” God has and continues to be so good to us. I really need to learn to trust more. We messed up the trailer jack and God provided a nice farmer to fix it for us.
Thank God for the Duncans, this beautiful place and an amazing family!!!!!
march 5, 2016
Tired!!!!!! Today, the plan was to pack and do a short hike through the Lava Tube, a cave created years ago by a volcanic eruption.
Well, today didn’t go as planned. First, as we were getting ready to leave, Rachel was whiny. Marilyn checked her temperature and she had a fever. She has been sick all day.
So, the decision. Do I stay home, chill, watch the UK game or go on the hike with the other kiddos? The kids wanted to hike so off we went. We started with Chick FilA, a little work on the car and then the drive to the trailhead.
First, the drive to the hike was farther than we thought. Then, another curveball. The dirt roads to the hike were closed. Then, the decision. Do we embark on a 9 ½ mile round trip hike at 2:35 p.m. or do we just go back to the house. Knowing the kids would not want to hike almost 10 miles in less than four hours, I told them we’d take a vote.
Well, an upset vote… Madeline, Bug and Abby voted to go for it. Matthew, it turns out, had the more rational “NO” vote. Instead of exercising my veto power, I told them we’d just go for it, but had to hike fast.
Matthew was flat out angry at the thought of hiking over 9 miles. He actually teared up he was so mad. He told me “sometimes I get so mad I cry.” It took him about 2 miles to settle down and act relatively normal. Actually, I think Matthew likely turned out right. I got on him about being a baby, but in retrospect, he was probably the most rational of all of us.
It was 2:35 p.m., and we decided to embark on a near 10-mile. The weather was great – sunny and the low 60’ies. We made the muddy/snowy hike and got to the Lava Tube around 4:00 p.m. Then, we hiked down into the rocky, icy hole that turned into a big cave/tube lined with dried lava. It was really cool.
We spent too much time hiking over ½ mile over rocks and crawling in crevices in the tube and did not climb out until a little after 5:00 p.m. Bug hit her head in the cave and came out with a headache and a bump on her forehead. Matthew, as we were ducking and climbing, said “It was God’s will that Rachel got sick.” I said “what?” He said “she wouldn’t have made this hike.”
We were told the tube made a big circle back to the hole where you climb out. Fortunately, we ran into a man who had done the hike before and informed us our info was off. He turned us around and we followed him to find the exit to the cave.
We did startle some hikers on the way out. I told them “we asked and the small snakes in the cave are harmless and not poisonous. Don’t worry about them.” They squeamishly said “thanks.” They were relieved to hear I was joking.
One more twist, we couldn’t figure out the way back to the car. We followed MAPS on the phone to get to the Lava Tube. I didn’t realize you can’t plug in “Brad’s van” to get directions back. We fooled around with the phone and finally found the right dirt road. There were several turns and I was a lot more anxious about the turns than I let on to the kids. I must admit, when I saw our van as we finished the hike at dark, I was extremely relieved.
Now, Rachel is still sick and we have some tired kids and one very tired dad. Then, while Marilyn was cooking dinner for us, I leaned against the counter and talked to Marilyn. I didn’t realize it, but the burner was close to the edge and was burning a hole in the back of my shirt. God took care of us – we got home safe and I didn’t catch on fire.
Now, exhausted, it is time for me to continue packing the van and getting it hooked up for a long day of driving. We are praying Rachel feels better in the morning.
Well, today didn’t go as planned. First, as we were getting ready to leave, Rachel was whiny. Marilyn checked her temperature and she had a fever. She has been sick all day.
So, the decision. Do I stay home, chill, watch the UK game or go on the hike with the other kiddos? The kids wanted to hike so off we went. We started with Chick FilA, a little work on the car and then the drive to the trailhead.
First, the drive to the hike was farther than we thought. Then, another curveball. The dirt roads to the hike were closed. Then, the decision. Do we embark on a 9 ½ mile round trip hike at 2:35 p.m. or do we just go back to the house. Knowing the kids would not want to hike almost 10 miles in less than four hours, I told them we’d take a vote.
Well, an upset vote… Madeline, Bug and Abby voted to go for it. Matthew, it turns out, had the more rational “NO” vote. Instead of exercising my veto power, I told them we’d just go for it, but had to hike fast.
Matthew was flat out angry at the thought of hiking over 9 miles. He actually teared up he was so mad. He told me “sometimes I get so mad I cry.” It took him about 2 miles to settle down and act relatively normal. Actually, I think Matthew likely turned out right. I got on him about being a baby, but in retrospect, he was probably the most rational of all of us.
It was 2:35 p.m., and we decided to embark on a near 10-mile. The weather was great – sunny and the low 60’ies. We made the muddy/snowy hike and got to the Lava Tube around 4:00 p.m. Then, we hiked down into the rocky, icy hole that turned into a big cave/tube lined with dried lava. It was really cool.
We spent too much time hiking over ½ mile over rocks and crawling in crevices in the tube and did not climb out until a little after 5:00 p.m. Bug hit her head in the cave and came out with a headache and a bump on her forehead. Matthew, as we were ducking and climbing, said “It was God’s will that Rachel got sick.” I said “what?” He said “she wouldn’t have made this hike.”
We were told the tube made a big circle back to the hole where you climb out. Fortunately, we ran into a man who had done the hike before and informed us our info was off. He turned us around and we followed him to find the exit to the cave.
We did startle some hikers on the way out. I told them “we asked and the small snakes in the cave are harmless and not poisonous. Don’t worry about them.” They squeamishly said “thanks.” They were relieved to hear I was joking.
One more twist, we couldn’t figure out the way back to the car. We followed MAPS on the phone to get to the Lava Tube. I didn’t realize you can’t plug in “Brad’s van” to get directions back. We fooled around with the phone and finally found the right dirt road. There were several turns and I was a lot more anxious about the turns than I let on to the kids. I must admit, when I saw our van as we finished the hike at dark, I was extremely relieved.
Now, Rachel is still sick and we have some tired kids and one very tired dad. Then, while Marilyn was cooking dinner for us, I leaned against the counter and talked to Marilyn. I didn’t realize it, but the burner was close to the edge and was burning a hole in the back of my shirt. God took care of us – we got home safe and I didn’t catch on fire.
Now, exhausted, it is time for me to continue packing the van and getting it hooked up for a long day of driving. We are praying Rachel feels better in the morning.
march 4, 2016
Marilyn took Kate Bradley skiing today. They had an absolute blast. Bug has become a pretty good skier. Marilyn and Bug had a great time together, the crowds were low and the conditions were good.
The kiddos did well in the school thing. Matthew tried hard, as he didn’t want to go through the consequence again when he rushed through his work and only did ½ of it. I knew Marilyn wasn’t getting back until 5:30 p.m. and felt no real hurry to get school done.
We finished right before Marilyn got back. During the day we took numerous hot tub and trampoline breaks.
The kids are playing great together. They jumped on the trampoline, laughed and hung out most of the day. The really laugh and play hard.
I was a bit worried as they left to ski because last week we learned of a 39 year-old man with five children that died skiing and a good friend who just ripped every ligament in her knee skiing. I thought “what are we going to do if Bug and/or Marilyn come back on crutches needing surgery. Praise God they came back fine!!
We were excited to hear the Chappells have decided to drive out to Yellowstone and join us for the last couple legs of our trip, Yellowstone and Mount Rushmore. Our girls are really excited to camp and hang with the Chappell girls.
It is an empty feeling knowing you are going to wake up and completely pack up everything out of a 6-bedroom house. I felt like we were moving and I had less than a day to pack and get out of here. However, it didn’t turn out that bad.
One more day in Flagstaff until we hit the road to drive through Utah and then on to Southern Colorado. We have loved Flagstaff. The people are great, it is a great town and there is a ton to do. We are very glad we chose to spend a month here.
The kiddos did well in the school thing. Matthew tried hard, as he didn’t want to go through the consequence again when he rushed through his work and only did ½ of it. I knew Marilyn wasn’t getting back until 5:30 p.m. and felt no real hurry to get school done.
We finished right before Marilyn got back. During the day we took numerous hot tub and trampoline breaks.
The kids are playing great together. They jumped on the trampoline, laughed and hung out most of the day. The really laugh and play hard.
I was a bit worried as they left to ski because last week we learned of a 39 year-old man with five children that died skiing and a good friend who just ripped every ligament in her knee skiing. I thought “what are we going to do if Bug and/or Marilyn come back on crutches needing surgery. Praise God they came back fine!!
We were excited to hear the Chappells have decided to drive out to Yellowstone and join us for the last couple legs of our trip, Yellowstone and Mount Rushmore. Our girls are really excited to camp and hang with the Chappell girls.
It is an empty feeling knowing you are going to wake up and completely pack up everything out of a 6-bedroom house. I felt like we were moving and I had less than a day to pack and get out of here. However, it didn’t turn out that bad.
One more day in Flagstaff until we hit the road to drive through Utah and then on to Southern Colorado. We have loved Flagstaff. The people are great, it is a great town and there is a ton to do. We are very glad we chose to spend a month here.
march 3, 2016
What a day! It started with Bug waking me up at 7:45 to go for a 30-minute run. I DID NOT feel like running, was cold and barely talked, but am glad I did it.
After the run, Bug and I got ready and drove to Tempe, Arizona (near Phoenix) to watch the Angels play the Athletics in a Spring Training game. It is great spending time with Bug. She is fun, happy, rolls with the punches and really enjoys life.
I took Matthew’s sharpie with us on the off-chance we might get an autograph opportunity. First, the stadium was awesome, quaint and set in front of a beautiful rock/mountain. Our tickets turned out to be on the front row and we were right near the Angels’ bench.
On the way in, I bought an Angels’ souvenir baseball and a program in case we needed something to get signed. The area along the field was packed with people all trying to get Mike Trout’s autograph.
The odds of getting his autograph seemed way low. The guy standing beside us was a former usher for the Angels for 6 years. Four years ago, he had purchased a Mike Trout watercolor painting and has been trying ever since to get it signed. We were committed to giving this man priority on the Trout pursuit.
Then, Trout came out and everyone went crazy. He signed a few autographs. Then, he saw Kate Bradley and came down to us, signed Bug’s ball and the man’s watercolor painting. I really believe Bug drew him to our area helping the man fulfill his hope. The guy (in his late 60’ies) told me as he waited that he felt like a kid. Then, after he got his picture signed, he was shaking and so EXCITED. We also helped him with the pen. Trout used (and kept) Bug’s sharpie. Trading a sharpie for a Trout autograph seemed like quite a good deal.
We had an amazing time at the game. It was a cool laid back atmosphere and we were so close to the players. It was my first Spring Training experience and I really enjoyed it.
We left the game early, as it was smokin’ hot at the game. As we were leaving, my car said it was 99 degrees. Plus, after the first four or five innings, the starters get taken out.
We did meet one cool man while buying concessions. He lives in Pasadena, CA but comes to Arizona and lives with his daughter and works concessions during spring training. What a cool retirement gig! He asked us a ton of questions and went on and on about Kate Bradley’s cross country. He even gave us his number before he left.
On the way home, Bug and I stopped and shopped for Rachel’s shoes and had a great time talking. It is VERY easy to be with BUG. She is so so much fun. I praise God and thank Marilyn for having an entire day with her.
After the run, Bug and I got ready and drove to Tempe, Arizona (near Phoenix) to watch the Angels play the Athletics in a Spring Training game. It is great spending time with Bug. She is fun, happy, rolls with the punches and really enjoys life.
I took Matthew’s sharpie with us on the off-chance we might get an autograph opportunity. First, the stadium was awesome, quaint and set in front of a beautiful rock/mountain. Our tickets turned out to be on the front row and we were right near the Angels’ bench.
On the way in, I bought an Angels’ souvenir baseball and a program in case we needed something to get signed. The area along the field was packed with people all trying to get Mike Trout’s autograph.
The odds of getting his autograph seemed way low. The guy standing beside us was a former usher for the Angels for 6 years. Four years ago, he had purchased a Mike Trout watercolor painting and has been trying ever since to get it signed. We were committed to giving this man priority on the Trout pursuit.
Then, Trout came out and everyone went crazy. He signed a few autographs. Then, he saw Kate Bradley and came down to us, signed Bug’s ball and the man’s watercolor painting. I really believe Bug drew him to our area helping the man fulfill his hope. The guy (in his late 60’ies) told me as he waited that he felt like a kid. Then, after he got his picture signed, he was shaking and so EXCITED. We also helped him with the pen. Trout used (and kept) Bug’s sharpie. Trading a sharpie for a Trout autograph seemed like quite a good deal.
We had an amazing time at the game. It was a cool laid back atmosphere and we were so close to the players. It was my first Spring Training experience and I really enjoyed it.
We left the game early, as it was smokin’ hot at the game. As we were leaving, my car said it was 99 degrees. Plus, after the first four or five innings, the starters get taken out.
We did meet one cool man while buying concessions. He lives in Pasadena, CA but comes to Arizona and lives with his daughter and works concessions during spring training. What a cool retirement gig! He asked us a ton of questions and went on and on about Kate Bradley’s cross country. He even gave us his number before he left.
On the way home, Bug and I stopped and shopped for Rachel’s shoes and had a great time talking. It is VERY easy to be with BUG. She is so so much fun. I praise God and thank Marilyn for having an entire day with her.
march 2, 2016
We got up and got ready to start another day of home-schooling. Abbers had a really good day of home-school. She ripped through several sections of math, remembering a lot from 5th grade.
We have learned Matthew can really rip through school, but needs some real supervision. When I helped him with home-school, he seemed to do very well and finish a little early. Then, Marilyn went through all the papers and learned (A) he did not do well; and (B) he did not do nearly all his sheets. He had a long day catching up.
Matthew and Rachel continue their strong newfound connection. Rachel is now sleeping in Matthew’s room. Plus, they are both sleeping in NBA jerseys each night. Rachel was relieved to hear Matthew is staying back and not going to Spring Training with Bug and I.
Marilyn ran some errands, came back and we went out on a date to Sedona. It was NICE to get out of the house. We went to Sedona and stopped at a store to get a recommendation on what hike to do. The guy was quite spiccoli-ish and said “Cathedral Rock” is great, with a few other choice words to describe it. He said we could do it but we would need to haul it. He was really nice and really funny.
We drove to the trailhead and wondered why a mile and a half hike could take three hours. Then, we embarked on the hike. It was largely straight up. I am not huge on heights and, at points, I was less than comfortable. I would just look up and climb as fast as I can to get to the next comfortable point.
When we got to the top, it was CRAZY amazing. Plus, the hike back down was amazing. It was one of the most amazing things we have done. I highly recommend Cathedral Rock.
After the hike, Marilyn and I had a great meal at an Italian Restaurant and got home around 10:00 p.m. The kids watched the movie “Everest” and hated it. They said, “we watched the entire movie and then, at the end, everyone died except one person… and he wasn’t even the main character… and he had his hands and nose amputated. IT WAS TERRIBLE.”
It was an amazing hike, a great meal and a great time with Marilyn.
We have learned Matthew can really rip through school, but needs some real supervision. When I helped him with home-school, he seemed to do very well and finish a little early. Then, Marilyn went through all the papers and learned (A) he did not do well; and (B) he did not do nearly all his sheets. He had a long day catching up.
Matthew and Rachel continue their strong newfound connection. Rachel is now sleeping in Matthew’s room. Plus, they are both sleeping in NBA jerseys each night. Rachel was relieved to hear Matthew is staying back and not going to Spring Training with Bug and I.
Marilyn ran some errands, came back and we went out on a date to Sedona. It was NICE to get out of the house. We went to Sedona and stopped at a store to get a recommendation on what hike to do. The guy was quite spiccoli-ish and said “Cathedral Rock” is great, with a few other choice words to describe it. He said we could do it but we would need to haul it. He was really nice and really funny.
We drove to the trailhead and wondered why a mile and a half hike could take three hours. Then, we embarked on the hike. It was largely straight up. I am not huge on heights and, at points, I was less than comfortable. I would just look up and climb as fast as I can to get to the next comfortable point.
When we got to the top, it was CRAZY amazing. Plus, the hike back down was amazing. It was one of the most amazing things we have done. I highly recommend Cathedral Rock.
After the hike, Marilyn and I had a great meal at an Italian Restaurant and got home around 10:00 p.m. The kids watched the movie “Everest” and hated it. They said, “we watched the entire movie and then, at the end, everyone died except one person… and he wasn’t even the main character… and he had his hands and nose amputated. IT WAS TERRIBLE.”
It was an amazing hike, a great meal and a great time with Marilyn.
March 1, 2016
Today was a recovery day for me. After two days without Marilyn, I was about out of patience. I felt out of sorts about all day.
In the morning, Marilyn, myself, Bug and Madeline were interviewed by Owensboro Living Magazine. I think they are doing a story on our family on owensboroliving.com. Telling them about the trip was a reminder to me of how amazing it has been seeing the country as a family and being together.
I need to keep reminding myself of what a gift this trip is. I will never have the opportunity to spend this much time with all of our kids together again. Marilyn, on the other hand, keeps saying this is the best gift ever.
Marilyn, seeing my need to flee, told me to leave and take a break. I did, drove around Northern Arizona University and ran some errands. I should’ve just chilled and had coffee, but my mind was racing and I succumbed to my racing mind – talking on the phone and running around.
By the evening, I felt tired and stressed --- that stressed feeling you can feel inside.
Marilyn was riding high. The hike into and out of the canyon was one of the most fun things Marilyn has ever done. Madeline loved it as well. Sidenote: the rental polls did get returned and we did not lose our $100 deposit.
Matthew’s NBA obsession continues. He was relieved to find out the UK game didn’t conflict with the NBA game.
School is going well for everyone – except Madeline had a bit of a tough day. Overall, the school experience has been very good. Daviess County High School has been amazing helping Bug and Madeline stay on track.
We are looking forward to possibly leading a marriage retreat in Seattle, Washington in May. There is a great Calvary Chapel Church where we have many good friends. We are really looking forward to getting to see everyone and, Lord willing, leading a marriage retreat for them.
The plan was to watch Everest as a family, but we all got tired and conked out early.
Only a few more days in Flagstaff before we move on to Utah and Colorado.
In the morning, Marilyn, myself, Bug and Madeline were interviewed by Owensboro Living Magazine. I think they are doing a story on our family on owensboroliving.com. Telling them about the trip was a reminder to me of how amazing it has been seeing the country as a family and being together.
I need to keep reminding myself of what a gift this trip is. I will never have the opportunity to spend this much time with all of our kids together again. Marilyn, on the other hand, keeps saying this is the best gift ever.
Marilyn, seeing my need to flee, told me to leave and take a break. I did, drove around Northern Arizona University and ran some errands. I should’ve just chilled and had coffee, but my mind was racing and I succumbed to my racing mind – talking on the phone and running around.
By the evening, I felt tired and stressed --- that stressed feeling you can feel inside.
Marilyn was riding high. The hike into and out of the canyon was one of the most fun things Marilyn has ever done. Madeline loved it as well. Sidenote: the rental polls did get returned and we did not lose our $100 deposit.
Matthew’s NBA obsession continues. He was relieved to find out the UK game didn’t conflict with the NBA game.
School is going well for everyone – except Madeline had a bit of a tough day. Overall, the school experience has been very good. Daviess County High School has been amazing helping Bug and Madeline stay on track.
We are looking forward to possibly leading a marriage retreat in Seattle, Washington in May. There is a great Calvary Chapel Church where we have many good friends. We are really looking forward to getting to see everyone and, Lord willing, leading a marriage retreat for them.
The plan was to watch Everest as a family, but we all got tired and conked out early.
Only a few more days in Flagstaff before we move on to Utah and Colorado.
Flagstaff is right on Route 66
february 29, 2016
It was full-speed all morning cooking sausage and waffles, cleaning and helping with home-school. It was all work until noon when we left to go get Marilyn and Madeline.
Marilyn called and we had a funny conversation. I had given her detailed instructions on how not to break the walking poles we had rented. Marilyn called and said “I have good news and bad news. I didn’t break the poles, but I did forget them and left them at the bottom of the canyon.” She thought it was funny and was laughing. I didn’t find the potential $100 loss so humorous. She did pay a worker $10 bucks to bring it out the next day and return it. She asked the worker “does this happen often?” He said “no.” I am hopeful the worker comes through and saves us our $100 deposit.
The experience flashed me back to when we were first married and Marilyn was keeping the checkbook. I’d ask her our balance and she say “we’re fine.” She’d say “last time I looked at our balance, we were good.” When I told her the importance of balancing the checkbook, she’d say “we have that overdraft protection.”
Well, we got in the car (after much difficulty) to go get Marilyn and Madeline. Our kids are great and VERY LOUD. It is crazy stressful at the rim of the canyon with Matthew and Abby. Horseplay is their middle name and horseplay looking down a mile into a canyon stresses the parent out – especially the parent who is not huge on heights.
Matthew is like a squirrel. He climbs trees, rocks and everything like the world is a big playground. Instruction not to do something is forgotten within moments as he sees something else that looks fun.
We saw Marilyn and Madeline and yelled down into the canyon so they could hear us. They came out and seemed fine. However, Marilyn’s hiking boots fell apart on the hike. She had to borrow string to tie the soles to the shoe. When she untied the string the sole fell completely off the shoe.
We did get a geo-cache on the way back to get our special geo leap day badge.
When we got home, Marilyn’s legs were so sore she could hardly walk. She literally looked like a 95 year old, hunched over and dragging her legs. She fell asleep at 8:15 and slept till almost 9:00 a.m.
I stayed up with the kids and watched game shows. Our kids have gotten into “Family Feud” and “Who Wants to Be a Millionaire.”
Matthew continues to try to “brotherize” Rachel. Rachel loves Matthew so much she made up an extra bed in her room so Matthew could sleep in her room with her. She told me “I want to watch the NBA instead of American Idol.” As I type, Matthew ran in the house and said “I know what I want for my birthday!!! CABLE!!!!” NBA availability has Matthew obsessed with it.
Marilyn loved the Grand Canyon hike such she said it was about the most fun thing she has ever done. She even ranked it ahead of hang-gliding.
Marilyn called and we had a funny conversation. I had given her detailed instructions on how not to break the walking poles we had rented. Marilyn called and said “I have good news and bad news. I didn’t break the poles, but I did forget them and left them at the bottom of the canyon.” She thought it was funny and was laughing. I didn’t find the potential $100 loss so humorous. She did pay a worker $10 bucks to bring it out the next day and return it. She asked the worker “does this happen often?” He said “no.” I am hopeful the worker comes through and saves us our $100 deposit.
The experience flashed me back to when we were first married and Marilyn was keeping the checkbook. I’d ask her our balance and she say “we’re fine.” She’d say “last time I looked at our balance, we were good.” When I told her the importance of balancing the checkbook, she’d say “we have that overdraft protection.”
Well, we got in the car (after much difficulty) to go get Marilyn and Madeline. Our kids are great and VERY LOUD. It is crazy stressful at the rim of the canyon with Matthew and Abby. Horseplay is their middle name and horseplay looking down a mile into a canyon stresses the parent out – especially the parent who is not huge on heights.
Matthew is like a squirrel. He climbs trees, rocks and everything like the world is a big playground. Instruction not to do something is forgotten within moments as he sees something else that looks fun.
We saw Marilyn and Madeline and yelled down into the canyon so they could hear us. They came out and seemed fine. However, Marilyn’s hiking boots fell apart on the hike. She had to borrow string to tie the soles to the shoe. When she untied the string the sole fell completely off the shoe.
We did get a geo-cache on the way back to get our special geo leap day badge.
When we got home, Marilyn’s legs were so sore she could hardly walk. She literally looked like a 95 year old, hunched over and dragging her legs. She fell asleep at 8:15 and slept till almost 9:00 a.m.
I stayed up with the kids and watched game shows. Our kids have gotten into “Family Feud” and “Who Wants to Be a Millionaire.”
Matthew continues to try to “brotherize” Rachel. Rachel loves Matthew so much she made up an extra bed in her room so Matthew could sleep in her room with her. She told me “I want to watch the NBA instead of American Idol.” As I type, Matthew ran in the house and said “I know what I want for my birthday!!! CABLE!!!!” NBA availability has Matthew obsessed with it.
Marilyn loved the Grand Canyon hike such she said it was about the most fun thing she has ever done. She even ranked it ahead of hang-gliding.
february 28, 2016
This morning started early getting Marilyn and Madeline ready to go to the Grand Canyon. I was a bit nervous leaving them for a 17-mile two-day hike. After we got them signed in, I felt a bit of worry and a lot of appreciation for Marilyn.
I did not realize how much this trip would draw our children closer together.
In the last week, Matthew has gone from the role of “intentional irritator” of Rachel to her best friend. Just a week ago, Matthew was making comments like “My Fat Pony” to upset Rachel who loves her “My Little Ponies.” Today, they switched jerseys and Matthew went with Durant and let Rachel be Curry.
Marilyn and Madeline are having a blast. I got one text from her. It just said “awesome.” While typing, Rachel came and showed me the NBA bag Matthew made her this morning for her cards.
I am very thankful for Marilyn! Dishes, breakfast, lunch, school are a bit more than I can handle. Within a day, my patience reserve is at zero.
I ran to the grocery (alone) to get dinner and run a few errands. Bug, Abbers, Matthew, myself and Rachel did have a good time, but it would be chaos here without Marilyn. Today, we hung out, ate frozen pizza and watched an episode of Flashpoint. I am not sure Flashpoint is the best kids’ show, but they all seemed to enjoy the episode.
Abbers decided to pepper me with deep questions about 10 p.m. She covered everything from suicide to marriage and divorce.
I did not realize how much this trip would draw our children closer together.
In the last week, Matthew has gone from the role of “intentional irritator” of Rachel to her best friend. Just a week ago, Matthew was making comments like “My Fat Pony” to upset Rachel who loves her “My Little Ponies.” Today, they switched jerseys and Matthew went with Durant and let Rachel be Curry.
Marilyn and Madeline are having a blast. I got one text from her. It just said “awesome.” While typing, Rachel came and showed me the NBA bag Matthew made her this morning for her cards.
I am very thankful for Marilyn! Dishes, breakfast, lunch, school are a bit more than I can handle. Within a day, my patience reserve is at zero.
I ran to the grocery (alone) to get dinner and run a few errands. Bug, Abbers, Matthew, myself and Rachel did have a good time, but it would be chaos here without Marilyn. Today, we hung out, ate frozen pizza and watched an episode of Flashpoint. I am not sure Flashpoint is the best kids’ show, but they all seemed to enjoy the episode.
Abbers decided to pepper me with deep questions about 10 p.m. She covered everything from suicide to marriage and divorce.
february 27, 2016
Kate Bradley just randomly asked me “are you excited about your 50th birthday? When it gets here I want you to tell me all about your colonoscopy.” Kids are random and encouraging.
Abby’ism of the day: “Eating healthy is not healthy for your budget.”
Bug had a funny moment on the slopes. After she fell a bunch on the way down and finally made it to the bottom of the hill, her instructor said “like do you do any physical activity, like ever?” Bug held back telling him she finished in the top 10 in state cross country.
Matthew told Marilyn “the closest thing I have to a brother is Rachel.” So, missing his buds, he is watching NBA and trading cards with her.
Today, the plan was to go the Lava Tube and hike. We polled the kids and none of them wanted to take the cool underground hike and every one of them wanted to stay around the place.
So, we ran errands, watched a terrible UK game, went for a run, played some basketball, ate dinner, and settled in for the night.
Tonight, Marilyn learned a fact about our kids. Before we left on the trip, they had been feeding our dog “Lucy” their cauliflower for a long time. They informed her that Lucy won’t eat anything green, but will readily take care of the cauliflower for them.
We watched RV as a family (minus Matthew and Rachel) and really enjoyed it. A lot of the sights they drove through are sights we have seen. I told the kids “see, it could’ve been worse.” However, they did liken me to Robin Williams in a number of scenes – especially the ones where he showed he lacked any practical skill. In the movie, Robin Williams told his wife “stop crying, that is cheating!”
During the movie, Matthew and Rachel watched the entire Thunder/Warriors game together (including overtime). Rachel is excited about the new NBA/Matthew connection. She spent the entire day in a Kevin Durant jersey and is sleeping in it now. I went back and forth between RV and the game. Stephen Curry is just crazy good.
Tonight, she actually asked me to buy her an NBA box to put her new cards in.
Well, tomorrow is the day Madeline and Marilyn hike to the bottom of the Grand Canyon. We have them well stocked with food, clothes and, at my insistence, pepper spray.
As I type, Matthew is trying to build Rachel an NBA bag. On the front, it says “NBA” with “Thunder” under it. Matthew is trying hard to recruit Rachel as an NBA companion.
Abby’ism of the day: “Eating healthy is not healthy for your budget.”
Bug had a funny moment on the slopes. After she fell a bunch on the way down and finally made it to the bottom of the hill, her instructor said “like do you do any physical activity, like ever?” Bug held back telling him she finished in the top 10 in state cross country.
Matthew told Marilyn “the closest thing I have to a brother is Rachel.” So, missing his buds, he is watching NBA and trading cards with her.
Today, the plan was to go the Lava Tube and hike. We polled the kids and none of them wanted to take the cool underground hike and every one of them wanted to stay around the place.
So, we ran errands, watched a terrible UK game, went for a run, played some basketball, ate dinner, and settled in for the night.
Tonight, Marilyn learned a fact about our kids. Before we left on the trip, they had been feeding our dog “Lucy” their cauliflower for a long time. They informed her that Lucy won’t eat anything green, but will readily take care of the cauliflower for them.
We watched RV as a family (minus Matthew and Rachel) and really enjoyed it. A lot of the sights they drove through are sights we have seen. I told the kids “see, it could’ve been worse.” However, they did liken me to Robin Williams in a number of scenes – especially the ones where he showed he lacked any practical skill. In the movie, Robin Williams told his wife “stop crying, that is cheating!”
During the movie, Matthew and Rachel watched the entire Thunder/Warriors game together (including overtime). Rachel is excited about the new NBA/Matthew connection. She spent the entire day in a Kevin Durant jersey and is sleeping in it now. I went back and forth between RV and the game. Stephen Curry is just crazy good.
Tonight, she actually asked me to buy her an NBA box to put her new cards in.
Well, tomorrow is the day Madeline and Marilyn hike to the bottom of the Grand Canyon. We have them well stocked with food, clothes and, at my insistence, pepper spray.
As I type, Matthew is trying to build Rachel an NBA bag. On the front, it says “NBA” with “Thunder” under it. Matthew is trying hard to recruit Rachel as an NBA companion.
february 26, 2016
Matthew is excited about our next stop, Dove Creek, Colorado, because we are allowed to shoot Prairie Dogs. Today, we went to a gun store to price scopes to assist in our Prairie Dog hunting. Evidently, Prairie Dogs are the Colorado version of Kentucky moles. The guy at the store was extremely nice and helpful. He suggested Matthew learn to shoot well before he got a scope.
We are going to a range next week to let him practice. Matthew bought small targets because he thought they were the size of a Prairie Dog.
Matthew has been obsessed with trying to kill the gopher in the front yard. The owner of the house encouraged us to get the gopher if we could. Matthew watched youtube videos (forwarded by Pa) and has all kind of strategies. We tried putting a hose in the ground trying to flush out the gopher and had the bee bee pistol ready to take the gopher out.
Another strategy we tried was putting a full milk jug of water over the hole and pouring the water over the hole. The video had the gopher crawling up in the milk jug and getting trapped. This did not turn out to be our experience.
Matthew and Rachel have gotten really tight the last couple of days. Matthew has recruited her as his NBA buddy. Last night, they planned and executed an NBA pajama party. Rachel and Matthew watched the Hawks/Bulls game together in our room. Rachel was for the Hawks – Matthew for the Bulls. Rachel told me this morning “my team won, but Matthew’s team would have won if they didn’t have so many injuries.” Now, Matthew has taught Rachel the 3 goggles and has her excited about watching another NBA game tonight.
Then, Matthew gave Rachel about 100 basketball cards so he could have someone to trade cards. I went upstairs and Matthew had a Curry jersey on and Rachel had the Durant on. Tomorrow, they are going to watch the Warriors/Thunder. They have agreed Rachel will be for the Warriors and Matthew for the Thunder.
Well, today Marilyn went skiing with Madeline, Bug and Abby. Madeline and Abby were in lessons most of the day and drastically improved. Bug skied the morning with Marilyn and the first part of the afternoon. Marilyn helped everyone the last hour. Overall, they all loved skiing, with each kid giving it an 8 plus on a 1-10 scale. Marilyn is excited as she wants our kids to like skiing – as she wouldn’t mind going skiing with her daughters as life marches on.
Two days of parenting without Marilyn sent me to the edge of the patience cliff. I told Marilyn we should just take twenty minutes in the hot tub. We went out and, about every 4 minutes, one of our kids came outside for something. It is as if they spy us to keep us from individual time.
We stayed up late watching Bridge of Spies. I loved the movie, Marilyn fell asleep after ten minutes and the kids hated it. They thought it was “slow, boring and a bunch of talking.” Really, it was an awesome movie based on a true story showing the importance of attorneys and our justice system.
Finally, the kids succumbed to their boredom and revolted with 45 minutes left in the movie. I got up the morning and watched the rest of it.
We are going to a range next week to let him practice. Matthew bought small targets because he thought they were the size of a Prairie Dog.
Matthew has been obsessed with trying to kill the gopher in the front yard. The owner of the house encouraged us to get the gopher if we could. Matthew watched youtube videos (forwarded by Pa) and has all kind of strategies. We tried putting a hose in the ground trying to flush out the gopher and had the bee bee pistol ready to take the gopher out.
Another strategy we tried was putting a full milk jug of water over the hole and pouring the water over the hole. The video had the gopher crawling up in the milk jug and getting trapped. This did not turn out to be our experience.
Matthew and Rachel have gotten really tight the last couple of days. Matthew has recruited her as his NBA buddy. Last night, they planned and executed an NBA pajama party. Rachel and Matthew watched the Hawks/Bulls game together in our room. Rachel was for the Hawks – Matthew for the Bulls. Rachel told me this morning “my team won, but Matthew’s team would have won if they didn’t have so many injuries.” Now, Matthew has taught Rachel the 3 goggles and has her excited about watching another NBA game tonight.
Then, Matthew gave Rachel about 100 basketball cards so he could have someone to trade cards. I went upstairs and Matthew had a Curry jersey on and Rachel had the Durant on. Tomorrow, they are going to watch the Warriors/Thunder. They have agreed Rachel will be for the Warriors and Matthew for the Thunder.
Well, today Marilyn went skiing with Madeline, Bug and Abby. Madeline and Abby were in lessons most of the day and drastically improved. Bug skied the morning with Marilyn and the first part of the afternoon. Marilyn helped everyone the last hour. Overall, they all loved skiing, with each kid giving it an 8 plus on a 1-10 scale. Marilyn is excited as she wants our kids to like skiing – as she wouldn’t mind going skiing with her daughters as life marches on.
Two days of parenting without Marilyn sent me to the edge of the patience cliff. I told Marilyn we should just take twenty minutes in the hot tub. We went out and, about every 4 minutes, one of our kids came outside for something. It is as if they spy us to keep us from individual time.
We stayed up late watching Bridge of Spies. I loved the movie, Marilyn fell asleep after ten minutes and the kids hated it. They thought it was “slow, boring and a bunch of talking.” Really, it was an awesome movie based on a true story showing the importance of attorneys and our justice system.
Finally, the kids succumbed to their boredom and revolted with 45 minutes left in the movie. I got up the morning and watched the rest of it.
february 25, 2016
Today, Marilyn took Kate Bradley for a day of skiing. I took on the headmaster/parenting role. I felt that everything went well until about 5 when I realized I had absolutely no patience left. My capacity to enjoy anything was stripped. Making breakfast, lunch and dinner on top of school and cleaning was like cumulative trauma. I felt fine during it, but the tasks coupled with kid conflict and teaching got the best of me.
Marilyn had a fun day with Kate Bradley. Bug resisted a lesson saying she didn’t need one. Marilyn forced her to take a lesson and Bug became quickly aware of her lesson need. She was signed up for the intermediate lesson and should’ve been signed up for the beginner. .
Bug spent a good part of the morning on her backside. She was exhausted and frustrated at lunch. However, then she got it and enjoyed the afternoon with Marilyn. Marilyn was so excited about Bug getting it that she bought a three-day pass for Bug. The other kids were ticked when they found out Bug skis three days compared to their one. They relented when they were reminded of some things they did that Bug didn’t.
Marilyn had rich conversation and a great time with Bug. One on one time is so good and so elusive.
I made the mistake of postponing doing Math with Abby until the evening. Abby and I both had less reserved and I did as bad a job at teaching as Abby did at Math. If the teacher and student were graded, we’d both have flunked. Finally, realizing the futility, I pulled the plug on Math with no real progress.
We did surprise Rachel with 6 My Little Pony stuffed animals. They were on mega-clearance at Cracker Barrel. Rachel has temporarily adopted me as her favorite. She asked me to put her to bed. Marilyn asked “why Dad?” She responded “Dad, got me my Little Ponies.” Then, in the morning Rachel came to our bed and crawled in my side to cuddle with me. The My Little Pony purchase has certainly bought some favor with Rachel.
By the way, the kids are still watching and enjoying barnyard!
Marilyn had a fun day with Kate Bradley. Bug resisted a lesson saying she didn’t need one. Marilyn forced her to take a lesson and Bug became quickly aware of her lesson need. She was signed up for the intermediate lesson and should’ve been signed up for the beginner. .
Bug spent a good part of the morning on her backside. She was exhausted and frustrated at lunch. However, then she got it and enjoyed the afternoon with Marilyn. Marilyn was so excited about Bug getting it that she bought a three-day pass for Bug. The other kids were ticked when they found out Bug skis three days compared to their one. They relented when they were reminded of some things they did that Bug didn’t.
Marilyn had rich conversation and a great time with Bug. One on one time is so good and so elusive.
I made the mistake of postponing doing Math with Abby until the evening. Abby and I both had less reserved and I did as bad a job at teaching as Abby did at Math. If the teacher and student were graded, we’d both have flunked. Finally, realizing the futility, I pulled the plug on Math with no real progress.
We did surprise Rachel with 6 My Little Pony stuffed animals. They were on mega-clearance at Cracker Barrel. Rachel has temporarily adopted me as her favorite. She asked me to put her to bed. Marilyn asked “why Dad?” She responded “Dad, got me my Little Ponies.” Then, in the morning Rachel came to our bed and crawled in my side to cuddle with me. The My Little Pony purchase has certainly bought some favor with Rachel.
By the way, the kids are still watching and enjoying barnyard!
february 24, 2016
I’ll start with our evening. We got home and the stress just poured on. First, Matthew started freaking out from the other room saying a piece of plastic “accidentally” dropped in his throat. He was screaming hysterically. As I have a major choke phobia, I enjoyed it even less than Marilyn. Then, Matthew tried to defend himself saying he wasn’t chewing on plastic, it just fell in his mouth into his throat. Rachel was upset about going to bed, I was doing 6th grade math with Abby(since we stopped a little early to go hiking at Sunset Volcano) and helping Kate Bradley with her vocabulary. It was like everything decided to happen at once. Now things have calmed, I still don’t feel calm.
Back to the daytime… The day started well. I had a good quite time and a few hours to write and think. Then, schooling set in. Teachers will sometimes say they had a great day at school and other days are a real drag. Yesterday fell into the great category and today fell into the real drag category. I took a break and went for a run with Madeline (5 miles) while Marilyn continued as Rhoads’ school headmaster. Then, Marilyn ran with Madeline for the next four miles, as Madeline had to run 9 today. As Marilyn ran, her frustration with one of our kiddos just got bigger and bigger. When she hit the door, she hit the roof. It was appropriate and intense.
Well, we finally finished school (not really, as we are still doing it now at 9:35 p.m.) and went to Sunset Crater Volcano. First, the chaos of school carried into the car. A three-way argument with all three talking at the same time broke out over where to sit in the van. This didn’t sit well with Marilyn and me who had about all we could take already.
Things did settle down as the kids watched the movie Barnyard for about the 6th time on this trip. They have become Barnyard junkies and even watched it again on our way back. The volcano was cool and we took a one-mile hike looking at volcanic remains, ditches and the volcano itself. After the volcano walk, we went to another national monument which featured various Indian ruins.
Abby was excited as she got two more National Monument coins and two more National Monument Junior Ranger badges. The Junior Ranger program is great, as it has forced Matthew and Abby to learn about the parks and monuments. Abby is now up to seven Junior Ranger badges.
When we got home, the plan was to settle in and watch “Bridge of Spies.” Needless to say, as the first paragraph indicated, this didn’t happen. Well, today wasn’t the day of the Cleaver family. I’ll spare the details, but the craziness kind of got to everyone today.
Back to the daytime… The day started well. I had a good quite time and a few hours to write and think. Then, schooling set in. Teachers will sometimes say they had a great day at school and other days are a real drag. Yesterday fell into the great category and today fell into the real drag category. I took a break and went for a run with Madeline (5 miles) while Marilyn continued as Rhoads’ school headmaster. Then, Marilyn ran with Madeline for the next four miles, as Madeline had to run 9 today. As Marilyn ran, her frustration with one of our kiddos just got bigger and bigger. When she hit the door, she hit the roof. It was appropriate and intense.
Well, we finally finished school (not really, as we are still doing it now at 9:35 p.m.) and went to Sunset Crater Volcano. First, the chaos of school carried into the car. A three-way argument with all three talking at the same time broke out over where to sit in the van. This didn’t sit well with Marilyn and me who had about all we could take already.
Things did settle down as the kids watched the movie Barnyard for about the 6th time on this trip. They have become Barnyard junkies and even watched it again on our way back. The volcano was cool and we took a one-mile hike looking at volcanic remains, ditches and the volcano itself. After the volcano walk, we went to another national monument which featured various Indian ruins.
Abby was excited as she got two more National Monument coins and two more National Monument Junior Ranger badges. The Junior Ranger program is great, as it has forced Matthew and Abby to learn about the parks and monuments. Abby is now up to seven Junior Ranger badges.
When we got home, the plan was to settle in and watch “Bridge of Spies.” Needless to say, as the first paragraph indicated, this didn’t happen. Well, today wasn’t the day of the Cleaver family. I’ll spare the details, but the craziness kind of got to everyone today.
february 23, 2016
The normal start to the day --- breakfast and homeschooling. Then, I took Rachel out to run some errands. It is hilarious walking through a store with Rachel. She will take FOREVER. She looks and comments on everything. She gives you a play by play on what is in the aisles and why she likes it or doesn’t like it. Then, every now and then, she finds what she believes to be a MUST HAVE.
After spending an hour (or more) in Wal-Mart, still not finding the make-up set reward for learning her letters, we went to Claire’s to look for the coveted kids’ make-up kit..
Rachel loved it. She said “now, I am ready for my girl party!” She also got a pink stuffed unicorn. I suggested she give it to Abbers, as she loves pink and unicorns. Rachel said, “but Dad I love it.” I tried to no avail to foster some generosity. She said “I’ll let Abby have it, but just not all the time.” She held tight to the unicorn saying “it is pink, dad.”
Once we got home, Rachel spent some serious time getting ready for the girl party. She decorated our room getting ready to include her sisters on the big party. The party included make-up and tea time.
After I got home from errands, we ate lunch and Marilyn and I watched the end of the movie “The Intern.” I loved the movie and actually learned a lot from it.
After running, I played basketball with Matthew, got ready and went out on a date with Marilyn. We had an awesome date at the Mall and then an authentic Indian restaurant. We came back and hung out while the kids all watched a movie. It was cool seeing four of our kiddos laying in the same bed watching a movie together (Rachel was asleep).
Marilyn’s cup is full. She is LOVING spending time with the family and seeing all kinds of cool stuff around this nation. Plus, we are very thankful for Heidi Campbell, the owner of the house we are renting. She has been amazingly hospitable, even spending time out of her day trying to get the internet back up for us yesterday.
One thing I have learned on this trip is to shop around for your prescriptions (as Todd Carter told me). Our monthly prescriptions were going to be about $165 per month. I shopped around and got the same exact thing for $51 per month.
Another great day --- Praise God!!!!!
After spending an hour (or more) in Wal-Mart, still not finding the make-up set reward for learning her letters, we went to Claire’s to look for the coveted kids’ make-up kit..
Rachel loved it. She said “now, I am ready for my girl party!” She also got a pink stuffed unicorn. I suggested she give it to Abbers, as she loves pink and unicorns. Rachel said, “but Dad I love it.” I tried to no avail to foster some generosity. She said “I’ll let Abby have it, but just not all the time.” She held tight to the unicorn saying “it is pink, dad.”
Once we got home, Rachel spent some serious time getting ready for the girl party. She decorated our room getting ready to include her sisters on the big party. The party included make-up and tea time.
After I got home from errands, we ate lunch and Marilyn and I watched the end of the movie “The Intern.” I loved the movie and actually learned a lot from it.
After running, I played basketball with Matthew, got ready and went out on a date with Marilyn. We had an awesome date at the Mall and then an authentic Indian restaurant. We came back and hung out while the kids all watched a movie. It was cool seeing four of our kiddos laying in the same bed watching a movie together (Rachel was asleep).
Marilyn’s cup is full. She is LOVING spending time with the family and seeing all kinds of cool stuff around this nation. Plus, we are very thankful for Heidi Campbell, the owner of the house we are renting. She has been amazingly hospitable, even spending time out of her day trying to get the internet back up for us yesterday.
One thing I have learned on this trip is to shop around for your prescriptions (as Todd Carter told me). Our monthly prescriptions were going to be about $165 per month. I shopped around and got the same exact thing for $51 per month.
Another great day --- Praise God!!!!!
february 22, 2016
Granna and Pa left this morning and they are missed already. As we have done a lot of touring the last four days, we decided to just stick around, get groceries, do schoolwork and play around the place today.
Rachel told Marilyn “I am glad you are going to be my teacher forever.” Marilyn quickly let her know that absent some clear call we don’t feel at this time, that was an untrue statement. We are doing fine with homeschool, have grown in appreciation for those who do it, but don’t necessarily feel called to it ourselves.
I helped Madeline with World Civ. Then, Marilyn left for a long grocery run with her. I was here by myself with the kids for about 2 ½ hours. I do a lot better when Marilyn is around. The longer I was here by myself, the lower the patience reserve seemed. We got less done and had more tension in home-schooling in Marilyn’s absence.
We did try a little fishing today. Matthew enjoyed it, but it was an unsuccessful effort. We froze, got hung up twice (cutting the line) and caught nothing. Still, it was Matthew’s favorite thing of the day and he’ll try again tomorrow.
I am learning home-schooling (and parenting in general) takes total focus. If I am focused on something else, things get to me as I am constantly distracted from what I am trying to do. If I focus fully on the kids, the kids do better and I do better as a parent. Yesterday, I made some phone calls and got some stuff done while trying to home-school. It definitely had a negative impact on them, and me. Don’t try to do too much at once. Do what is in front of you well and avoid the ambition to get home projects done while helping the kids with something.
Last night, Marilyn and I settled in to watch a movie. After 45 minutes, Kate Bradley walked in and said “you have totally checked out in parenting the last 45 minutes.” I said “exactly” and “we’d like to do it for another hour.” She laughed, didn’t let us off the hook and we put Rachel to bed. As usual, Rachel doled out the privilege of putting her to bed. She “allowed” me to read to her, but said “Mommy can sing to me.” She still absolutely believes putting her to bed is a privilege we argue about who gets to do.
Then, we watched “Martian” as a family. It was a great movie. After Matt Damon was rescued after a year and a half on Mars, Matthew said “I bet the first thing he does when he gets to earth is go to Golden Corral.”
Rachel told Marilyn “I am glad you are going to be my teacher forever.” Marilyn quickly let her know that absent some clear call we don’t feel at this time, that was an untrue statement. We are doing fine with homeschool, have grown in appreciation for those who do it, but don’t necessarily feel called to it ourselves.
I helped Madeline with World Civ. Then, Marilyn left for a long grocery run with her. I was here by myself with the kids for about 2 ½ hours. I do a lot better when Marilyn is around. The longer I was here by myself, the lower the patience reserve seemed. We got less done and had more tension in home-schooling in Marilyn’s absence.
We did try a little fishing today. Matthew enjoyed it, but it was an unsuccessful effort. We froze, got hung up twice (cutting the line) and caught nothing. Still, it was Matthew’s favorite thing of the day and he’ll try again tomorrow.
I am learning home-schooling (and parenting in general) takes total focus. If I am focused on something else, things get to me as I am constantly distracted from what I am trying to do. If I focus fully on the kids, the kids do better and I do better as a parent. Yesterday, I made some phone calls and got some stuff done while trying to home-school. It definitely had a negative impact on them, and me. Don’t try to do too much at once. Do what is in front of you well and avoid the ambition to get home projects done while helping the kids with something.
Last night, Marilyn and I settled in to watch a movie. After 45 minutes, Kate Bradley walked in and said “you have totally checked out in parenting the last 45 minutes.” I said “exactly” and “we’d like to do it for another hour.” She laughed, didn’t let us off the hook and we put Rachel to bed. As usual, Rachel doled out the privilege of putting her to bed. She “allowed” me to read to her, but said “Mommy can sing to me.” She still absolutely believes putting her to bed is a privilege we argue about who gets to do.
Then, we watched “Martian” as a family. It was a great movie. After Matt Damon was rescued after a year and a half on Mars, Matthew said “I bet the first thing he does when he gets to earth is go to Golden Corral.”
february 21, 2016
Sunday morning started out with the usual morning craziness trying to get everyone ready for church. Not liking what we have for breakfast, not liking what we have to wear and not wanting to get up were just some of the themes.
The trip to church was comical. First, I asked Marilyn to look up Flagstaff Community Church on MAPS on the phone. She did and, instead of taking us to church, took us to Flagstaff Mall – a good 15 minutes from Flagstaff Church. This was extra funny considering me and the kids had been laughing hard at how Marilyn cannot find anything correctly on the phone.
Now, we are too late for that church so we shift to Grace Community Church. I ask Marilyn to check the service times and she responds “that is not necessary. I know it starts at 10:30 or 10:45.” I say “what if it starts at 10?” She says “It doesn’t start at 10.” As we pulled up to Grace Community at 10:35, there were no other cars pulling up. Then, Kate Bradley checked the service time and, yes, it started at 10:00. OK: Now to the third option – Christ Community Church. It all worked out fine, as Christ Community started at 10:45 and we pulled up at 10:43.
We got to the church and there were blow-up sprinkle donuts hanging behind the pulpit and around the stage. It was interesting worshiping looking at blow-up colored donuts. Turns out the sermon series was called “Plastic Donuts” after a recent book on giving. Church was fine, but the worship and preaching was nothing like we are accustomed at PVCC. Again, a church visit makes us appreciate our church more.
After the service, Matthew was determined to go to the hospitality center to get whatever free stuff they were offering visitors. Madeline wanted to go because, considering the sermon title, she felt free donuts were a high likelihood. Instead, we got out and went to lunch at a place called the Fat Olive. It was an excellent treat by Granna and Pa.
After lunch, we headed out to the Meteor Crater. It is a massively deep hole about a mile around created by a 150-foot meteor that hit the earth at over 20,000 miles per hour. It is a pretty cool site and we all liked it pretty well. Other than the kids mega-stressing me out running around a gift store with tons of breakable stuff and “you break it, you bought it” signs, it was a fun stop.
After Meteor Crater we went to Walnut Canyon and went on about a mile hike part of the way into the canyon. Abbers and Matthew got their junior ranger badges and the kids stressed us out walking too close to the edge of the canyon. I don’t like the kids on high hikes much. Last night I dreamed that we climbed up a steep trail to the top of a mountain. Then, mega-stressed and not feeling I could handle the hike down, I called a helicopter service and they wanted to charge $500 to come get us down. I was too tight to pull that trigger and walked through a door and found a huge elevator. It took us down (too fast) and stressed me out as we got to the bottom.
After the cool sights of Walnut Canyon, we drove back, went for a family run, ate left-overs, played basketball and watched TV. The girls watched Downton Abby while the guys, plus Bug and Abby, watched an NBA game. As usual, Matthew had loud bursts as good plays were made.
Pa and Granna are leaving in the morning and we are going to miss them. They have been great and we wish they were staying longer. They are leaving at 5:00 a.m. tomorrow morning. Matthew told them, “I am not going to go to the bathroom before I go to bed so I’ll have to get up at 3 and see you before you leave.” Marilyn tubed that strategy and made him go.
Today, there was a lot of fun, laughter, bickering and excitement. We thank God for another great day here in Flagstaff!
The trip to church was comical. First, I asked Marilyn to look up Flagstaff Community Church on MAPS on the phone. She did and, instead of taking us to church, took us to Flagstaff Mall – a good 15 minutes from Flagstaff Church. This was extra funny considering me and the kids had been laughing hard at how Marilyn cannot find anything correctly on the phone.
Now, we are too late for that church so we shift to Grace Community Church. I ask Marilyn to check the service times and she responds “that is not necessary. I know it starts at 10:30 or 10:45.” I say “what if it starts at 10?” She says “It doesn’t start at 10.” As we pulled up to Grace Community at 10:35, there were no other cars pulling up. Then, Kate Bradley checked the service time and, yes, it started at 10:00. OK: Now to the third option – Christ Community Church. It all worked out fine, as Christ Community started at 10:45 and we pulled up at 10:43.
We got to the church and there were blow-up sprinkle donuts hanging behind the pulpit and around the stage. It was interesting worshiping looking at blow-up colored donuts. Turns out the sermon series was called “Plastic Donuts” after a recent book on giving. Church was fine, but the worship and preaching was nothing like we are accustomed at PVCC. Again, a church visit makes us appreciate our church more.
After the service, Matthew was determined to go to the hospitality center to get whatever free stuff they were offering visitors. Madeline wanted to go because, considering the sermon title, she felt free donuts were a high likelihood. Instead, we got out and went to lunch at a place called the Fat Olive. It was an excellent treat by Granna and Pa.
After lunch, we headed out to the Meteor Crater. It is a massively deep hole about a mile around created by a 150-foot meteor that hit the earth at over 20,000 miles per hour. It is a pretty cool site and we all liked it pretty well. Other than the kids mega-stressing me out running around a gift store with tons of breakable stuff and “you break it, you bought it” signs, it was a fun stop.
After Meteor Crater we went to Walnut Canyon and went on about a mile hike part of the way into the canyon. Abbers and Matthew got their junior ranger badges and the kids stressed us out walking too close to the edge of the canyon. I don’t like the kids on high hikes much. Last night I dreamed that we climbed up a steep trail to the top of a mountain. Then, mega-stressed and not feeling I could handle the hike down, I called a helicopter service and they wanted to charge $500 to come get us down. I was too tight to pull that trigger and walked through a door and found a huge elevator. It took us down (too fast) and stressed me out as we got to the bottom.
After the cool sights of Walnut Canyon, we drove back, went for a family run, ate left-overs, played basketball and watched TV. The girls watched Downton Abby while the guys, plus Bug and Abby, watched an NBA game. As usual, Matthew had loud bursts as good plays were made.
Pa and Granna are leaving in the morning and we are going to miss them. They have been great and we wish they were staying longer. They are leaving at 5:00 a.m. tomorrow morning. Matthew told them, “I am not going to go to the bathroom before I go to bed so I’ll have to get up at 3 and see you before you leave.” Marilyn tubed that strategy and made him go.
Today, there was a lot of fun, laughter, bickering and excitement. We thank God for another great day here in Flagstaff!
february 20, 2016
We started out with Sausage Egg McMuffins, getting ready and going to Out of Africa, an outdoor safari attraction. Matthew was getting ready to walk out the door and Marilyn said “Matthew, comb your hair, you look awful.” He responded, “It’s OK. I’ll just look like one of the animals.” We arrived, got tickets and headed out to see the animals.
The park was actually really cool. It started with feeding a giraffe. Kate Bradley and Abby put the celery between her teeth and the giraffe ate it out of their mouth. Then, we saw tons of animals – up close. Then, lunch, a tiger show and a tour of the huge snake exhibition. The tiger show was a bit weird. They had blow up toys that the tiger attacked and destroyed and dove in the water to annihilate. It is a job I’d pass on. I don’t know how they can trust the huge tiger won’t have one bad day and make it the worker’s last day.
Rachel became enamored with a small pink lemur souvenir at the gift shop. Of course, we payed $5.50 for a $.50 sent trinket to add to Rachel’s backpack. It is flat out hard for a dad to say no to daughters.
The kids really liked the park. After the animal tours, Granna, Pa, Kate Bradley, Marilyn, Rachel and Abby went to Jerome – an old ghost town. It had neat history and cool shops. Madeline and Matthew stayed back with me to go zip lining. They loved their first zip-lining experience. Matthew as light enough that he stopped in the middle several times and had to have a worker slide down the line to get him to the end. They did five zip line runs of a total of about a mile. Matthew clowned it up in the air. Madeline was pretty excited at how much she liked it.
A highlight of the day for me was learning what a great job Hardin Baptist Church did with the marriage coaching today. It is fun to work with enthusiastic, Christ-loving, theologically sound and family focused people.
We all had a great day and are loving having Granna and Pa with us.
The park was actually really cool. It started with feeding a giraffe. Kate Bradley and Abby put the celery between her teeth and the giraffe ate it out of their mouth. Then, we saw tons of animals – up close. Then, lunch, a tiger show and a tour of the huge snake exhibition. The tiger show was a bit weird. They had blow up toys that the tiger attacked and destroyed and dove in the water to annihilate. It is a job I’d pass on. I don’t know how they can trust the huge tiger won’t have one bad day and make it the worker’s last day.
Rachel became enamored with a small pink lemur souvenir at the gift shop. Of course, we payed $5.50 for a $.50 sent trinket to add to Rachel’s backpack. It is flat out hard for a dad to say no to daughters.
The kids really liked the park. After the animal tours, Granna, Pa, Kate Bradley, Marilyn, Rachel and Abby went to Jerome – an old ghost town. It had neat history and cool shops. Madeline and Matthew stayed back with me to go zip lining. They loved their first zip-lining experience. Matthew as light enough that he stopped in the middle several times and had to have a worker slide down the line to get him to the end. They did five zip line runs of a total of about a mile. Matthew clowned it up in the air. Madeline was pretty excited at how much she liked it.
A highlight of the day for me was learning what a great job Hardin Baptist Church did with the marriage coaching today. It is fun to work with enthusiastic, Christ-loving, theologically sound and family focused people.
We all had a great day and are loving having Granna and Pa with us.
february 19, 2016
The day started with going to drop of the car to get an airlift kit in the shocks in an attempt to avoid another trailer bending bottoming out episode. This was an expense we didn’t want, but would much prefer it over a break down on the side of the road in the middle of nowhere.
After dropping the car off we came back for some home-school. Abby got real ticked as she was the last one finished. I got to do the last subject with her today – Math. We got through it, but that is about it. There were few things Abby hated more today than mixed numbers and improper fractions.
After home-school, the kids got Granna to join us for a dip in the hottub. We had some good laughs hanging out with Granna and the kiddos. While we hung with Granna, Pa played basketball with Matthew and Madeline.
Then, we decided to go on a hike. The kids resisted more sight-seeing hard, but we took them anyway. We tried to find Lava Tube, but found the road was closed about 7 miles before the destination. Then, we found an alternate route that was way too long to consider. We ended up at site called “The Pit.”
It was really cool (and muddy and snowy). There was a small canyon full of large lava rocks. Matthew snapped out of his bad mood and enjoyed trying to get through snow that came up almost to his waist. Rachel was good the entire way through – being fascinated with lava rocks and claiming that she had found a “hot one.”
The pictures look like a great family time in beautiful sites. The reality was a TON of complaining by Abby and Kate Bradley and some enjoyment from Rachel and Matthew. While we were hiking, Matthew said “Kentucky has better Queso, but Arizona has better sites.” Matthew is much more impressed with Real Hacienda white cheese than the “more authentic” stuff here in Arizona. While we hiked, Mrs. Hudson took Madeline out shopping in the historic downtown.
After dinner we settled into a game of Balderdash before hanging out with Kate Bradley to watch “Water Boy.” Matthew provides the humor in Balderdash. During the game, the category was initials and the initials were AOC. Matthew’s answer was “An Old Killer.” Obviously, the home-school spelling isn’t going as well as we thought.
Flagstaff is a great place – about the size of Owensboro, amazingly nice people and beautiful country. .
After dropping the car off we came back for some home-school. Abby got real ticked as she was the last one finished. I got to do the last subject with her today – Math. We got through it, but that is about it. There were few things Abby hated more today than mixed numbers and improper fractions.
After home-school, the kids got Granna to join us for a dip in the hottub. We had some good laughs hanging out with Granna and the kiddos. While we hung with Granna, Pa played basketball with Matthew and Madeline.
Then, we decided to go on a hike. The kids resisted more sight-seeing hard, but we took them anyway. We tried to find Lava Tube, but found the road was closed about 7 miles before the destination. Then, we found an alternate route that was way too long to consider. We ended up at site called “The Pit.”
It was really cool (and muddy and snowy). There was a small canyon full of large lava rocks. Matthew snapped out of his bad mood and enjoyed trying to get through snow that came up almost to his waist. Rachel was good the entire way through – being fascinated with lava rocks and claiming that she had found a “hot one.”
The pictures look like a great family time in beautiful sites. The reality was a TON of complaining by Abby and Kate Bradley and some enjoyment from Rachel and Matthew. While we were hiking, Matthew said “Kentucky has better Queso, but Arizona has better sites.” Matthew is much more impressed with Real Hacienda white cheese than the “more authentic” stuff here in Arizona. While we hiked, Mrs. Hudson took Madeline out shopping in the historic downtown.
After dinner we settled into a game of Balderdash before hanging out with Kate Bradley to watch “Water Boy.” Matthew provides the humor in Balderdash. During the game, the category was initials and the initials were AOC. Matthew’s answer was “An Old Killer.” Obviously, the home-school spelling isn’t going as well as we thought.
Flagstaff is a great place – about the size of Owensboro, amazingly nice people and beautiful country. .
february 18, 2016
Marilyn and her parents went to the Grand Canyon while I stayed back to man the house and the home-school gig. Actually, it was not near as bad as I feared. The kids worked hard, as I employed a rewards system. If they worked hard, Chick FilA and Panda Express for lunch.
Madeline and Matthew LOVE Panda Express and Bug, Abby and Rachel love ChickFIla. Rachel is especially fond of “Chick FilA’s ketchup.”
The people of Flagstaff are very nice. I asked for help in WalMart and actually got it. The Walmart worker walked me over to what I was looking for, scanned the price and was nice. In Kentucky, if you ask where something is in Walmart (if you can find a worker), they say something like “it is back somewhere near sporting goods.”
It is definitely a test to spend an hour in Wal-Mart with Abby, Matthew and Rachel. I didn’t yell, but have a better understanding on how people show their backsides in parenting at Wal-Mart.
Granna, Pa and Marilyn loved the Grand Canyon, eating at a restaurant with a view and walking a four-mile hike along the rim of the canyon. It has been great having the Hudsons here and Marilyn had a great day with her parents.
Abby was THRILLED to receive a box of letters from her classmates. They were nice, long and creative letters. Heritage Christian School, the staff and the students are awesome.
When Marilyn and her parents got back, we took Rachel for a ride around the block on her bike while Matthew and Madeline played basketball. They spent most of their time trying to hit half court shots. It has been neat to watch Madeline and Matthew play a lot together. The trip has really been great for our kids and their relationships.
Later, Marilyn and I went on a date to downtown Flagstaff. It is a neat downtown. We found a cool Irish Pub with 50 cent wings and the UK game on television. It was great to get away and hang out with just Marilyn. I started out a little distant. Sometimes, I tend to just shut down emotionally for no discernable reason. I have to fight this and force myself to emotionally engage. It is sometimes easier for me to just go through the motions and try to do the things I am supposed to do. Thankfully, I was able to fight it and we ended up having a nice time.
Madeline and Matthew LOVE Panda Express and Bug, Abby and Rachel love ChickFIla. Rachel is especially fond of “Chick FilA’s ketchup.”
The people of Flagstaff are very nice. I asked for help in WalMart and actually got it. The Walmart worker walked me over to what I was looking for, scanned the price and was nice. In Kentucky, if you ask where something is in Walmart (if you can find a worker), they say something like “it is back somewhere near sporting goods.”
It is definitely a test to spend an hour in Wal-Mart with Abby, Matthew and Rachel. I didn’t yell, but have a better understanding on how people show their backsides in parenting at Wal-Mart.
Granna, Pa and Marilyn loved the Grand Canyon, eating at a restaurant with a view and walking a four-mile hike along the rim of the canyon. It has been great having the Hudsons here and Marilyn had a great day with her parents.
Abby was THRILLED to receive a box of letters from her classmates. They were nice, long and creative letters. Heritage Christian School, the staff and the students are awesome.
When Marilyn and her parents got back, we took Rachel for a ride around the block on her bike while Matthew and Madeline played basketball. They spent most of their time trying to hit half court shots. It has been neat to watch Madeline and Matthew play a lot together. The trip has really been great for our kids and their relationships.
Later, Marilyn and I went on a date to downtown Flagstaff. It is a neat downtown. We found a cool Irish Pub with 50 cent wings and the UK game on television. It was great to get away and hang out with just Marilyn. I started out a little distant. Sometimes, I tend to just shut down emotionally for no discernable reason. I have to fight this and force myself to emotionally engage. It is sometimes easier for me to just go through the motions and try to do the things I am supposed to do. Thankfully, I was able to fight it and we ended up having a nice time.
february 17, 2016
Kids really keep you more active. At 8:00 a.m. this morning Madeline said “Dad, it is time for us to run.” But for Madeline’s pushing, there was a ZERO chance I would run today – especially with it being in the 20’ies this morning. Kids are good for the work ethics of parents.
After the run, we loaded up and went to Sedona with Granna and Pa. The drive was awesome and it was nice to visit with Pa and catch up. We arrived at Slide Rock with Abby, Matthew and Kate Bradley juiced about braving the freezing waters and sliding over huge rocks. Madeline had picked out slide rock as a destination spot before we left for the trip.
We got to Slide Rock and the melt off from the mountains had the waters so high you couldn’t even see the rocks. Still, the kids begged to swim in it. With waterfalls near the slide, we decided to veto it and the kids were ticked. They went from loud and happy to pouty and subdued. They got in the car ticked with their dry bathing suits on.
I asked the guy in the gift shop if it is a good idea to swim in it now. He looked at me like I was crazy even asking the question and said “NO!”
After the beautiful views of Slide Rock, we headed out for Sedona for lunch. We had a great burger lunch in downtown Sedona and went through some shops. Rachel is hilarious in shops. She finds about 17 bracelets in each shop she likes. She ended up buying two – actually, Matthew bought her one of them.
Pa and Granna had given Matthew some money to spend and he quickly unloaded it on a new knife. He was juiced as Pa gave the purchase his approval.
After the views, food and shopping of Sedona, we took a scenic drive around the area. The drives are awesome. The adults loved it, but the kids got tired of the drive. Abby (who else) said “Can we quit looking at pretty stuff and do something fun!!” Then, she said “the two words of the day I do not want to hear again….. SCENIC VIEW!”
We stopped on our way back and had ice cream in Sedona, walked around and headed back home. It was great to spend the day with Granna and Pa. Marilyn loved Sedona so much she wants to go back at least once more for another entire day. My guess is our kids will want to stay back.
After we got back we cooked dinner and settled in to watch American Idol as a family. As we were watching some dude sing, Rachel said “he looks freaky.” Actually, she nailed it. If a five-year old says you look freaky, you probably look freaky.
After the run, we loaded up and went to Sedona with Granna and Pa. The drive was awesome and it was nice to visit with Pa and catch up. We arrived at Slide Rock with Abby, Matthew and Kate Bradley juiced about braving the freezing waters and sliding over huge rocks. Madeline had picked out slide rock as a destination spot before we left for the trip.
We got to Slide Rock and the melt off from the mountains had the waters so high you couldn’t even see the rocks. Still, the kids begged to swim in it. With waterfalls near the slide, we decided to veto it and the kids were ticked. They went from loud and happy to pouty and subdued. They got in the car ticked with their dry bathing suits on.
I asked the guy in the gift shop if it is a good idea to swim in it now. He looked at me like I was crazy even asking the question and said “NO!”
After the beautiful views of Slide Rock, we headed out for Sedona for lunch. We had a great burger lunch in downtown Sedona and went through some shops. Rachel is hilarious in shops. She finds about 17 bracelets in each shop she likes. She ended up buying two – actually, Matthew bought her one of them.
Pa and Granna had given Matthew some money to spend and he quickly unloaded it on a new knife. He was juiced as Pa gave the purchase his approval.
After the views, food and shopping of Sedona, we took a scenic drive around the area. The drives are awesome. The adults loved it, but the kids got tired of the drive. Abby (who else) said “Can we quit looking at pretty stuff and do something fun!!” Then, she said “the two words of the day I do not want to hear again….. SCENIC VIEW!”
We stopped on our way back and had ice cream in Sedona, walked around and headed back home. It was great to spend the day with Granna and Pa. Marilyn loved Sedona so much she wants to go back at least once more for another entire day. My guess is our kids will want to stay back.
After we got back we cooked dinner and settled in to watch American Idol as a family. As we were watching some dude sing, Rachel said “he looks freaky.” Actually, she nailed it. If a five-year old says you look freaky, you probably look freaky.
february 16, 2016
Big day for Rachel. She finished learning all her letters and letter sounds and now gets the make-up kit she found at Walmart and has been longing for. She has been working hard for the reward. She is very proud of herself. She really wanted to learn them before Granna arrived. She did it, as Granna and Pa get here in about an hour.
Today was a work day. We did home-school, paid bills, filled out some medical forms, got the car washed, got haircuts before Pa and Granna got here.
Marilyn and I did squeeze in a run together. Bug rode her bike by Madeline as she did her work-out. I was very grateful, as I got to skip the sprints and timed runs.
Matthew did well in home-school and helped me wash the car. Matthew wanted a mouthpiece so he could look like Stephen Curry. It was funny. He wore it as he got his haircut. He is very confident in his basketball and told Abby he was going to go to UK for one year because you have to before you go to the NBA. He said he plans on playing for the Pelicans.
We decided to play a joke on Granna and Pa. I shaved my beard and kept a bushy mustache. We are all going to tell them we like it and I am going to keep it. It looks bad, real bad.
This place is great. The kids can bike, there is a basketball court, a fishing pond, views of the mountain and all kinds of other cool stuff.
Today was a work day. We did home-school, paid bills, filled out some medical forms, got the car washed, got haircuts before Pa and Granna got here.
Marilyn and I did squeeze in a run together. Bug rode her bike by Madeline as she did her work-out. I was very grateful, as I got to skip the sprints and timed runs.
Matthew did well in home-school and helped me wash the car. Matthew wanted a mouthpiece so he could look like Stephen Curry. It was funny. He wore it as he got his haircut. He is very confident in his basketball and told Abby he was going to go to UK for one year because you have to before you go to the NBA. He said he plans on playing for the Pelicans.
We decided to play a joke on Granna and Pa. I shaved my beard and kept a bushy mustache. We are all going to tell them we like it and I am going to keep it. It looks bad, real bad.
This place is great. The kids can bike, there is a basketball court, a fishing pond, views of the mountain and all kinds of other cool stuff.
february 15, 2016
Today was pretty much a down day. We hung around the place and enjoyed the area. Rachel decided it was a good day for a picnic. So, we packed a lunch and went to the common area, ate PBJ’s and played on the playground. Madeline and Matthew came along and we played basketball as well. Rachel loves to play, jump and picnic. Each day she will ask me “Dad, today can you just play all day with me?” I tell her I will play with her but remind her we have 5 kids in the house.
Matthew loses every game of HORSE in basketball because he refuses to shoot normal shots. His shots are half court, behind the goal, behind the head and every other dumb shot you can think of. It is hard to get him to just practice his shot.
After lunch I went on an hour run with Madeline. It was fun just talking and running. Madeline is doing great – in school, in running and with the family. Kate Bradley continues to work her way back into a full running routine. Bug plays a lot with Rachel. She runs with her, jumps on the trampoline, rides bikes and gets in the hot tub.
In the evening, Marilyn watched the Grammy’s with the kids. I took Abby out on a date. We went to a cool organic Italian restaurant that serves a bunch of gluten/dairy free items. Abby got to experience Ranch dressing and loved it. She doused her pizza in it before every bite. It is the first Vegan Ranch we have found.
Then, we went to a Yogurt place and shopping. Abby was great. She talked the entire time. She thrives in one on one situations. We do a lot better together at dinner than doing Math.
Matthew loses every game of HORSE in basketball because he refuses to shoot normal shots. His shots are half court, behind the goal, behind the head and every other dumb shot you can think of. It is hard to get him to just practice his shot.
After lunch I went on an hour run with Madeline. It was fun just talking and running. Madeline is doing great – in school, in running and with the family. Kate Bradley continues to work her way back into a full running routine. Bug plays a lot with Rachel. She runs with her, jumps on the trampoline, rides bikes and gets in the hot tub.
In the evening, Marilyn watched the Grammy’s with the kids. I took Abby out on a date. We went to a cool organic Italian restaurant that serves a bunch of gluten/dairy free items. Abby got to experience Ranch dressing and loved it. She doused her pizza in it before every bite. It is the first Vegan Ranch we have found.
Then, we went to a Yogurt place and shopping. Abby was great. She talked the entire time. She thrives in one on one situations. We do a lot better together at dinner than doing Math.
february 14, 2016
It was a great Valentine’s Day. We started it with pancakes and Valentine’s gifts. Marilyn had a Valentine bag for all of us. The kids loved their gifts. Then, we went to church at a Calvary Chapel church in Flagstaff. It has been fun visiting other churches, but it has just made us appreciate PVCC more and more.
I was still pretty exhausted from the Canyon hike and my fuse felt shorter than usual. After church we went to a local Mexican restaurant before coming home. It was hard for me to fully enjoy lunch as I felt pretty edgy.
After church, I took Marilyn out. It was really nice spending about four hours without noise or conflict. It was a needed break from the fun at the house. Marilyn enjoyed walking around Ross and Marshall’s.
When we got home Marilyn went for a run with Madeline while I grilled T-bones. It was overall a very good day.
Recently, Rachel made a funny comment. Marilyn made a frozen pizza and Rachel said “Mom, this is great. It is the best meal you have ever made.” What a compliment!
At night, I watched the NBA All Star game with Matthew while Marilyn watched TV with the girls. Marilyn said the day was almost perfect. We really had a great day together.
I was still pretty exhausted from the Canyon hike and my fuse felt shorter than usual. After church we went to a local Mexican restaurant before coming home. It was hard for me to fully enjoy lunch as I felt pretty edgy.
After church, I took Marilyn out. It was really nice spending about four hours without noise or conflict. It was a needed break from the fun at the house. Marilyn enjoyed walking around Ross and Marshall’s.
When we got home Marilyn went for a run with Madeline while I grilled T-bones. It was overall a very good day.
Recently, Rachel made a funny comment. Marilyn made a frozen pizza and Rachel said “Mom, this is great. It is the best meal you have ever made.” What a compliment!
At night, I watched the NBA All Star game with Matthew while Marilyn watched TV with the girls. Marilyn said the day was almost perfect. We really had a great day together.
february 13, 2016
We woke up early, ate breakfast, filled up our water bottles and started our hike. It was a chilly and amazing start to the hike walking along the Colorado River. The Colorado River with a Grand Canyon back-drop is amazing.
The kids were amazing, didn’t complain about beef jerky and breakfast bars for breakfast. The first four miles of the hike were pretty uneventful, with the exceptions of the usual Abby/Matthew back and forth.
Then, we got to the half way point and the wheels started coming off a bit. Abby and Matthew looked crazy tired. We had a snack break around 11:30 and, within 15 minutes, Abby and Matthew wanted to take another break for lunch.
When we made it half way, there was a water refill station and a bathroom. The bathroom was about 50 feet away. Abby and Matthew both complained about the length of the walk to the bathroom. This obviously had me worried about the 4.6 miles up we still had to go.
We called Marilyn when we finally got service again. She was elated to hear from us and had been worrying for a full day.
After we left the half way point, it started poorly but improved quickly. Abby and Matthew caught a second win and hiked the rest of the way without complaining. Truthfully, I think they got too tired to fight. They just focused on taking the next step.
I let them turn on music on Kate Bradley’s i-phone and this was a healthy distraction from the fatigue. Matthew was actually dancing as he was walking.
Near the end of the hike I asked Abbers "how are you doing?" She said "bad!" I said "what hurts?" She said "my whole self!"
The backpack I was carrying seemed to gain weight each mile, but we did make it. The last two miles were the most difficult, as it was covered in ice. Fortunately, Marilyn had researched it and we had purchased tracks for our shoes that made it tolerable. We saw other hikers sliding around and saw one woman take a big fall on her backside.
One nice woman in her 60’ies was sliding everywhere and was on her way down. We gave her one of the tracks off our shoes and Matthew and I walked in with a track on one foot each. It wasn’t too bad for us, as we could get footing with the one solid shoe.
When we got to the top, I was exhausted and my legs were done. Over 17 miles in two days with three kids – two of the best days I have ever had. I noticed when we got back the kids wanted to shop at the gift store. I didn’t care what they bought or what they did, I just wanted to sit on the bench in the lobby. I had nothing left and they spent twenty minutes trying to find the coolest tee shirt.
Marilyn was great as we heard her, Rachel and Madeline yell for us as we came into view. They immediately took our packs and celebrated us making it out. Rachel was funny. As we walked out, she yelled “why is Abby carrying my backpack?!” Her excitement to see us was way overshadowed by her disdain for her backpack being hi-jacked.
We thank God for safety, the beauty of HIS creation, the wonderful family time and the nice people we met and got to know. I pray Marilyn has the same experience when she hikes to the bottom of the canyon in two weeks with Madeline. We had to go separately as eight is the age limit and someone needs to stay with Rachel.
The kids were amazing, didn’t complain about beef jerky and breakfast bars for breakfast. The first four miles of the hike were pretty uneventful, with the exceptions of the usual Abby/Matthew back and forth.
Then, we got to the half way point and the wheels started coming off a bit. Abby and Matthew looked crazy tired. We had a snack break around 11:30 and, within 15 minutes, Abby and Matthew wanted to take another break for lunch.
When we made it half way, there was a water refill station and a bathroom. The bathroom was about 50 feet away. Abby and Matthew both complained about the length of the walk to the bathroom. This obviously had me worried about the 4.6 miles up we still had to go.
We called Marilyn when we finally got service again. She was elated to hear from us and had been worrying for a full day.
After we left the half way point, it started poorly but improved quickly. Abby and Matthew caught a second win and hiked the rest of the way without complaining. Truthfully, I think they got too tired to fight. They just focused on taking the next step.
I let them turn on music on Kate Bradley’s i-phone and this was a healthy distraction from the fatigue. Matthew was actually dancing as he was walking.
Near the end of the hike I asked Abbers "how are you doing?" She said "bad!" I said "what hurts?" She said "my whole self!"
The backpack I was carrying seemed to gain weight each mile, but we did make it. The last two miles were the most difficult, as it was covered in ice. Fortunately, Marilyn had researched it and we had purchased tracks for our shoes that made it tolerable. We saw other hikers sliding around and saw one woman take a big fall on her backside.
One nice woman in her 60’ies was sliding everywhere and was on her way down. We gave her one of the tracks off our shoes and Matthew and I walked in with a track on one foot each. It wasn’t too bad for us, as we could get footing with the one solid shoe.
When we got to the top, I was exhausted and my legs were done. Over 17 miles in two days with three kids – two of the best days I have ever had. I noticed when we got back the kids wanted to shop at the gift store. I didn’t care what they bought or what they did, I just wanted to sit on the bench in the lobby. I had nothing left and they spent twenty minutes trying to find the coolest tee shirt.
Marilyn was great as we heard her, Rachel and Madeline yell for us as we came into view. They immediately took our packs and celebrated us making it out. Rachel was funny. As we walked out, she yelled “why is Abby carrying my backpack?!” Her excitement to see us was way overshadowed by her disdain for her backpack being hi-jacked.
We thank God for safety, the beauty of HIS creation, the wonderful family time and the nice people we met and got to know. I pray Marilyn has the same experience when she hikes to the bottom of the canyon in two weeks with Madeline. We had to go separately as eight is the age limit and someone needs to stay with Rachel.
february 12, 2016
We woke up early to start a very long day. We loaded up the van with backpacks, waters, 4 meals for four people and headed out to the Grand Canyon. I must admit I was a bit stressed thinking of hiking over 17 miles in two days and staying in a dorm with my 9, 11 and 15 year-olds.
My fears of the hike were exacerbated as we walked the ¼ mile road down to the trailhead. Half way to the trailhead, Matthew whines out “how much further?” I thought we are half way to a long trail to the bottom of the Grand Canyon and Matthew is already complaining.
The kids started out really well. First, we definitely needed the tracks/spikes we purchased for our boots, as there was a sheet of ice over the first mile (and last two miles) of the trail.
The kids were doing well until Abby had to go the bathroom. Somehow, while using the restroom on the side of the trail, Abby got pee on the front of her shirt. I have no idea how she did it. Then, Kate Bradley told me that Abby told her “I had to go when we were at the bathroom, but thought it’d be more fun to wait and pee on the side of the canyon.”
Then, Matthew and Kate Bradley joined in on giving Abby a hard time calling her shirt a pee-shirt instead of a tee-shirt.
The trail was absolutely amazing. It is a perpetual amazing overlook. The views in the Canyon are really indescribable and just crazy. The Canyon is bigger and more grand than I could’ve ever remembered. The views were so amazing that the kids were even in awe.
We ran into some amazing people on the hike down. The folks hiking down the canyon were amazingly nice and interesting.
Abby continued to humor us with comment after comment. First, knowing that Marilyn had packed Kate Bradley and I canned spaghetti, Abby saw mule poop and said “fresh out of the can – just like your spaghetti.”
Then, as Abby became exhausted, she said “I am praying for wings.” Also, as we neared the bottom, we saw a sign telling us how much further we had to walk. Visibly disappointed and upset, Abby got mad and slapped the sign.
On the way down the canyon, Matthew suddenly tripped and fell to the ground. It was as if gravity just yanked his face to the dust. He turned his head and Abby started laughing and said “I was making sure he wasn’t crying so I could start laughing.” Matthew was OK.
Matthew was OK and I did what Marilyn would’ve done. After I cleaned the wound on his elbow, the kids started laughing and calling me “FOMMY.” They said “you are having to father and mommy.” The called me FOMMY for the next two days.
We finally made it to the bottom and I (and the kids) were exhausted. We had lemonade at Phantom Ranch, got Abby and Matthew Junior Ranger badges, ate dinner, took showers, threw football (which got burst by a cactus) and went to bed early. Bug and Abby fell asleep at 7:30 – Matthew fell asleep 45 minutes later.
It was an amazing day, probably one of the best I have ever had. The beauty of God’s creation, hiking with my kids and meeting some amazing people.
My fears of the hike were exacerbated as we walked the ¼ mile road down to the trailhead. Half way to the trailhead, Matthew whines out “how much further?” I thought we are half way to a long trail to the bottom of the Grand Canyon and Matthew is already complaining.
The kids started out really well. First, we definitely needed the tracks/spikes we purchased for our boots, as there was a sheet of ice over the first mile (and last two miles) of the trail.
The kids were doing well until Abby had to go the bathroom. Somehow, while using the restroom on the side of the trail, Abby got pee on the front of her shirt. I have no idea how she did it. Then, Kate Bradley told me that Abby told her “I had to go when we were at the bathroom, but thought it’d be more fun to wait and pee on the side of the canyon.”
Then, Matthew and Kate Bradley joined in on giving Abby a hard time calling her shirt a pee-shirt instead of a tee-shirt.
The trail was absolutely amazing. It is a perpetual amazing overlook. The views in the Canyon are really indescribable and just crazy. The Canyon is bigger and more grand than I could’ve ever remembered. The views were so amazing that the kids were even in awe.
We ran into some amazing people on the hike down. The folks hiking down the canyon were amazingly nice and interesting.
Abby continued to humor us with comment after comment. First, knowing that Marilyn had packed Kate Bradley and I canned spaghetti, Abby saw mule poop and said “fresh out of the can – just like your spaghetti.”
Then, as Abby became exhausted, she said “I am praying for wings.” Also, as we neared the bottom, we saw a sign telling us how much further we had to walk. Visibly disappointed and upset, Abby got mad and slapped the sign.
On the way down the canyon, Matthew suddenly tripped and fell to the ground. It was as if gravity just yanked his face to the dust. He turned his head and Abby started laughing and said “I was making sure he wasn’t crying so I could start laughing.” Matthew was OK.
Matthew was OK and I did what Marilyn would’ve done. After I cleaned the wound on his elbow, the kids started laughing and calling me “FOMMY.” They said “you are having to father and mommy.” The called me FOMMY for the next two days.
We finally made it to the bottom and I (and the kids) were exhausted. We had lemonade at Phantom Ranch, got Abby and Matthew Junior Ranger badges, ate dinner, took showers, threw football (which got burst by a cactus) and went to bed early. Bug and Abby fell asleep at 7:30 – Matthew fell asleep 45 minutes later.
It was an amazing day, probably one of the best I have ever had. The beauty of God’s creation, hiking with my kids and meeting some amazing people.
february 11, 2016
We got to bed real late, as we didn’t get back from the NBA game until almost 12:30. Then, we slept in and started home-school. I’ll spare any details, but it wouldn’t make the home-school promo video.
Tomorrow we head to the Grand Canyon to hike over 17 miles in two days (7 miles down and 10 miles out) with Abby, Kate Bradley and Matthew. Marilyn started getting a bit concerned and started checking more into it. She learned that there is ice on the first 1-2 miles and we need special tracks on our boots to navigate it.
Then, we learned that the temperature will vary from the 20’ies to the 60’ies and we need to pack numerous types of clothes. Plus, we need to pack four meals for four people and carry everything down. Marilyn was a bit troubled that I was just going to throw some stuff in a bag and start the hike. After her research, I said, “I am glad you are here.” She looked at me and said “so am I!!!”
Rachel had a proud moment today. She ran 2 miles without stopping at about a 10 minute pace. She was so proud of herself and is full of confidence right now.
Tonight, Marilyn and I went for a run with Madeline, grilled Salmon, got in the hot tub and settled in to watch American Idol with the family.
Marilyn and I have been working the past two hours getting ready for tomorrow. Praise God we are experiencing record highs for our hike. Plus, it is a blessing that we got a dorm at Phantom Ranch at the bottom of the canyon. Usually, you have to book it a year in advance. We were blessed to take advantage of some last second cancellations. Marilyn is taking Madeline on the hike on the 28th of February.
Well, time to sack it down and get ready for a long day of hiking/parenting..
Tomorrow we head to the Grand Canyon to hike over 17 miles in two days (7 miles down and 10 miles out) with Abby, Kate Bradley and Matthew. Marilyn started getting a bit concerned and started checking more into it. She learned that there is ice on the first 1-2 miles and we need special tracks on our boots to navigate it.
Then, we learned that the temperature will vary from the 20’ies to the 60’ies and we need to pack numerous types of clothes. Plus, we need to pack four meals for four people and carry everything down. Marilyn was a bit troubled that I was just going to throw some stuff in a bag and start the hike. After her research, I said, “I am glad you are here.” She looked at me and said “so am I!!!”
Rachel had a proud moment today. She ran 2 miles without stopping at about a 10 minute pace. She was so proud of herself and is full of confidence right now.
Tonight, Marilyn and I went for a run with Madeline, grilled Salmon, got in the hot tub and settled in to watch American Idol with the family.
Marilyn and I have been working the past two hours getting ready for tomorrow. Praise God we are experiencing record highs for our hike. Plus, it is a blessing that we got a dorm at Phantom Ranch at the bottom of the canyon. Usually, you have to book it a year in advance. We were blessed to take advantage of some last second cancellations. Marilyn is taking Madeline on the hike on the 28th of February.
Well, time to sack it down and get ready for a long day of hiking/parenting..
february 10, 2016
After home-school, the kids enjoyed the house yesterday playing in the hot tub, jumping on the trampoline, coloring and playing on devices. I did a cross country work-out with Madeline. She is doing great and Kate Bradley has now been released to run and is following the running schedule provided to her by her physical therapist and coach.
At about 2:30, I left with Matthew to drive to Phoenix to see the Suns/Warriors game. On our way, we saw a guy crash his car with a trailer attached. The stuff from his trailer littered the road and we had to pull around a microwave to get by. Everyone was fine, but it did cause me to be thankful and concerned at the same time. Matthew, who saw the wreck as well, said “we probably shouldn’t tell mom about that.”
Listening to Matthew talk to Siri in the car is painful. He never googles anything, he tries to get Siri to answer him. He never gives Siri enough information. He wanted to learn about the Utah Jazz and just kept barking “jazz” into the i-pad. Needless to say, Siri told him more about music than basketball. It is funny. He doesn’t learn from his siri errors, he just keeps barking the same thing at her.
Matthew is an avid conversationalist. He talked and talked and talked in the car. He will say the most random things and disagree with you on about everything just to spark more talk.
We stopped on the way to buy new hiking boots for Matthew to replace the ones he lost in New Mexico and made it to the game safely. Matthew was determined to poach seats and sit very low. We did get into the lower arena, but got spotted by an usher, checked and sent to the upper deck.
Matthew was undeterred, being certain we could go to the other side of the arena and sneak by a less conscientious usher. The Warriors are quite a draw and only 6 lowers were even for sale on stubhub. Needless to say, Matthew wanted to poach down very low in the seat he thought was unsold for us. Having successfully gotten in the lower arena in our last three games has Matthew locked in on sitting as low as possible all the time. It is a game to him – get past the ushers and find low seats.
Finally, I shut down the poaching talk and we sat in our seats which were six rows up in the upper arena. We could see fine and Stephen Curry put on quite a show. He is amazing. It is clear why people flock to see him. He almost had a triple double in only three quarters.
Matthew was a little bummed at our unsuccessful attempt at lower seats and, after the game said “this is my first NBA game where I have not high-fived players.” His wounds were salved because it was $10 basketball night at the game and he came home with a big ugly Suns basketball.
Marilyn stayed back and hung with the older girls. The girls had a blast while we watched the game.
On the way home, we ate burgers, discussed the NBA and talked and talked.
This morning I got a chilling reminder to be thankful for Marilyn. The wife of Monty Williams, NBA coach, died in a car wreck yesterday. They have five kids, ages 5 – 17. We have five ages 5 – 16. I was quickly reminded not to take her for granted. We all need to pray for the Williams family.
At about 2:30, I left with Matthew to drive to Phoenix to see the Suns/Warriors game. On our way, we saw a guy crash his car with a trailer attached. The stuff from his trailer littered the road and we had to pull around a microwave to get by. Everyone was fine, but it did cause me to be thankful and concerned at the same time. Matthew, who saw the wreck as well, said “we probably shouldn’t tell mom about that.”
Listening to Matthew talk to Siri in the car is painful. He never googles anything, he tries to get Siri to answer him. He never gives Siri enough information. He wanted to learn about the Utah Jazz and just kept barking “jazz” into the i-pad. Needless to say, Siri told him more about music than basketball. It is funny. He doesn’t learn from his siri errors, he just keeps barking the same thing at her.
Matthew is an avid conversationalist. He talked and talked and talked in the car. He will say the most random things and disagree with you on about everything just to spark more talk.
We stopped on the way to buy new hiking boots for Matthew to replace the ones he lost in New Mexico and made it to the game safely. Matthew was determined to poach seats and sit very low. We did get into the lower arena, but got spotted by an usher, checked and sent to the upper deck.
Matthew was undeterred, being certain we could go to the other side of the arena and sneak by a less conscientious usher. The Warriors are quite a draw and only 6 lowers were even for sale on stubhub. Needless to say, Matthew wanted to poach down very low in the seat he thought was unsold for us. Having successfully gotten in the lower arena in our last three games has Matthew locked in on sitting as low as possible all the time. It is a game to him – get past the ushers and find low seats.
Finally, I shut down the poaching talk and we sat in our seats which were six rows up in the upper arena. We could see fine and Stephen Curry put on quite a show. He is amazing. It is clear why people flock to see him. He almost had a triple double in only three quarters.
Matthew was a little bummed at our unsuccessful attempt at lower seats and, after the game said “this is my first NBA game where I have not high-fived players.” His wounds were salved because it was $10 basketball night at the game and he came home with a big ugly Suns basketball.
Marilyn stayed back and hung with the older girls. The girls had a blast while we watched the game.
On the way home, we ate burgers, discussed the NBA and talked and talked.
This morning I got a chilling reminder to be thankful for Marilyn. The wife of Monty Williams, NBA coach, died in a car wreck yesterday. They have five kids, ages 5 – 17. We have five ages 5 – 16. I was quickly reminded not to take her for granted. We all need to pray for the Williams family.
february 9, 2016
It was a snow day at home so we decided to “take a day” here in Arizona. There are tons of amazing things to see here – Sedona, Prescott, Scottsdale, Phoenix, Canyons, Meteor Crater and tons of others. So, we gave the kids a choice of what to see and they unanimously decided ---- NOTHING. They wanted to go out to eat and hang at the place.
I am learning you cannot presume to know what brings joy and blesses a child the most. Sledding, Slide Rock and a ton of fun things to do and they chose riding bikes around the neighborhood and jumping on pogo sticks. I am learning loving isn’t doing what you think would blesses them – it is doing what blesses them the most.
All too often I presume I know what is best for others. Then, when they disagree, I try to convince them they don’t understand and would have a much better day doing what I think. Yes, there are many times we just step in and make the best decisions for our kids, but at times, we need to let them be kids and enjoy life like they want to enjoy life.
Yesterday, it was shoveling snow off a basketball court, playing basketball, the girls watching a Hallmark movie, jumping on the trampoline and getting in a hot tub. It turned out to be a great day for the kids.
A highlight of the day for the kids was eating out. Madeline and Matthew longed for some Panda Express and the rest of the kids were so ready for some Chick FilA. The restaurants were one minute apart and we accommodated everyone’s desires.
Madeline is doing a lot of driving now. I learned a lesson yesterday. If your 16 year-old daughter is driving and about to miss a turn, don’t yell “TURN! TURN!”, as she will likely have a wreck. We didn’t wreck, but got close. Then, Marilyn and Madeline expressed how bad I did and I just stayed silent. Madeline, shaking up from getting honked at, didn’t want to drive and was kind of down. So, I got frustrated, pulled over the car, and made her drive home. Madeline and I got over it and it worked out fine.
We did stop at a running store featured in Runner’s World magazine. Evidently, there are a ton of cool trails to run in this area. On March 5 there is a race around Meteor Crater. I think we are going to do it.
Last night, Marilyn and I got to go on a date. . We had a nice time and got back in time to see the newly famous Rob and Karen Pierce appear on Jimmy Kimmel. It was so cool seeing Rob in his favorite UK hat and Karen laughing on TV. We let the entire family (except Rachel) watch it. There was some confusion with Matthew about the show, as the content was beyond what we have taught him. I am sure he is wondering this morning what Rob and Karen really do 5 times per month.
I am learning you cannot presume to know what brings joy and blesses a child the most. Sledding, Slide Rock and a ton of fun things to do and they chose riding bikes around the neighborhood and jumping on pogo sticks. I am learning loving isn’t doing what you think would blesses them – it is doing what blesses them the most.
All too often I presume I know what is best for others. Then, when they disagree, I try to convince them they don’t understand and would have a much better day doing what I think. Yes, there are many times we just step in and make the best decisions for our kids, but at times, we need to let them be kids and enjoy life like they want to enjoy life.
Yesterday, it was shoveling snow off a basketball court, playing basketball, the girls watching a Hallmark movie, jumping on the trampoline and getting in a hot tub. It turned out to be a great day for the kids.
A highlight of the day for the kids was eating out. Madeline and Matthew longed for some Panda Express and the rest of the kids were so ready for some Chick FilA. The restaurants were one minute apart and we accommodated everyone’s desires.
Madeline is doing a lot of driving now. I learned a lesson yesterday. If your 16 year-old daughter is driving and about to miss a turn, don’t yell “TURN! TURN!”, as she will likely have a wreck. We didn’t wreck, but got close. Then, Marilyn and Madeline expressed how bad I did and I just stayed silent. Madeline, shaking up from getting honked at, didn’t want to drive and was kind of down. So, I got frustrated, pulled over the car, and made her drive home. Madeline and I got over it and it worked out fine.
We did stop at a running store featured in Runner’s World magazine. Evidently, there are a ton of cool trails to run in this area. On March 5 there is a race around Meteor Crater. I think we are going to do it.
Last night, Marilyn and I got to go on a date. . We had a nice time and got back in time to see the newly famous Rob and Karen Pierce appear on Jimmy Kimmel. It was so cool seeing Rob in his favorite UK hat and Karen laughing on TV. We let the entire family (except Rachel) watch it. There was some confusion with Matthew about the show, as the content was beyond what we have taught him. I am sure he is wondering this morning what Rob and Karen really do 5 times per month.
february 8, 2016
We took a much needed chill day today. The day started off with me going to the trailer repair store to try to get our trailer fixed. Good news! It only costs $40 to fix and was very fixable.
Then, I researched some air shocks to keep the back of the van riding higher to prevent any future issues. It was really nice being out alone running an errand.
I found my spirits dipping a little bit. I don’t know if it is from not feeling well or just from getting fatigued. We went from 85-degree weather to -16 in two days and have been in very close quarters for a long time. When I struggle, I get quiet for a time and then snap at people – a bad combo.
This morning, I had a quiet time, did some reading and am doing better. Doing stuff is a lot easier than pursuing relationship, but pursuing relationship is a lot more valuable than doing stuff.
The kids absolutely love our place. For the first time in their lives, Kate Bradley and Madeline have their own room for a month. They love it!
Matthew was very excited to see a basketball court in a common area and then quite bummed that it was all covered in about 12 inches of ice and snow. Now, we have much of it cleared so he can play. In fact, he found a friend next door to play some hoops with yesterday.
Marilyn has been great. She realizes this trip is quite an adjustment from my normal reality and has done everything she can to make it great on me. She has overlooked offenses and been extremely complimentary of me.
The family we are renting the home from is great. They are accommodating and have done everything possible to make our stay in Flagstaff great. We thank God He directed us to Heidi Campbell and this house.
february 7, 2016
We woke up in Gallup and had church in the hotel room watching a recommended sermon on the computer. The last two days have been a bit of a struggle. Being in very close company with seven in a van a lot over a short period wears on everyone.
Gallup turned out to be a pretty cool town. There are a ton of native Americans, gift stores and all kind of stuff. Abby made the politically incorrect statement of the day noting “I am disappointed that I haven’t seen anyone in an animal skin thong and a headdress.”
Before we left Gallup, we did find a geo-cache, a Gallup sticker and a Route 66 sticker. We actually drove a stretch of Hwy 66 for nostalgia and to further lengthen our trip. I’d think we’d have learned not to take as many detours – but I guess that is just the way we do it.
I noticed things started getting on my nerves more and my fuse was a bit shorter. We did manage to turn a 2 hour and 45 minute drive to a 5 and a half hour drive. We decided to drive through Petrified Forest and, of course, Abby needed to earn her Junior Ranger badge from her third national park. Actually, that is a good thing, as she does learn about the park to earn the badge.
The kids continued the Star Wars marathon and watched numbers 5 and 6 – number 4 mysteriously disappeared with our copy of Nacho Libre, which I believe we donated to Cypress Cottages in Wimberly, TX.
Well, we finally made it to Bellemont, AZ, a small town 12 miles outside of Flagstaff. We pulled up to our rental and it is awesome. The only catch, as we pulled up, we realized we had boogered up our trailer and cannot get it off the van. So, I found a trailer repair place and will be off to get it fixed tomorrow.
It looks like a trailer repair bill and some new shocks or air shocks are in my future. We are doin’ a little too much low-rid’in evidently. Seven people, a packed van and a huge full trailer is a lot to ask of a Honda Odyssey. We are already well over 5,000 miles into the deal and everything has gone well. One messed up hitch (bent) isn’t too bad considering all we have done. Gallup driveways for stores and the motel are designed to make trailers scrape pretty bad.
So, instead of watching the Super Bowl, I got compulsive about emptying the trailer so I could drive an empty trailer to the repair place. I did settle in and watch most of the second half. I found it interesting that Peyton Manning after the win said “I need to kiss my wife, hug my family, thank my God and drink a lot of Budweiser.” It seems like drinking a lot of Budweiser is the NFL’s new version of I’m going to Disneyworld.
The kids were elated at our place. They all have their own bedrooms. The timing is God-ordained. We are in need of some space. I love my kiddos and have fully enjoyed them, but having more room here is GREAT. Rachel is mega-pumped as she got the “ice-cream themed room”, a bedroom with a desk and a ice-cream theme.
Madeline and Kate Bradley went for a run in the neighborhood and it looks like we are going to have a great month here in Arizona.
Gallup turned out to be a pretty cool town. There are a ton of native Americans, gift stores and all kind of stuff. Abby made the politically incorrect statement of the day noting “I am disappointed that I haven’t seen anyone in an animal skin thong and a headdress.”
Before we left Gallup, we did find a geo-cache, a Gallup sticker and a Route 66 sticker. We actually drove a stretch of Hwy 66 for nostalgia and to further lengthen our trip. I’d think we’d have learned not to take as many detours – but I guess that is just the way we do it.
I noticed things started getting on my nerves more and my fuse was a bit shorter. We did manage to turn a 2 hour and 45 minute drive to a 5 and a half hour drive. We decided to drive through Petrified Forest and, of course, Abby needed to earn her Junior Ranger badge from her third national park. Actually, that is a good thing, as she does learn about the park to earn the badge.
The kids continued the Star Wars marathon and watched numbers 5 and 6 – number 4 mysteriously disappeared with our copy of Nacho Libre, which I believe we donated to Cypress Cottages in Wimberly, TX.
Well, we finally made it to Bellemont, AZ, a small town 12 miles outside of Flagstaff. We pulled up to our rental and it is awesome. The only catch, as we pulled up, we realized we had boogered up our trailer and cannot get it off the van. So, I found a trailer repair place and will be off to get it fixed tomorrow.
It looks like a trailer repair bill and some new shocks or air shocks are in my future. We are doin’ a little too much low-rid’in evidently. Seven people, a packed van and a huge full trailer is a lot to ask of a Honda Odyssey. We are already well over 5,000 miles into the deal and everything has gone well. One messed up hitch (bent) isn’t too bad considering all we have done. Gallup driveways for stores and the motel are designed to make trailers scrape pretty bad.
So, instead of watching the Super Bowl, I got compulsive about emptying the trailer so I could drive an empty trailer to the repair place. I did settle in and watch most of the second half. I found it interesting that Peyton Manning after the win said “I need to kiss my wife, hug my family, thank my God and drink a lot of Budweiser.” It seems like drinking a lot of Budweiser is the NFL’s new version of I’m going to Disneyworld.
The kids were elated at our place. They all have their own bedrooms. The timing is God-ordained. We are in need of some space. I love my kiddos and have fully enjoyed them, but having more room here is GREAT. Rachel is mega-pumped as she got the “ice-cream themed room”, a bedroom with a desk and a ice-cream theme.
Madeline and Kate Bradley went for a run in the neighborhood and it looks like we are going to have a great month here in Arizona.
february 6, 2016
The day started out early getting Madeline and Bug ready to take the ACT. I got them to the high school on time and my stress about missing a detail was relieved. The ACT monitoring is hard core. The girls decided not to take in their watches, as they were told “if it beeps once, you will be disqualified.” Obviously, the rules have tightened since the days of Derrick Rose.
This morning was just hard work. We cleaned Jeannie’s place, packed, fixed breakfast, packed our stuff, re-packed the trailer and packed part of the car.
A recurring theme of traveling with seven is we lose things. In the last three days, we have lost one shoe, a football, a calculator, a stack of postcards, an inhaler and a black North Face Jacket. So far, the football and calculator have been recovered. I am either going to remain stressed, dominated and compulsive or learn not to worry so much when I cannot find something.
Our kids, big Nacho LIbre fans, found it fun to see the “Our Lady of Guadalupe” Parrish.
Jeannie’s roof had a leak and the owner had to come get on the roof. Matthew was thrilled – he got his football back.
Rachel went to a ballet lesson with her cousin Pearl this morning and really enjoyed it.
We watched Jeannie’s kids today while she skied with a friend. Jeannie got back around 3:30 this afternoon with a bruised and somewhat peeled nose from a snow-boarding crash. Jeannie must be a bit of ski daredevil as she has already suffered a concussion (with a helmet) this season.
Taos is a cool and interesting place. There are amazing views everywhere. I went for an afternoon run with Madeline and noticed the amazing views.
This afternoon Marilyn took the girls to a really cool toy store. It has awesome play areas, free crafts and cool toys. The kids really enjoyed it.
We really enjoyed staying with Jeannie. It was a real treat to spend so much time with her and her girls.
Well, we are staying in Gallup, NM tonight before hauling it out to Flagstaff tomorrow. The goal is to get to Flagstaff in time to buy wings and watch the Super Bowl as a family.
This morning was just hard work. We cleaned Jeannie’s place, packed, fixed breakfast, packed our stuff, re-packed the trailer and packed part of the car.
A recurring theme of traveling with seven is we lose things. In the last three days, we have lost one shoe, a football, a calculator, a stack of postcards, an inhaler and a black North Face Jacket. So far, the football and calculator have been recovered. I am either going to remain stressed, dominated and compulsive or learn not to worry so much when I cannot find something.
Our kids, big Nacho LIbre fans, found it fun to see the “Our Lady of Guadalupe” Parrish.
Jeannie’s roof had a leak and the owner had to come get on the roof. Matthew was thrilled – he got his football back.
Rachel went to a ballet lesson with her cousin Pearl this morning and really enjoyed it.
We watched Jeannie’s kids today while she skied with a friend. Jeannie got back around 3:30 this afternoon with a bruised and somewhat peeled nose from a snow-boarding crash. Jeannie must be a bit of ski daredevil as she has already suffered a concussion (with a helmet) this season.
Taos is a cool and interesting place. There are amazing views everywhere. I went for an afternoon run with Madeline and noticed the amazing views.
This afternoon Marilyn took the girls to a really cool toy store. It has awesome play areas, free crafts and cool toys. The kids really enjoyed it.
We really enjoyed staying with Jeannie. It was a real treat to spend so much time with her and her girls.
Well, we are staying in Gallup, NM tonight before hauling it out to Flagstaff tomorrow. The goal is to get to Flagstaff in time to buy wings and watch the Super Bowl as a family.
february 5, 2016
A cold day in Taos. In the morning at the ski slopes yesterday it was reported at 17 below. I got up in the morning and took a couple of hours of prayer and alone time. I find this helps me do better when I am not alone.
Then, I took the girls to run on a track in cold weather. They are dedicated to the sport and their coach.
After the run, we got ready, ate a quick lunch and went to the slopes. Marilyn got to ski and I took all the kiddos, including Pearl and Adelade, tubing. The kids loved tubing and the worker would get them spinning real fast. Pearl and Rachel get along great, as do Adelade and Abby. Rachel was funny tubing. Rachel did not want to tube – at all – but watching Pearl do it necessitated her doing it. She would scream as she went down the hill. At the end of the day, she was very proud of herself, as she not only tubed, she did several runs by herself.
The kids were tired after tubing all afternoon and were upset we decided to go look at the Rio Grande Gorge. We put it in Maps wrong and ended up on two dirt roads and then a mega-rutted dirt road where we got stuck. Thankfully, we were able to back up and go forward until we finally moved forward and were able to get out. The kids were ticked at our fruitless 40 minute detour.
Marilyn had a funny experience skiing. She was sharing the lift with a gentleman. He asked about Marilyn and what we are doing. Then, Marilyn asked him what he did. He said “I am a ski bum and a candidate for President of the United States.” Marilyn didn’t know if it was a joke or what. He said “check me out.” Turns out he is a candidate for President (Libertarian) and was governor of New Mexico for 8 years. He boasts of getting New Mexico out of debt and vetoing over 700 spending bills from the legislature. His name is Gary Johnson.
Then, we came home, changed clothes and went out to eat at an authentic restaurant Mexican restaurant called Guadalupe. On a side note, the kids loved driving by the Guadalupe Mountains, as this is where Encarnacion is from on Nacho Libre.
Our family is a trail of lost things. This weekend we lost a hiking boot, a football (on Jeannie’s roof) and a calculator. Only the calculator was recovered. I am learning it is fruitless to get frustrated. Better to accept the loss than initiate another responsibility lecture and be tense for a day.
The girls are going to bed early, as they are taking the ACT tomorrow. I pray they sleep well and do their best.
Then, I took the girls to run on a track in cold weather. They are dedicated to the sport and their coach.
After the run, we got ready, ate a quick lunch and went to the slopes. Marilyn got to ski and I took all the kiddos, including Pearl and Adelade, tubing. The kids loved tubing and the worker would get them spinning real fast. Pearl and Rachel get along great, as do Adelade and Abby. Rachel was funny tubing. Rachel did not want to tube – at all – but watching Pearl do it necessitated her doing it. She would scream as she went down the hill. At the end of the day, she was very proud of herself, as she not only tubed, she did several runs by herself.
The kids were tired after tubing all afternoon and were upset we decided to go look at the Rio Grande Gorge. We put it in Maps wrong and ended up on two dirt roads and then a mega-rutted dirt road where we got stuck. Thankfully, we were able to back up and go forward until we finally moved forward and were able to get out. The kids were ticked at our fruitless 40 minute detour.
Marilyn had a funny experience skiing. She was sharing the lift with a gentleman. He asked about Marilyn and what we are doing. Then, Marilyn asked him what he did. He said “I am a ski bum and a candidate for President of the United States.” Marilyn didn’t know if it was a joke or what. He said “check me out.” Turns out he is a candidate for President (Libertarian) and was governor of New Mexico for 8 years. He boasts of getting New Mexico out of debt and vetoing over 700 spending bills from the legislature. His name is Gary Johnson.
Then, we came home, changed clothes and went out to eat at an authentic restaurant Mexican restaurant called Guadalupe. On a side note, the kids loved driving by the Guadalupe Mountains, as this is where Encarnacion is from on Nacho Libre.
Our family is a trail of lost things. This weekend we lost a hiking boot, a football (on Jeannie’s roof) and a calculator. Only the calculator was recovered. I am learning it is fruitless to get frustrated. Better to accept the loss than initiate another responsibility lecture and be tense for a day.
The girls are going to bed early, as they are taking the ACT tomorrow. I pray they sleep well and do their best.
FEBRUARY 4, 2016
I am still trying to learn to just chill, as there is always something happening and not always good. Last night, as we limped into Taos at about 40 mph going up a mountain with the trailer, the kids had to use the restroom. Matthew had taken his Merrill hiking boots off and put one right at the edge of the door (we presume). This morning, we realized that one of his nice hiking boots is likely in the Conoco parking lot or trash can in Espanola, NM.
Our first day in Taos…. We did homeschool, tried to get settled with the trailer, got all our clothes washed and then went out and played in the snow. Matthew decided to play target practice with his football trying to knock ice-cycles off the edge of the roof of the house. He didn’t process the likelihood of the football ending up on top of the flat roof… where it now rests.
Then, I joined in the lack of discretion by standing on top of a toter in 30 inches of snow trying to whack at the ball with a big snow shovel. I succeeded in hitting the ball, but only knocked it further back on the roof.
As we finally got everything settled we decided to go snow-sledding. The hill was great and well known for fun public sledding. The only downside --- there was 30 inches of fresh snow which was made for a long hike up the hill and a very very slow ride down. We did find one track that gave moderate speed – a speed fast enough to make Rachel scream and cry as she came down. Rachel is a lot of things – a daredevil she is not.
After some cold snow sledding, we took the scenic drive back to Taos. Taos has an amazing setting. Beautiful snow-capped mountains all around with green trees covered with snow.
Jeannie has been an amazing hostess and her girls are so cool. Pearl is a fun, cute little girl with a strong personality and is really a lot like Rachel. They both like things the way they like things. Adelade is gorgeous, talented and very smart. She is a great student and a great skier. She and Abby are having a great time visiting together. A great part of this trip has been connecting with cousins we don’t get to see very often.
Our first day in Taos…. We did homeschool, tried to get settled with the trailer, got all our clothes washed and then went out and played in the snow. Matthew decided to play target practice with his football trying to knock ice-cycles off the edge of the roof of the house. He didn’t process the likelihood of the football ending up on top of the flat roof… where it now rests.
Then, I joined in the lack of discretion by standing on top of a toter in 30 inches of snow trying to whack at the ball with a big snow shovel. I succeeded in hitting the ball, but only knocked it further back on the roof.
As we finally got everything settled we decided to go snow-sledding. The hill was great and well known for fun public sledding. The only downside --- there was 30 inches of fresh snow which was made for a long hike up the hill and a very very slow ride down. We did find one track that gave moderate speed – a speed fast enough to make Rachel scream and cry as she came down. Rachel is a lot of things – a daredevil she is not.
After some cold snow sledding, we took the scenic drive back to Taos. Taos has an amazing setting. Beautiful snow-capped mountains all around with green trees covered with snow.
Jeannie has been an amazing hostess and her girls are so cool. Pearl is a fun, cute little girl with a strong personality and is really a lot like Rachel. They both like things the way they like things. Adelade is gorgeous, talented and very smart. She is a great student and a great skier. She and Abby are having a great time visiting together. A great part of this trip has been connecting with cousins we don’t get to see very often.
february 3, 2016
We checked into a motel last night that looked worse on the outside than inside. The people were nice and the rooms were fine.
I did a little exploring with Rachel while the kids homeschooled. Roswell is known for a 1947 alleged UFO crash and is the home of the International UFO Museum and a bunch of alien-themed gift shops.
I asked the lady at one of the gift shops if she believed and… boy did she. She told me the 1947 crash was initially reported by the government as a UFO crash. Then, it was changed to a weather balloon crash. She said it took four semi-trucks with tarps over them to carry the debris from the crash. Further, it is alleged the coroner was called to get three child-sized caskets ready (presumably for the aliens). Then, it is alleged the doctor that examined the aliens died within days after the examination. The nurses were promptly transferred out of Roswell.
The male worker said the Secretary of Defense of the U.S. came to the scene and, within days, jumped off an 18 story building to his death. They truly believe it is a big cover-up. I told the lady we have some Big Foot believers in our area. She informed me some believe there is a connection between Big Foot and aliens.
The town of Roswell is full of alien statues and gift stores. Evidently, it is the hub of UFO/alien believers/enthusiasts around the country to visit.
Abby said “The first history I have enjoyed this trip is the alien history.”
There was a funny Rachel story. We were in an alien gift store listening to the lady tell us about her belief. Rachel looked at me and said “Are there monsters here?” The lady heard Rachel and said “No, we don’t have monsters, we believe in aliens.” You talk about one confused five-year old.
We took a bunch of pictures and all put on UK stuff so Big Blue Nation could invade Alien Nation. We sent them to Rob Pierce for him to try to get us on KSR, as Roswell was the subject of about an hour of one of last week’s podcast .We got to Jeannie's(my cousin) around 7:45 p.m. She was great and had beef stew (gluten/dairy free) waiting for all of us. She is an amazing hostess and our kids are doing great together.
I did a little exploring with Rachel while the kids homeschooled. Roswell is known for a 1947 alleged UFO crash and is the home of the International UFO Museum and a bunch of alien-themed gift shops.
I asked the lady at one of the gift shops if she believed and… boy did she. She told me the 1947 crash was initially reported by the government as a UFO crash. Then, it was changed to a weather balloon crash. She said it took four semi-trucks with tarps over them to carry the debris from the crash. Further, it is alleged the coroner was called to get three child-sized caskets ready (presumably for the aliens). Then, it is alleged the doctor that examined the aliens died within days after the examination. The nurses were promptly transferred out of Roswell.
The male worker said the Secretary of Defense of the U.S. came to the scene and, within days, jumped off an 18 story building to his death. They truly believe it is a big cover-up. I told the lady we have some Big Foot believers in our area. She informed me some believe there is a connection between Big Foot and aliens.
The town of Roswell is full of alien statues and gift stores. Evidently, it is the hub of UFO/alien believers/enthusiasts around the country to visit.
Abby said “The first history I have enjoyed this trip is the alien history.”
There was a funny Rachel story. We were in an alien gift store listening to the lady tell us about her belief. Rachel looked at me and said “Are there monsters here?” The lady heard Rachel and said “No, we don’t have monsters, we believe in aliens.” You talk about one confused five-year old.
We took a bunch of pictures and all put on UK stuff so Big Blue Nation could invade Alien Nation. We sent them to Rob Pierce for him to try to get us on KSR, as Roswell was the subject of about an hour of one of last week’s podcast .We got to Jeannie's(my cousin) around 7:45 p.m. She was great and had beef stew (gluten/dairy free) waiting for all of us. She is an amazing hostess and our kids are doing great together.
february 2, 2016
We got up about 6:30 and hit the ground running (and hard). We worked frantically packing, loading, cleaning, eating breakfast, homeschooling and hooking up the trailer. The kids were tired and grouchy and so were we. We were exhausted before the day started.
Then, as we got ready to drive off, the kids remembered they wanted to video an Uncle Rico scene from Napoleon Dynamite. The setting was perfect. So, right before we left, I got out of the car and starred as Uncle Rico in front of our next door neighbor’s trailer.
Well, off to Carlsbad Caverns, a 3 ½ hour drive for normal people (5 for us). It was one desolate drive. When we left, we drove 2 hours and 7 minutes without seeing one store or gas station and only one house. When people say West Texas is desolate – they mean it.
Thirty minutes into the drive, Madeline and Abby somehow managed to pull something out of the back of the van and whack the back of Matthew’s head. He exploded crying. Then, we felt the back of his head and it was huge knot. Never a dull moment, in the car and out of it.
We took a picture of everyone in front of the New Mexico sign. The kids thought the humble nature of the sign was funny.
The kids were so ticked, as they were hungry and no restaurant could be found. Kate Bradley searched the internet for the nearest Zaxby’s and it was 6 hours and 56 minutes away. The nearest Chick-Fil-A was almost four hours away. Madeline said “when are we going to be in a normal place, with like exits and stuff.” We ended up eating at the grille at Carlsbad National Park and it was bad. It was like cafeteria food, but not as good and more expensive.
We got to Carlsbad Caverns in time to go to the bottom. The bad news: The Park Ranger informed us that going to the bottom is the equivalent of going to the top of an 80 story building -- and the elevator was broken. We couldn’t take the wimpy route and bail – so we all got our tickets and started the long walk down. It is a harder walk down when you know you have to walk it back up. Knowing we could have some serious Rachel issues on the way up, I promised her a toy if she finished the entire hike (about 4-5 miles) without complaining or getting tired and needing to be carried.
Rachel did amazing! She drifted back a bit and told Madeline “I am really tired, but don’t tell dad because I want to get my toy.” At the end, she ran ahead and said “I finished first!” Well, now she is coloring on her new frozen coloring book as we speak.
Rachel, Mathew and Abby filled out their Junior Ranger books and got their Carlsbad Junior Ranger badges.
The Caverns were amazing and majestic. There is a room 80 stories down that is 600,000 square feet. The rock formations are crazy cool!
After we got out of the caverns, we were all tired and ready for dinner. The kids found a Wendy’s and were crazy excited about it. They literally sang for about ten minutes about it. While they ate, I got Rachel her toy
Now, we are back in the car on our way to Roswell, NM, the home of the alleged UFO sighting of 1947. It should be a cool obnoxious tourist attraction. I envision a lot of people wearing John Deere hats and overalls being fascinated with UFO’s. I bet we get the west coast version of our bigfoot fans.
Our kids are great travelers. They enjoy the sights and make the best out of everything. They all loved Carlsbad and were very glad we did it. At first, Marilyn was hesitant to take the 80 story walk down and the kids were upset that Marilyn even had a hesitation.
Then, as we got ready to drive off, the kids remembered they wanted to video an Uncle Rico scene from Napoleon Dynamite. The setting was perfect. So, right before we left, I got out of the car and starred as Uncle Rico in front of our next door neighbor’s trailer.
Well, off to Carlsbad Caverns, a 3 ½ hour drive for normal people (5 for us). It was one desolate drive. When we left, we drove 2 hours and 7 minutes without seeing one store or gas station and only one house. When people say West Texas is desolate – they mean it.
Thirty minutes into the drive, Madeline and Abby somehow managed to pull something out of the back of the van and whack the back of Matthew’s head. He exploded crying. Then, we felt the back of his head and it was huge knot. Never a dull moment, in the car and out of it.
We took a picture of everyone in front of the New Mexico sign. The kids thought the humble nature of the sign was funny.
The kids were so ticked, as they were hungry and no restaurant could be found. Kate Bradley searched the internet for the nearest Zaxby’s and it was 6 hours and 56 minutes away. The nearest Chick-Fil-A was almost four hours away. Madeline said “when are we going to be in a normal place, with like exits and stuff.” We ended up eating at the grille at Carlsbad National Park and it was bad. It was like cafeteria food, but not as good and more expensive.
We got to Carlsbad Caverns in time to go to the bottom. The bad news: The Park Ranger informed us that going to the bottom is the equivalent of going to the top of an 80 story building -- and the elevator was broken. We couldn’t take the wimpy route and bail – so we all got our tickets and started the long walk down. It is a harder walk down when you know you have to walk it back up. Knowing we could have some serious Rachel issues on the way up, I promised her a toy if she finished the entire hike (about 4-5 miles) without complaining or getting tired and needing to be carried.
Rachel did amazing! She drifted back a bit and told Madeline “I am really tired, but don’t tell dad because I want to get my toy.” At the end, she ran ahead and said “I finished first!” Well, now she is coloring on her new frozen coloring book as we speak.
Rachel, Mathew and Abby filled out their Junior Ranger books and got their Carlsbad Junior Ranger badges.
The Caverns were amazing and majestic. There is a room 80 stories down that is 600,000 square feet. The rock formations are crazy cool!
After we got out of the caverns, we were all tired and ready for dinner. The kids found a Wendy’s and were crazy excited about it. They literally sang for about ten minutes about it. While they ate, I got Rachel her toy
Now, we are back in the car on our way to Roswell, NM, the home of the alleged UFO sighting of 1947. It should be a cool obnoxious tourist attraction. I envision a lot of people wearing John Deere hats and overalls being fascinated with UFO’s. I bet we get the west coast version of our bigfoot fans.
Our kids are great travelers. They enjoy the sights and make the best out of everything. They all loved Carlsbad and were very glad we did it. At first, Marilyn was hesitant to take the 80 story walk down and the kids were upset that Marilyn even had a hesitation.
February 1, 2016
Rachel saw me reading a book (which she thought was the Bible). She said “Dad, you can quit reading the Bible, you are a great daddy and don’t need to get any gooder.” Sweet! I explained to her that I read not to get “gooder” but to be reminded of Christ’s great love for me!
Marilyn was teaching Rachel about God. She said “look, God created all of this. He created everything and every person differently.” Rachel said “Mom, you know I look like Sarah Kate.”
I overheard a funny conversation between Madeline (age 16) and Abby (age 11). Abby said “Madeline, mom thinks you are more mature than me. Can you tell her that I should be able to shave my own legs?” If we let Abby shave her own legs, a razer would be akin to a weed-eater. Abby is a lot of things – cautious and focused she is not.
I love how Matthew wants to be with me and do what I do. He wanted to start the grill with me tonight and said “when we get to the next place, can we grill again, dad?”
Today was a rest day. Homeschool, details, packing, going for a run and playing was the agenda of the day. I took Rachel to Alpine to get our oil changed and to get some groceries. We ate a restaurant called Magoo’s. The guy has two businesses – a restaurant and a bail bonding service. The poster advertisement is split promoting both businesses.
A funny moment in Alpine. I asked the worker at the oil change place if there was a store in Alpine where Rachel and I could shop. He asked “what kind of store?” I said “like a Target.” He started laughing and said “we do have a Family Dollar.”
When Rachel and I got back we hung out and then I went for a run with Madeline. It was a brutal work-out. Two mile run, three separate timed 1k’s, three more timed runs of 4 minutes and then sprints. I am tired and sore.
Then, we grilled out, ate dinner, had 30 minutes of quiet time and now (at 9:00 p.m.) we are finally starting to pack.
It is going to be a long night and an even longer morning, as we need to have the trailer packed and be out of here by 7:30 a.m.
Hopefully the wind will die down. I bet it was blowing 35 mph today. I dread pulling the trailer if the wind is howling like it is today. It was blowing up so much dust it looked like fog outside. However, the dust settled and the sunset was absolutely amazing over the mountains.
Marilyn was teaching Rachel about God. She said “look, God created all of this. He created everything and every person differently.” Rachel said “Mom, you know I look like Sarah Kate.”
I overheard a funny conversation between Madeline (age 16) and Abby (age 11). Abby said “Madeline, mom thinks you are more mature than me. Can you tell her that I should be able to shave my own legs?” If we let Abby shave her own legs, a razer would be akin to a weed-eater. Abby is a lot of things – cautious and focused she is not.
I love how Matthew wants to be with me and do what I do. He wanted to start the grill with me tonight and said “when we get to the next place, can we grill again, dad?”
Today was a rest day. Homeschool, details, packing, going for a run and playing was the agenda of the day. I took Rachel to Alpine to get our oil changed and to get some groceries. We ate a restaurant called Magoo’s. The guy has two businesses – a restaurant and a bail bonding service. The poster advertisement is split promoting both businesses.
A funny moment in Alpine. I asked the worker at the oil change place if there was a store in Alpine where Rachel and I could shop. He asked “what kind of store?” I said “like a Target.” He started laughing and said “we do have a Family Dollar.”
When Rachel and I got back we hung out and then I went for a run with Madeline. It was a brutal work-out. Two mile run, three separate timed 1k’s, three more timed runs of 4 minutes and then sprints. I am tired and sore.
Then, we grilled out, ate dinner, had 30 minutes of quiet time and now (at 9:00 p.m.) we are finally starting to pack.
It is going to be a long night and an even longer morning, as we need to have the trailer packed and be out of here by 7:30 a.m.
Hopefully the wind will die down. I bet it was blowing 35 mph today. I dread pulling the trailer if the wind is howling like it is today. It was blowing up so much dust it looked like fog outside. However, the dust settled and the sunset was absolutely amazing over the mountains.
january 31, 2016
We got off to a slow start yesterday. The plan was to drive a scenic route from Terlingua to Persidio, a full day trip if you include the overlooks. Well, first we stopped at the Visitor’s Center for Abby and Matthew to get their Junior Ranger badge. They got their badges, but knew virtually zero of the answers to the questions. Kate Bradley did the heavy lifting on filling out the book to be eligible.
Then, we saw “Boquillas Crossing” was only 20 miles away. We decided it’d be fun for our kids to go to Mexico. So, we took a detour to see a new country. It was really cool. You pay to take a boat across the Rio Grande. They call it a ferry, but it is a v-bottom John boat with a Mexican man rowing. When you cross, you pay $5 a person to take a donkey ride to the town of Boquillas. The donkeys were very slow, but the kids still saw it as a race. They got frustrated at me as I’d ease over to their donkey and pull their reigns back to take the lead.
The kids loved the donkey ride, thought the Mexican town was cool and bought some bracelets and wire statues. It was probably the highlight of their day. The culture, people and atmosphere is so different than our country. Crossing the border was a neat experience for our kids as well. I got a great picture of Rachel on the phone with homeland security crossing back into the U.S.
After Mexico, we drove the beautiful ride from Terlingua to Persidio. It is said to be one of the most beautiful drives in the United States and i can see why. It was amazing. We then found a geo-cache (with a tracker!) on the scenic drive , ate dinner at a Mexican hole in the wall (that was terrible), stopped briefly to see the Marfa lights and got home around 10:00 p.m. A full day indeed! The kids did a great job in the car. I gave them some entertainment as we drove too fast through the windy hilly roads and called it a rollercoaster ride. The kids put their hands over their head while we sped around curves and over bumps.
Then, we saw “Boquillas Crossing” was only 20 miles away. We decided it’d be fun for our kids to go to Mexico. So, we took a detour to see a new country. It was really cool. You pay to take a boat across the Rio Grande. They call it a ferry, but it is a v-bottom John boat with a Mexican man rowing. When you cross, you pay $5 a person to take a donkey ride to the town of Boquillas. The donkeys were very slow, but the kids still saw it as a race. They got frustrated at me as I’d ease over to their donkey and pull their reigns back to take the lead.
The kids loved the donkey ride, thought the Mexican town was cool and bought some bracelets and wire statues. It was probably the highlight of their day. The culture, people and atmosphere is so different than our country. Crossing the border was a neat experience for our kids as well. I got a great picture of Rachel on the phone with homeland security crossing back into the U.S.
After Mexico, we drove the beautiful ride from Terlingua to Persidio. It is said to be one of the most beautiful drives in the United States and i can see why. It was amazing. We then found a geo-cache (with a tracker!) on the scenic drive , ate dinner at a Mexican hole in the wall (that was terrible), stopped briefly to see the Marfa lights and got home around 10:00 p.m. A full day indeed! The kids did a great job in the car. I gave them some entertainment as we drove too fast through the windy hilly roads and called it a rollercoaster ride. The kids put their hands over their head while we sped around curves and over bumps.
january 30, 2016
I pray God would teach me to strive, to strive to enter the Sabbath rest of Christ. I want to fully enter into worship of my Creator. Already this morning, I have seen two deer in our backyard, heard a rooster sound his alarm, watched a five year old do cartwheels and spent time with my awesome wife and…. It is only 9:12 a.m. What a wonderful creative God!
As parents and spouses, we set the atmosphere. It’ll either be stress, snappiness, frustration and pressure or trust, peace, joy and rest. I want to be one that helps bring peace to the hearts of my family. To do this, for my good and the good of the family, I must strive to enter into this peace myself. You really can’t give someone something you don’t have.
Well, today was quite a day. We got up, took our time and left for Big Bend National Park. We saw javelinas (look like wild hogs) on the side of the road, floppy eared rabbits and weird looking roadrunner birds running across the street. Plus, we drove by a border check on the way.
Then, we drove to the Window hike – about a 4 mile hike that ends looking through two huge rock formations out onto the horizon. It was a great hike – a ton of fun. Rachel did amazing – until the last mile. At this point, she said her ankles and knees were hurting and she was tired. Shortly preceding the downward spiral, Rachel had veered to the edge of the path and bumped into a cactus. She started bawling crying – the kids thought it was funny because Kate Bradley had already accidentally high 5’ed a cactus and Marilyn pricked herself picking a dead one up out of curiosity.
When we got back, we had a decision to make – go back to Marathon and get home around 6:30 or do the hot springs and get back around 8:30. Well, since we only had 5 tired kids, we decided to go for the hot springs. Good decision! The hot springs is a natural springs where people used to come and stay at a hotel and get in the springs hoping for healing. Now, it is part of the national park and open for visitors. We took a windy road, walked ¼ mile and got in the hot springs. It was really cool. The water is well over 100 degrees and it overflows into the Rio Grande River. The kids were fascinated that you could look across the river and see Mexico. The kids also threw rocks into Mexico, part of them were successful.
On the way back, we let Madeline drive. On the way home, we had to stop at a border checkpoint to make sure we didn’t have any illegals in the car. The border patrol made Madeline roll down the back window to check out Mexican looking guy with the beard in the back(me)! He took a closer look at me and Marilyn thought it was hilarious! .
Then, on to Marathon and to a bar and grill in downtown Marathon. It was really cool. There was a handful of Texans playing country music. The lead singer (and owner of the bar) used an accordion. The drummer had a huge scraggly moustache and big cowboy hat. It was a great authentic West Texas dinner.
As parents and spouses, we set the atmosphere. It’ll either be stress, snappiness, frustration and pressure or trust, peace, joy and rest. I want to be one that helps bring peace to the hearts of my family. To do this, for my good and the good of the family, I must strive to enter into this peace myself. You really can’t give someone something you don’t have.
Well, today was quite a day. We got up, took our time and left for Big Bend National Park. We saw javelinas (look like wild hogs) on the side of the road, floppy eared rabbits and weird looking roadrunner birds running across the street. Plus, we drove by a border check on the way.
Then, we drove to the Window hike – about a 4 mile hike that ends looking through two huge rock formations out onto the horizon. It was a great hike – a ton of fun. Rachel did amazing – until the last mile. At this point, she said her ankles and knees were hurting and she was tired. Shortly preceding the downward spiral, Rachel had veered to the edge of the path and bumped into a cactus. She started bawling crying – the kids thought it was funny because Kate Bradley had already accidentally high 5’ed a cactus and Marilyn pricked herself picking a dead one up out of curiosity.
When we got back, we had a decision to make – go back to Marathon and get home around 6:30 or do the hot springs and get back around 8:30. Well, since we only had 5 tired kids, we decided to go for the hot springs. Good decision! The hot springs is a natural springs where people used to come and stay at a hotel and get in the springs hoping for healing. Now, it is part of the national park and open for visitors. We took a windy road, walked ¼ mile and got in the hot springs. It was really cool. The water is well over 100 degrees and it overflows into the Rio Grande River. The kids were fascinated that you could look across the river and see Mexico. The kids also threw rocks into Mexico, part of them were successful.
On the way back, we let Madeline drive. On the way home, we had to stop at a border checkpoint to make sure we didn’t have any illegals in the car. The border patrol made Madeline roll down the back window to check out Mexican looking guy with the beard in the back(me)! He took a closer look at me and Marilyn thought it was hilarious! .
Then, on to Marathon and to a bar and grill in downtown Marathon. It was really cool. There was a handful of Texans playing country music. The lead singer (and owner of the bar) used an accordion. The drummer had a huge scraggly moustache and big cowboy hat. It was a great authentic West Texas dinner.
january 29, 2016
Crazy travel day. The usual frantic fire drill of making breakfast, doing some home-school, packing up, unloading and re-loading the huge trailer and organizing everything for the next leg of the trip. As usual, we set a goal of 10 and left a little after 11.
The kids were great in the car. We drove across Texas into West Texas. For us, we made great time – covering a 6-hour drive in 9 hours. Actually, this is our record of efficiency. It is always a bit stressful pulling off with the hog trailer hoping we make it another leg without incident.
We arrived in West Texas and saw a “Border Patrol” police car on the side of the road. We stopped at a gas station and no English did we hear.
We are on our way to Big Bend National Park. It is the least attended National Park in America. I am sure it is beautiful, but it is way remote. I don’t think we saw two cars the last fifty minutes of our drive and our phones all read “no service.”
As we were getting close the kids were hungry. My cousin David texted us a restaurant option in Marathon, Texas (where we are staying). So, Big Bend Pizza it was. This was quite a good experience. Good pizza at a reasonable price and then talking to a converted Viet Nam vet (the owner) and his wife about the Lord. He told me about his journey to Christ. He said he sat outside each day, smoked a joint and had a beer and talked to God. Finally, he said God got through to Him and he finally found peace with God through the Lord Jesus Christ.
The guy was great. He had us all hold hands in a circle and prayed a blessing over us before we left. It was a very kind and loving prayer. It was evident that he cared about us and earnestly prayed for our trip and well-being. He prayed that our trip would draw us closer to God.
Then, we had a hard time finding our place. We drove over railroad tracks and looked like we were on the “wrong side of the tracks.” Trailers, campers and dirt roads were aplenty. However, the nice house we envisioned pulling up to was not where Maps says it was. We called the owner and she was great. She led us onto a remote road and then a dirt road and then to the house..
Marilyn and I successfully parked, unhooked and locked the trailer without fighting. I kind of like trying to back it up and park it in tough spots. It is a fun challenge. As the trip is going on, things are going better with the trailer. I have kind of connected with the thing. I think it’ll be hard to part with it when we get home. I unlock, unload, lock and load the thing over and over and over
Now, we are bedding down in our place ready for four days in West Texas. Praise God for the privilege of seeing His creation!!!!
The kids were great in the car. We drove across Texas into West Texas. For us, we made great time – covering a 6-hour drive in 9 hours. Actually, this is our record of efficiency. It is always a bit stressful pulling off with the hog trailer hoping we make it another leg without incident.
We arrived in West Texas and saw a “Border Patrol” police car on the side of the road. We stopped at a gas station and no English did we hear.
We are on our way to Big Bend National Park. It is the least attended National Park in America. I am sure it is beautiful, but it is way remote. I don’t think we saw two cars the last fifty minutes of our drive and our phones all read “no service.”
As we were getting close the kids were hungry. My cousin David texted us a restaurant option in Marathon, Texas (where we are staying). So, Big Bend Pizza it was. This was quite a good experience. Good pizza at a reasonable price and then talking to a converted Viet Nam vet (the owner) and his wife about the Lord. He told me about his journey to Christ. He said he sat outside each day, smoked a joint and had a beer and talked to God. Finally, he said God got through to Him and he finally found peace with God through the Lord Jesus Christ.
The guy was great. He had us all hold hands in a circle and prayed a blessing over us before we left. It was a very kind and loving prayer. It was evident that he cared about us and earnestly prayed for our trip and well-being. He prayed that our trip would draw us closer to God.
Then, we had a hard time finding our place. We drove over railroad tracks and looked like we were on the “wrong side of the tracks.” Trailers, campers and dirt roads were aplenty. However, the nice house we envisioned pulling up to was not where Maps says it was. We called the owner and she was great. She led us onto a remote road and then a dirt road and then to the house..
Marilyn and I successfully parked, unhooked and locked the trailer without fighting. I kind of like trying to back it up and park it in tough spots. It is a fun challenge. As the trip is going on, things are going better with the trailer. I have kind of connected with the thing. I think it’ll be hard to part with it when we get home. I unlock, unload, lock and load the thing over and over and over
Now, we are bedding down in our place ready for four days in West Texas. Praise God for the privilege of seeing His creation!!!!
Our family at Big Bend Pizza
january 28, 2016
We pretty much hung around the cabin today. The kids did great together. They played football in front of the cabin and put on their bathing suits and went swimming in the creek. It was freezing – Kate Bradley and Abby, as usual, were undeterred. Madeline and Matthew swam, but only up to their knees.
The kids have as much fun playing in the hot tub, creek and parking lot as they do in nice destinations. I am learning that sights are great, but we really need to be careful not to presume we know what they like the most.
I had a nice two hours in a coffee shop reading the Bible and a book and doing some journaling. I enjoyed listening to two old men talk politics. One old man referred to Trump as a “creep.” Then, Marilyn went to do laundry and walk around a few local shops and look for some sanity. I stayed back, helped Abby with Math, packed and went for a run with the kids.
The night ended well with a great date with Marilyn. We ate at a cool local place with unique Texas foods at a surprisingly reasonable price. We closed it off with some great bread pudding. Then, we hung out by a fire on the back deck before bed. The kids stayed back and watched Pixels.
Overall, it was a pretty peaceful day. Lesson of the day: Let the kids enjoy things and don’t drag them around trying to make them have fun. We need to be careful not to over-tour on this trip.
The kids have as much fun playing in the hot tub, creek and parking lot as they do in nice destinations. I am learning that sights are great, but we really need to be careful not to presume we know what they like the most.
I had a nice two hours in a coffee shop reading the Bible and a book and doing some journaling. I enjoyed listening to two old men talk politics. One old man referred to Trump as a “creep.” Then, Marilyn went to do laundry and walk around a few local shops and look for some sanity. I stayed back, helped Abby with Math, packed and went for a run with the kids.
The night ended well with a great date with Marilyn. We ate at a cool local place with unique Texas foods at a surprisingly reasonable price. We closed it off with some great bread pudding. Then, we hung out by a fire on the back deck before bed. The kids stayed back and watched Pixels.
Overall, it was a pretty peaceful day. Lesson of the day: Let the kids enjoy things and don’t drag them around trying to make them have fun. We need to be careful not to over-tour on this trip.
january 27, 2016
A very full day! The plan was to go to Enchanted Rock, hike, get back, send Matthew and I to the Spurs game and have Marilyn stay back, run and do schoolwork with the kids. Again and often, the Rhoads agenda is higher on ambition than reality. As we took off to Enchanted Rock, we realized the squeeze on the day. We actually stopped and almost turned around. Then, as usual, we chose “do” and went to Enchanted Rock. It turned out to be a good decision.
The kids loved Enchanted Rock. They loved climbing the large granite rock. Other than Abby accidentally running over Rachel and it being further away than we realized, the day to Enchanted Rock was perfect. We had a picnic on top of the Rock and had a nice hike down the mountain. Really, it was overwhelmingly cool to watch all our kids laugh and hike and have a blast together. Truly an absolute blessing and gift from our Almighty God.
When we got back from Enchanted Rock, Matthew and I immediately turned around to drive to San Antonio to go to the game. The game was awesome. Other than it seeming like I was on candid camera with Maps on my phone getting me off and on about four exits for no apparent reason, we got to the stadium fine. Then, we found a good parking spot and got to the game in plenty of time.
It was a ton of fun watching the Rockets pay the Spurs. Great basketball, great atmosphere, great fans and a fun experience.
On the way home, Matthew and I ate fast-food Mexican style and I listened to him talk. He literally talked the entire way home. At one point he said “Dad, I don’t like to eat real chewy foods when I am hungry because when I am hungry I like to get it down fast so I can keep eating. Right, dad?”
I really enjoyed listening to him, but was in great need of silence and rest when we got home about 11:30 p.m. It really blessed me what a rich time Marilyn had with our girls while we were gone. She is an amazing mother and makes this trip absolutely amazing.
The kids loved Enchanted Rock. They loved climbing the large granite rock. Other than Abby accidentally running over Rachel and it being further away than we realized, the day to Enchanted Rock was perfect. We had a picnic on top of the Rock and had a nice hike down the mountain. Really, it was overwhelmingly cool to watch all our kids laugh and hike and have a blast together. Truly an absolute blessing and gift from our Almighty God.
When we got back from Enchanted Rock, Matthew and I immediately turned around to drive to San Antonio to go to the game. The game was awesome. Other than it seeming like I was on candid camera with Maps on my phone getting me off and on about four exits for no apparent reason, we got to the stadium fine. Then, we found a good parking spot and got to the game in plenty of time.
It was a ton of fun watching the Rockets pay the Spurs. Great basketball, great atmosphere, great fans and a fun experience.
On the way home, Matthew and I ate fast-food Mexican style and I listened to him talk. He literally talked the entire way home. At one point he said “Dad, I don’t like to eat real chewy foods when I am hungry because when I am hungry I like to get it down fast so I can keep eating. Right, dad?”
I really enjoyed listening to him, but was in great need of silence and rest when we got home about 11:30 p.m. It really blessed me what a rich time Marilyn had with our girls while we were gone. She is an amazing mother and makes this trip absolutely amazing.
january 26, 2016
This is Abby. Today I was mad because after school we left to go to Austin, Texas to learn about the history of Texas and Madeline and Kate Bradley didn't have to go. Once we arrived, we went to the capital building of Texas and I couldn't wait to go to the top floor and see the dome. I was extremely upset when we found out that we could only go to the fourth floor. On a freaky note, there were extremely scary guards that held machine guns while they talked to us. They were literally at every door. After that we went to the history museum. I was very excited as you all know, I love history. Just kidding. We got to see some boat that some dude found under the sea in Mexico I think. Sadly, we got to watch a movie in the museum too. After that, I think that we walked like two miles to find our car because we forgot where we parked. We finally found our car. After that we drove around the University of Texas. My dad thinks that it is cool to look at colleges even though he isn't even in college and I'm only 11. Then we drove home, picked up Madeline and Kate, and ate dinner with my cousin David and his girlfriend Ashley. When we finished eating, we went geocaching in the parking lot with them but sadly, we failed. We then went home, and I started writing this journal entry. Well, that's all I've got for today.
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january 25, 2016
This is Kate Bradley. Today was a blast. We had a long morning as mom went to the grocery for over 2 hours and dad was left doing school with everyone. She claimed that she was only gone one hour and kept talking about how great the HEB grocery store was. We still finished school relatively early and were able to start the day.
We all put on our swimsuits ready to go to the Hamilton Pool. We packed the paddle-board inside of the car and I got stuck sitting directly under the paddle-board slouched in the car unable to move.
When we arrived at the Hamilton pool, we were very bummed to see the sign that said "No contact with water". Apparently because of all the flooding in Texas this year, there has been a lot of bacteria in the water. Still, the pool was gorgeous. I was amazed at the clear water and how pretty the hike was. The only thing that could have made it better was if we could have gone swimming in the water. Still, we were skipping rocks in the water and had a great time.
Then, we hiked to the creek and it was so pretty. Then, we went home and got in the hot tub, through football, and watched a movie while dad and Madeline went for a run. It always makes me sad when they go for a run doing one of my favorite things in the whole world while I am stuck at home with the little kids wishing that I could run. My hip has been hurt and y physical therapist says that I will be able to run by March first.
After a while, my cousin David came over and we ate dinner with him and were able to catch up. We had a fun time talking to him and we played a board game with him while Matthew watched the Warriors and the Spurs NBA game. Then we got ready for bed around midnight.
We all put on our swimsuits ready to go to the Hamilton Pool. We packed the paddle-board inside of the car and I got stuck sitting directly under the paddle-board slouched in the car unable to move.
When we arrived at the Hamilton pool, we were very bummed to see the sign that said "No contact with water". Apparently because of all the flooding in Texas this year, there has been a lot of bacteria in the water. Still, the pool was gorgeous. I was amazed at the clear water and how pretty the hike was. The only thing that could have made it better was if we could have gone swimming in the water. Still, we were skipping rocks in the water and had a great time.
Then, we hiked to the creek and it was so pretty. Then, we went home and got in the hot tub, through football, and watched a movie while dad and Madeline went for a run. It always makes me sad when they go for a run doing one of my favorite things in the whole world while I am stuck at home with the little kids wishing that I could run. My hip has been hurt and y physical therapist says that I will be able to run by March first.
After a while, my cousin David came over and we ate dinner with him and were able to catch up. We had a fun time talking to him and we played a board game with him while Matthew watched the Warriors and the Spurs NBA game. Then we got ready for bed around midnight.
january 24, 2016
The initial plan was to go to church with Eliza and have lunch with her and hit the road for Texas. Then, we learned our travel calculations were wrong. It is not a five-hour drive, it is a six hour and forty minute drive. Remember, a 6 hour and 40 minute drive is an 11 hour drive for the Rhoads. So, we got up, went for a run, packed, ate and got out the door. Still, we didn’t leave Eliza’s house until 11:00 a.m.
Eliza was gracious to give us two meals to eat in Texas, spaghetti and meatballs and clam chowder. I felt that we needed to add some ice to the cooler and then the wheels came off. I tried to force a bag of ice in the cooler and busted open the big bag of spaghetti sauce all over everything – the cooler, our other food and stuff in the trailer.
Marilyn was nice as she tried to clean it up, but I tested her further. She handed me the spaghetti sauce caked container of Clam Chowder, which I dropped on the concrete, adding Clam Chowder to the spaghetti mess. Five minutes from Eliza’s house, we had a nasty thirty-minute stop, wasting two meals and getting off to a terribly slow start. Even more frustrating was the fact that we did not even need ice, as the Yeti was doing the job nicely keeping the food cold with the existing ice-packs. The icing on the cake was me somehow cutting my hand in the process.
Now, we have traveled past Lafayette, LA and are cruising towards the Texas line. The kids have started the Star Wars series and are watching movie 1 as I type.
We had a nice stop at the Texas line for some photos and tourist info. Then, we drove on through Houston. As we were going through Houston (which is huge), Marilyn asked the kids to take off their headphones and look at the huge city. Abby took her headphones off and sarcastically said “woo hoo, Houston!!” Then, she put her headphones back on. Kids are much less fascinated by sites than adults.
We did have a fun stop a Bucky’s gas station. It is absolutely huge. It had 128 gas pumps and a massive food mart larger than a Kroger. It had a beef jerky bar, dippin dots, ice cream and all kinds of food buffets and treats. A gas station has been turned into an absolutely cool tourist attraction. We loved it!!!
After Bucky’s, we made the long trip on to Wimberly. The last hour of driving was the worst. The kids just start breaking down, especially Rachel. The older kids did awesome, as they watched four Star Wars movies. We are going to buy the Indiana Jones trilogy for them for another long leg of the trip.
Wimberly did not disappoint. It is a cool, beautiful, quaint city. Our cabin is on a stream. The sound of running water is so awesome from the deck. We love our place – well done, cool deck, fire pit, coffee, hard wood floors. It is great. Now, it is small – two bedrooms, one bath. We put two kids on the pull-out couch and three in one of the bedrooms.
Eliza was gracious to give us two meals to eat in Texas, spaghetti and meatballs and clam chowder. I felt that we needed to add some ice to the cooler and then the wheels came off. I tried to force a bag of ice in the cooler and busted open the big bag of spaghetti sauce all over everything – the cooler, our other food and stuff in the trailer.
Marilyn was nice as she tried to clean it up, but I tested her further. She handed me the spaghetti sauce caked container of Clam Chowder, which I dropped on the concrete, adding Clam Chowder to the spaghetti mess. Five minutes from Eliza’s house, we had a nasty thirty-minute stop, wasting two meals and getting off to a terribly slow start. Even more frustrating was the fact that we did not even need ice, as the Yeti was doing the job nicely keeping the food cold with the existing ice-packs. The icing on the cake was me somehow cutting my hand in the process.
Now, we have traveled past Lafayette, LA and are cruising towards the Texas line. The kids have started the Star Wars series and are watching movie 1 as I type.
We had a nice stop at the Texas line for some photos and tourist info. Then, we drove on through Houston. As we were going through Houston (which is huge), Marilyn asked the kids to take off their headphones and look at the huge city. Abby took her headphones off and sarcastically said “woo hoo, Houston!!” Then, she put her headphones back on. Kids are much less fascinated by sites than adults.
We did have a fun stop a Bucky’s gas station. It is absolutely huge. It had 128 gas pumps and a massive food mart larger than a Kroger. It had a beef jerky bar, dippin dots, ice cream and all kinds of food buffets and treats. A gas station has been turned into an absolutely cool tourist attraction. We loved it!!!
After Bucky’s, we made the long trip on to Wimberly. The last hour of driving was the worst. The kids just start breaking down, especially Rachel. The older kids did awesome, as they watched four Star Wars movies. We are going to buy the Indiana Jones trilogy for them for another long leg of the trip.
Wimberly did not disappoint. It is a cool, beautiful, quaint city. Our cabin is on a stream. The sound of running water is so awesome from the deck. We love our place – well done, cool deck, fire pit, coffee, hard wood floors. It is great. Now, it is small – two bedrooms, one bath. We put two kids on the pull-out couch and three in one of the bedrooms.
January 23, 2016
Today, the plan was to do New Orleans. I know there is a ton to do in New Orleans and felt we needed to get out early to get started. Well, things, as usual, went slow. I started to get pressured to push everyone to move forward. Then, I thought, let it happen as it happens and get to New Orleans when you get to New Orleans.
With this attitude, we got on the road with no conflict. It was much more important to do well relationally than have an extra hour and a half in New Orleans. I am learning to be patient. Marilyn put it well “be patient or be miserable.”
We got to New Orleans around 11:30 a.m. and parked near the French Quarter. We ate at Bubba Gump’s Shrimp Company (which was good), got a few souvenirs and embarked on our walk around New Orleans.
The kids were baffled by New Orleans. Curse words on tee shirts. Tons of people walking around drinking. Not overly kid friendly visiting New Orleans during Mardi Gras season. There were tons of street artists doing amazing work. Marilyn stopped to just watch a guy paint. I said “let’s go.” She said “I am enjoying watching him.” I hurried her because there was a plethora of creative nastiness which I did not want our kids to see...to no avail.
There were , however, many great, interesting and enjoyable things to see. We walked through Jackson Square, saw St. Louis Cathedral, got beignets and coffee at Café du Monde, walked down Bourbon Street, went to Preservation Hall and shopped at the French Market. There was amazing architecture, beautiful balconies, cool plants and trees and fun music on every corner. It is a great tourist destination if you stay focused on the history and beauty (and don’t come during Mardi Gras). We also drove around and saw New Orleans City Park and the Garden District. Still, the consensus was that New Orleans is the “sketchiest” place in America. It was scary to Abby, gross to Madeline and a cool experience for the Bug. Matthew as usual just ran and jumped around in a clueless fashion.
The kids were sad to see so many homeless people and so much partying. They did enjoy seeing all the street musicians and tap dancers. Overall, it was a memorable experience. One of our kids said “it feels like we are in a different country.”
The initial plan was to stay for the 6:00 p.m. parade, but we were warned that the parade is everything except “kid friendly.” I thought we’d just drive back and have dinner with Eliza, but Madeline really wanted to see an NBA game. Always ignoring margins in favor of craziness, we found cheap tickets in front of the stadium and took everyone to the Pelicans/Bucks game. We kind of adopt the philosophy: Don’t miss memories and fun because it is not convenient.
It was fun at the game. We were able to poach good seats in the lower arena so we could all sit in good seats. It stressed Marilyn out (a lot) as we kept getting bumped to other seats. Matthew yelled till he lost his voice and got to give Anthony Davis a high five as he left the court. We got back around 10, had a great visit with Blake and Eliza and went to bed.
With this attitude, we got on the road with no conflict. It was much more important to do well relationally than have an extra hour and a half in New Orleans. I am learning to be patient. Marilyn put it well “be patient or be miserable.”
We got to New Orleans around 11:30 a.m. and parked near the French Quarter. We ate at Bubba Gump’s Shrimp Company (which was good), got a few souvenirs and embarked on our walk around New Orleans.
The kids were baffled by New Orleans. Curse words on tee shirts. Tons of people walking around drinking. Not overly kid friendly visiting New Orleans during Mardi Gras season. There were tons of street artists doing amazing work. Marilyn stopped to just watch a guy paint. I said “let’s go.” She said “I am enjoying watching him.” I hurried her because there was a plethora of creative nastiness which I did not want our kids to see...to no avail.
There were , however, many great, interesting and enjoyable things to see. We walked through Jackson Square, saw St. Louis Cathedral, got beignets and coffee at Café du Monde, walked down Bourbon Street, went to Preservation Hall and shopped at the French Market. There was amazing architecture, beautiful balconies, cool plants and trees and fun music on every corner. It is a great tourist destination if you stay focused on the history and beauty (and don’t come during Mardi Gras). We also drove around and saw New Orleans City Park and the Garden District. Still, the consensus was that New Orleans is the “sketchiest” place in America. It was scary to Abby, gross to Madeline and a cool experience for the Bug. Matthew as usual just ran and jumped around in a clueless fashion.
The kids were sad to see so many homeless people and so much partying. They did enjoy seeing all the street musicians and tap dancers. Overall, it was a memorable experience. One of our kids said “it feels like we are in a different country.”
The initial plan was to stay for the 6:00 p.m. parade, but we were warned that the parade is everything except “kid friendly.” I thought we’d just drive back and have dinner with Eliza, but Madeline really wanted to see an NBA game. Always ignoring margins in favor of craziness, we found cheap tickets in front of the stadium and took everyone to the Pelicans/Bucks game. We kind of adopt the philosophy: Don’t miss memories and fun because it is not convenient.
It was fun at the game. We were able to poach good seats in the lower arena so we could all sit in good seats. It stressed Marilyn out (a lot) as we kept getting bumped to other seats. Matthew yelled till he lost his voice and got to give Anthony Davis a high five as he left the court. We got back around 10, had a great visit with Blake and Eliza and went to bed.
Above (starting from the left) are pictures of us at the Cathedral, at Preservation Hall, and us eating beignets at Cafe du Monde.
january 22, 2016
Another full day! We went on a driving tour of LSU. It is a really cool campus… neat building, lakes and a big tower. We also stopped by the huge headquarters of Jimmy Swaggart. I did not think there was any “Swaggart” left, but the operation, although down-sized, is still pretty huge. I tried to get a Swaggart tee shirt, but $15 was more than I was willing to invest. After a meal at a Chinese Restaurant with my cousin, we went to the UK/LSU gymnastics meet. There were over 10,000 people in attendance. Band, cheerleaders, kiss cam, dance cam, the whole works. It was a great experience. A highlight was watching Abby photobomb the people in front of us. The photobomb was so obvious that, after they looked at their picture, they turned to Abby and said “nice job!!!!” Abby does not even have to think to act mischievously – it just happens.
Eliza, my cousin, has been awesome. You can tell when someone is really glad you are with them. Eliza has been just that to our family. She has been joyful and has served us amazingly well. I knew I loved Eliza, but is so nice to see in such a real way how awesome she is. She is a great mom, an amazing cook and an incredible hostess.
It is nice driving around town with the trailer off. I feel like just gunning the car and passing everyone. After getting passed by everyone, the privilege of going a normal speed seems pretty nice.
Abby did have a fun highlight today. There is a store that is completely dairy and gluten free. I took Abby in and told her to get whatever she wanted. It was an amazing blessing to her. She lit up and enjoyed shopping. We got a King cake which is native to Louisiana. They bake a plastic baby in each cake. I asked the guy “what is a King cake?” He paused, seemed stunned and asked “where are you from?”
I like Louisiana – nice people, beautiful trees, good weather and unique cool things about it. Watching the crowd yell for LSU gymnastics made me kind of like the school. They are loyal, rabid fans.
My cousin’s husband is a HUGE Alabama fan. When we came in earlier he was watching a replay of the Alabama/Michigan State playoff game. When we came in tonight, he was watching a replay of the national championship game.
january 21, 2016
A great fun day. After staying up late hanging with Eliza(my cousin) and Blake(her husband) the night before, we got up and went to the state Capitol. We took photos, toured the museum and went geo-caching. We got our Louisiana badge, finding a geo near the shore of lake near the Capital.
The kids were great and played with Campbell and Ridley. They were great, with the exception of some sassiness/not niceness by Rachel. Rachel got a “consequence nap” in the middle of the day. She is being nicer today. She has some sassiness that comes a little too naturally.
The weather was amazing with the high almost 80, while Kentucky got ice and snow dumped on it. Louisiana is a cool place. Moss from the trees, Cajun places, parishes instead of counties and a ton of water and marsh.
The highlight for Matthew as going to the Pelicans game. I prayed it’d go well and boy did it. We got Jodie Meeks’ autograph (on my hat), Reggie Jackson’s autograph (on a basketball card) and Tim Hardaway’s autograph (on our ticket). It was a ton of fun and Matthew had an amazing blast. Near the end of the game, Matthew wanted to go to the other side of the arena to try to get Anthony Davis’ autograph. I didn’t want to undergo the inconvenience and delay, knowing we wouldn’t succeed in our efforts, but agreed anyway. Well, Matthew surprised me. We didn’t get the autograph, but he did get to give Davis high-five and I did get a picture with Davis and Mathew both in it. I am learning, don’t say no to blessings and fun because it is more convenient. If we took that attitude, this trip would never have happened
Eliza is an amazing hostess. Cooking, kind, scheduling, laid back…. She has been amazing and sweet. It has been great seeing her. Ridley and Campbell are sweet, handsome and fun. It is great getting to see them and play with them.
Matthew had a funny moment. After the game at 10:00 p.m., he said “can we go to Golden Corral?” My man loves a full life.
The kids were great and played with Campbell and Ridley. They were great, with the exception of some sassiness/not niceness by Rachel. Rachel got a “consequence nap” in the middle of the day. She is being nicer today. She has some sassiness that comes a little too naturally.
The weather was amazing with the high almost 80, while Kentucky got ice and snow dumped on it. Louisiana is a cool place. Moss from the trees, Cajun places, parishes instead of counties and a ton of water and marsh.
The highlight for Matthew as going to the Pelicans game. I prayed it’d go well and boy did it. We got Jodie Meeks’ autograph (on my hat), Reggie Jackson’s autograph (on a basketball card) and Tim Hardaway’s autograph (on our ticket). It was a ton of fun and Matthew had an amazing blast. Near the end of the game, Matthew wanted to go to the other side of the arena to try to get Anthony Davis’ autograph. I didn’t want to undergo the inconvenience and delay, knowing we wouldn’t succeed in our efforts, but agreed anyway. Well, Matthew surprised me. We didn’t get the autograph, but he did get to give Davis high-five and I did get a picture with Davis and Mathew both in it. I am learning, don’t say no to blessings and fun because it is more convenient. If we took that attitude, this trip would never have happened
Eliza is an amazing hostess. Cooking, kind, scheduling, laid back…. She has been amazing and sweet. It has been great seeing her. Ridley and Campbell are sweet, handsome and fun. It is great getting to see them and play with them.
Matthew had a funny moment. After the game at 10:00 p.m., he said “can we go to Golden Corral?” My man loves a full life.
january 20, 2016
Travel brings about the most material and stories. We had a crazy morning looking like the Clampetts packing our huge trailer in front of the condominium context.
We have learned one big thing about a six month trip… Don’t take near as much junk as we took. Every time we leave a place, it is like we are moving.
Yabbers continued with a funny conversation with Marilyn. Marilyn: “Abby don’t eat with your hands. Use a fork!” Abby: “Mom, I am just not a fork person.”
Today, we left Florida, entered Alabama and are now in Mississippi on our way to Baton Rouge, Louisiana. The kids have been great in the car, except for Rachel’s hard throwing of a sharpie from the back seat that hit Madeline in the eye. We had tears from our oldest and our youngest.
We are into the geo caching. We now have our Florida, Alabama and Mississippi badges. Fortunately, the ones in Alabama and Mississippi were not too hard to find. Still, the 5 hour and 40 minute drive to Baton Rouge will be 10 hours for the Rhoads. I do not think we have passed one car in three weeks.
I had the trailer stress all over again. I got used to it, unhooked it for 16 days and had to get used to it all over again today. We are doing fine, but it just looks massive behind our van.
We did have a funny stop at the Alabama welcome station. We found our geo, took photos in front of the Alabama sign and then saw a guy in a tricked-up VW bug with a big pipe coming out of the back. His VW would not start. I asked him “do you need a push?” I started pushing him so he could pop the clutch to get it started. Marilyn looked out from the van and saw me (with a hurt back) pushing some car with an interesting looking guy driving. She was troubled, as she didn’t want my back any worse than it is. The guy said two lines to me, the first with curse words. Then, as he drove off, he mumbled “thanks.”
One big blessing is gas prices. I just saw a sign where gas is $1.46 a gallon. I find myself wanting to buy gas because I feel like I am getting such a good deal.
I am loving the travel. It is fun driving through new places, Mobile AL, Pascagoula MS, Biloxi, MS and a host of others. The kids laugh, listen to music, argue and love looking for geos together.
We ended the evening with a gas station dinner at Race Track, high style!
We have learned one big thing about a six month trip… Don’t take near as much junk as we took. Every time we leave a place, it is like we are moving.
Yabbers continued with a funny conversation with Marilyn. Marilyn: “Abby don’t eat with your hands. Use a fork!” Abby: “Mom, I am just not a fork person.”
Today, we left Florida, entered Alabama and are now in Mississippi on our way to Baton Rouge, Louisiana. The kids have been great in the car, except for Rachel’s hard throwing of a sharpie from the back seat that hit Madeline in the eye. We had tears from our oldest and our youngest.
We are into the geo caching. We now have our Florida, Alabama and Mississippi badges. Fortunately, the ones in Alabama and Mississippi were not too hard to find. Still, the 5 hour and 40 minute drive to Baton Rouge will be 10 hours for the Rhoads. I do not think we have passed one car in three weeks.
I had the trailer stress all over again. I got used to it, unhooked it for 16 days and had to get used to it all over again today. We are doing fine, but it just looks massive behind our van.
We did have a funny stop at the Alabama welcome station. We found our geo, took photos in front of the Alabama sign and then saw a guy in a tricked-up VW bug with a big pipe coming out of the back. His VW would not start. I asked him “do you need a push?” I started pushing him so he could pop the clutch to get it started. Marilyn looked out from the van and saw me (with a hurt back) pushing some car with an interesting looking guy driving. She was troubled, as she didn’t want my back any worse than it is. The guy said two lines to me, the first with curse words. Then, as he drove off, he mumbled “thanks.”
One big blessing is gas prices. I just saw a sign where gas is $1.46 a gallon. I find myself wanting to buy gas because I feel like I am getting such a good deal.
I am loving the travel. It is fun driving through new places, Mobile AL, Pascagoula MS, Biloxi, MS and a host of others. The kids laugh, listen to music, argue and love looking for geos together.
We ended the evening with a gas station dinner at Race Track, high style!
january 19, 2016
What a nice last day in Florida! I got up in the morning, heeding the advice of a friend and had some preventative maintenance done on the car. Then we started with some home-school. Abby seemed like she was rebelling from info absorption. Marilyn got quite frustrated. I videoed part of the excitement, including Marilyn’s humorous attempt to teach Abby. Needless to say, it didn’t go well when Marilyn realized the process had been recorded. We then went to get some beach time paddle boarding and throwing football..
Matthew was very very thoughtful today. I had lost my Yeti mug and he went and used his own money to buy me a new one and a larger one to boot. It really blessed him to bless me.
Rachel provided a bit of humor refusing to eat her “potato fries.” at dinner. Then, one of the kids said “they are French fries.” Then, Rachel ate them and said she love them. Rachel does not like potatoes and evidently doesn’t realize that French fries are potatoes. If you put a baked potato on her plate, it is as if you ruining her life.
This evening, I looked out and saw it was our last sunset on the beach. To the dismay of all five kids, I made them pose on the deck for a sunset photo. As usual, the kids’ faces are dark and the sunset is primary. I’d learn to be a better photographer if I had time and had any desire.
On a really funny note, Bug was face-timing with Riley and she walked in the bathroom. Riley said “Kate, are those marshmallows on your bathroom counter?” Marla jumped in and said “no, Riley, they are cotton balls.” Then, Kate let the Carters know, “they are marshmallows.”
Well, the real travel starts tomorrow – leave Florida, drive through Alabama and Mississippi and land in Baton Rouge, LA. I am typing this as fast as I can so I can put the computer up for tomorrow.
Matthew was very very thoughtful today. I had lost my Yeti mug and he went and used his own money to buy me a new one and a larger one to boot. It really blessed him to bless me.
Rachel provided a bit of humor refusing to eat her “potato fries.” at dinner. Then, one of the kids said “they are French fries.” Then, Rachel ate them and said she love them. Rachel does not like potatoes and evidently doesn’t realize that French fries are potatoes. If you put a baked potato on her plate, it is as if you ruining her life.
This evening, I looked out and saw it was our last sunset on the beach. To the dismay of all five kids, I made them pose on the deck for a sunset photo. As usual, the kids’ faces are dark and the sunset is primary. I’d learn to be a better photographer if I had time and had any desire.
On a really funny note, Bug was face-timing with Riley and she walked in the bathroom. Riley said “Kate, are those marshmallows on your bathroom counter?” Marla jumped in and said “no, Riley, they are cotton balls.” Then, Kate let the Carters know, “they are marshmallows.”
Well, the real travel starts tomorrow – leave Florida, drive through Alabama and Mississippi and land in Baton Rouge, LA. I am typing this as fast as I can so I can put the computer up for tomorrow.
january 18, 2016
The trip has been awesome so far, but the real adventure starts Wednesday when we hit the road for Baton Rouge, then New Orleans, then Texas, then New Mexico, then Arizona.
Today, I took Matthew to what he believes is the pinnacle of dining, the Golden Corral. I remember his comment when he first saw the massive buffets… “is there a time limit?” Matthew is not hard to please. Golden Corral did not disappoint. Highlights: Seeing an old man sitting by his wife with a big beard with his button down shirt unbuttoned down to his belly-button. Barely catching Matthew before he stuck a big hunk of ice cream under the chocolate fountain. Listening to Matthew talk incessantly about how awesome the food is and how much he can eat. Golden Corral is the amusement park of restaurants for children. I asked him his favorite thing from the entire trip so far. His response “eating wings at BW3’s.” We make a mistake if we assume kids enjoy and remember the same things we remember and enjoy.
A little stressful thing today was allowing Kate Bradley and Madeline to run around Panama City Beach without us. They were fine, but I prefer being with them.
Today, I took Matthew to what he believes is the pinnacle of dining, the Golden Corral. I remember his comment when he first saw the massive buffets… “is there a time limit?” Matthew is not hard to please. Golden Corral did not disappoint. Highlights: Seeing an old man sitting by his wife with a big beard with his button down shirt unbuttoned down to his belly-button. Barely catching Matthew before he stuck a big hunk of ice cream under the chocolate fountain. Listening to Matthew talk incessantly about how awesome the food is and how much he can eat. Golden Corral is the amusement park of restaurants for children. I asked him his favorite thing from the entire trip so far. His response “eating wings at BW3’s.” We make a mistake if we assume kids enjoy and remember the same things we remember and enjoy.
A little stressful thing today was allowing Kate Bradley and Madeline to run around Panama City Beach without us. They were fine, but I prefer being with them.
january 17, 2016
Today was a good day. I had an interesting time going to church with Abby and Rachel. I decided to let everyone else sleep and rest. We went to Northstar Church, a multi-site church with a campus in Panama City Beach, Florida. Rachel doesn’t like going to the children’s area of new churches and I kind of feel the same way. She does pretty well in church, but you can mark it down that she’ll forget and speak audibly two or three times during the sermon. Middle of the sermon, “Dad, I dropped my crayon.” “Shhh!” As we were watching a big screen of a pastor at another campus, I think those around us were more humored than distracted.
Later, Matthew went to the beach to play with his new found friend, “Hunter.” Nice kid and nice parents. The parents and their cousins were hanging on the beach. They were a little rough and very nice. His dad was in blue jeans showing some serious plumber’s crack as he dug in the sand. Truth is… I loved talking to them and enjoyed talking to them more than the campus pastor I had met earlier this morning. Somehow, the Alabama jean crew really entered in and focused on communicating much more than the campus pastor. As believers, I really wish we (me included) would love and engage others with more authenticity than anyone else. However, oftentimes, we engage way more out of duty than love and it is less hidden from the recipient than we realize.
It was another great day hanging with the family. Of course there were the daily messes, but big picture, a wonderful day!
Later, Matthew went to the beach to play with his new found friend, “Hunter.” Nice kid and nice parents. The parents and their cousins were hanging on the beach. They were a little rough and very nice. His dad was in blue jeans showing some serious plumber’s crack as he dug in the sand. Truth is… I loved talking to them and enjoyed talking to them more than the campus pastor I had met earlier this morning. Somehow, the Alabama jean crew really entered in and focused on communicating much more than the campus pastor. As believers, I really wish we (me included) would love and engage others with more authenticity than anyone else. However, oftentimes, we engage way more out of duty than love and it is less hidden from the recipient than we realize.
It was another great day hanging with the family. Of course there were the daily messes, but big picture, a wonderful day!
january 16, 2016
Today was the nicest day at the beach. We dug a huge huge hole, deeper than Matthew is tall. We called it our outdoor beach hot tub. My neck got better, but Einstein overdid it with his lower back digging the massive hole. The kids loved it. I paid for it.
Marilyn was pretty jazzed as she ran 6.7 miles at under a 9 minute pace with Madeline today. She came back from the run upset at me, as Madeline told her that we had been running about every day and stretching about -0-. I know stretching is great, but when I finish running, I just want to stop doing everything – not start stretching.
Rachel loved running down by the water and then running from the waves as they crashed to the sand. I loved throwing Frisbee with my girls. They have really gotten a lot better.
Kate Bradley pulled a Jerry Rhoads joke today. I said that it was time to get out of the hot tub. Abby's response was "I am not able" Then, Bug responded back "Are you Cain?"
The low-point of the day was watching UK fall apart at Auburn and lose to an undermanned and terrible team. I watched it with Matthew and Kate Bradley while Marilyn and Madeline ran. It is fun to watch a game with Matthew but it can get a bit on your nerves when he screams “YES!!!!” as we hit a 3 to cut their lead to 4 with 11 seconds left.
Just watched Blind Side --- Kate Bradley pointed out “you would not let me watch The Little Mermaid and now you are letting Rachel watch the PG-13 Blind Side. Unbelievable.” Fatigue, number of kids, perspective, lack of wisdom…. I don’t know, but we’ve changed a lot!!!!
Marilyn was pretty jazzed as she ran 6.7 miles at under a 9 minute pace with Madeline today. She came back from the run upset at me, as Madeline told her that we had been running about every day and stretching about -0-. I know stretching is great, but when I finish running, I just want to stop doing everything – not start stretching.
Rachel loved running down by the water and then running from the waves as they crashed to the sand. I loved throwing Frisbee with my girls. They have really gotten a lot better.
Kate Bradley pulled a Jerry Rhoads joke today. I said that it was time to get out of the hot tub. Abby's response was "I am not able" Then, Bug responded back "Are you Cain?"
The low-point of the day was watching UK fall apart at Auburn and lose to an undermanned and terrible team. I watched it with Matthew and Kate Bradley while Marilyn and Madeline ran. It is fun to watch a game with Matthew but it can get a bit on your nerves when he screams “YES!!!!” as we hit a 3 to cut their lead to 4 with 11 seconds left.
Just watched Blind Side --- Kate Bradley pointed out “you would not let me watch The Little Mermaid and now you are letting Rachel watch the PG-13 Blind Side. Unbelievable.” Fatigue, number of kids, perspective, lack of wisdom…. I don’t know, but we’ve changed a lot!!!!
january 15, 2016
Home-school….. Uggh. It took about our entire day. We didn’t get out of this condo until about 3:30 p.m. Madeline and Bug had a bunch of work and Abby and Matthew made it much harder than it needed to be.
The kids looked outside this morning and were so excited – the waves were HUGE. They couldn’t wait to get in the water. I looked at it and thought “I don’t know about this.” I resisted and we went back and forth a bit. Then, the gift of the double red flag (hazardous – swimming prohibited) appeared. Shut down the argument! Thank you red flags.
The kids are into geo-caching. Tonight, we looked for four or five and only found one. Personally, I recommend doing this during the day. It was quite sketchy going into wet woods and into other’s property trying to find some geo. It was fun, but the kids (and myself) were worried at several points.
Kids got excited to learn that we are driving through Alabama and Mississippi on our way to Louisiana. Great news! We can get our AL and MS badges for geo! A typical five hour drive, which is 8 with us and our trailer, just became a 10 hour drive.
Marilyn went on a three-mile run with Matthew today. She enjoyed it, as he talked the entire time. He was perpetual entertainment for Marilyn. At the end, he said “you know mom, I think we ran about an 11-minute mile.” Quite encouragement.
The kids looked outside this morning and were so excited – the waves were HUGE. They couldn’t wait to get in the water. I looked at it and thought “I don’t know about this.” I resisted and we went back and forth a bit. Then, the gift of the double red flag (hazardous – swimming prohibited) appeared. Shut down the argument! Thank you red flags.
The kids are into geo-caching. Tonight, we looked for four or five and only found one. Personally, I recommend doing this during the day. It was quite sketchy going into wet woods and into other’s property trying to find some geo. It was fun, but the kids (and myself) were worried at several points.
Kids got excited to learn that we are driving through Alabama and Mississippi on our way to Louisiana. Great news! We can get our AL and MS badges for geo! A typical five hour drive, which is 8 with us and our trailer, just became a 10 hour drive.
Marilyn went on a three-mile run with Matthew today. She enjoyed it, as he talked the entire time. He was perpetual entertainment for Marilyn. At the end, he said “you know mom, I think we ran about an 11-minute mile.” Quite encouragement.
january 14, 2016
This is Marilyn and I must say homeschooling is not for the faint of heart! Trying to keep kids focused and on task makes me have a whole new appreciation for those who home-school! Today, after finishing school the kids wanted to eat cake by the ocean inspired by the song.....so we made cake and did. The birds about attacked us! It was quite funny as Madeline started squirting water at them from her water bottle in retaliation. Wish I could have captured all the kids running from the birds on video. I love being together as a family like this! Sure, it's not all perfect but it's priceless.
This is Matthew. After we finished doing school today, we walked to the peer and went geocaching. I got really mad because we got within two feet of it and could not find it. It was fun walking on the beach and playing though. We had fun trying to jump over this gross water coming out of pipes by the ocean. I tried to jump over it and fell in and it splashed all over my face. Awesome!
This is Brad. The high point of my day was this morning when I took Kate Bradley to breakfast. She was wearing her Cross Country State Champions tee shirt. I went in the room and put one on just like hers. I expected her to demand me to change. Instead, she wore the same shirt, texted “look at my dad and me as twinsies.” Later, she put the picture on Instagram saying “twinning with dad.” She has no idea how much that blessed me.
This is Matthew. After we finished doing school today, we walked to the peer and went geocaching. I got really mad because we got within two feet of it and could not find it. It was fun walking on the beach and playing though. We had fun trying to jump over this gross water coming out of pipes by the ocean. I tried to jump over it and fell in and it splashed all over my face. Awesome!
This is Brad. The high point of my day was this morning when I took Kate Bradley to breakfast. She was wearing her Cross Country State Champions tee shirt. I went in the room and put one on just like hers. I expected her to demand me to change. Instead, she wore the same shirt, texted “look at my dad and me as twinsies.” Later, she put the picture on Instagram saying “twinning with dad.” She has no idea how much that blessed me.
january 13, 2016
Today, was good, but tiring. Abbers continued her Math art. I patiently watched her turn a missed problem into a multi-colored Christmas tree. Abby was in a sarcastic, biting-comment mood and I finally decided to join in with some sin of my own by raising my voice at her pretty good. I calmed down and we both sat and talked about how we are both forgiven.
Matthew is continuing his routine with face-timing his friends and cousins. He and Abby are pretty good at conflicting. Today, Abby “accidentally” spit water on him in the hot tub. Matthew did not “accidentally” spit water back in her face. We made them sit out of the hot tub and hold hands. As soon as they finished, Abby asked “does anyone have any hand sanitizer?”
Kate Bradley really didn’t like what Marilyn cooked and really blessed her mom by literally holding her nose while she ate. Rachel almost got in trouble as she had a breakdown when she learned that we were not having tacos tonight (go figure – we never told her we were having tacos).
The day included some stresses from work, some crises in other families and a crick in my neck (literally)
I am learning more and more that the key is just listening to people and allowing them to share at their own pace. I do better as a dad and a father when I just pay close attention, listen and serve. Some may have the other problem, but I am not at risk of talking too little.
On a good note, it was beautiful today and we got the paddleboard out. The kids love it and enjoyed that Marilyn lost her balance and fell off of it. Plus, I did have a good run with Madeline and made progress in making sure our car is ready for the craziness ahead. Thus far, we have put about 1,300 miles on the car.
It is pretty awesome sitting here typing watching my five people girls (including Marilyn) working a 500-piece puzzle and laughing.
I did have a good haircut experience. Not often do you get the privilege of getting a haircut from a man with hair scissors tattooed on his neck. Then, I noticed he had LOVE tattooed on his wrist with a pair of hair scissors making the “V”.
On a side-note, some of our kids’ best entertainment is making fun or Marilyn and me (mostly Marilyn) when we are doing workout videos.
Matthew is continuing his routine with face-timing his friends and cousins. He and Abby are pretty good at conflicting. Today, Abby “accidentally” spit water on him in the hot tub. Matthew did not “accidentally” spit water back in her face. We made them sit out of the hot tub and hold hands. As soon as they finished, Abby asked “does anyone have any hand sanitizer?”
Kate Bradley really didn’t like what Marilyn cooked and really blessed her mom by literally holding her nose while she ate. Rachel almost got in trouble as she had a breakdown when she learned that we were not having tacos tonight (go figure – we never told her we were having tacos).
The day included some stresses from work, some crises in other families and a crick in my neck (literally)
I am learning more and more that the key is just listening to people and allowing them to share at their own pace. I do better as a dad and a father when I just pay close attention, listen and serve. Some may have the other problem, but I am not at risk of talking too little.
On a good note, it was beautiful today and we got the paddleboard out. The kids love it and enjoyed that Marilyn lost her balance and fell off of it. Plus, I did have a good run with Madeline and made progress in making sure our car is ready for the craziness ahead. Thus far, we have put about 1,300 miles on the car.
It is pretty awesome sitting here typing watching my five people girls (including Marilyn) working a 500-piece puzzle and laughing.
I did have a good haircut experience. Not often do you get the privilege of getting a haircut from a man with hair scissors tattooed on his neck. Then, I noticed he had LOVE tattooed on his wrist with a pair of hair scissors making the “V”.
On a side-note, some of our kids’ best entertainment is making fun or Marilyn and me (mostly Marilyn) when we are doing workout videos.
january 12, 2016
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This is Madeline. Today was fun. We went to Tallahassee, the capital of Florida. We watched Franklin Graham speak on the capital steps. He did a great job. Many people were holding signs and flags saying pray for our nation. It was a great experience in learning how to pray for our nation. We also went to the old capital.
We went to lunch at a local place and their cheeseburgers were really good! We did one of my favorite things and went shopping at a big mall. Matthew got a Steph Curry jersey and said he was never going to take it off.
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We also went to Florida State University and saw the football stadium. Here is a picture of the outside of the stadium. It was really pretty.
january 11, 2016
Started the day early again (thanks to Rachel) and, then, Math with Abby. I see why Abby is slow in her work. She switches pens and ink-color constantly and turns each homework into a multi-colored piece of sloppy art. I looked over at one point and she was coloring in a heart. Writing the wrong number was just an opportunity to make a colored heart. Then, I told Abby that we are going on a field trip tomorrow to Tallahassee to see Franklin Graham and the capital. Abby said “oh no! It is not going to be historical, is it?”
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After we did homework, Madeline, Matthew and I went to play basketball. We played a game of horse. Matthew is the most irrational horse-player ever. He shoots from behind the goal, shoots with his back to the goal and tries 30 footers. He never wins, but hits one out of about 20 of his shots – motivating to continue his poor strategy.
Marilyn took Rachel swimming this afternoon. Rachel wants to swim all the time now. She is so excited about her new skill.
January 10, 2016
This is Kate Bradley, today we woke up and went to church. It made me miss PVCC. After church we went to lunch at Chili's. We had Queso for and appetizer and it wasn't that great, but the food was really good. Matthew's comment was, "Everything was great except for the Queso was a disgraso" We went back and finished watching the Seahawks vs Vikings game and watched the Vikings 27 yard field goal attempt missed. I felt very bad for the kicker, but was glad that the Seahawks won because we have friends that we have in Seattle that are very big fans. It was very cold today, and there was a red flag so we couldn't swim in the ocean:(, but the sunset was beautiful. I heard that school was out in Kentucky because of the snow, and it makes me miss Kentucky a little, but I have had a lot of fun on this trip so far. By the way, Abby, my mom, and I finished working a 500 piece puzzle today. Well, that's all that we did today.
January 9, 2016
I have been running the Daviess County cross country practices with Madeline. It is rough! I know why they have high school cross country teams and not adult teams. I will be sore tomorrow. I gained a new appreciation for the hard work and speed of Kate Bradley, Madeline, and the cross country team. I told Bug “I am impressed. I ran a 7 minute 14 second mile and, wow, you ran a 5 min. 18 second mile.” Bug smiled and said “actually it was 5 17.”
Madeline and I put the whoopin’ on Matthew on a 5k run today. We have been running – he hasn’t. During our run – Matthew said his chest hurt, his ankle hurt, his foot hurt, his ear hurt and his stomach hurt. It was funny. Marilyn asked him how the run went and he said “every part of me hurt!”
Kids are so random. Today, Rachel (my five year old) wanted to watch “swim dancing” with me. Somehow (and I don’t know how) she has gotten into synchronized swimming. It fascinates her. I sat with her and watched video after video of “swim dancing.” Then, she decided she wanted to swim and we watched the first 16 minutes of a 46 minute video on how to teach 5 year-old’s how to swim. Then, we went to the pool and put our teaching into action. She is hilarious.
Madeline and I put the whoopin’ on Matthew on a 5k run today. We have been running – he hasn’t. During our run – Matthew said his chest hurt, his ankle hurt, his foot hurt, his ear hurt and his stomach hurt. It was funny. Marilyn asked him how the run went and he said “every part of me hurt!”
Kids are so random. Today, Rachel (my five year old) wanted to watch “swim dancing” with me. Somehow (and I don’t know how) she has gotten into synchronized swimming. It fascinates her. I sat with her and watched video after video of “swim dancing.” Then, she decided she wanted to swim and we watched the first 16 minutes of a 46 minute video on how to teach 5 year-old’s how to swim. Then, we went to the pool and put our teaching into action. She is hilarious.
january 8, 2016
This is Abby. We went to the ocean after breakfast and then I accidentally had a huge wipe-out in the ocean. I was riding the wave and my boogie board stuck in the sand and flipped me over. I ate a bunch of sand and I did two and a half flips in the sand. I got tons of sand in my hair. It hurt everywhere - especially my face and stomach. Sand got all in my bathing suit. The trip is good so far. I am liking being taught by my mom and dad. That's all I have for now.
This is Kate. Today I got up at 7:30, (like four and a half hours earlier than usual) and jumped on school. I ended up finishing at like ten forty-five and played with Matthew. All he does is sit in his room and play with his NBA basketball cards. I had no clue who Tim Duncan was, but he seemed to have fun with it. Then we went to the beach and swam in the ocean. Abby had a huge wipe out in the sand with sand all in her hair. Her comment to me was "Can I just jump in the indoor pool and wash off?" That's all that I have for today.
Abby keeps us humble as parents and tries to make sure that nothing in our family is too easy. Today, Marilyn made her eggs for breakfast. First, she didn’t eat it. Then, she ate a little. Then, she started complaining because Marilyn didn’t take the yellow out of the egg. After ten minutes, she complained that the eggs were cold. We warmed them up. Then, she complained that the microwave made it so they are not salty again. A two egg breakfast turned into a one-hour conflict.
Brad took Matthew to BW3's to watch an NBA game. Matthew is obsessed with the NBA. Brad and Matthew ate a bunch of wings. Matthew liked it so much he said "Dad, let's make this a Friday tradition and do this every Friday." Needless to say, Marilyn vetoed this weekly idea. On the way back from BW's, Matthew said "now, can we get out the peanuts and watch another game." He wants to watch the game eating peanuts and throw the shells on the floor and clean them up after the game. Again, suggestion vetoed.
This is Kate. Today I got up at 7:30, (like four and a half hours earlier than usual) and jumped on school. I ended up finishing at like ten forty-five and played with Matthew. All he does is sit in his room and play with his NBA basketball cards. I had no clue who Tim Duncan was, but he seemed to have fun with it. Then we went to the beach and swam in the ocean. Abby had a huge wipe out in the sand with sand all in her hair. Her comment to me was "Can I just jump in the indoor pool and wash off?" That's all that I have for today.
Abby keeps us humble as parents and tries to make sure that nothing in our family is too easy. Today, Marilyn made her eggs for breakfast. First, she didn’t eat it. Then, she ate a little. Then, she started complaining because Marilyn didn’t take the yellow out of the egg. After ten minutes, she complained that the eggs were cold. We warmed them up. Then, she complained that the microwave made it so they are not salty again. A two egg breakfast turned into a one-hour conflict.
Brad took Matthew to BW3's to watch an NBA game. Matthew is obsessed with the NBA. Brad and Matthew ate a bunch of wings. Matthew liked it so much he said "Dad, let's make this a Friday tradition and do this every Friday." Needless to say, Marilyn vetoed this weekly idea. On the way back from BW's, Matthew said "now, can we get out the peanuts and watch another game." He wants to watch the game eating peanuts and throw the shells on the floor and clean them up after the game. Again, suggestion vetoed.
Who knew that my dad was a jedi? (he has the force) Matthew at BW3'S
january 7, 2016
Truly a funny day! First, Abby informs me that she walked in while I was getting ready and saw me in the bathroom from behind. She said and I quote “Dad, it scarred my brain.”
Then, Matthew decides he is going to get around being away from his friends. He face-timed Elias, put a chair in his bedroom, put the face-time in front of the television, sat beside Elias and watched an NBA game with him. I walked by his room and they were giving a play by play on the NBA game as if they were together. Now, he wants to play basketball games against him via face-time. He said they’ll play horse and I’ll hold the computer.
Now Mathew wants to eat peanuts with me in the bedroom and throw the shells on the floor like we are watching the game at Roadhouse. He said “I know we’ll have to clean them up later, Dad.”
Abby showed her colors in home-schooling today. Marilyn was trying to teach Abby something. Marilyn asked Abby if she knew it and Abby blabbed “I don’t know and I don’t care.”
Then, we decided it was a good idea to include Rachel in the home-school routine. Marilyn thought she’d teach Rachel all of her letters and sounds this week. A bit ambitious, as Rachel struggled with A and E today to the point that she was either being willfully disobedient or had serious learning disabilities. She got quite upset, as I could hear from the other room. When I came in, Rachel was tearing up and Marilyn was at the end of her rope. Rachel came to me later and said “I want you to teach me my letters, Daddy. Mom screamed at me.”
Later in the day, Marilyn was going to teach Rachel to swim. It went really well and Rachel thanked her and said “Mom, you are teaching me to swim and aren’t even getting all screamy.” The kids heard it and thought it was hilarious.
Rachel just told me not to forget about her homework on the floor. I told her I wouldn’t step on it. She said “Don’t forget and I know that big people forget.”
I did reflect on the most irrational pre-trip comment made by our Madeline. As she was drinking out of a 15 cent faded Mickey Mouse plastic Wal-Mart cup, she started crying. I asked her what is wrong. She said tearfully “a week from now I won’t be drinking out of this cup.”
I did succumb to Madeline and allow her to use Snap Chat on a limited basis. Up until now, I flat out refused because Snap Chat does not have any record of conversations. Madeline has been so obedient and honoring to us, I decided that allowing her to do Snap Chat with six of her friends was reasonable.
Kate Bradley and Abby went swimming in the frigid ocean and coaxed me to join them. It was freezing – so cold that getting in the hot tub was one painful exercise. Our kiddos truly have fun and I LOVE watching them.
I did run with Madeline today on her cross country schedule. I did not talk to her at all, as I was getting pounded trying to keep up with her in the rain with a sore back. Madeline always speeds up the last mile to show herself she can do it and to make me absolutely miserable. I withstood the temptation to just bark at her to slow down and sped up and hung on. Bug is a bit sad wanting to run, but not being allowed to because of her hip. Marilyn took her out for a one on one date tonight to soften the blow and have some good one on one time.
We did have our “redneck moment of the day” today. Two couples were on the beach in front of our condo. Our kids were quite humored when they looked over and saw an entire female butt with a string running down her crack. Then, the thonged-ones got on their knees and looked at the ocean as one of the guys sat two feet behind them and took photos of their butts with his i-phone. The girls’ bathing suit was about 1/20th the size of the tattoos on her legs.
I never thought I would want to go back to school, but I am actually enjoying World Civ with Madeline. It is like watching the History channel each day. Fascinating stuff!
I don’t know what this smoking dream stuff is all about, but now Pa has dreamed that I started smoking and Madeline said she had a dream I was smoking cigarettes as well.
Then, Matthew decides he is going to get around being away from his friends. He face-timed Elias, put a chair in his bedroom, put the face-time in front of the television, sat beside Elias and watched an NBA game with him. I walked by his room and they were giving a play by play on the NBA game as if they were together. Now, he wants to play basketball games against him via face-time. He said they’ll play horse and I’ll hold the computer.
Now Mathew wants to eat peanuts with me in the bedroom and throw the shells on the floor like we are watching the game at Roadhouse. He said “I know we’ll have to clean them up later, Dad.”
Abby showed her colors in home-schooling today. Marilyn was trying to teach Abby something. Marilyn asked Abby if she knew it and Abby blabbed “I don’t know and I don’t care.”
Then, we decided it was a good idea to include Rachel in the home-school routine. Marilyn thought she’d teach Rachel all of her letters and sounds this week. A bit ambitious, as Rachel struggled with A and E today to the point that she was either being willfully disobedient or had serious learning disabilities. She got quite upset, as I could hear from the other room. When I came in, Rachel was tearing up and Marilyn was at the end of her rope. Rachel came to me later and said “I want you to teach me my letters, Daddy. Mom screamed at me.”
Later in the day, Marilyn was going to teach Rachel to swim. It went really well and Rachel thanked her and said “Mom, you are teaching me to swim and aren’t even getting all screamy.” The kids heard it and thought it was hilarious.
Rachel just told me not to forget about her homework on the floor. I told her I wouldn’t step on it. She said “Don’t forget and I know that big people forget.”
I did reflect on the most irrational pre-trip comment made by our Madeline. As she was drinking out of a 15 cent faded Mickey Mouse plastic Wal-Mart cup, she started crying. I asked her what is wrong. She said tearfully “a week from now I won’t be drinking out of this cup.”
I did succumb to Madeline and allow her to use Snap Chat on a limited basis. Up until now, I flat out refused because Snap Chat does not have any record of conversations. Madeline has been so obedient and honoring to us, I decided that allowing her to do Snap Chat with six of her friends was reasonable.
Kate Bradley and Abby went swimming in the frigid ocean and coaxed me to join them. It was freezing – so cold that getting in the hot tub was one painful exercise. Our kiddos truly have fun and I LOVE watching them.
I did run with Madeline today on her cross country schedule. I did not talk to her at all, as I was getting pounded trying to keep up with her in the rain with a sore back. Madeline always speeds up the last mile to show herself she can do it and to make me absolutely miserable. I withstood the temptation to just bark at her to slow down and sped up and hung on. Bug is a bit sad wanting to run, but not being allowed to because of her hip. Marilyn took her out for a one on one date tonight to soften the blow and have some good one on one time.
We did have our “redneck moment of the day” today. Two couples were on the beach in front of our condo. Our kids were quite humored when they looked over and saw an entire female butt with a string running down her crack. Then, the thonged-ones got on their knees and looked at the ocean as one of the guys sat two feet behind them and took photos of their butts with his i-phone. The girls’ bathing suit was about 1/20th the size of the tattoos on her legs.
I never thought I would want to go back to school, but I am actually enjoying World Civ with Madeline. It is like watching the History channel each day. Fascinating stuff!
I don’t know what this smoking dream stuff is all about, but now Pa has dreamed that I started smoking and Madeline said she had a dream I was smoking cigarettes as well.
january 6, 2016
Elias Miller sent Matthew the cutest text: “Hey Man bball is not the same, why couldn’t you just put me in your suitcase it would have worked out perfectly. Me and Samuel miss you so much. Any NBA games yet? Are you going to videotape me all of that or just the highlights. Me and Samuel need you to come back. July right? I will text you again soon. Have fun.”
We are working on our homeschool groove. The dust has settled and I am the World Civ teacher for Madeline and Abby’s math teacher. It went well in Math today. Abby only got mad at me twice. I held it together on the outside. Rachel loves it – Marilyn gave her a lesson and she felt big doing a lesson while the kid’s worked. Today, the lesson was the letter A.
It was a great day. The beach, Frisbee, flying a kite with Rachel, hot tub, run with Madeline and a little shopping at Pier Park. Now, we are getting ready to settle into family movie, War Room. Actually, Matthew is choosing to go in the other room by himself to watch the Knicks – Heat game.
I feel amazingly blessed by this trip. This morning I laid beside Rachel in her bed for about an hour and a half trying to buy Marilyn a greatly needed extra hour of sleep.
So far, I have been blessed to largely keep the focus off myself and I have been tremendously peaceful and grateful for this experience and our family. I just pray the existing peace and spirit I have can continue through the six months and hopefully the rest of my life. Today, Madeline even said “Dad, you have been really nice.” I’m glad she sees it, but wish calmness, gentleness and peace was more of my normal state.
Being more focused around the kids has been good. I have found myself thinking more and more about my kids. Abbers has been sick and I really thought through whether or not to put her on an anti-biotic. I realize that, too often, I have just checked out of those decisions and delegated them to Marilyn. Marilyn has enjoyed me being more participatory in child issues. I pray that I’ll be more engaged at home throughout this trip and beyond. I pray God teaches me more and more about being a husband and Dad and that I come home a different man – a man ready to help others do better in their own families.
Update on the kids: Kate Bradley is totally independent. Does her school with no problem and no help. Seems fine and going with the flow. Madeline is doing well but gets stressed with things. World Civ was stripping her gears and is taking a little getting use to. Matthew doesn’t give a rip about school, just wants to finish it as fast as he can. He told us he wanted to finish a week in two hours. I checked his work and it was the worst handwriting I had ever seen. No stress. Loving everything – just like he was at home. Abby is doing fine. She has to be taught and taught closely. She will check out if you don’t. She is loving the trip and enduring the studies. Home-schooling actually fits her well. You can stop and pick up as she needs to take emotional breaks. Rachel is loving homeschool and loves being part of the process. She loves the trip and everything about it. She feels big – putting her head under water, getting in the hot tub without a floatie and doing homework. Overall, I am very proud of our kids – they are doing great!
This evening, we watched a movie and and were all dancing during the credits. When it was over, it wasn’t for Rachel. She was having so much fun, she just kept dancing!
We are working on our homeschool groove. The dust has settled and I am the World Civ teacher for Madeline and Abby’s math teacher. It went well in Math today. Abby only got mad at me twice. I held it together on the outside. Rachel loves it – Marilyn gave her a lesson and she felt big doing a lesson while the kid’s worked. Today, the lesson was the letter A.
It was a great day. The beach, Frisbee, flying a kite with Rachel, hot tub, run with Madeline and a little shopping at Pier Park. Now, we are getting ready to settle into family movie, War Room. Actually, Matthew is choosing to go in the other room by himself to watch the Knicks – Heat game.
I feel amazingly blessed by this trip. This morning I laid beside Rachel in her bed for about an hour and a half trying to buy Marilyn a greatly needed extra hour of sleep.
So far, I have been blessed to largely keep the focus off myself and I have been tremendously peaceful and grateful for this experience and our family. I just pray the existing peace and spirit I have can continue through the six months and hopefully the rest of my life. Today, Madeline even said “Dad, you have been really nice.” I’m glad she sees it, but wish calmness, gentleness and peace was more of my normal state.
Being more focused around the kids has been good. I have found myself thinking more and more about my kids. Abbers has been sick and I really thought through whether or not to put her on an anti-biotic. I realize that, too often, I have just checked out of those decisions and delegated them to Marilyn. Marilyn has enjoyed me being more participatory in child issues. I pray that I’ll be more engaged at home throughout this trip and beyond. I pray God teaches me more and more about being a husband and Dad and that I come home a different man – a man ready to help others do better in their own families.
Update on the kids: Kate Bradley is totally independent. Does her school with no problem and no help. Seems fine and going with the flow. Madeline is doing well but gets stressed with things. World Civ was stripping her gears and is taking a little getting use to. Matthew doesn’t give a rip about school, just wants to finish it as fast as he can. He told us he wanted to finish a week in two hours. I checked his work and it was the worst handwriting I had ever seen. No stress. Loving everything – just like he was at home. Abby is doing fine. She has to be taught and taught closely. She will check out if you don’t. She is loving the trip and enduring the studies. Home-schooling actually fits her well. You can stop and pick up as she needs to take emotional breaks. Rachel is loving homeschool and loves being part of the process. She loves the trip and everything about it. She feels big – putting her head under water, getting in the hot tub without a floatie and doing homework. Overall, I am very proud of our kids – they are doing great!
This evening, we watched a movie and and were all dancing during the credits. When it was over, it wasn’t for Rachel. She was having so much fun, she just kept dancing!
january 5, 2016
Positive Focus: It is about 48 degrees outside with a 20+ mile per hour wind. Matthew looks at the beach and says “Awesome, we get the whole beach to ourselves!”
Captain Encouragement continues: I took off my shirt to go swimming and Abby piped up “Look, Daddy has a fat-pack (as opposed to a six-pack).”
Matthew continues to ask about 500 questions a day. Somehow he got on the subject of beer tonight. He said “what is your favorite beer?” I said “root beer.” He kept going and asked question after question. “What is the most beers you have ever drank in a day.” “Have you ever been drunk.” “Is it bad to get drunk in college?” “Do you drink beers very often?” I went politician and answered by saying “I have never been to jail.” Then, Rachel popped in and said “I have never been to jail either.”
It was a great day. We kind of got settled today. We unpacked and got the stuff in the house, went grocery stopping, did our first day of homeschool, played in the indoor pool and hot tub, went on a run with Madeline and played some football.
It is freezing cold today. I went down to the pool wearing a sock cap. It was in the 40’ies and very windy. The kids have fun trying to endure getting in the unheated freezing pool. Kate Bradley and Matthew went to jump in the pool. Matthew jumped first and, when he hit the water, it was so cold that he started crying. Matthew’s tears caused the Bug to back out of the plunge. She re-grouped and endured the frigid water. I had all the kids jump in the water except Yabbers (who is sick). Still, Marilyn was flabbergasted and put a major stop on the “cold game.” Madeline came downstairs after telling Marilyn of our little game and said “mom is coming downstairs and you are going to lose your face.”
The run with Madeline was great. I just listened to her heart. I let her share why she didn’t want to go on the trip and why it is so hard on her. It is so hard not to jump in and correct while your 16 year-old is talking, but it is most valuable to hear their heart and listen. After I listened to her, we seemed very connected and she seemed much happier.
I have really focused on not hurrying and it has really helped. I have felt very grateful and have richly enjoyed everything about the day.
Captain Encouragement continues: I took off my shirt to go swimming and Abby piped up “Look, Daddy has a fat-pack (as opposed to a six-pack).”
Matthew continues to ask about 500 questions a day. Somehow he got on the subject of beer tonight. He said “what is your favorite beer?” I said “root beer.” He kept going and asked question after question. “What is the most beers you have ever drank in a day.” “Have you ever been drunk.” “Is it bad to get drunk in college?” “Do you drink beers very often?” I went politician and answered by saying “I have never been to jail.” Then, Rachel popped in and said “I have never been to jail either.”
It was a great day. We kind of got settled today. We unpacked and got the stuff in the house, went grocery stopping, did our first day of homeschool, played in the indoor pool and hot tub, went on a run with Madeline and played some football.
It is freezing cold today. I went down to the pool wearing a sock cap. It was in the 40’ies and very windy. The kids have fun trying to endure getting in the unheated freezing pool. Kate Bradley and Matthew went to jump in the pool. Matthew jumped first and, when he hit the water, it was so cold that he started crying. Matthew’s tears caused the Bug to back out of the plunge. She re-grouped and endured the frigid water. I had all the kids jump in the water except Yabbers (who is sick). Still, Marilyn was flabbergasted and put a major stop on the “cold game.” Madeline came downstairs after telling Marilyn of our little game and said “mom is coming downstairs and you are going to lose your face.”
The run with Madeline was great. I just listened to her heart. I let her share why she didn’t want to go on the trip and why it is so hard on her. It is so hard not to jump in and correct while your 16 year-old is talking, but it is most valuable to hear their heart and listen. After I listened to her, we seemed very connected and she seemed much happier.
I have really focused on not hurrying and it has really helped. I have felt very grateful and have richly enjoyed everything about the day.
January 4, 2016
Wow! What a day. First, we get up and go to the University of Georgia and tour the tennis facility and Sanford Stadium (the football field). The former Director of Facilities and former UGa football player and coach gave us the tour. It was really cool. The guy helped coach Herschel Walker
After touring Georgia, we had the fun of driving a minivan pulling a huge trailer through downtown Atlanta. Being in ten lanes of packed traffic with the hog of a trailer was no fun and fun at the same time. The novelty value was high – as was the stress level. Marilyn took the youngers to the Aquarium and I took the olders to Lenox Mall. The advantage of Lenox Mall – everything is so stinkin’ expensive that the conscience of my kids will not allow them to pull the trigger.
Then, we continued to defy our i-phone maps and turn a 5 hour drive into a 9 hour drive. Stops, pulling the trailer and seemingly unexplainable delays put us about an hour behind what we thought was our worst case scenario.
Matthew did provide the entertainment of the day as he farted so stinkily that a woman with a baby smelled the backside of her baby in response. All our kids were quite proud of Matthew passing gas in such a manner as it was mistaken for a dirty diaper.
We finally made it to Florida around 11, but stretched the trip to 12 as it took about an hour to unpack some of the stuff and try to find a temporary home for our big black shiny trailer. A friend of mine saw our trailer behind the mini-van and told us we looked like a hillbilly band.
After touring Georgia, we had the fun of driving a minivan pulling a huge trailer through downtown Atlanta. Being in ten lanes of packed traffic with the hog of a trailer was no fun and fun at the same time. The novelty value was high – as was the stress level. Marilyn took the youngers to the Aquarium and I took the olders to Lenox Mall. The advantage of Lenox Mall – everything is so stinkin’ expensive that the conscience of my kids will not allow them to pull the trigger.
Then, we continued to defy our i-phone maps and turn a 5 hour drive into a 9 hour drive. Stops, pulling the trailer and seemingly unexplainable delays put us about an hour behind what we thought was our worst case scenario.
Matthew did provide the entertainment of the day as he farted so stinkily that a woman with a baby smelled the backside of her baby in response. All our kids were quite proud of Matthew passing gas in such a manner as it was mistaken for a dirty diaper.
We finally made it to Florida around 11, but stretched the trip to 12 as it took about an hour to unpack some of the stuff and try to find a temporary home for our big black shiny trailer. A friend of mine saw our trailer behind the mini-van and told us we looked like a hillbilly band.
january 3, 2016
Great day. Abby is feeling better, had a great day of playing basketball, hanging with the Greesons, going to Rush (an indoor trampoline facility) and eating out at a Mexican restaurant.
Matthew had some funny input today. He told me he doesn’t think he is ever going to get married. He went on to say “Wyatt said he thinks he is going to get married. He said ‘if I don’t, who is gonna get the groceries.’” The mind of a child.
The kiddos have really jumped on board for the trip. No complaining – a lot of laughing – a ton of fun. Beth’s son even complained about school saying he wishes he could go on our trip with us. I thank God for such an awesome opportunity to spend time with such an awesome family.
Only downside of today: I tweaked my back jumping on the trampolines. My confidence jumping exceeded my back’s ability to handle it at about the one and a half hour mark. Marilyn loved having one on one time with the Bug while we jumped. We didn’t let her jump because her back was sore from rock climbing and jumping yesterday. Still questioning whether we should have let her yesterday.
On day 3 without shaving, did a little bit of Grace Marriage work and got a tad stressed on one case. Sent a few messages and an e-mail to my brother.
Closing the night out watching the movie “Hoosiers” with the family. One fine ending to one fine day.
Matthew had some funny input today. He told me he doesn’t think he is ever going to get married. He went on to say “Wyatt said he thinks he is going to get married. He said ‘if I don’t, who is gonna get the groceries.’” The mind of a child.
The kiddos have really jumped on board for the trip. No complaining – a lot of laughing – a ton of fun. Beth’s son even complained about school saying he wishes he could go on our trip with us. I thank God for such an awesome opportunity to spend time with such an awesome family.
Only downside of today: I tweaked my back jumping on the trampolines. My confidence jumping exceeded my back’s ability to handle it at about the one and a half hour mark. Marilyn loved having one on one time with the Bug while we jumped. We didn’t let her jump because her back was sore from rock climbing and jumping yesterday. Still questioning whether we should have let her yesterday.
On day 3 without shaving, did a little bit of Grace Marriage work and got a tad stressed on one case. Sent a few messages and an e-mail to my brother.
Closing the night out watching the movie “Hoosiers” with the family. One fine ending to one fine day.
January 2, 2016
Today was an absolute gift. The Greasons had an awesome day scheduled for us. They had an entire rock climbing facility rented for us. Then, we had an awesome lunch, frozen yogurt, came home and played basketball and then the kids went to an inflatable park which the Greasons had rented out just for our two families. They came back, I went on a run with Madeline, we had awesome local pizza, hung out and went to bed.
I learned something today that I already knew. Just because your wife says she has no input doesn’t mean she has a strong preference. I was planning on taking Matthew to a Falcons game tomorrow. Marilyn, wanting to bless me and the big man, told me she was fine with me going. I wandered if she would prefer me stay. She said “I really want you to do what you want to do.”
I decided not to go to Atlanta tomorrow and Marilyn responded with clear relief. Philippians reminds me to consider the interests of others above your own. It is clear that Marilyn’s interest (and her friend) was for us to stay in Athens.
Also, it helps to talk through things with others. I simply could not get myself to pull the trigger and skip the NFL game. The thought of watching Matthew dance and go nuts at an NFL game was hard to turn down. I called a good friend and made the case for staying and for leaving. As I listened to myself and to him, it seemed clear that I should stay. So, if you are having trouble with a decision, no matter how big or small, call a friend and listen to yourself talk and get input.
Funny moment: Rachel was playing grocery store and play sold plastic food to Abby. Abby convinced Rachel that she had eaten some of it. Rachel came to me disturbed and said “Dad, Abby at plastic food and is going to poop plastic and it is Luke’s (our friend’s boy).”
My father in law dreamed that I got so stressed that I started smoking.
It has been so helpful that the Board of Grace Marriage released me to focus on the family this trip. I enjoyed today without any significant pull to work, set appointments or work on lessons. I thank God for wise counsel.
I learned something today that I already knew. Just because your wife says she has no input doesn’t mean she has a strong preference. I was planning on taking Matthew to a Falcons game tomorrow. Marilyn, wanting to bless me and the big man, told me she was fine with me going. I wandered if she would prefer me stay. She said “I really want you to do what you want to do.”
I decided not to go to Atlanta tomorrow and Marilyn responded with clear relief. Philippians reminds me to consider the interests of others above your own. It is clear that Marilyn’s interest (and her friend) was for us to stay in Athens.
Also, it helps to talk through things with others. I simply could not get myself to pull the trigger and skip the NFL game. The thought of watching Matthew dance and go nuts at an NFL game was hard to turn down. I called a good friend and made the case for staying and for leaving. As I listened to myself and to him, it seemed clear that I should stay. So, if you are having trouble with a decision, no matter how big or small, call a friend and listen to yourself talk and get input.
Funny moment: Rachel was playing grocery store and play sold plastic food to Abby. Abby convinced Rachel that she had eaten some of it. Rachel came to me disturbed and said “Dad, Abby at plastic food and is going to poop plastic and it is Luke’s (our friend’s boy).”
My father in law dreamed that I got so stressed that I started smoking.
It has been so helpful that the Board of Grace Marriage released me to focus on the family this trip. I enjoyed today without any significant pull to work, set appointments or work on lessons. I thank God for wise counsel.
January 1, 2o16
A crazy blast of a day. I drove the van and the heavy 6X12 filled trailer. It looks like a very unorganized family decided to move. Marilyn referred to us this morning as the fruit loop family. I was quite nervous pulling that big hog behind our mini-van. It seemed like the van was struggling to pull it, but I got used to it and I hope our van did too.
I learned something today. A full trailer drastically reduces gas mileage. I thought our mileage would go from about 21 to about 15. Well, I was wrong. The first time I checked it, our mileage was 9.9 miles per gallon. Ooops! Praise God for low gas prices as we are going to use almost twice the gas as expected.
We decided to take pictures by each state sign. As Marilyn took the photo of the kids in front of the Tennessee sign, I noticed Abby was in shorts and was not wearing shoes. Marilyn chastised Abby and Abby responded “they don’t think people from Kentucky wear shoes anyway!”
Well, tears, dancing, laughter, sickness, being stuck in traffic for a wreck and low gas mileage were the themes of the day. It is hard to believe our 6-month trip has officially started. Now, we are in Athens, GA staying with one of Marilyn’s best friends. The Maps on our phone said it was about a 7-hour drive to Athens. Well, we left at noon and didn’t arrive until about 11 hours later. Side note, our van already appears like we have been on this trip for 2 months.
December 31, 2015
First, it was crazy drama and ten times more than we expected to get ready for this trip. High conscience Marilyn had to get the house in absolute perfect shape before we left. We were up till 2 a.m. working without even getting close to being finished.
A funny twist to the day before we left. I get a phone call from TV Channel 25 asking if they can come to the house to do a story on us and Grace Marriage. I say “of course” and then call Marilyn who was out running errands. She said “are you kidding me?” Then, she sent a text saying “you are killing me.”
Our kids decided that while the interview was taking place was a good time to publicly misbehave. While we all sat on the couch being interviewed Matthew pulled Abby’s hair and then Abby elbowed him off the arm of the couch sending Matthew hard to the ground. Matthew jumped up and hit her with a pillow, which was actually aired in the story. Rachel had hit her head shortly before the reporter arrived and went from being very excited about the TV deal to being upset about it. When the reporter got there, she first refused to sit on the couch and then sat in Marilyn’s arms and picked her nose.
Getting to bed at 2 a.m. the night before you get up and pack like crazy before leaving to drive 450 miles with the trailer and 5 kids wasn’t the best idea.
A funny twist to the day before we left. I get a phone call from TV Channel 25 asking if they can come to the house to do a story on us and Grace Marriage. I say “of course” and then call Marilyn who was out running errands. She said “are you kidding me?” Then, she sent a text saying “you are killing me.”
Our kids decided that while the interview was taking place was a good time to publicly misbehave. While we all sat on the couch being interviewed Matthew pulled Abby’s hair and then Abby elbowed him off the arm of the couch sending Matthew hard to the ground. Matthew jumped up and hit her with a pillow, which was actually aired in the story. Rachel had hit her head shortly before the reporter arrived and went from being very excited about the TV deal to being upset about it. When the reporter got there, she first refused to sit on the couch and then sat in Marilyn’s arms and picked her nose.
Getting to bed at 2 a.m. the night before you get up and pack like crazy before leaving to drive 450 miles with the trailer and 5 kids wasn’t the best idea.
Below is the video of our news interview.
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